Appreciating The Gift Of Life - Rabbi Simcha Bunim Cohen

oh you might say it again tonight like to welcome everyone to tonight's share chat you're the co-sponsor of tonight's year observing higher friedman the niche master basha simrad speak on appreciating the gift of life i would like to have the great scripture sponsoring a share called irrigation retire at 718-851-8651 i don't know why you need a speech tonight everybody listened to so many speeches on tish above there were so many programs that what's left to speak about already somebody told me as a joke they have to make bishop of two days now because there's so much to watch it is this program that program so what are we going to speak about i have one question what changed what's my nahamah this week is what's everybody so excited about shabbos nachman that you could go to hotel for fifteen hundred dollars and you could eat and drink and have the kumzits and close your eyes and think you're in chamber i'm still in goddess i don't have no navi to tell me if i should go away start more even now i'm from the people who always ask the people i'm not from the stable people around the attacker want mashiach to come you want it i could have the navy in back is there's a question everybody has to ask himself you want the novi the novi used to come bang on your door um maybe she'll be ian today maybe you should take a regular gemara the old gemara you know the vilna shasta what i was brought up with in the lower east side and harvard with tattoos the daft you'll do in the afternoon maybe you say in the morning when you're fresh when your head is claw you're doing five lines of gemara and you know it's shaku bataria so when you come to the world of truth at the end you have to beg to say over at least five blood gamarashi toasters come to the next world after onion 20 i don't know taisus rashi i don't know in rashi no more i read the bottoms so the novi is going to come and tell you you're more capable of that i'm talking to myself now out loud am i willing that the novice should come this year should come now today i was thinking no not today that's not true on tish above everybody knows the gamora the endemus the gemara tells us what's going to be an equals to the that we all know what we were told as children we can't tell our grandchildren today they won't even listen to you right nandi gamara says yayan is going to be it's going to be something with giant today everybody's drinking when i was growing up the old men in the east side i'm not from the east side they drank a little schnapps cop after darwining today by a kiddish i see guys down here for cops i get calls from ladies husbands come home drunk from the kiddush the hustlers the boys drink they dance like the wine is drinking it's an alcohol is an an addiction tray and there's nobody to stop it because everybody's doing it so that's awesome i don't want to say in english but davis is really teaching us that we have rosham shalla this i'll say in you this because i don't know where this is going to be heard but says never have a bottle abuse is making a joke out of you out of me we're the strongest country in the world right america right you have arms i don't even know how to call the names of the airplanes and the president is uh eventually to show you you know take it easy build you're in golis i'll show you i could turn over america upside down he just did it but we forgot corona was turned upside down everybody gave the rochester rochesters and the russians you see major change in people's lifestyle you see major changes you see the houses are getting cheaper to buy or more expensive people have never had pools a pool in your backyard wow who are you to deserve a pool in your backyard who are you your grandfather didn't have that every other guy in lakewood has a pool but not liquid ah gold has a pulling backyard look and the oil pronates the canine so okay now i know husband yazga and it's gonna be is going to come so what's the gemara telling us this among them for you ever thought of that kasha mr kaufman what's the matter okay america is is falling apart in front of our in front of our eyes the morale there's no there's no values left in the whole system it's a himalaya and there's nobody to fight it thereby not living no more so nobody cares anybody's brunt to meant to fight mishka zach the way that their bevinda used to do no they once came to me i should take over miller's job to fight it i said forget it rabbi miller only fought it because he loved that kurdish baruch or whatever he hated he hated he didn't do this as a living he didn't do this for fun to make his he didn't get any comments from it he did it because i once asked her by a wedding he was 90 years old i'll never forget i asked him i don't understand whenever you come to yeshua thursday night there's always petitions events this law terratlow vote for this guy he's prom and nobody's listening to you and you're walking around with all your teeth by 90 with a pasture straight your skin looks like you're 25. usually when you fight something and you don't win you become a broken man try it out when you fight you have an agenda and you're basically on your own you become down downcast that's usually nature my doctor tells me this too my old doctor was not living no more i had a doctor back to seltzer and lakewood whoever said and i said to him you're looking you you look so good hello all 90 year old man should walk straight like you would a pasture see tells me this this is all i estimate she tells me i won the war i said how'd you win the war oh yeah baby still loves the people who hate what he loves what he hates i succeeded i'm here to change you i'm here at building the only way you can build in a sinner against this type of lifestyle is when you talk about it and you just get it into you says sarah palm was sitting next to her right right next to rabbi miller and raf paam held rabbi milo remember just told me so i told him over and with his cute legendary smile yet there now you understand why there's only one rabbi miller so rabbi miller took it with his grace and grave we have to love hashem so much that and they once complained to upon a visionary that miller talks about it openly and there's little children there say rabbi said with that from the next we have to thank him and actually stroll who knows how much he's protecting gets his throat from destruction by fighting but he's supposed to be fighting now tell your story would happen story time tonight i dived in there once rosh hashanah i had a boy and i made a british rosh hashanah so i figured i'll dive next to robert mueller my father was in berlin i figured i'll dive next to him sat on his bench he sat on a regular bench and i was the only one on the bench no he didn't show any what was in his mind he was but you didn't see any uh any lifting hands uh just when we started admiring his legs were shaking he was trying to and he saw me looking so he was getting annoyed so he gave it to russia before the kia chauffeur so he set his islam everybody should have a mind to fulfill the mitzvah they are from kiyosha and finish and then he said i want everybody to beg now this goes back 32 years ago maybe 32 yeah i think so that hashem shouldn't destroy manhattan but i won't be here to say the story keep on voting in politicians who go against what hashem wants and hashem will destroy manhattan in a way you'll never believe but i won't be here to testify about it no more and you'll be able to make fun of an old robe who's not scared to say the truth and then he said pray take this that all the ones who are making propaganda against hakados i don't want to say what ramosa writes about this whole topic he says it's serious destroyed three months later they stuck it destroyed manhattan what happened two planes came and you remember that everybody gave thrushes i heard that russia way before it happened i was waiting for it to happen the rabbit doesn't talk and it's just showing the stamp talk rabbit was announced spoke extra and herod came and he says manhattan is going to be first i remember walking to bay sally yo that's one of the yeshivas now it's not standing normal in lakewood they built a bigger building there and everybody's running there's a manhattan planes nobody knew what was going on in the beginning there was no smartphones those days yet so you couldn't be clicked every minute to the world and that's what happened manhattan was destroyed it was never the same so i was thinking like this what's shot in the commander says piazza it's going to be a door from hefke everybody's going to be able to say what he wants just to tell you how america went down this is all from rabbi milo but i know i don't know anything by myself he says that uh when he was a child he was born in 1903 i think in 1904 in america he says that if anybody was hoisted you that you well mishka zach they locked you up in jail and then the police used to go to the beach and measure the ladies bathing suits to see how if they were the proper length by the beach people did that yeah go him look what happened to america and he showed as the years were going on and on the way with killing the system the way he held that's his dust and we're holding today we're holding today we have a president but doesn't know if today is tuesday or wednesday or thursday pray that you should get out of gawlers and anu tisheba was over and we had a lot of his orders but we're still in golis is hard to find it was always hard to find but it's for sure to find people are scared to stay the truth because they're what's going to lose something to business everything's a business today ms emma's imagine that misha feinstein would be living today with poison dawg would have a claudichuva and evie zach mutto at least osbourne who want to follow one voice we wouldn't have a mavucha yeah and that shiva would write a shiva 11 manaform and the case is closed you want to argue with him go before you open your mouth he'll mix you up you don't know how you're going to know the taste is right because once a big growth came to mtj to argue with him i'll never forget he started to talk to her moisture i mentioned mixed them up in two minutes the guy says on children so i was thinking two shots one is a hammer don't you're going to live in a door now with husbands know it's supposed to happen don't get depressed that misner there is we don't have one local voice no more we don't have that godly door at least what i'll say like said one word they say the last one who had the whole ancestral under his control was the blazer shock since then we didn't have that already we don't have no more we have grayson mentioned but we don't have that one thing and we have big tamid but we don't have this one ghana going in like the place of shaman ashraf with his karate cooler moon he learned day and night so don't get depressed as i design emotion once told me that if a mashiach satan before mashiach comes the few elohim are going to rip their hairs out of their head it's going to they're not going to know what to do it's going to be so tough the massive is going to be so tough you're going to want direction there's no direction and we see now what are many things i don't want to give any examples because i'm at a doctor so i don't talk about the vaccines or not that's not my subject i never said a word about it i never will say a word about not my business but we don't even have a you know it makes fights people fights the mother says yeah the father the sister the daughter doesn't want to listen so then they come to me to make shaolin do you have to listen don't you have to listen i felt that if a martial fan she would be living and he'd write eleven and a half months would have a quarter day or what to what say the resheba says you should i'm saying it manifests itself in thousands of different ways so gemara's town goes don't worry don't worry and it's going to be difficult you should be prepared when you prepare yourself for it it's much easier the safer yoshila bay new tom writes as follows a person should yes adrishan arishan says i know it's not it's not so smart to hear but she says prepare yourself with soros because every it's going to hit you sometime in life tragedy is hit he says you got to work when you're walking in the street you got to picture something might happen not every day but you have to be ready for it then you don't become gansen like lose your mind when it happens that's one shot the audib shot is as follows be careful these are things that are going to happen so work on chutzpah you don't be a mahutsuf you don't be in when you go ask the rabbi ashila close your phones i have people come ask me they come to my house they don't pay me and they're talking to me while they talk to me they take out their smartphone first of all i have a sign i'm putting a sign of ass no smartphones allowed i don't want a smartphone in my house i don't have a computer i don't have nothing i don't want to have nothing to do with this and this alone there's no day you don't know how samish the door is you people don't deal with people you're lucky a kid comes to me he says we just had a whole asifa in yeshiva no smartphones okay my father has a smartphone i said your father's a working guy he needs a smartphone so the kid tells me but that's why he has to watch cnn in front of me at night on the couch because he has a business he says he needed his business he says rabbi you're not honest with me so i gave it when nobody listens you should have two phones a smartphone and a kosher phone right so the kids shouldn't be mixed up the kids are mixed up today they're trying to bring up a generation of such beautiful children and they're getting mismatches here they had 1500 children in lakewood mississippi only this phone that phone the other phone then it comes in with a smartphone a guy came to a a a bus came to show me something they found a guy i look up to him he has a smartphone it wasn't filtered totally she shows me that maestro stanbach russia you know what ramesh is talking about all the tragedies and while i'm looking at it pops up two ladies i said i'm looking at musa now wait why are two ladies popping up on me now he says that's the internet you know khabra by they get you like that so i fight the smartphones so i have some people do listen to me some don't so if you know the summoning of the ghazal khutsbyazkas you have to work on husband yourself you have to work that there's going to be a big yet sahara from menas and moon is going to be in order to be a minimum takes every day work like the masjid haskell worked every day in a moon in nakhon it doesn't happen by itself people ask me questions i tell them you don't believe it hashem and i'm asking it to me at the end it takes a lot of work nobody learns however i'm not saying nobody they don't horrible is not learned come to the next world after 120 you say you finished shah six times the episode says and what's with music did you open it once speaking to you that's why the motion never learned much of einstein i watched him many years learning he always learned with his nepheline against the chair he always looked like this i won't say this to michelle i wanted to see what he's going to answer me i was in the box i used a young man young guy i do like you also and now i have a backache do i have to be mata ned or not so he knew i was pulling his leg she says to me you don't have to be martinez but how could you learn with your back against the chair that's what he tells me how could you learn as an ongoing he says today i see people sitting brigade like this [Music] that's gamora that's the bar hashem we have so much toy today when i was growing up in the low east side in the early nineteen hundreds uh marcia feinstein finished shots if hank can finish a today box from every guy i know finishing shots shots and a big party guy made a party knife 150 dollars just on humor there's a big shift in guns and hearts ass biz morgan but the toilet change you are you going to i is it changing your lifestyle are you thinking differently now after you finish shasta then you have to take an accounting on yourself that i changed and i become a yiddish aware of hashem am i scared of hashem am i going to do less and gash me is because of it i realize that this world is only temporary without learning machilish asharam you'll never get that and who learns machine learning or forget about it i say today we could be like a half hour at least a half hour a week not a dress shirt the dresses are good but they go in and out what you come down to this world for you came down for one purpose to be listen hashem say that for one hour straight i came down to this world to be miss anigal hashem in the world of truth after 120 that's all i came down to this world for and whatever is not going to get me in the habba i try not to do so i won't land up in italy now in the summer italy who goes to italy what's the matter with flatbush you want to go to the cat schools okay i'll let you go to the catskills italy who's going to italy and then they make it nakoshi this is the daphaomi and koshita and a pool this mandalas eaten rice now the gemara says as follows young people getting it again rips apart the family i just read a story book from israeli bookshop on tishabov it's about came out this year about a younger man uri stein hadyana machala the way a person can live for six years they gave him 40 days he lived six years you read that and you live with through his sad what he went through for six years he came blind they took out one eye it's a whole story it's a fascinating book so gemara says as follows uses this passage in the end of yuma says the ram should call banana that al hashem which is muhammad is the most common dickerson the gemara brings this pasig from brings if somebody's hears he knows that somebody showed it but i'll go and i'll eat shalom the gemara brings this posik fakhil hashem which is from the most sins of so you see with not being meshta beside inshallah you're doing a thin equal like hashem so when you know that somebody's shorty but i i didn't say you should do like the khofitzheim did when the world war one he slept on the floor all the years of world war one he slept on the floor or the brisket when brisk was burnt down he slept in the hallway of the shoe that's shorter but a little bit less when glycerol is much with so many different i found i'm talking spirituality there's a war going on in spirituality kids can't find themselves a lot so many divorces going on today things that we never heard of when we were growing up he managed the disease people are unhappy so on one side we have a booming economy with the limitator my times on the east side the altitude they didn't learn they didn't know how to learn there was no art scroll couldn't read so right there elf gave a and some people stayed some people didn't stay the most they knew we had to read santa ana a little bit and this but we looked up to them they were never should stay from eden and they were older people when i was growing up already and i'm already a hundred so how much you talking about 150 years ago really i looked up to them there was two brothers over there one was a tall one wasn't a short one they were such yiddish but the yiddish was burning we got to bring back the yiddish and what we have toyota's booming tucker everybody's learning today you have shoe room more than ever cain yearboo but the hiroshima you can't they have to remember the salvation you can't have one foot in this world and one foot in the other world so that's why we have shabbos once in seven days and if you make early shabbas shabbas could be 28 hours to remind you of oil haba now every much of shabbos you're supposed to think of this how many times do you think anchovies does about oil harbor and when you think about islam however so you think i came to this world for one purpose for oil harbor is this going to get me more oil that's the way we have to train ourselves to think now you're only going to think like that if they talk about olam harbour ever hear anybody talk about alamo on a weekly basis i'm not talking about gahannam that also needs a big discussion you remember i told you once i was walking with rabbi miller and he said for the first minute say ichab i am afraid of gahannam say that for one minute after me in the street after 30 seconds i was quiet he says unto me this is so you think if you're not going to talk about it you're not going to go on the contrary if you talk about it once in a while there's a chance you might not go but people are going to be shocked said abhishem has infinite mercy made fire age reminds you of ghana there's no way out he says and then a fire engine was passing by when was the last time i saw a fire i heard today a fire engine facing down fifth of mammoth my heart next the mouth the fire engine was passing by so he says they still want to remind our victor miller about gahannam if not why am i hearing the fire engine that's the way to think you have to fool your mind with practical things that when you can't learn always not always could you think in learning sometimes you can't learn tell you the famous story what happened me and my wife met him by hassan and nicholas hassan and we knew he stays for the first dance for the first few minutes and then he goes home so we prepared after a whole list of hash questions to ask grandfather all right get away everybody looks for who to talk to my husband right if not you feel like you're misfit after five minutes seven minutes he says do you have to know all these answers tonight so i tell them no but you're here anyway and we're here so we might as well ask you he says i have a say the fused daughter mchastness and i don't go to hosness i only go to grandchildren when he hit 70 he didn't go to weddings already because he was preparing for his major for hair after 120. so he didn't have time for anything he was tremendous mastermind so he says by wedding one of my stories i thank you for every day i married and i'm married now 62 years i'm holding by year 56. if you hold that your questions are more important then i'll give up once you call me tomorrow morning when i pick up the phone and i'll give you the whole half hour if you want from that i learned such a important idea you're sitting by a hasanah you already looked at your phone already you got your messages already you already know what to do hashem thank you i'm still living and if your wife is living you thank hashem oh you shall my wife is still here with me in the next in the same room that everybody could say that so there's so many things but without learning these things you don't get that without learning musa shiloh should show them the basics now it's coming oh anybody open up the children i try to get my uncle the mata stuff to make it a decree whoever learns the death must learn charity every day it's a must he said monkey tells me my uncle told me i always say good things but he was an extremist you're always right i can't argue with you but it's not going to work it's not schmack what are you going to say you finish out of chew at the end of oh you're not going to make a party for that so it goes through a whole hello i'm already started because i'm preparing because i got to give the i can't thank hashem enough that he gave me a shoe and a microphone because if not i would never learn muslim myself the obligation of having to always talk about things with a practical made me think like that so maybe i'll i'm trying to become an overt hashem yeah you know what it means to read the pascal levenstein's life story i read it hundreds of times it's an art school book you see what a person could be like this you pack yourself on the shoulder i'm so great already you are great but there's so much more to become great your mind is a treasure house and you have to fool it with good thoughts and it goes to waste because nobody's pumping in thoughts sometimes you can be in the hospital you can't learn so you can thank you the day he was lifted but he didn't get till the end and he didn't and he wasn't on any machines or anything the guy that was lifting my hands but i wasn't there or i came at night to stay with him a whole day he went through his whole life thanking aku jabar for all the sodom what happened his whole life on the day of his death you know what kind of host that is on the day of your death your day of your miser what happened seven ninety years eighty-five years ago it's a pillar of the gaza because his whole life was once evacuated that your first went through tish above if you [Music] and you forgot to say thank you i made a decision both then you become old as the you know this came to say but you fasted the whole day ah abc you gave me character first although i remember the last year of my mother's young kipper i told her ma you have to take hachi sheer she started to cry since i'm 12 years old nakamata stuff i fasted my mother came here when she was 14 i think six to 14 i forgot she came in 38 she was born in 24 so how old was she when she came 14 she said she faced nakamata stuff two years now i wanted by 92 to break a face with churum she cried like a baby i said ma you have to you're not well and you face the tissue bluff wow i don't know what to do for you and that's what you have to do you have to look for practical applications become the rabbini on the right inside of what does an old man do he thanks hashem for the son but he can only thank hashem for the son if when you were young and i'm not saying today you should be like rabbi miller when it was 100 degrees to thank hashem for the son as i mentioned it can't be yet but i'll tell you what happened with me and him i had my twins were born so they were born you down thomas i stayed by my mother-in-law as my first two my first two children and i saw robert miller walking by east 10th between n and o so i randa he was holding his reckless it was about 97 degrees and he was wearing his hamburger his hat and his hand was i ran down i went to catch him he's walking fast as i'm coming close to him i hear him talking to the abused about the sun oh yeah that guy fanzone i thought the man was nuts i was just married two years i didn't know how funny he was yet was the guy for real i mean he didn't know i was listening behind him thanking hashem for the hot sun go do it go out tomorrow supposed to be a little nicer i mean cooler go when it's 100 degrees and thank hashem for saying you come home you're so angry so hot today instead of saying hashem thank you i have an air conditioner i was thinking what would we do if there wouldn't be air conditioners would they do a mold i don't know they did i don't know how they slept well it was of heart what was you switched i want to tell you one other vote so the main thing is to get your mind to work so let's say you get up in the middle of the night you can't always think because sometimes you get my age in the hundred in the 90s you can't fall asleep right away so if you have your mind full or you start thinking of thanking the night your roof didn't fall and yet sometimes it takes you my age takes time to fall back to sleep already wait you're not 90 yet wait you'll see and you get up a few times during the night already because the you know you have to go to the investor hey we still makes it like that what are they used to make that you have to get up and move the night to go to the bathroom so it's a whole schmoozing itself what do you do that for i'm stuffed in bed and i know that's your bigger cash why do you need sleep in the first place for answer me that question 500 cash what did they have to make you have to sleep for so hard says one of the reasons is i don't know it's to remind you that one day you're going to sleep for good now it's not a smart feeling to say but when you go to sleep but the episode is an infinite mercy wants to prepare you for oil he wants to give us this his division loves us with a tremendous love that's damn love and people ask me always this question if hashem loves me why is he doing this and why is he doing this he says that's beyond our comprehension just the way you don't understand how the eye works you don't have to understand the abyss's ways are too deep to understand a human being can't understand even measurable couldn't understand it now the gemara says an interesting gemara in barracks laminate the last time i learned it hey no i'm a dwarf i'm hey i think i'm right hey i just did the daf no i'm holding bronchostol and then turns the page and guess how this mask is if you don't make it i stopped i almost died my summer went out sadashiv says because somebody's going to see you and not make a bracha so you're over you belong to the khaburra of your oven hey let's go slow now we're learning now we're going slow you're all london over here i didn't make a broncos i have to be worried that you were sitting next to me you saw me drink a cup of water very thirsty now and i mumbled i didn't say abraham and the chaburu from your oven by not letting them go up to the thing a bunch of if you don't stop by that game then my head goes on the floor and everybody read that gemara and went by the gemara it's like nothing you haven't been about it was one time you haven't been involved [Music] you don't benefit was a one-time history you come late to daven i give you a practical case worth a trillion that you owe me a trillion dollars cash now you're paying slower installments you come late to daven another man learns from you you haven't been a vote you ever thought of it like that so i wanted to see if anybody learns the gemara like that so you have color lotion so you can listen to 100 everybody learned barakas recently so i wanted to see if any market share stops by that gomorrah however nobody i see it i get petrified i'm having a whatnot if i do something for marshall the ram even one person i understand they say a story as follows that the maestro feinstein that i'm sure coming a girl that once came to shakhtar as an empty j a few minutes late so after davening he gave a patch on the beamer to say why'd he come late for people are going to think he came late he was annoying as he said the the ride something didn't work out on time but he felt an obligation so if that's hawaii i want you to airsnap your local orthodox rabbi when it when do you become a poverty raven benevole you start a new trend let's say i'll give you a muscle practical muscle that's not so practical for our age people because we don't have no more babies in australia you buy a stroller for fifteen hundred dollars you live in a block now the next door neighbor gets jealous and now she wants she knows her husband look when this one has this one you have to start the whole trip maybe you fall into the ruth of europe maybe you have to ask a poison that i'm not a boy i don't have no shy story at all maybe maybe maybe maybe maybe this is a shiloh you don't want to take a chance that when you come to the world of truth that you belong to of your in the habur of your oven a vault here's a man it's a true story he cut you know there's coffee in the hallway but in shoes shabbos morning this coffee i don't know over here they don't have a coffee room but another shoe the other thing what they're in the basement you come 8 30 the dabbling so you come late so you want to drink a coffee another guy comes a minute later and he's gonna just drink coffee you start schmoozing with him and then comes a habit from five six people then you make them all miss the first emmanuel madaba it doesn't enter his mind before davening he really did who knows about it already how about coming late to daven my father never came late to them i tell you a story around with me 50 something years ago i was in the east side the latest minion was eight o'clock and the violence stuck to sure not like today i have a million ten eleven who had a minion eleven o'clock when we were growing up nobody so i got a plate it was a ten to eight i should have been up 20 today because but my f my father died at seven o'clock but bana's money he let me die at eight o'clock that was the treat and i feel a cup of cold water falling on my face so i jump out of bed and i see my father so i don't have time to argue with him i come home from down and i say well what's this all about he says i have to explain myself he looks at his clock he says what time were you laying in bed that happened 50 something years ago since then i don't think i came late to david come on maybe a handful cause that cup of water with my so every time now my father's in grenada he gets reward for that today you can't do that don't do that today don't lock you up i heard a kid tell his mother i mean the mother told me ma if you touch me i'm calling the police on you really heard from so i asked the mother where'd the kid here heard it from a kid in the class and he was saying somebody else did it so that's the husband cause i thought my buddy gonna do i'm gonna hit him for that you can't hit today don't hit you can't hit today you can't hit you're living in a door where you can't hit that's alone i didn't say you should hit me but a mother kid needs a patch i had a mother called me off i said in colorado years ago i said a lot of hit once in a while terrible hat i did don't listen do listen and say it's a mitzvah that i said i'm so guy calls me up for manchester how do you say such a thing in public i said how do you know how many people there's three people there maybe it's uncalled what do you listen for why are you listening to me you don't even know if i'm both a tax or not maybe i'm a conservative maybe i'm conservative fry a guy how do you listen to ashkel from somebody you don't even study the person before you listen to that scruff you got to check out my credentials you can't listen to scoffer from that that's why i appreciate you people came i'm not even from how do you know from today it's mass bargaining you listen you listen you gotta know the guy who's talking is a hidden shamayam at least he's working on it so the guy tells me you know what the patch today i just said don't punch do punch i asked them let me ask you something i don't know you you don't know me obviously you know me because you called me i said with the greatest respect are you bold and not bold he says he happens to be bold say yes it was hanukkah i think it was the fourth day hanukkah i said you know my mother used to make uh french fries now you make latkes but i remember when i was a kid there's a treat she used to boil up oil and they used to throw in the thing and when she threw it in you had to walk away a little because the oil would spritz on you it's very odd you're bold let's say your little three-year-old is going to take that hot oil and pour it on your boiling on your bold head are you going to say schaefeler or you're going to give azaa scream that the kid's going to remember for the rest of his life um i'm not sure i don't um yeah i mean i guess so i said what's that different than a patch a nice calm patch what screaming you the words what he was going to say what's that different um i'm not sure that said so you're not so sure yet so i said could be this whole way of doing the trade i don't know nothing about it i don't claim to be but you know i know i was scared of my father and i was scared of my mother i was scared not because they were mean people my mother was a very nice lady a lot of people they know very nice people they were but we hadn't heard it it is lost today and when year is lost from a person then it's lost for the rabbi initial islam there's no euro year it means you're scared you're scared you're scared you're scared you're scared you're scared you don't have to be scared a whole day but you have to hear once in a while a schmooze i remember the schmool bloom sleeter once spoke on my shoes he invited me to come to that goody convention i said i'm a satan i don't go i was making a joke he said give me a good slot shall shoot this i said okay rabbi bloom i want to talk about two subjects grenadine he says i could let you but gahannam is going to turn off the people i said they turned off they're going to thank me they're never going to hear about it again and i have talked of rabbi miller i asked him if i ever talk about ghanaian shoes i promise you he said blush neda nobody is going to college and it's going to go in and out so i said i'm going to give that half taka to the ireland before having said this all right it's a joke when he was joking i wasn't going to gonna go and i wasn't going to speak about old mob again again and whatever much of shabbos when i make abdullah i try to think somehow did you think once about oil have a over the 26 hours in order to motivate yourself for the rest of the week that time of the year comes and wants to make you do something you start thinking oh oil i'm having that's what shabbos is all made you can't look at a smartphone you can't look at a cell phone you can't do anything it's a glorious opportunity besides it's so good smack you get together with your children and you sit and you have peace and you can eat and there's food and there's lighting and there's air conditioning and the sodium you have early shabbos i had when i was growing up in the lower east side there was no early shabbos there was no early shabbos the old man made late shabbos today if you find the late shabbos even the scene which i'm making early don't get me wrong i made all these shabbos until three years ago four years ago then i stopped because i don't have any small children already according to my husband i shouldn't be having sp i'm 100 and when my auntie could come they waited and i decided you know what the shiver emotion never made early showers can i have no things i go to school early i learn i have a harusa because without havoc is fire and the place you told me if you learn arabs shabbos is worth a trillion times more than anything else so i take it everybody's darkening and i'm learning upstairs and there's a snowshoe when we learn and you come home now already we're going down already the days are going away and we look as the day goes down down down down i'm not saying you shouldn't make early showers but i'm just saying the conveniences we didn't have this in the east side we didn't have this and today they make it seven o'clock in the middle of no plug they made a new plug now you know you walk on the bog when i was growing up there was the magnavroms plug and the goings plug and now we have a middle plug seven o'clock you don't know how lucky you are everybody should be so exhilarated with happiness today and there's so many people all because we're not taught to appreciate the benefits of what we have read history read i read on tish i always read holocaust books i'm a big hustler from reading college a whole year i read them on over and over again but not mid 75 years ago i don't even i just read a new book just came out the ladies living in queens i meant to call it today i didn't get a chance yet she was hiding in an attic for two years she was five years old she couldn't make a peep her brother was two years old and her mother fasted two days in the attic for that they should stay from the mother's not living them already the ladies the daughters live you know what that means so when you read about our heritage and you see how great claudius throw this makes an impact on you ah so lucky there's seven billion how many hidden other 16 to 17 million and you're one of them you should be deleting ayeeed firstly you're chosen by and then the good skype from you're never alone people if you need a liver transplant will raise a million dollars in five minutes to get you to texas to get a liver you ever appreciate that you're a jew wow aristocrat i went off with these two stories i told it to you but you won't hear it again anyway i hope he comes still tonight when i got married so my the rabbits and miller invited me with my wife my rabbits and she lived a long life to eat the friday night meal now robert miller never gave instruction he never gave his kids even when you estimate he didn't want to get involved never gave advice this didn't like to mix in and nothing so he washed he made kiddish and he washed he sat with a madrid she said over some of the russian then after the fish she asked me what i thought when i ate the fish so i said that the rabbits knows how to cook very well he says that's true and then he asks my wife points to my wife says what do you say i follow my husband he says very good but you're missing a big point [Music] why does the toyota say you have to have snap over cascases for one reason and order because you're a kuddish kaddish means you're elevated every time you eat kosher fish and kosher chicken or meat remember you're an aristocrat since then when i eat fish friday night i remember that lesson still i'm gonna risk the crowd who told it to me the toyota not you not you not you now if a person is five years old and he has his mother telling him and he's eating fish you're an aristocrat he'll believe he's an aristocrat he won't need everybody complimenting him from the outside the toilet is complimenting him i mean eat chicken is the same thing you're all tired of eating you should live to 120 you should have all your teeth you should be able to move your hands you should be able to baby do everything yourself and let's hope that that he should come before shabbos the ghoulies should come before shabbos after because a lot of people let loose things but shouldn't be done eden but you always have to think about the bigger picture you should all be zaika to be in the frog i'll end you seeing you all if i stepped over my boundary which i didn't think i did tonight because i didn't even say my drasha yet david you should all be michael me and you should live till 120 and torah and yuri yuri shamayim has the best life what i was a little kid when i died in verifying a few times they asked me to learn i was scared because he was blind i was scared i was blind i was young so scared of a blind man there was such thai gruesome mention of such that about foreign so i want to say why because it makes you feel good that you belong to such a nation by such great people you can't be i can't beat up my shift it's not but he's my cousin all related same thing as the closing berger satmarov all these guys didn't go by a day he didn't learn 16 hours even add moist until 102. you know what that means without any goals some massages took him seven years i can't do that but he's my cousin when you look at like when you start telling yourself oh yeah loki why you belong to the jewish nation they wish to choose us and look at the greatness of the people hat solo which whatever you need if you're an ace sorry clay israel will get together only we have it and then you feel stults about it and then you make it that you were born into this great nation that is [Music] tonight bring more you didn't when when time is right because help you didn't be safe at the grenadine and to avoid the other place by sponsoring a share of insurance call or email 718-851-8651 yeshivanet.com active yesterday to rabzev friedman for sponsoring tonight's share leaving us with [Music] foreign [Music] okay uh [Music] um you should wait [Music] um you