Rabbi Lazer Brody - Achieving Greatness

thank you everyone for coming sorry for the delay I mean not purposely uh my delay is the delay of everyone but we appreciate everyone coming um just quickly because I know the time is short uh at first I didn't want to forget that whoever didn't get outside we have a tour anytime sponsored this new beautiful safer in honorable and in memory of wallerstein which I see inside there's QR codes that I think every page has like a QR code that you can watch the actual Shear inside it's very very uh very cool and as well our Brody is uh the the his farm are outside as well there are a couple uh freeze farm for everyone take as well Divine direction God's personal supervision of Our Lives which uh I glanced through quickly before and it looks very very nice so um firstly I want to thank rabio just walked out from kazak without hazak we don't really uh we're always in tandem me and Robbie just out of this urine and it's uh prakash I'm always very well received and very nice and it's anonymous everybody here who came from Israel against the only for us I think he was in Mexico two days ago in Florida he's spoken three sure and he's going to London so uh it's a privilege to have him in here as well I want to thank the few generous sponsors as well who all decided to be remain anonymous so we accept the honors sponsors regardless and uh it's a it's a really a pleasure to have everyone here and uh all this year we have here and the and the learning uh at night we have learning here every night some people in the back represent and we have learning here every night from nine to from 8 to 10 15 and then afterwards people are here as well in the different types that I set up we also have a lot of ladies urine previously and we're going to have more of us at the going forward um I just want to make sure everybody can hear me that I'm gonna tell him to come in but I would say without further Ado I'd like to introduce the rub and uh thank you everyone for coming again [Music] okay yeah yeah everyone can hear it I always feel like a suicide bomber when I cut kazak and they wire me up but Hashem they say the gabbar says that meet that if something is evil then a good measure is 500 times more so the power of wiring ourselves up to learn a moon of together is 500 times more than a terrorist who ironed himself up exception our lesson tonight should be a Yeshua for clay Israel but generally Yeshua and anyone that needs a particular Yeshua whether it's in health or it's whatever you need that by virtue of our learning together they're getting stronger together it should bring brahal and Yeshua for everyone that the last one is the sweetest this is my last evening on this trip in the USA going back to Israel tomorrow it's been a pretty long trip London Mexico Miami and then and then here pleased to be here uh and when those Rabbi is a higher wallet we're very close and so we're honored those the first 50 came the giveaway and uh usually we sell my books too what was left of the books take those and if anyone wants me to sign a book afterward be happy to and we open up with praise of our hosts we thank Robbie and thank Morty and and the shul here that tequila should have every single blessing we're talking about everything we talk about at Muna King Solomon says all the rivers go to the Sea everything leads to a Mona but tonight especially especially appreciating life appreciating every moment of life not wasting a single minute not wasting a single minute you can see the greatest people in the world Reven the holy resale they live to the word 38 and 38 but you look at this 15 volumes of kabbola and all the results tell me them look at what rabbi did look what each one of them did in 38 years is mind-boggling and the reason they accomplish so much is because they didn't waste any time there was no such thing as inconsequential occupated time that everything they did had a purpose and they could say what am I doing now what am I doing now the huffits higher would want to know in the prophet time used to do it half times new personal self-assessment personal prayer two hours a day and once one of his town medium find out what they have time would disappear from the Shiva every afternoon from two to four pm and they say where's the rabbit and one of the one of the tall medium in the Shiva and the students Yeshiva laid an ambush for the following him half times already old man his late 80s he passed from this world to the next World at age 95 Hashem took him right before the Holocaust he said he deserve to see the Holocaust so when he was an old man during his late 80s he was going up in the attic of the Yeshiva and that's where he would do his self-assessment for two hours from two to four that's where he disappeared so the student found out this is where the rep is going that's where he disappears to up to the Attic and he put his ear to the door to listen himself his sweet man where's the five minutes where's the five minutes accounted for every minute in his life and he was so upset because there were five minutes that day that he didn't know what he did with he didn't remember what he did with and so he was so upset with himself to a major chuva this this is the greats of Israel this is the greats of Israel where they get it from if we open up our Gamora tractate of voina Zora there are three very interesting stories one story is about the Romans the decrees the evil decrees that the Romans made in the Jews this time of great persecution we're talking about the 50 years after the destruction of the second temple and there's a time during the death of the death of Denmark ten Martyrs we read them on teach above and we read about them on Yom Kippur as if it happened one after the other was actually over the course of of 60 years they said no Shabbat Jewish people you want to be a Jew okay no Shabbat no Brit Mila and no Mikvah so there was a Roman pro-jewish senator and his name was Katia Barcelo bar Shalom he had great respect for Rebecca and his students so Kiva Shalom does once said what the Senate the Caesar was there and he says uh yamashti these are ridiculous decreases why he says you say that the Jews shouldn't keep Shabbat and he couldn't she Shabbat Shabbat they work that that gives a chance to Romans to make more money because the Jews are very clever in business and they stop doing business for a day all right let them work all week long and take money away from the roads she says you know that's right we decree okay and he says you know something your majesty not letting them do Brit that's ridiculous do you want a strong enemy well Romans were strong because we don't damage ourselves at eight days old let them weaken themselves if Milan weakens himself take a baby and and and and do up surgery at eight days old and he bleeds it weakens him so Mercy why should we strengthen our enemies and not weaken them this is good let's continue weaken them she says you know something you're right to cancel that decree and then he said your majesty you know with us the Romans uh everything goes and it's all month long you know with the Jews they said two months of two weeks a month nothing and then they go to the Mikvah and then okay two weeks in your majesty if you give them all four weeks they have much more kids they have much more kids here you want more Jews around he says no you canceled that ah so then the Satan is sometimes we get Eliana V the Satan whispered then you imagine this is all this is all a trick he's really in favor of the Jews so Caesar said you know something you may be right Senator Katia barsholam but uh you're going to death because you criticize my decrees you criticizing the criticizing that the the Caesar that's death penalty so as they took him out to die here barcelon he took out a knife on the spot he circumcised himself became a Jew on the spot they killed him right away and he said all my wealth to Rebecca and his students a voice came out of shemaim and said Katia barshalem is welcome to the world to come at that point rabbit cried rabudency rebuke the Christ said he said there's some people work all their lives to get in the world to come some people in one moment are in the world to come I'm gonna explain to you what Redmond meant in a moment but let's get Another Story Another Story same track Tate avoid Azora now rebe hanina Ben tardion he was bury his father he was rebby Mayer's father-in-law mayor balinesis's father-in-law and he was one of the ten Martyrs he and Rabbi Akiva one of the ten Martyrs so they called him to Chicago to Chicago was also against the law so what they did the sadistic Romans they wrapped him up in a Torah scroll and burned him together in the Torah and this is the famous Gomorrah where they saw the letters floating back up to shemaim the letters didn't burn they left the parchment and floating back up to shebaim you could see this but what they did the sadistic Romans they took cotton a big wad of cotton put it in water then put it on his heart so that around his heart there would be less fire his whole body would burn but his heart would burn slower and this was a more slow excruciating death there was a Roman executor was in charge of burning him but he saw what was happening and he said to Rebecca batardian he says if I remove if I remove that cotton from your heart will you take me to the next World and he said yes so the Roman soldier executor all his life he's been killing Jews execute people hanging people burning people cutting off their heads at one moment he takes the the the sponge the water soaked cotton heart and he makes the fire stronger and he himself jumps in the fire and burns together with foreign and said the Roman Sergeant is invited to the world to come here's a guy he didn't even make a bridge to himself like Katia barshallam did but yet he made life that made the deathless excruciating it's one of our greatest Harmony never lived and invited to watch a guy earned his world to come in one moment one moment and that's it some people work all there this Rabbi again crying some people work all their lives for the world to come and some people aren't at one no we're not finished now comes the juicy story uh this would be x-rated we're not nigamara I could not tell the story but the Gomorrah says it right to open up the Gabor some of us learned to Gabor in my class or get teach to Gamora maybe I'll tone it down and this is a Gamora that uh young people under the age of 18 please leave the room okay there was a Playboy and amistro pardon no I'm not gonna I'm gonna be I'm not going to be graphic Anarchy graphic this has gone through 18 filters okay but the Gamora is that the bar is not filtered this is going through 18 fields for the group there was a boy who was not so not so he wanted two sides of the fence he was from a very good home but yet he would do things on the other side of town well he once heard he loved women he loved women he didn't get married he just loved women and he heard that there was this beautiful woman in the Greek Islands so he got a bag full of gold coins he went to this Greek Island they went to this woman and she saw he was a rabbi Rabbi she thought he was a rabbi the guy he was dressed like a like a religious Jew like a from June and just comes to her with all these coins so wait a second this is a little bit of the contradiction in terms the way you look and you come to me and he says yeah we have uh you know that's it Omar says we do things out out of town I'm gonna do things in my hometown something doesn't do this and what he does in the Greek Islands he doesn't do a new Slimer benebra and in the middle of what they're doing she says to him you know something here this woman of the night this Greek woman in the night on a Greek island she says to reblazer by Doria so replaced them because more calls him that she says to him you know sir you can never do chuva your chuva will never be accepted even if you try he's listening wait a second well this goes right in his heart like a spear if he would have 55 from 55 different yeshivas they would chastise him this chastisement didn't work like this one uh woman who works in the most ancient profession chairman chastisement see right away got up and left and he went out in the field and he said son you got to help me son says before I help you I gotta help myself and he gave apostle from your shall that says if omnisone make sure that the son of the Moon they're going to go and then he says Stars you got to help me yes the Stars he asked all of creation to help him and everybody gave him a possum that they can't help him so he put his head between his knees and he cried and he cried and he cried and he made true for like ten Yom kippurs rolled into one he made chuva he made such chuva that his nishama left him come left him a voice came out of shemaim third time and said rabbi Eliezer bandorodia is invited to the world to come wow what this guy did in his lifetime forget about it you won't even want to read about it we wouldn't if we're not in the Gomorrah we couldn't even talk about it but in one second he made sure from the bottom of his heart it's chuva so so deep that is nashama left him he's invited to will to come a third time rabbit cry rabbit that as he cried he said there are people that earn their oil of above they earn the world to come in one moment people other people have to work their whole lives so it sounds like reputation a sea that he had to work so hard repudency made one little it wasn't even an Avera but on his levels of era repudency was walking and they were taking a calf to slaughter take a calf to slaughter and the calf ran away from the person that was accompanying to the slaughterhouse take the slaughterhouse and the calf hit him to rub his record okay and the calf started crying as if he knew he was going rapid protect me he could look down right we could understand the language of the animals that's the rep you've done the sea he was the president of Israel he's a great grandson of King David King David understood language to animals so rip it set to the calf go back to him this is what you were born that's what you're born oh president of Israel should lack compassion it was right then and there decreed that rapid would have 13 years of excruciating two things if you haven't had a toothache it's not a toothache so bad feels like an arrow will shoot if your tooth into your brain an emergency dentist then what you do too crazy 13 years toothaches and can't imagine for anyone how did it end it ended also in one moment Reb is made found some mice in the presidential Palace wherever he lived found some mice and she was gonna take them and she was going to drown them remember said no he brought a possum from tell him hey Hashem is compassionate just like hashem's compassion we have to cash it on all the on all of creation and that is toothache left him ah said Ruby act like a sheb and he's compassionate this was a tikun for 13 years of tribulations so Rebecca himself in one moment he earned Kiko and he would try to do chuva at 13 years self-assessment and didn't actually get it but in one moment he did shuva what do we see here we see here the power of one moment Power of One Moment One Moment is so profoundly powerful and believe me cherish sisters and brothers if you've ever been a situation where you look at your watch and you've got 60 seconds to live in a crossfire in a war and there's shelling and there's bombing with two rockets this happened to me in downtown Beirut in 1982. and we're Squad of 12 guys and not everybody came home and with what was happening Michelle's getting closer and closer and closer and closer and closer in fact the next ones could be in our head and this the next one probably thought about 30 seconds 30 second life expectancy next one's on our head nowhere to go go this direction is the Syrian this 1982 First Lebanon war the PLO in this direction the syrians in this direction katusha battery in this direction can't go behind us right in the middle downtown Beirut boxed in what do you do you got 30 Seconds To Live what do you do when you got 30 Seconds To Live call out Hashem what do you do if you don't know Hashem this happened to me one thing Hashem but came from I came for a conservative Jewish home I left the United States till I was 21 years old went to University of Maryland studied agriculture we were zionistic house not a religious house my dream was to go to Arizona and to be a soldier and make a border Farm that's exactly what he did both dreams but now all dreams over and with 30 seconds left to live make a really fast accounting a really fast fish you see a movie of your whole life it goes in front of you what you did your whole life oh we did neat stuff we raced cars even though we're good students we're a good student University and we're we had a lot of fun and we drank beer and we dated girls and we did a lot of fun what non-religious Jewish American boys too no nothing classification drugs this is what they call in America good clean fund ish bit Niche oh but then you came and you settled the land of Israel a border Farm but raise peaches and turkeys you know they ask an Israeli farmer you know one of the dumbest birds in the world is a turkey they said you've been working for turkeys for 40 years it hasn't affected your brain and he says so what do you do tell Hashem okay I raised turkeys in Heritage world I raise peaches and errots you throw I went that went to war went to borders what's that such sadness such sadness and on secular secular scales that had great friends and high status would everything a secular kid could could dream of come there it's a strong was it a very good unit one of the best units in Israeli Army and my own Farm it hurts his throat nothing I had this deep sadness my life was wasted and I could envisioned in the last couple says you see this is 30 seconds but it's like a whole movie whole life everything goes in front of you and at that time my parents were in about Silver Spring Maryland I had a brother in Vietnam and I was in Lebanon and my parents had lost my my older sister their first daughter it's not enough that Mom was in the Holocaust Survivor and dad was World War II pilot barely made out of life and now I'm imagining that the military attache in Washington is going to come to them and tell them that they're number two they lost their number one daughter now their number two son is dead in the gutter and Beirut that brought me a deep sadness the more Sadness the problem you want to think about Mom and Bob let's think about Aveeno ships your mind my Father in heaven what have I done for my Abba shamai for 30 years 32 years that time was 32 years old 41 years ago that brought me a deep sadness and it hit me things I never thought about for 32 years I never thought about why my heart beats and said never thought about my brain impulses and who makes a brain impulse never thought about every breath I took took off for granted off for granted all for granted hey take for granted that you can Run 10 miles take for granted you can work out you could take for granted all these gifts and now all of a sudden every single heartbeat is a gift every single breath is a gift and the breaths were difficult because it was Beirut in the summer the end of the summer it's like 95 degrees Fahrenheit and about 92 percent humidity and such humidity maybe you have it here in five towns in the summer in a really hot summer day when it gets really the worst humidity you've been in in poor him and show when the little kids shoot caps caps and feet you can't breathe because it's little tiny caps and caps have tiny bit of gunpowder there is one big amounts of gunpowder explode you can't breathe the air is black with smoke and if we don't get hit by a shell another incoming shell or a bullet and it's going to choke it was difficult to breathe She haven't heard my prayers and I had this feeling I'm going to get out of there but you can learn to devote your time and not every moment every moment and every moment and every moment so what did redby mean when he said about the three different instances that there are people that buy their oil in one moment as if as he was jealous no he's not jealous he said look at these powerful guys if they could earn their Islam in one moment what would they do if they did this they served the Shem all their lives other lives do you know every time we wake up every time we say one word of thank you to Hashem that's every time we do a bit of for another Jew that's Olam every time the law the gate Sahara takes a pound of lushanhara and puts it on a Jew's tongue and just dying to say this lotion all right says no IM says it's 14 positive Mitzvahs and 17 negative Mitzvahs we just cannot do this we cannot do this you know what happens you just earn your oil even more so you go to your is and all of a sudden you've got this honor guard of all these hundred thousand Angels but it doesn't even come and they say ah moti is here a verbal is here udis here Sal is here rifle is here and all these the underground just a regular Jew rather Jew from Five Towns what I do what's the big deal I said no do you remember that one time that you had such Temptation the Yates sir he brought out an army to force you to say the shadow I said no I'm not going to do it I'm not going to do it I am not going to say something bad about another Jew do you know what happened at that exact moment and this is a true story if you know any cool ball a real mccub I could ask him he'll tell you because all of Israel are guarantees for one another there's a terrorist the day before yesterday on the road to Tel Aviv today were three terrorist hits in areas you through and we all had a rough Shabbat because of Friday we sell pictures of of two little boys six and eight the pilly Brothers it couldn't stand it did look at that it's not you look at these children they're your own children to your own grandchildren what's the difference if I biologically gave birth to him or somebody else said we're all brothers and sisters we're all Sons and Daughters of Hashem what's the difference oh no my kids are okay they're safely in bed and a mother is crying because she's lost two children and her husband's fighting for a life but yet there's the flip side the day before yesterday a terrorist on his way from Janine nasty Place nasty Place Janine hey put the car with a hundred kilograms 220 pounds of explosives and that's not all together with the 100 kilograms of explosives there were 200 kilograms of males you know what happens in a car car bomb 100 kilos of explosives with 200 20 pounds of nails on the way to disengoff square in downtown Tel Aviv oh wow wow just to think of what could happen but there is a young woman and Five Towns and a young man in Five Towns they could have slaughtered somebody with lotion or arts and no I'm not gonna do it they themselves suffered insulted they're not going to give it back they're not going to give it back at that moment the car blew up in the terrorist face or the Border Police caught him or it did not happen nobody knows what's going on but meanwhile there was a guy in Five Towns this is well what's it what about what's going to help if I watch a Super Bowl what do you get me for watching Super Bowl 50 of people would be depressed Clinton depressed after Super Bowl anyway because the team's gonna lose all right I don't even know who won the key if I know who was in the assume but what happens is during the time of the Super Bowl that your brother your husband your son opened up a Gamora and learned dafyami at the time of the Super Bowl Paris Carr blows up in his face that's it you're a hero you're a hero all these you know wherever I went there a lot of I I'd want to say which synagogue and what synagogue think there weren't synagogue party rooms with Super Bowl parties want to have a dafiomi party the power of a Mitzvah in one moment you can get your whole world to come and this is Ruby knock on a breast lift and this the reason they did this all their lives they did this although I said stop and think what goes on now with the iPhones and the chat rooms and Instagram and Twitter and Tick Tock and liked in and faked in and whatever all can we but people give their lives to get a like alike so you go to the grocery store you go to the supermarket you go to Pomegranate you want to buy Shabbos Food and you go to the checkout counter you've got all this great Shabbos Food and they say yes ma'am what do you pay cash or credit card it's a lady this is worth cash your credit card sir cash your credit card no but I got 200 likes 200 likes you know what it is to have 200 likes on one post foreign like wait a second what are you doing on Facebook what do you do in front of a screen buy a cenerates you throw we had kid David I know I live in a different Society our kids do not have screens why do they have screens let's see if you have a heavyweight boxing championship but it's not going to be two people hitting each other gonna put a more abovely in the ring with a screen whether it's an iPhone iPod tablet I'm sorry my beloved more bubbly never going to win there's no such thing as a Gamora that beats a screen but something different one word says Hi in one word that a Jew says that more bodily that's world to come because Heim says what for a man is so terrible for when we know what's terrible we're going to more and more it's not a lesson about Lush and horror but about for the guys what's so terrible for their for them world we have a quota of words that we speak when that quota is over bye bye check out that's it game's over so people that waste their quota nonsense and never forbid on not even not that not consequential speech but speech that's negative that's terrible says that the reason a man gets the book thrown at him for lushinara as you said a hundred words of lush and Horror in one minute you could have learned a hundred words of Torah in each one is world to come each one we don't realize what we're doing we don't realize they're doing what are we doing on the social media get it out of here okay if someone wants to campus that guide needs a phone who needs a tablet for for school or for business or messages okay but you'll be the influencer don't be influenced by that what are you reading what somebody writes about uh what this one said about someone else heaven forbid heaven the mishita tells us says we have to take accounting of everything we do we account our time nothing is more valuable than our time and you see people that say I don't have time stop and think and this is the real true but this is the greatest truth you could do the think of an achievement did this it did that and go roll in the sand and do all kinds of torture torture yourself a chef doesn't need torture not misdemeration we just take stock in ourselves and look at the time we waste see people walking in the street and they're talking they're talking sometimes they got the Bluetooth I forgot my present from my 19 years in combat and said today and I got in hearing aids the people are self-conscious about wearing hearings I said but that a friend of mine from my old unit he said uh Lisa you got yours yeah I said I already had mine a year now he says I need mine now he says I feel so like an old man wearing these silly hearing aids I said you feel like oh man look at a 20 your hearing aids you can't even see him mine you can't even see him unless you look up close but these guys are walking around with these howitzers in their ears these big Bluetooths and they're sticking out like that not only that they're walking the street I think these guys are in the funny farm they're talking and conversing come on what are you doing well it will be much better you know why we teach kids mishnais by heart second walk in the street naked missionize by heart walking the street and talking on the phone there's something that an observer Jew doesn't do we don't walk and eat a sandwich while walking in the street you see people do this no we sit down the Gomorrah says when there's no bait the migdash that a person's table a toads for him that's why we sit down at a table and dress properly this is that don't come to the table in a t-shirt what that God came and sit properly because this is It's a Miss bear when there's your your table is an altar and he said do things oh Lord people sit the tablet and lack of shell and bite see what's together time he comes to the phone he comes to the table with his phone she comes to table with her phone get the phones out of there quality time that's to make your family time all on the bus stop and think about the time with your wife the time with your husband no phones allowed it show no phones allowed after covid in our show I doubt about my rabbit of Melissa rabbit no phone's allowed to show but after covid but the people of crazy covered but I shall barely barely barely had covid and most everybody had covered was very light very light nobody nobody got really sick with covet because understood why did they put masks on us because our speech wasn't proper and why social distancing social distancing is what they do to the matsura when you take the leper you put them aside from everybody because of all this Lush and horror and why were we kicked out of Shoal and the shows were closed nobody thinks nobody smells the coffee why does Shem do all this covet was all about wasting time wasting our speech not respecting the synagogue that's it so we had when the police said you got to close down we opened up the shore clandestine in Israel little hutzpadic okay we listened to the neighborster's law and the represents up with the show we open up Michelle I don't care what the police say okay we locked it on the outside and closed the curtains and they'll put the Sherman Dominion that's what we did during covet but absolutely no talking and show no talk should come into our show you do not hear a word outside of children pray firstly somebody wants to talk go outside somebody would say again make a phone call go outside not in the show not in the sanctuary so together with our speech and our time knowing that every single word is every single minute is why sell it for cheap why sell it for cheap where every single person one thing Manchester Manchester promises got a big issue that for anyone that needs any salvation any salvation at all to Allah a day do his or her best not to say slander about another Jew and that's it so what does all this have to do we talked about security all the the terrorists in Israel and all the terror hits and all the strife and what's going on erity it's mashiach times where it's close to Civil War everybody's everybody else's Nick what's all this have to do with that all because of slander lotion Hara now why is there lushanara did people waste so much time most of times wasted to installation read it there's never ever since Adam even the snake the snake the Yates Sahara has never been stronger in history because now the snake has social media it used to be what it used to be in the old days with no telephones before telephones before Alexander Graham Bell how hard do you have to work to say loshan 100 people you really got to work hard got to go from one to another or even if you're you're in Britain you get people they used to have uh the soapbox orators okay so you stand on a soapbox and wait till there's 100 people in the park and you say something bad about someone that's unreasonable some Constable take you down anyway you won't be able to do it now one push button you don't know how many someone else did you hear about this one did you hear about this one did you hear about this one so the chuva for man to fellow man is you have to say I'm sorry to Hashem for what you did and ask forgiveness for the fellow man so now the chuva for lushinhara we have to go to every single person that heard the slander and so I'm sorry I made a mistake I'm in a very it's not it's not true who could do that true but not that social media nobody could do it so what's the result the result is everything that's going on now and there's one hardcore law that our sages tell us listen to this no terrorists no anti-semite no Nazi no hamasnik no Hezbollah could touch the hair of a Jewish head until one Jew harms another Jew once one Jew harms another Jew then up it should buy him okay green light Let the Wolves Out of the Dead but they can't do it until one Jew harms another Jew we have a Mitzvah Torah love your neighbors yourself if you ask a professor and faculty and sociology social sciences or soccer league psychology or anthropology says humanly impossible humanly impossible for one person to love another person like he loves himself because it's surviving the fittest excuse me Professor where do you learn survival of the fittest well I learned from Charles Darwin oh uh what does Charles Darwin say about human years no he says his great-grandfather was an orangutan and a great grandfather was a chimpanzee and the great great grand theft gorilla oh okay this is the same thing just as on this also when its body is yeah when it's an animal one animal protects itself and where is that by his own food don't worry about another animal but we're not bodies we're nishamas when notorious says the Torah is talking about the side of the nashama where that shama is the real you not the body so if you look at another person uh this guy's frond this guy's not this girl's Ashkenazi this girl's farty this one even within the khasidim this one is this this one is that even within one hasida said that they're at each other's throat the Jews have it's not enough we have all these enemies that we're all enemies within ourselves forget all that you look at another person's nashama if you believe that Hashem created what we're getting voices from shemaim if you believe then Hashem did everything and Hashem did everything for the best and Hashem does everything love father the basics of Muna then you look at another person you look at another Jew you know what it means that Hashem put you on Earth if I would ask someone to come up to me okay take off my jacket we're going to transform now from a Torah lesson to an exercise lesson okay I'm gonna play science I can raise my hand lower my hand I need uh someone to help me demonstrate I can do that it's embarrassing I'm going to raise my hand lower hand raise my foot lower my foot from the whole audience but if under the table I slip you a couple hundred dollars and you need money for Shabbos Food okay this audience said if so you know you wouldn't do something without an incentive without a reason why do we think we're smarter than Hashem that Hashem does something with that reason you know what it means when Hashem put your put you on Earth and you don't value yourself you look in the mirror and say not good enough if I would ask people what's the worst Y8 Sahara in the world it's not what you think that's number two the worst Yates are in the world is when you look in the mirror and you say you're not good enough guy says oh my friend he made the startup company and sold it for 140 million dollars and my other friend is a roshishiva and I'm schnooki with the shoe store and a woman looks in the mirror she says oh my my girlfriend or husband is so successful and she's so gorgeous and I met come on you think you're imperfect you know when you say when you think you're a perfect heaven forbid heaven forbid you're saying Hashem isn't perfect because Hashem created you the Shem does it there's no imperfection against him everything is perfect what Hashem does says how can I be perfect you are perfect to do your job on Earth and if Hashem created you Hashem doesn't do anything for nothing it means that the world cannot exist without you on Earth you don't think about it people think about it look down I'm not important Shiva I'm Dr send a good dollar door I'm not this you can't take stock in yourself maybe that child you're raising is is going to be the representative or that son you're raising you don't look at yourself look at what you're doing look at whatever you're doing that that you you buy your world in one moment and there are some people that want one moment after another moment after another moment you know parents that that have well-adjusted children why well-adjusted children because some parents they buy their kids here take take your Game Boy and take your this boy and take you that because I'm not going to have personal time you know what it is what a Mommy and Daddy they sit a little of Remy's a little story's bed world this is tactless you're teaching the next generation of moon and you can't teach your next generation of Muna if you're living you can give it if you don't live it you can't give it that's the way it works that's the way it works so here we are we can every moment after moment after moment they come up to minutes think up to years where the Sahara the rewards are mind-boggling why sell ourselves for cheap worse than that why sell ourselves for nothing worse than that why sell ourselves for negative to give up a world A Beautiful World of Hashem his Torah his misfus is crazy every single moment I believe in Hashem I believe in Hashem yeah Hashem is with me I believe in Hashem every single moment that a person believes in Hashem is the Mitzvah of a Muna and it's greater than any myths for the Torah last week's parship a chef said two bits was by himself he said the first to take commands they said the first two Mitzvahs and then um you throw oh boy she'll stop our nishamas are leaving us and they were leaving them each one had a malach that stopped in the summer back in the body they couldn't heard of his voice and stay alive you could had to be an emissary for the next 611 mitzvahs so what happens if we do a Mitzvah we give charity that we get rewarded with the essence this is what Blazer benjakov says in pure keovas we can understand the mishnah in the fourth chapter of us that he who does a Mitzvah creates a positive malach and he who does a transgression creates a negative malach okay not an angel means emissary they've got a double meaning in the case of a malach it means both because an angel is a shem's Emissary so person doesn't Mitzvah as an emissary when a person loves another Jew it's not just loves another Jew there's a favor for another Jew not just the favorite of the Jew but he does that because of his emuna in Hashem and he believes he believes that each person has in the summer it's not only you get the malach the Emissary you get Hashem because any Mitzvah it has to do with the Muna since Hashem said the Mitzvah mamuna Hashem gives the word personally wow you know what that means if somebody needs a really big Yeshua somebody needs a soul mate and somebody doctors say no hope I said right before I came here where I'm staying in Flatbush tonight and brought me a person with I mean a terminal Big Time terminal and doctors said no hope doctors say no hope that's the beginning of Hope because where the brain kicks off that's where Muna kicks in and with the doctors the lawyers the CPA the CPA says uh that IRS is going to hit you for half a million dollars and the lawyer says there's no way I can win the case you're going to jail and the doctor says no it's terminal wrong wrong wrong wrong that's where Amura has to kick in anybody he says there's a segula for any any salvation we need that's three words when a person says there's no one Hashem ah Hashem says oh you're not putting your trust in the lawyer you're not putting your trust in the doctor you're not putting trust in CPA you're coming to me you're putting trust in me okay okay sometimes we have difficulties in life Hashem doesn't fault us for not coping with the difficulties in life Hashem fault is fair why didn't you ask me for help you know why people don't ask Hashem for help and why people don't talk to Hashem because they don't believe in Hashem I'm from are you from okay you're free try this exercise say the word from and smile let's see what you do Christ say from and smile can't do it now say a moon and smile and Muna it's the difference a smile on your face means that you like the way Hashem runs the world and when a person doesn't smile it means that he or she doesn't like to wish him once the world it's not nice because Hashem is a loving father and everything does for the best whether or not we believe it whether or not we know it that's that's the truth that's the spiritual truth so we know the Hashem is with us and Hashem is blessing us and every Duke him Allah Hashem commands those malachim that they should be with us all the time and a person would see the protective white King David how could he say although I walk in the valley of death and he walked in the valley of death all his life all his life enemies from within enemies but nobody had problems like King David did and how did he keep how did he keep smiling his face because you're with me and tell you something else people don't know how to read to heal him open up koflamited King David makes an amazing admission about himself you know the King David says he should have been bipolar he did someone 39. King David says he says when I'm flying high I'm on top of the world there you are Shem when I crash land show all in gehenam there's seven compartments all is the bottom compartment again flying in the heavens here's Hashem when I crash on the bottom here you are Hashem okay with me sham is with me we have Hashem in our lives we don't suffer the highs and the lows we're not crazy arrogant when we're successful and we don't become depressed we're unless except no this comes from this comes to Shem thank you Hashem thank you Hashem I said what thank you Rochelle anybody say thank you Hashem every time we say thank you Hashem it is an amazing mitzvah because thank you Hashem were Jews and Jews is the word Jew means to thank Hashem so as soon as we thank Hashem we're fulfilling imuna we believe in Hashem we're fulfilling we're taking advantage of every single moment because when you think Hashem you gain your oil in one moment and you know what happens a ship takes the whole kahila of Cedarhurst and five towns and lifts it up turns it around drops us down to rebuilt holy Jerusalem with mashiach and our Holy Temple Speed our days of Maine if you have I think Robbie can answer if someone okay we got another eight minutes if anyone would like to ask any question about anything I said or anything I didn't say or something about a Muna feel free because I'm flying to London tomorrow and Day After Tomorrow back to Eric's Israel and usually after I finish speaking people send me emails because on the books of my email address accessible to everyone not King Tut just laser and people write me I get lots emails every day and I try my best to answer them but since I'm on the road it's difficult for me to answer emails ask questions right now your personality yes first and then your second what's that time to get that away wait a second you're doing holy stuff on YouTube no no like we gave her children lives to watch how can we take that away now take it away from home oh from the kids all the kids okay let me tell you something and stop and think about it give it a little secret a lot of people don't know that because it look at body and soul is one laser broady is maybe I don't know if there's any other maybe one other in California but Orthodox Jewish rabbi itself a fitness trainer and a nutritionist the body cannot develop from passive activity screens are passive nobody ever got strong from passive activity a Gamora for the brain is just like being in the gym and lifting weights to handle the Gomorrah the brain has to strain and strain and strain that's why we have an energy throw guys that have been learning in Carlow for five six years and all of a sudden they'd have maybe three four fifth child I know my kids after eight and ten kids they're still in coil but some people they get nervous they want a profession uh secular law school is three years after bachelor's degree a coil guy is a special law school narrative throw it takes depends how good the guy is he can have a law degree in six to eight months and they pass the bar amazing because they've got these muscle these Rambo brains Gamora gives a guy a Rambo brain a person cannot develop his body his muscles from being a couch potato okay if we want our kids to develop then they have to have books and not screens or they can listen listening also and listen without a picture they have to use their imagination develops their mind but now's the problem they already have screens now what do you do okay try and give them an interesting alternative which means I suggest parents girls particularly mother if it's a voice that an activity that takes the kids away from the screen I'll give you an example suppose your daughter's on YouTube okay your 11 year old daughter you say uh okay solid what why don't you come with Bobby to the supermarket and she says well what do I go to a supermarket says Mommy's going to let you pick out the food for Shoppers all right so take her to the supermarket with you she's not in the screen and you teach her how to shop you teach her how to be your prep you're praying or for life okay and at the Shabbos table in front of the front of your her father your husband should be healthy from the kids you say Salah decided the menu and she feels so good about herself and she wants something else you give her another activity and positive reinforcement and let them feel good about themselves I agree with you if you take the YouTube away when they already have it it's going to be temper tantrums and yell on this net has to be an alternative you have to use your imagination and find a good alternative for example I didn't parents okay but the boy's not going to close his YouTube for Gamora but he will close it for a new biker for roller skates a new bike and roller skates that's at least getting his body working okay or even uh one family it told me usually usually in Tory houses we don't have dogs it came to me that they can't they don't know what to do to get the child away from the screen and so I said okay get a dog so he's got to take them out and take him for a walk it's better that he has to take the dog for a walk and play for the dog than to sit in front of a screen because even that's active he's got to take the dog out and take it Forward he comes home from school and it's his dog and the problem taking care of the dog is actively it's also compassion doing something else in other words this is I you wouldn't tell somebody from the kinesky family to buy a dog okay that would do but somebody from families in American family in romantic Shemesh and the kids are used to screens and to get them off the screens you have to give them something else okay yeah there was a second question I guess train your brain okay here's thing in the IDF we have what's called Krav Maga maybe they have it here I think it's come up okay is a way for a person to defend themselves against all types of Judo Jujitsu karate white all types of different when you do certain moves they're very unnatural you do that the first 10 times and excuse the expression you feel like you're uncoordinated you feel like you're a stick man and they do another 20 times after a hundred times doing the same movement that's practicing movement over and over and over the same knife defense do it 100 times over after a thousand times it's automatic okay it's automatic if somebody comes to a knife from this side you're gonna Buckle under his elbow break his arm hit him with the other it's automatic boom boom boom it's got to be after a thousand times could be automatic so I said to myself first time I hear something that's seemingly bad news and I say to myself there's nothing Hashem it's not the IRS so it's a shame maybe the first time I'm scared okay okay Movado they're going to talk to Hashem Hashem help me feel that it's nothing but you Hashem I'll be you not be you a person lives with amuna I'll give you another example people have been hit ler people have been hit by cars and trucks even good crosswalks anybody have a guarantee that they go in a green light in a zebra a crosswalk and some crazy especially now with terrorists and ramming and starting Hashem help me cross the street Hashem helped me cross the street we get we bring Hashem into our lives and we ask Hashem for help in anything and we don't think we know what's up to Hashem before you start cooking for Shabbos Hashem help the food be good before you go shopping Hashem help me find the best things at the lowest prices and I said before you go into do a deal you got a customer before you go into the office you got a patient Hashem help me in this transaction help me give the best prognosis help me see the Cure this patient so whatever we're doing Hashem help me Hashem be with me and we do this over and over and over then it becomes second nature you feel it and this is the way to bring the moon and that we all know in our heads we all know 13 principle in our heads and to bring it down to our hearts that's how we eternalize the moon over and over and over and over and we live our lives with Hashem and Hashem says you want to live your life with me right with you my daughter right with you next question yes okay that some people say thank you Hashem but it's okay this Lamar says that you do something that it's not for hashem's sake and you come to hashem's sake both work good but if a person doesn't mean it better not say it another if he wants to mean it it's okay to say it he wants to beat Hashem I'm not there yet but this is part of my first thousand times that I really believe it that's also I would suggest both I know bravado okay it's not the guy that gave me the insult in front of 500 people in Show but if it wasn't him that maybe it would be a dog to a dog that would bite him or a car it's a getting a stickle insult that's a gift from Hashem see that if someone Serene Seoul we had our giveaway as long as we're in honor of rabbi's Ohio wallerstein and our last night in America for the the books that we had the privilege of getting together with rabbi's higher's books there's our newest book serene's Soul you can get all our books on Amazon it talks about coping with verbal abuse the only way verbal abuse is like a knife and rebutal Hassan says in a way verbal abuse is worse than murder because Percy gets murdered one time that's it no more pain but if a person has been insulted or humiliated every time he sees the aggressor that insulted or humiliated him or her it's like living it all over again and that's why guys the good morning Suva says you got to really be careful with your wife's honor but as a bad guys they hit each other and they forget the next day you ever your wife will remind you of the Night Nurse thing you said 23 years ago she don't forget so don't go there okay don't go there you have to think twice that's and what we're talking about every second not that of every second so I would suggest first I put myself in the immuno mode this is from Hashem this is not for them and then this is from you Shem and you're my beloved father in heaven then it's certainly for the best everything comes from you and who is that you whoever he comes from that's my tattoo that's my view of iship is your mind so if everything goes for you and if it's from my Father in heaven and my loving father in Heaven we said in my reef and we said with hashem's name Hashem and if Hashem didn't love every one of us it would be thank hashem's name in vain and that's a transgression of Third Commandment don't do that don't do that so first you know first anomato and then say thank you to Hashem okay say thank you it's Shem and I'm going to say thank you to the kahila here it was it like to be with you and it's like a candy on the cherry on the cake and uh Hashem look forward to see you next time we're in the United States God bless [Applause]