Ari Goldwag - Nasso - Gaining Control

you're listening to the weekly partial podcast with Ari Gold rag recorded with Russians never-ending assistance in rubbish mission Israel 5778 2018 this week's purchase partials no sell and I'd like to share with you again a beautiful idea from rabbi Haim Freelander and it's based on the pasta we have the post again this week parsha it's chapter six verse one do I never actually shall anymore God spoke to Moses and said that Melanie sarah markel ahem Ayesha Ayesha Keithley Lyndon Ned they're nausea Lancer Lucia the Torah the the verses speak about the fact that it's possible for a person to make themselves into another I know there is somebody who promises to God as it were that he's not going to drink any wine that he is going to cut his hair and it's a certain level of kedusha of holiness it's brought upon a person okay so it's very interesting what is the language of nausea what is the concept of the nausea what is the idea that person takes upon himself this vow like to share with you a beautiful idea from replying Freelander beautiful death so he brings a huzzah our sages say like this armor Rami bar-abba my dear severe katana vanish mcgamer the verse speaks about it's a verse in Corrales and Ecclesiastes it speaks about the fact that there's a little city your katana is a goof the small city is a reference to the body I'm not shamba mahat there were only a few people in the city loa varam this is a reference to the limbs of a person who baile Melik girdle a great king came the sava of isis and surrounded it surrounded the city so what is this zenki Sahara this is a reference to the evil inclination one autumn with Sudan the Haram him so what is the evil inclination do what is he too hard to do he this this very powerful King so he builds all kinds of traps ela Venus this is a reference to the sins months about ish miss Kay maja comes Easter type and he found inside of it a very wise person one one wise person inside of the city is is a reference to the eight through twelve the good inclination ma lat and he escaped who is here I'm sorry he the the the good person which is a reference to the good inclination Easter Tov helps a person escape helps the city once a with his wisdom Zhu chuva my symptom this is a reference to repentance and good deeds but otherwise offers a ishyama skinner who but the person nobody remembered this the the the wise one which is it sort of is not someone who's remembered so easily the machete it's our ah less the myth clearly let's return the measures tells us that when a person is engulfed by the it's hardly the evil inclination overcomes a person it's very hard to remember the answer to of the good inclination now so he says like this cause I'll hold on our sages are teaching us here as Derek well initially Sahara the way that the evil inclination wages war with us who Bynum ifsar what he does is he builds a powerful powerful surrounding of the city it causes the city to be surrounded Mitaka FS out of nothingness that's how these are hard words the evil inclination starts with nothing he gives us nothing I check college I should say but he builds so much out of nothing that it's impossible to overcome a more nearly impossible nice Lacock he is a caiman of zakian still very interesting besides her that the are hazael tell us that the it sahara is like a king a foolish king and sclerotic Zeus what is his where's what are the Weir's of this king what is he trying to sell us he's trying to sell his foolishness Clara zhu zi who by now some youths are and out of this foolishness he builds a powerful surrounding she named a logical cough caution the high shot so it seems impossible to overcome it right good Felix Jelena run it's like we refer to this idea on Yemen Lear I'm on the High Holidays when we say like this McCauley shakuhachi on tickler all the evil in a model will disappear when machine Messiah arrives all the evil will disappear just like smoke stop here I'm sure those other in hours when you remove the power of evil in the land college who Michelle as long as the evil inclinations and charges in power near Achille Ashland I'm Charlotte seems like he has power it seems like he's in charge right that's how it seems I'll be a squishy yeah if you're Aquarius I guess all right but when a sham takes away the evil inclination from us what's going to happen near Aquila yes I'm sorry doesn't evoke a flea rises up see you sir shoot ocean Laval then we'll see how insignificant they are otherwise it seems like this r is real it seems like he has power it seems like he has built this amazing thing for us that we should do that we should follow after him all of the Titus all of the the desires of this world but in the end we'll see that it was nothing that it was just smoke Radhika it's much quieter that's how much power the evil incarnation as she which assets are less the myth clearly relates to type it has such power over us set when we're involved in this are involved in our the evil inclination so we don't even remember the it's a type the good inclination seems to be missing seems to have disappeared Maya it's uh what is the what can we do should leave us a slice that I'm sure it's the dealers have passed up she alloy of shows the lysosome it's our we need to do is stop it nip it in the bud we need to stop it before it starts the peso hottest right it's all technically right he's standing there at the threshold at the doorway don't open the door okay it's a heart is trying to get us yes we got a watch out so this is the introduction for the concept of the Naza what is the idea of another passions another London oh no a fleece wrapping mail yet sir well this is a short subsequence a Pesa the concept of another teaches us how is it possible to overcome the Sahara has it possible to face off with our evil inclination and not to let him in the door come on Castle as I stated saucer Reyes a typical Kula yassir's has men are very interesting when a person sees a woman who's the wayward wife so she has there's a there's a whole ceremony that's done for her and she blows up literally and figuratively blows up so when someone sees that so he needs to be master at swimming the onions to make sure to make a nether not to drink wine to be a nutter he makes another to be another yes I'm very interesting he has Murray SSI tobacco cool is like fart is especially its era when a person sees a woman who's the wayward wife even though he sees that she's getting destroyed but there's something opens up for that person it's possible to do such a sin to be involved in such a thing you need to immediately nip it in the bud and so flick obvious is a pest I should he be live air hammer is no person needs to think about it how did they get to this place how did she get there how did she end up doing this this terrible sin which all rozelle is receive just tell us sheikh novice where's Marie Liam it's autumn lava lava and when a person is lightheaded he does things which are lightheaded so it causes a person to come to a sin that's involved with licensed behavior levira sahabas bi sir even to one of the big three is infidelity who's one of the big three that it's the torah tells us we're meant higher in value or it's better to be killed than to do one of those big three so so another teaches us this concept Maya to Rick derris hepanza what is the idea how can we close the door so to speak on this era who wants to cause us to do the Avera are you take a bus and zeros it's by accepting upon ourselves in the zeros comes your customer missiles are shown like the missile shall reach me nuts are learning lastest mich merit saucer sure is yayan the way that we learn how is it possible for a person to to distance himself from sin to distance himself Benita are often evil inclination it's by learning from Nazir the NAS here is someone who sees that it's important to stay away from wine to stay away from things that cause a person to end up doing sins so he completely locks himself off from anything to do with wine and the Torah tells us all the different details of that in a similar way a person needs to do that when it comes to those areas where he has are you it siharan evil inclination that's engulfing him each key a flee the fire Shimon Ezra the verse tells us that when a man does a wondrous thing when a person was wondrous thing to accept upon himself to be another Joffrey's a yasodara teller you never I'm hold from a heart of Awesome in order to to enter the space of the nozzle to get into a place where they have separated themselves or in order for me to get to a place where I've separated myself from the various the sins that pull at me so the nuts are hats they do something very powerful he has to do something awesome it's versus each key awfully when it does something amazing what's the amazing thing most people go after the time as most people go after their desires the caucus of Allah barking nazar the cub al ratio the verse tells us that the nazar of his God is upon his head what is the idea of that attack he company of them I'll attack asylum most people or all people are servants they are slaves to the to this to the desires of the world famine especially nazar about Terris mouth was very shy call me Tsiolkovsky minute ibis who is the person who truly is a king who is a person who has the power and someone who has overcome his ECRI his evil inclination so the word nazar which is the word Nazir is a Quran upon a person's head an idea of the crown is that he has the he has the power he has the power he's on top right so another has given himself power over his ears are over hissing evil inclination he is a king his life star doesn't be amylase you mean Israeli of es el paso mi oedd furthermore we find in regards to somebody who has completed his vow so he brings a Corbin so the verse refers the fact that your V I saw he brings it or in Hebrew the word it can also be him he brings him who brings him because of a surname if my memento she behaved there is nobody who is more honorable to bring him to bring the Nasser than himself of all who obvious Atzmon he brings self amazing thing cool I'm our holiday he's from ku Sonia ty ways by person distancing himself from the desires yeah Sigma Drake aikidoka madrix crying goggle he acquires himself an amazing level similar akin to a high priest there we obvious a some issues on the Roman SATs my he brings himself what does it mean it means that he married it to raise himself up to a very high level to a level equivalent of a high priest gains him a firearm ban in a similar vein Rambin explains shannon ish my doing occasionally manias used to circle hobby carbon Coty's why is that when a person completes his Nazir owes he has to bring a sin offering what sin did he do but Anahata chakra philosophy MLS you mean Israel learn inspired she doesn't explain it it's not clear it's not abundantly clear oh they're hot chocky Alicia's at Hoyt a nationally from lesson is eros the pushup shot is Susan ban then when a person gets to the end of his Nazir's he's been another for thirty days or for six months or a year or however long so when he gets to the end of his Nazir Asst so there's a certain sin that happens at the end of the Nazir is what is that he was at another week to show some of it is a sham right so he has lifted himself he is available some of the opportunity to to make himself a greater person by completely distancing himself through the vow from the things that could cause I'm a map show that could cause him to stumble right the Virology yeah LOL yarmulke on is you have a Kalashnikov it would have been appropriate for him it would've been a greater accomplishment for him to remain in that state to remain holy to remain separated from the from the things of this world from the tightest desires of this world kini charmer but all can even a from the Naveen back away from Anna's Ihram the verse refers in the same breath to to Naveen to prophets and Nazir him those who have made this vow here try circus of the loving the verse compares the Nasser to another could have saved to a profit as the verse says call you mean is Ricardo solution all the days of his Nazir is he is holy unto God my name is are hapara the shoe boy the timer time asylum he needs a cap para to the Rambam he needs in an atonement because he's coming back to being a mundane regular person he was a Superman no if Superman gives up his powers that's really sad you need to bring a carbon Coty's slob deal right when when the Nasser gives up his commitment his vow to God he needs to bring a sin offering because he's lost his condition lost a level of holiness Akari Akash Aneesa is Tomica Ducie to be all of a who perish me manna after he has tasted the taste of holiness the Torah the Torah is lamenting the fact that he's stepping away from that okay now there's enough time to read the entire piece I would like to just share with you a little bit of the next section and then bring it to the end of the section but he brings the Gemara the famous Gomorrah in the dorm and in an uma that speaks about the fact that there was a particular person became an Aussie and it tells the whole story how he became another he was looking at his own reflection in the in the water he was a shepherd and he came to the water he looked at his reflection he saw he was a very handsome person very good-looking person he had a very long beautiful hair and he thought himself man what am i doing as a shepherd I could that could be you know really getting involved in house in this world and inside of his mind he's he's like oh no my eight Sahara's got me my evil inclination has got me and he made a vow to become a nutter and the cuddle at the time which was shimon hatzadik so he said when he saw this person he kissed him on the head and he said holla why it should be that there should be many many Newseum just like you that the Newseum shouldn't do it for the wrong reasons because they should become holy for the right reasons just like you okay so so what's the idea viii Sahara he says like this I'm gonna read it inside no hurry mr. Shannon made Sahara we have this game with you to heart of the evil inclination you know the Margay shenmue that's not blue silent we don't recognize that he's got us in a death grip either out of commish because of our love always love her big day how you deduce the way that the eights are the evil inclination works is that he wears clothes of friendship he says I'm your buddy hey man I want what's good for you I want to help you out that's the Sarah works okay the ADA ID vada Adina Ava Lake the neatness with Lana Monica so he comes he's got this trick he's your friend and he comes in and he's got all of these good ideas for you because he's your you know you trust him but she had system school oh sorry vaca he gets in he gets inside that's how he gets into us I know my saying now a bum and I don't got losers here you should met someone who bartered a monoi l'm that young man who looked at his reflection in the water recognized the sea Sahara evil inclination was coming to destroy him okay so how do we how do we defy the eight Sarah how do we get away from the evil inclination so this is what he says the de la mechanic in here - Sarah in order to get away from the quickness of the effects of the evil inclination this is what one has to do a mark teal in Russia Lama Thomas glove I'm sure English aha this is what the guy said this is what this young man said when he saw his reflection and he heard the it's a heart of the evil inclinations voice he said I said to him you evil one why are you becoming proud and a word that a world it's not yours let me show us Ilyas Reem Evita Leia someone who's going to be just eaten up by the worms and rotting clearly nothing leaves hearts our fleets ichael of commotion huzzah in order to overcome the evil inclination person needs to yell at it to loyal Miyagi's on the instant of all its are a person needs to be marketed to in an angry way in a powerful way an emotional way bring his gate sir tell you if his good inclination to to be makinia to subdue the evil inclination the galaxy's part Sufi amici shall I say shanira like la Nokia deed Russia to recognize the truth who is this this is not my friend played Sahara my evil inclination is not my friend he is my enemy he is evil recognize it for what it is in a powerful and emotional way whoever gives show you call he not so many people at Sahara constitutionally a verdict IVA he felt that he could save himself from the trick of the evil inclination they shouldn't come together to Pride Rock I obey Hagia our dalam Lama Thomas gaya bong joon-ho only by yelling at himself we reach because she's sure shy guy he felt he sensed the the root of Prai which was in him via Rome the vocal opposition la caja when a person's heart rises up the Guyver the the pride comes up and tries to cause him to forget God I'll initial other munch leaders - so it's initially initially another kodesh beaucoup how does the cut had his pride come in it comes in because it says hey it's ma this is my power this is my ability this is my beauty this is my talent that's how this all works and so what did he do bazoom and not tickets at some America - Marco I'm sorry Am I otherwise I thought I saw my list if a person thinks that it's my ability my talent the costigan amount of stop goofing is certainly we're talking about the physical advantages but then when I think it's that's my metaphorical by doing so he he detaches himself from God Ilham Chahine Ashoka that's why he says it's a world that's not yours why are you getting all prideful in the world that's not yours I am Siva again is this guy's there actually is no true intellectual reason why person should become proud of himself for something physical okay so that's how it works way Savoie begorrah be me show us at least remember today he also added that what is what's gonna be in the end it's just gonna be we're gonna rot we're gonna run under the ground but worms are gonna eat us out my gum incorrectly is a male even if I have some advantage right now even if there's something that I have in the next shuttle Club this is how he was talking to see it's our to this evil inclination it's not so significant right now sure let me assure you dimensional it is guys what do I need to be prideful for now call rags money everything is just for the moment ceviche feel goofy la Rama the Rima Vitale what's gonna be in the end worms and rotting but I feel a bit torn but God and should let me assure those guys you can't even enjoy it in a private way that you know I'm so proud I'm so amazing for the clothes that I've borrowed gains an erection sky emit slalom it's not something which a person the value doesn't last okay so what does he do he promises that he's going to the hair that he looked at him something so so beautiful he promises that he's going to shave it off the shame shaman he's gonna do it for God okay and I'm skipping a bit here because we're running out of time all your shopping has sasebo's a halo kedusha he recognizes the reason for his sin and he says i'm going to turn it around and I'm going to bring it to the side of holiness I'm gonna give it over to God and Allah hominis clay loam hozhet I'm a-comin ha no hun he puts it in its right place I'm going to use I'm gonna take this world I'm gonna put it in its correct location I'll rock this table Ebisu Mira like I'm a same time it's not enough to to suffice oneself with turning away from evil but rather I need to take it and turn it towards the good I need to do a positive Act spiritual act it's serious kid I could do sure meet a fellow mozzie to the classroom tyler shyness need to turn away from it not think oh you know it was so nice when i was doing those at various when i was doing those sins no don't make that mistake take the sin turn it around recognize that it's something negative move myself to a positive place okay Yashoda has room and wired circling hope it's a car if Kokoschka bolts Nazir's why did he have to go straight into doing something so strong so sharp which was except upon Wow of becoming a nurse here so I can drink wine is gonna cut off his hair it's talking about what to look at say sorry why did you say you know what I'm gonna do I have an idea I'm just gonna cut off my hair because that's the problem see how beautiful I am you're gonna shave off my hair oh yeah uh what he knew is like this it's not enough to a one-time thing it's not enough to cut off my hair to take one action he recognized that it was necessary essential that I do something which is a commitment a commitment which is beyond just a one moment deal the ownership of karbala should aim by her ass Lamaze speak it's not enough if I'm not committed it's not enough if I if I don't have that dahab I don't have that that pull a push to do what's right you be careful you call this car I'll use right cutting up me at one time is not gonna help me for the future okay it's for Cathy motion as much bailouts Michailidis guys I don't really need to cut off my hair yeah I can you know I'm not gonna get surprised fold it Sahara he's our friend right that's how he presents himself come yourself like I left okay I'm gonna stop really gonna stop me meet us there you can leave a little bit of your hair - shine it's all kinds of different you know rationalizations you get the mask on a shot Derek I you he doe habit to Cologne I say yes sir the only way he recognized the only way is how do I battled in Sahara while you take a Boston's ears oh hey yeah miss gila muchachos Arab leader feel his calm coos there's no way out I make a commitment there's no I am that's the way away from the heat Sahara from the evil inclination right dere Zoomer surely it's not take Mara it's the only way to disconnect from evil we can automate the mr. Devlin's galleys are we learn from here how a person kind of overcome is evil unconditionally they go ara b8 sir there's an intense emotional yelling almost or or literally perhaps at the ACE are at the evil inclination listen the cops ain't died - Sameera it's not enough to turn away from evil donkeyness ashley Michelle I say to him personally is the completion of doing good of turning towards the good dark alley near Karbala she he may view is like the hair Luke i'ma only through a commitment that forces him to fulfill it hey McCallum Kansas governor yes sir those are the tools that a person can use in order to overcome his evil inclination okay and he finishes off and we'll finish off but he finishes off by saying that that's I do I shown italic when he saw me kissed him on the head kissed him on his forehead or perhaps over here in the place where it's the spot it's the location of the Nazir as' what are you what do I mean you pray sit we said the nose in the serous comes from a crown inside of a crown the crown is placed on the head and represents the fact that he is elevated he's an elevated individual he's a spiritual individual sure nuts Alec the kind got all the high priests kissed him on his head recognizing that that this young man by making that commitment by by committing himself to new zeros so he was elevating himself to a different place to a different plane and so I want to bless you and ask you to bless me she will help us that we should recognize the places where the eighth Sahara is itching us we're just trying to get us to go back to that place these are the evil inclination he was always trying to bring us there recognize the power of a commitment to say I'm committed to God I will not do this and a true commitment a true commitment a deep commitment I sure should happen to be able to do that to recognize that that this is the power sewer may rod turn away from evil I say tôi you've turned towards the good take on good actions commit to goodness to commit to greatness Jim should help us to do that thank you so much for listening wonderful Shabbos this podcast was made possible through the gracious donations of listeners like you for more podcasts like this please visit www.gfi.com/webmonitor [Music]