Smash your 2025 with this.

welcome to Relentless 2025 I'm doing this program  to help you get in the zone for your 2025 and make   sure that you reach your potential and that you  become the champion that you know in your belly   that you could be how do I know that you're a  champion because you're watching this right now if   you weren't the champion you wouldn't care you'd  be watching Netflix but you're here with your boy   Big B and that's why I believe in you before we  jump in I want to throw this out so important   everything that we're about to discuss the  foundation of it all is is God and His blessings   nothing is achievable without his Blessing nothing  is possible without his will and at the end of the   day I believe in my heart and I've studied this  by the way God wants us to be successful how do   I know because we're Made In His Image and he is  successful and we're supposed to try to be Godly   so it is within our purview to be successful so  welcome to Relentless 2025 let's jump in and let's   rock and roll number one success is your duty it's  not something that just falls from heaven and just   happens to a select group of people you have to  know that if you want success that it must be   pursued with Relentless force and with Relentless  effort it is something that is attainable it is   something that is achievable but it is something  that has to be aimed towards if you have found   yourself in a position until now where you have  not been successful in different areas of your   life it is because you are not putting enough  attention and enough energy in that area if you   want success you have to pursue it and it is your  responsibility your duty to pursue it I once heard   a nice quote it wasn't your fault that you were  born poor but it is your fault if you die poor   in other words it is within your reach to become  successful it all depends on you and the question   is are you going to go for it or you going to  go by the way side like most people do and they   never go for Success they never even try to get  in the area of success because they're scared   that they're not going to be able to achieve it  like I said before you're watching this right   now I'm going to give you what I have done in my  life to achieve success in different areas and   this stuff works this stuff is real so if you want  success you are in the right place so the number   one thing is success is your duty remember that  chapter 2 what is success if you don't know what   what success is you will never arrive at the  destination think about getting into a car and   you want to go on a trip and you have your ways  or your Google Maps open if you don't put into the   destination where you want to go you will drive  around aimlessly and you might most probably end   up in a dangerous place that you didn't want to  be in in the first place most people are driving   around in their lives aimless they have no idea  where they want to go they have no target they   have no goal they have no assessment of where  their success lies they're even scared to define   success and then there's those people who will say  well money doesn't equal success and that might be   true in your situation maybe you define success  by having a good family maybe you define success   by passing your exams maybe you define success by  getting married or you define success by winning   the marathon I don't know every person has their  own definition of success but that definition   has to be clarified just like when you step into a  car your destination has to be clarified only when   you put in your final destination of success can  you begin to work backwards and figure out how to   attain your goal and how to achieve whatever your  definition of success is chapter three defining   your goals and defining what success means to  you as I mentioned in the previous chapter so   few people know which direction they want to go  in I myself have been a victim of this for so   many years of my life until I got very clear on  my goals until I got crystal clear on exactly who   it is that I wanted to be and exactly where it  is that I wanted to go I was drifting aimlessly   through life and I found myself fulfilling other  people's goals I'm going to give you a method   which is simple but requires discipline for you to  understand your goals and I know that you might be   watching this around New Year's and everybody  has these New Year's resolutions you know what   the problem is you only look at those resolutions  once goals are something that have to be redefined   every day even I'm going to suggest it which I do  it myself twice a day so I'll tell you what I do   every morning after I do my prayers and synagogue  I take a few minutes and I sit down either with a   pen and a piece of paper or I sit down on my phone  in my notes and I write down my goals and I ALS   o do that before I go to bed at night so the  question is what type of goals should you have   a lot of people make goals but their goals are too  small their goals are punching below their actual   ability everybody has an incredible ability  to achieve yet when it comes down to writing   goals they're scared to write their goals because  they're scared of failure which we're going to get   into in a later chapter but these goals should be  when you're writing down your goals they should be   big they should be Auda ious they should be bold  because if your goals are not big and they're not   bold they're not going to drive you every day the  point of goals at the end of the day remember is   to give you a clear path a clear destination of  where and what you should be working towards every   single day and if your goals are not big enough  then it's not going to motivate you it's not going   to get you out of bed it's not going to get you  Juiced up and jacked up in the morning to get out   and to go succeed because your goals are simply  not exciting so your goals should be big one of   my favorite influencers and one of my favorite  mentors his name is Grant Cardone and he has a   concept called the 10x model which he says any  goal that you have you should multiply it by 10   if you wanted to make $100,000 put it a million if  you wanted 100,000 followers put it at a million   if you want to own Apartments 10x that goal as  well I'm going to give you my goals these are my   personal goals I'm going to share them with you  these I wrote down this morning and I write them   down every single night I'm going to share with  you my personal goals to show you how your goal   setting should look like so without further Ado  number one I have a recruiting business that does   $17 million a year in Revenue with a $10 million  profit margin number two I own 10,000 apartment   units number three I have $10 million cash in  the bank number four I have a deep and loving   relationship with my wife number five I have a  patient loving relationship with my kids I enjoy   spending time with them and I learn Torah with  them every single day number six I have 10 million   followers number seven I weigh 178 pounds I work  out every day and I'm in tiptop shape number eight   I give $2 million a year to charity number nine  I have a deep and personal relationship with God   and my trust is an ocean deep number 10 I'm  happy confident and fulfilled and number 11   11 I know exactly what I have to do every single  day to move my ball forward in order to achieve   my dream and last number 12 I help millions of  people every single year earn more money in their   businesses these are my personal goals some days  by the way they change sometimes instead of $2   million a year in charity I write $20 million  a year in charity why because I can some days   having 10 million followers is not important to me  and it just doesn't make its way onto my paper for   whatever reason some days it changes for example  when I produce my movie called finding mashiah   every day a year before I produced that movie  I had I produced a movie about mssiah that was   seen by 10 million people all around the world and  now you might be saying to yourself well barl what   happens if you fall short of your goals let's take  the movie that I had just mentioned finding mesiah   that I had produced it didn't meet my goal of  hitting tens of millions of people as a matter of   fact it sits on YouTube today around 6 or 700,000  views but you know what had I set my goal for that   film to have reached 100,000 people I would have  fallen short on that goal also you always fall   short on your goals the fact is I produced that  movie for it to be seen by 10 million people   the quality is there the marketing was there  everything was there am I disappointed that it has   6 or 700,000 views on YouTube absolutely not why  because I know that my whole heart went into it   and I know that because I aimed for 10 million I  was left with 700,000 you have to understand that   the world has friction whatever your goals are  set at the world will give you a natural friction   people think that when you set a goal it's  like going on an ice skating rink that there's   no friction you push off and you blast off on the  ice getting rink and you could just push off once   and that one push will Glide you all the way to  the end of the rink that's not how the universe   that's not how God set up the world there is  friction the analogy is more like walking you're   not gliding it's more like walking and it's more  like walking uphill so when you're setting your   goals your goals have to be done with the effort  that requires hitting for example my number one   was to hit a $17 million company in Revenue with  $10 million of profit how did I come up with that   because I looked at my business and I said without  me doing anything without me expending extra   effort my business this year with God's help would  have done 1.7 mli ion of Revenue and probably net   let's say half that probably 7 or $800,000 in  profit and I remember feeling dissatisfied with   that number so naturally I went to 10x that  number if I 10x and if I shoot for a company   that does $17 million of Revenue my expectation is  I'm going to kill myself I'm going to be at every   trade show I'm going to be at every conference  I'm going to be marketing every single day I'm   going to be reaching out out to leads reaching  out to contacts hiring great salese hiring great   recruiters I'm going to act in such a way that's  going to help me get to my $17 million goal and   by the way if I only hit $10 million I'll be much  better off than had I stuck with my original goal   of $1.7 million does that make sense because the  friction of the world is so strong that your goals   have to be much stronger than the friction that  you're going to encounter when the world tries   to drag your goals down so when you're writing  your goals they should be bold they should be   gutsy they should be strong and you should follow  up with the amount of action that's going to take   for you to hit those insane goals and again this  is not a New Year's resolution that should be done   once in a while this should be done every single  morning like clockwork and every single night like   clockwork many nights I don't want to do this many  nights I just want to roll over and go to sleep   I had a long day I'm trying to hit $17 million  here but I take the time and I write down those   goals every single night no matter what because  that is what is going to keep me focused on my   overarching goal in life which is to hit it big  and to be a big success I don't want to be average   who wants to be average everybody's average and  average sucks average is painful that's not the   direction that I want to go in I want greatness  because God implanted in my heart and if you've   watched this program until now that means that God  implanted in your heart greatness so why suffer   with mediocrity like the rest of them let's go for  greatness chapter 4 you will fail no matter what   no matter who no matter when you will fail in your  pursuit of greatness you will fail in your pursuit   in your Relentless pursuit of beating out the  mediocrity and of pursuing incredible things any   person that you know any great actor any great  businessman any great politician anybody great   that you've ever known that their name has ever  come to your ear and their accomplishment you've   ever become aware of has failed if not dozens of  times hundreds of times failure in the pursuit of   success is inevitable and a lot of people are  so afraid of failure they're afraid of what   people will say of them they're afraid of losing  confidence in themselves they're afraid of what   their friends are going to say their family their  businesses their spouses they're afraid of losing   dignity but I will guarantee you one thing that  will happen in your pursuit of greatness is you   will fail and what defines the great people from  the people that suck and what defines the people   that finally break through that mediocrity and  that mediocre barrier is the people that look   at failure in the face and declare boldly I am  not afraid of you and you cannot fail as long   as you stand up and as long as you get back back  up in the face of adversity and as long as you   give it another shot you cannot and you will not  fail you can't lose but what happens is a lot of   people either a are scared of pursuing greatness  because they're scared of failure so they never   even try in the first place or they try to pursue  their greatness they try to pursue their goals and   they fail and they give up because they don't have  the stomach for the failure but you have to accept   that failure is a natural part of your journey of  success and once you Embrace failure and once you   accept that and once you expect failure you will  not be so demoralized when it comes your way and   a lot of people are held back by their previous  failures they look at their life and they look at   their track record and they may find themselves in  broken relationships with unsuccessful businesses   failed attempts or whatever it is that they might  have pursued in their life and they might look at   their lives and have labeled them M eles already  as a failure it's a mistake you are the only   person who could label you a failure you know we  went to school growing up and our teachers had the   ability to label us as a failure they failed us  in our exams they failed us in our report cards   they failed Us in the system and that idea of  somebody else being able to label us as a failure   sticks with us by the way maybe that failure comes  from your parents maybe your parents told you that   you were a loser okay maybe your parents never  believed in you maybe your friends the group   of people you're hanging out with don't believe  in you maybe your own closest friends and family   and cousins or maybe even your spouse or your  boyfriend and your girlfriend maybe they don't   believe in you maybe they have labeled you as a  failure but the only person that can label you   truly is a failure is you so you have to cat  yourself you have to catch yourself in those   moments when you find yourself labeling yourself  as a failure you have to lie to yourself I am a   winner the other day I caught myself in the shower  and my mind was wandering telling myself that I'm   a failure because I didn't hit my $17 million  market and I caught myself I said you are not   a failure you are a winner you are not a failure  you are a winner and I repeated that to myself   over and over again as the water is beating  down on me that I am a winner I am a winner I   am a winner you have to remind yourself that when  the failures come that they are just bumps in the   road and they do not define you as a person don't  be afraid of failure embrace it and use it as a   springboard to jump over chapter five do what you  fear the most fear is a very funny emotion that   people run from with all of their might what they  don't realize is fear is the biggest indicator   that you are finally punching at your proper  weight class when we are not afraid it means   that we feel comfortable when we are not afraid  it means that we are doing things that are within   our skill set and are within our current purview  of where we are right now when you are about to   to embark on something that makes you afraid it  means that you are doing something new it means   that you are doing something meaningful it means  that you are doing something fresh it means that   you're finally achieving something that is greater  than what you have previously achieved so when you   begin to feel fear you shouldn't move away from  the fear but rather you should move into the fear   fear and excitement are actually a very close  emotion fear is something that is so closely   related to excitement small example is roller  coasters why do people like roller coasters the   dominant emotion on a roller coaster is fear and  there's certain moments once that roller coaster   drops and you're in a freef fall and you realize  that you're safe you realize that it's actually   exciting you realize that it's fun people want  the emotion of fear it's something that should be   ran towards and you should learn to replace the  feeling of fear with the feeling of excitement   it is a good thing it means you're moving in the  right right direction not the wrong direction some   of the greatest things that have ever happened  to me in my entire life were the things that I   feared the most when I left my family business  almost 10 years ago that was one of the scariest   things that I've ever had to do I left a stable  job with a beautiful future of growth with a high   position in a company and I left that business  for personal reasons and I had to leave that   business and it was the scariest thing that I ever  did in my life that was the greatest gift that   God had ever given to me it was so scary it was  so petrifying to make that move but ultimately   that was the best thing that ever happened to  me getting married was another one of them when   I got married what a scary thing to do to commit  to living with somebody for the rest of your life   that is a big commitment that is scary that was  the best thing that I ever did today I have five   beautiful children I have a beautiful wife I  have a beautiful life but it was scary going   to Yeshiva when I first started becoming religious  I was working at my family business and I had to   for an entire year I didn't know if I was going  to have a job when I got back but going to Yeshiva   was one of the best things that I had ever done  moving to Panama was so scary I lived in Montreal   my entire life I lived there for 32 years of my  life I picked up my entire family and my entire   life at 32 years old and I moved to a third  world country which happened to have been the   best thing that I ever did in my entire life but  it was so scary and right now I'll tell you if   you're interested what I'm flirting with now that  is scary I'm flirting with I'm going into real   estate with God's help I'm going to start buying  real estate deals and it's something that's very   scary I don't know all the ins and outs of real  estate I don't know all the answers I don't know   what is a great deal what isn't a great deal how  to get my financing how to not get my financing   how to get investors how to buy it how to sell it  how to write it how to underwrite it I don't know   any of those things right now and every day that  I learn is a scary Endeavor because I know that   that's where I'm going towards and it's an area  that is completely unknown for me which brings   me back to my original Point guys which is when  you're writing down your goals and if you notice   if you remember that real estate was my number two  I own 10,000 apartment units when I was writing   these down for the past I don't know 6 months and  that kept on showing up every day or even getting   my business a $17 million I don't have all the  answers I don't know exactly every turn I have   to make and every move I have to make I don't  know every single thing that I have have to do   a lot of times when I write down my goals I don't  know how I'm going to get there but I know that I   have it as a final destination just like driving  a car we're going to go back to that analogy when   you put in a destination in your GPS you don't  have to know every single turn for the next 150   turns all you got to know is your next move your  next turn what is coming up in 100 meters what's   coming up in the next mile what's coming next up  in the next two miles it's all you have to know   you have to know that what you have to do now  and have to know what the final destination is   everything in between becomes clear so I'm scared  of real estate right now because I don't know it   because it's something that is a dream of mine  it's something that I hold very very near and   dear to my heart but I'm scared of it because  I know that it's finally punching at my weight   class and it's a challenge that I want to go into  that I've been really wanting to do for years now   so the fear is an indicator to me not something  that I should move away from but something that I   should embrace and it's something that is exciting  to me don't be afraid of fear move into the fear   and embrace it chapter six cut out the negative  selft talk there is a bully that exists in your   mind and he is constantly beating you down how  do I know because I have one of the biggest   bullies that exist and I have a bully inside of  my mind that drives me absolutely nuts one of the   dominant things that the bully in my mind tells  me he tells me all the time I am a loser okay I   don't know if anybody else has this you may have  your own bully that has his own language my bully   in my mind tells me all the time that I am a loser  it's important to face that bully with your chest   up and to not let that bully get you down and the  way that you do that is by answering that bully   you know they used to tell us in school the way to  answer a bully is to walk away that's not the way   to answer a bully the answer to a bully is the way  they do it in nature you ever see a puffer fish if   a puffer fish gets bullied he doesn't Scurry away  he Puffs himself up to as big as he possibly can   to face his enemy down and to scare his enemy off  and that's the proper way to confront the bully   you confronted headon so when I feel that way when  my mind is driving me nuts and telling me that I'm   a loser I'll take a pen and a piece of paper it's  very important you guys start writing this stuff   down and you answer that so I write I am a loser  okay because that's what the bully in My Mind Is   Telling Me and then I'll begin to answer it well  actually I'm not I have a beautiful family I have   a successful business I have almost a million  followers I produce three movies I became   religious I have a great relationship with God  I have five beautiful children I have an amazing   wife I support my family I'm a good person and  I begin to answer and I make a list whatever the   bully is trying to get me down with I make a list  and I punch that bully right back in the face and   I don't let him get me down and through going  through this exercise I quiet the bully and the   bully doesn't want to come back because he knows  that whoever he's trying to bully in this case me   I'm a formidable opponent and he has to acques  to me because he knows that I'm more powerful   and really those voices inside of our head that  lower our confidence are really just trying to do   that they're just trying to lower our confidence  and every person you watching this right now you   have achievements getting out of bed today was an  achievement watching this program right now is an   achievement you went to school you had friends you  had a life you have relationships you have wins in   your life but you have to get them down you have  to write them down because the failures and the   bad self negative talk that's what holds space in  our head our our minds are a dark place our minds   are this mean place that we like to tear ourselves  down but you have to learn to change the direction   of that wheel instead of it going negative you  have to let your mind work for you and to start   thinking about all the reasons why you're great  and to give you that confidence to reach your   greatness and by the way one of the best ways to  do this another hack that I have besides answering   myself you get a group of people around you a  very small group three four people Max that these   people are people that love you they're people  that believe in you and they're people that really   truly want your best and whenever you're having  a bad day and whenever you're feeling down about   yourself you go to them and you allow them to help  pick you back up in my personal Corner my wife my   Rabbi and my coach are the three people in my life  that when I'm having a bad day I pick up the phone   when I'm feeling bad about myself when I failed  or when I'm just feeling like garbage I'll pick   up the phone and I'll speak to them and tell them  how I'm feeling and I'll let them pick me up it's   very important by the way that you don't go to  other people that will not pick you up you have   to keep this circle so close so tight because this  is your power Circle these are the people that you   could go to and actually be vulnerable with you  know today it's so hard to be vulnerable we have   to be so strong for everybody in our lives and  a lot of people watching this maybe your spouse   maybe you can't be vulnerable with your spouse  because they need you to be the rock of the family   and maybe you feel too scared to be vulnerable by  the way you should work on your relationship to a   point where you can be vulnerable because it's a  beautiful thing to be vulnerable with your spouse   but you have to find people that you could be  vulnerable with and they're not going to use that   as an opportunity to knock you down and a lot of  times by the way parents are the opposite of this   a lot of times you want to go to your parent and  you want to share with them something and they'll   use as an opportunity they'll see a [ __ ] in  your armor and they'll use that to attack or it   could be a best friend or whoever it is stay away  from those people who use your weakness to attack   you but rather make a small group of people  around you that you could show your weakness   to and they'll Build You Up through that weakness  they'll help you cover your patch up and they'll   help you become whole chapter 7 be relentless  consistency is the key to success I cannot stress   this enough I'll give you a very small example  and you probably heard me talk about it before   if you have a wood Chopper who's trying to take  down a gigantic tree in the forest if that wood   Chopper hits in a different place on that tree  on every hit no matter how many times he hits   that tree it could be a million times he will  never take that tree down the way to take down   a gigantic tree is by hitting at the same place  on that tree day in and day out even when by the   way even when it gets boring the way to take down  a gigantic dream is not by being inconsistent by   Chang changing your mind every day by allowing  your mind to play tricks on you maybe I'll be   successful maybe I won't maybe I'll try maybe I  won't maybe I'll go all in maybe I won't maybe I   should try something else maybe I won't that is  a recipe for a disaster that's the equivalent of   a wood Chopper hitting a different place on the  tree every single day the way to take down your   big goals and your Big Dreams is by every single  day waking up and being a consistent persistent   Relentless wood Chopper every day you get up like  a machine and you set your schedule like a machine   and you consistently try to take down your goals  and you hit at them day in and day out that is the   way that you will hit your big goals I once had  a business Mentor when I was first starting out   in the video production business 10 years ago and  he was well advanced than I was and I said to him   you know how did you build this business he built  a multi-million dollar video production business   and he answered the question with another question  how do you eat an elephant and the answer was one   bite at a time the way to eat an elephant is one  bite you cannot eat an elephant in one shot it   requires one diligent bite after the next the way  to achieve your big dreams and your big goals is   to consistently take one bite every single day no  matter what even if it tastes gross even if you   don't see an end in sight even if you don't see  the progress that you're making you still take   that bite because if you do that day after day  week after week month after month year after year   decade after decade you will eat your elephant  most people quit because they're not seeing the   results that they want fast enough that's like  going to the gym one time or after one week and   after not seeing results you quit seeing results  at the gym or on a diet or anything of that nature   take time it doesn't happen overnight and as soon  as people see a little bit of resistance as soon   as people don't see immediate results they give  up and that's a big mistake consistency look we   set big targets for ourselves if you've made it  this far in the chapter you have big goals for   yourself or you're going to have big goals for  yourself so if you have those big goals you got   to make sure that you give yourself consistent  Relentless effort towards those goals and the   road to success by the way is absolutely miserable  it is a miserable miserable go I spoke about   producing my movie a few chapters ago the amount  of effort that was needed to produce that film   was a nightmare the amount of organization the  amount of orchestration the amount of planning and   preparation was an absolute Nightmare and every  moment up until I go to show that film on the big   screen was a nightmare but it was worth it it was  worth it because at the end of the day when I pass   away at 120 years I know that I did my part to  help bring Messiah through that video or whatever   it is that your goal is you want to make sure that  you feel good about yourself when you close your   eyes at your at your final breath and the way to  do that is through Relentless effort even when it   gets miserable guys this is going to be miserable  but I got news for you life is miserable all right   our sages teach us against your will you're born  against your will you live against your will you   die no part of life is fun but you know it's also  miserable not achieving your goals you know it's   miserable doing nothing that feels terrible you  know what's also miserable not going after your   dreams that is also miserable so if you're going  to choose a misery choose the misery towards   achieving choose the misery towards success choose  the misery towards abundance because you're going   to be miserable either way so you may as well be  miserable at the top than miserable at the bottom   I know this sounds a little bit morbid maybe  that I'm talking about how life is so miserable   but I'm just quoting from Torah against your will  you're born you don't want to leave Heaven against   your will you live you don't want to live it's  difficult to live and against your will you die   and when it finally comes time to die you don't  even want to die it's not a pleasant experience   but while it's not pleasant you may as well be  going for the Gusto chapter eight be patient now I   don't like patience in general I am not a patient  person by any means but what I've noticed is when   you're trying to achieve something big you need  patience today people want instant gratification   they want overnight successes we live in a world  of fast everything's fast the big successes the   major wins the major goals in life are things that  require time they're things that require patience   if you are punching at your proper weight class  whatever you're trying to achieve will take time   because you're aiming towards something great  and in that time you could lose patience and if   you lose patience you're going to lose focus and  if you lose focus you're going to chase something   smaller now it could be tantalizing to chase  a smaller goal and I'm guilty of this you're   aiming towards something big something easier  comes along you could get a quick win in and you   change direction and you go with that thing in  business they call it the new shiny thing every   business owner knows this that you try something  you're trying to build a business and you're   working your hardest and things are going okay  but then a new shiny business comes along or a new   shiny product or a new shiny object and instead of  staying focused Relentless and consistent on your   main business and your main goal you go and you  chase the little shiny object because the other   thing is taking too long it's a mistake the big  goals the life goals the ones that we are going to   write down the ones that that truly are the ones  that are hitting your potential will take time and   in those times it is important to be patient you  will not repeat after me I will not see results   overnight and that is okay I happen to be on a  diet right now I'm on Weight Watchers I didn't   like how big I was I was 198 lbs I am now at92 lb  I've lost 6 lb in 6 weeks sounds like a lot 6 lb   in 6 weeks but one pound a week is a miserable  go it's slow it's very slow and there's Parts   in me that say to heck with this diet I want  to get off of it I want to go eat hamburgers   but if I stick to this diet and I lose one pound  every week that means that in 10 weeks I'm going   to be 10 lb off but 10 weeks is a long time to  stay disciplined be patient with the process and   don't expect overnight results because if you  do you're setting yourself up for failure start   thinking about your goal goals not in terms of one  week or one month or one year start thinking about   your goals in terms of 10 20 30 year goals and  aim towards those big goals and set yourself up   for that direction go big and go stable and do it  patiently chapter nine don't settle for average in   your pursuit of greatness in your Relentless  Pursuit you will find yourself many times   exhausted tormented and feeling down about the  fact that you have not hit your goals yet and I   am whispering in your ear as your beloved friend  coach advisor whatever it is you want to call me   I'm telling you that in those moments that you say  to yourself I was having an easier time going for   average I was having an easier time settling that  is a shortterm relief for long-term pain that is a   short-term solution for your long-term goals  one of my biggest fears in my life is to be 50   I'm 36 now one of my biggest fears in my life  is to be 50 or 60 years old and still have to   go to conferences and trade shows and pedal my  goods and push and beg for sales because I need   the cash I am putting in the work now with God's  help so that my business and my financial life   and my everything around me all my goals are so  RedHot that the momentum is so strong that I at   a certain point if I want to go on a vacation for  two months with my family 3 months for a year I'll   be able to do that if I want to be able to buy my  wife whatever it is that she wants I'll be able to   do that if my children decide that they want to  be rabbis in some far-flung country in the world   I'll be able to support them in that endeavor no  problem my kids need to get married I'll be able   to marry them off with no stress but in order  to achieve that mediocrity and being average   will not help me get there a lot of people when  they're going for their greatness they will resign   themselves to going after they they'll give up  essentially they'll say it was much easier when   I was just trying to be average and the answer is  it is easier to be average it is difficult to be   great I don't know if you've ever been bike racing  before but I used to bike very intensely and it's   very easy to go at an average speed once you start  to go fast on the bike it's hard to keep up that   momentum but that's the way that you break through  the pack or anybody who's ever been jogging before   it's easy to take a light jog it's hard to Sprint  and what I'm saying to you is jogging is the most   miserable choice that a person could make in their  life because you'll find yourself at 50 at 60   at 70 at 80 years old and you have nothing to show  for yourself you'll have no momentum you'll have   no as we say in Spanish fora you have no power you  have no strength behind you why because your whole   life you just got by and when you get by you have  no extras with you you want to make sure that by   the time you are a little bit older then you have  all the extras all the Bounty All The Spoils of   War you want to make sure that you have those with  you so that you could live a life of abundance so   that you could live a life of greatness all right  you don't want to be one of those guys who has   to rely on everybody else to live your life you  want to be the man you want to be the patriarch   you want to be the matriarch of your family and  the only way that you're going to be able to do   that is to Sprint baby Sprint all right so in  those days I'm getting all fired up now because   I hate mediocrity I hate average and I'm talking  to myself just as much as I'm talking to you in   those days where you want to just give up and you  want to be average you got to reclaim that power   and you got to say to yourself I am not aiming  for average here I am aiming for greatness and   greatness is difficult and it's hard to reach for  greatness but if you want to be at a place in your   life where you're the guy that everybody comes to  for help and not the other way around you got to   Sprint and don't settle for average even when it  hurts when you find yourself and I found myself   many days like this where I'm at my full exertion  I'm wake up at 6:00 in the morning I'm working out   for a half an hour I'm in the office by 8:00 I'm  filming my content I'm writing my emails I'm on   the phone I'm going to conferences I'm doing what  I have to do I'm pounding and I'm shoving and I'm   pushing on those days I'm exhausted it's hard to  keep up that level of intensity but my experience   has been when I'm at that level of intensity good  things start to happen around me I once heard an   expression that the harder I try the luckier I  get and you don't want to be average because the   less you try the less lucky you're going to get  don't be average and number 10 our final chapter   is make a support system around you I can't stress  this enough and I spoke about it previously in the   other chapters make a support system around you  it's lonely at the top that expression exists   for a reason most people will have not have made  it to the end of this type of program most people   are resigned to a life of average and if you've  watched until now you are clearly not one of them   it is Lonely at the Top I go to events sometimes  and I see people around me and I say to myself how   are these people all so relaxed they're all sort  of just living life with the motions and they're   not shriving they're more like floating on top  of the ocean where I'm trying to be like a jet   boat on the top of that ocean and it's a bumpy  ride it's bumpy every wave Boom the faster you   go the more those bumps get you it is Lonely at  the Top that expression exists for a reason it's   important to have a success Network around you  of people that you could speak to when you're   feeling down and when you're feeling unmotivated  I think I mentioned already it's worth mentioning   again I have a coach that I speak to once a  week her name is Rachel edin highly suggest   you're reaching out to her she's awesome and she  helps me every Monday I meet with her for one hour   and I unload on her it's hard to operate at these  levels it really is not going to lie I'm human and   it's hard to operate at it's hard to Sprint  imagine being a runner and you're always in   Sprint mode it's difficult and having a coach  helps you refocus and helps pick you up and I   really I I feel bad because every week I dump  on my coach but she allows me to dump and she   allows me to refocus and reather my energy and  reather my strength having a good Rabbi helps   or a good spiritual Mentor helps to help you not  only reach your financial goals but to make sure   that you're actually doing what God put you  in this world to do you know who's to say I'm   supposed to make $10 million a year who's to say  that maybe that's not what God wants for me but   after speaking with my Rabbi for many many hours  about this we have both decided and he's given me   the the guidance that if I have the tools and  the ability to become extremely wealthy with   God's help then that is my not only is it okay but  it's my mission in this world you may not be able   to afford a coach you may not have a rabbi get a  friend a friend who believes in you a friend who   you could check in with weekly and who you could  share your doubts that you're having share your   struggles that you're having you can't go at this  alone you're about to operate at the most optimal   levels of humankind and the greatest athletes all  had coaches I don't care if you're Tiger Woods or   if you're Michael Jordan the greatest actors have  acting coaches I don't care if you're Leonardo   DiCaprio or Julia Roberts they all have coaches  all the great CEOs of all the great companies   that you know they all have business coaches and  they help them because speaking to another person   is in a very very powerful thing you get out of  your own head at least once a week and equally as   important to having somebody that you could speak  to is knowing who not to speak to there's people   in this world most people by the way I hate to say  it most people don't share the same Ambitions that   you do they are scared they are in their own  heads they are in their own Rhythm and their   own Groove and they're not aiming for greatness in  their life so if they're not aiming for greatness   your greatness will threaten them and they will  consciously or more often than not unconsciously   try to push you off of your greatness because  by you becoming great you're highlighting their   averageness right if everybody's average then  you're not highlighting anybody's non-performance   when you become great you standing one level above  everybody else will mean that they are a lower   level than you and most people don't want that  most people want to be at the same level as you   so you have to be very careful who you share your  dreams who you share your goals who you share your   Ambitions with has to be very very careful you  have to do it very thoughtfully because not every   person wants to see you succeed a dream is like  a little flame a little flame can be blown out   very easily if it's told to the wrong person at  the wrong time do not share your goals with just   everybody that is a privilege your greatness is a  privilege that should be shared with only a select   few until you get to a point where your greatness  is so strong where your goals are so strong where   your conviction when your success is so strong  that no matter who throws their water no matter   who throws their shade on your fire it won't  diminish you at all be very careful you share your   hopes and aspirations with because not everybody  wants to see you succeed that brings us to the   end of our program I hope you enjoyed Relentless  2025 I'm so honored to have have spent this time   with you I'm so proud of you for taking this time  for yourself to build yourself because once you   become great you're going to inspire other people  to become great around you and help other people   reach their potential too and although you and  I may not have a personal relationship and we   have never spoken personto person I do feel a  connection with you and I do feel like we've   spent time together and I'm so grateful for that  time and I believe in you and I trust in you and   I know that you're going to do great in your life  and I'm just proud of you and I just want you to   know that that if nobody else believes in you your  friend barl Solomon believes in you if you enjoyed   this video please do me a favor please leave  me a like please leave a comment please share   it with your friends and if you like this video  you're going to love the one that's coming up next