Daf Yomi Bechoros Daf 15 by R' Eli Stefansky

It's a hero. Ille [music and singing] [singing] >> [singing] [music] >> You know, I know you never [singing] [singing] A number of things. First of all, you guys were singing no. So we had that if you allow us to sing it. Some people I heard even take it out of bir that's where it comes from. But especially if you really mean it that you're I know no I know three times I know for that I hope you all know [laughter] I didn't I didn't I didn't sing it. We didn't they didn't sing by us. They they passing like the other people. So it's good. It was good. >> I sing it. It's good. I like that. >> Yeah. Let's go. Let's hear. >> Ah. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I [chanting] know. >> Wait, wait, wait. >> What does it mean? >> It means uh please God, I am your servant. >> Not bad. What does that feel like? >> Oh, ano means please. like like close close. [laughter] >> Very good. Very good. >> M to you on your second year. Second year in [applause] my voice. You could start tonight. You could do various get a whole weekend. Huh? >> Yeah. Yeah. It's coming. It's coming. >> It was Listen, it was so hard for me. It was so hard for me to find a helicopter ride for him that I had my son marry a daughter of a helicopter pilot and he I actually spoke to him that was one of the first things we discussed and he said yeah of course of course no so also that says that on Shabas like after you shouldn't like shave get a haircut I tried it out today I said like a quick shave [laughter] like seven days of you It took forever. So I apologize to the that's that's why I'm sticking late tonight. Just one one email. Good. I wanted to write to you for a long time but I kept putting it off. Now that has become very very important to me. I truly feel that you and your team are something make me love to more and love sukus more. It's those two. Okay. Here he is. [laughter] >> We already established it's not you are Instead of being a Y where people are looking for things to do and instead of Tyra being something we learn mainly because we have to we're instilling in us just how much there is no joy like the joy of Tyra and how the combination of Tyra and this Yv is the sweetest combination there is said I should have read it what could possibly be sweeter than singing a silk surrounded by such a wonderful group of friends with a glass of wine in one hand simply learning enjoying these so many people who let's just say are far less like than I am connecting to is such a powerful way in sanctifying this it's enormous for me but it's a that comes from love not because we have to and not simply because this is what we're used to doing you see all of you understand that there truly is nothing sweet as writing this with real emotion I'm simply jealous of you I have just one small request will begin again keep thinking accomplish so much is being learned so is a foul Of course, it's not me. I didn't write its peric bay glenn in honor of rebellion and the amazing mdy people in honor of my father das David Hess in honor of all my children grandchildren wishing them and good health throughout their lives dedicated memory of dedicated by Dr. Dental services, the family foundation family gratitude to all the MDY. I don't understand. No bus rides today. You free. >> You good? What happened? Tomorrow. What? Tomorrow. What? Simon weekly sponsor Spanish to the whole family. Dr. Mark Burkson is daily sponsor for the special occasion of my daughter Shashamir's 14th birthday. Sounds familiar. There was something similar recently. I don't know why. Okay. Huh. Last year by means like one day father sponsor an maybe he had another son or kid that just had a birthday month. Rachel's cats in honor of their beautiful children. initiative. Mo Edlas in honor of Mibski mdydaf.com/shik my son tells me that MDY the initiative should really be costing MDY about a million dollars a year that's what it should cost he's trying to lower the cost we're going to have to close it down [snorts] but uh that's what he just told me I said he said 100,000 no 100,000 a month in AI cost charges I the guy that got engaged. Yeah. Uh the guy that got engaged, he came to Shir two days ago and I didn't see him in the audience. I didn't call him out. He said he's going to come back. So will come back. I got it. Yeah. Yeah. Soon. Middle. Middle. Remind me. As usual, the Israelis are coming in a half hour, actually 40 minutes. So, we have a good 35 minutes. We're discussing in the sug has a blemish and then you make a kadesh and an animal that's kadesh and then it has a bloom boom. So we're talking about at first there was a blemish and then there's a blemish and then you made it. So you can't make it tomorrow. What's tomorrow? You can't use this animal as an example and say okay I want a second animal to be like this first animal. It doesn't work. Why? Because it doesn't have doesn't have the And it keeps on it goes onto the asked the obvious question that everybody asks when you read the and when we discuss this you cannot upgrade from a bad animal and switch it into a better animal. So certainly you can't take a better animal and downgrade it to to lesser animal. So certainly does. So why does it have to repeat itself? So the is like this means an animal without a an animal without a you made it. You made it. So then that could be an example. So if you try to change it into another animal they both become meaning if it has a that's how we know it even if you you made it but that's only it doesn't becomera. So why is it taco? Why? Why can't you take an animal that's less and trade it up? Bring it to the base of an animal that's better. What's what's the logic behind it? Not that we go into the logic behind it, but perhaps I mentioned a little bit in the but maybe we could elaborate slightly mish a little bit that when you have a choice in front of you, you have lesser animal and a larger animal, a better animal, whatever it is. So it's your obligation to bring the nicer one to the but once you made this thing, then you're out of the picture. Then you you're not the judge. You shouldn't be judging. For instance, you see a guy in Schul like halfway through Shakus, he walks out and he's smoozing outside for the for the rest of Din. It's not your business to start judging this guy. You don't know how many rins he has to take every day. How you know what kind of issues he has, what kind of trauma it's not that's between him and that's his his two words of of David might be better than your whole big. Why? Because once it's between him and hem then it's between the two of them. You don't judge them. So once this small animal became you cannot sit there and judge. Well I think this should be better. It's already it's too late. It's already between Hashem and this you see that guy's estri paid 10 shekele for it between him and it may be [clears throat] so there's a concept called here this is really for the next but means stand it up on its feet and then You evaluate it. You assess it and then you could redeem it. Stand it up on its feet. You say, "Okay, this sheep is worth $500. $575." So you have to give 575 to the mdish. You redeem it. That's by that's when it it has inherent. But by there's no And we'll see if that's if that stands. It may see what happened if it stands. Oh, if again we're still in the same theme until we say otherwise. We're still discussing the first case of the Mishna where there was a so there's a M and the animal it's not available for the for the MSB and you went ahead and you made it. So it's only for D. What happens if it dies? You have to redeem it. The problem is you have to stand an animal up. A little bit of an issue. If an animal's dead, it's very hard to stand them up. So there's no there's no dead animal. when it comes to there's no There's to begin with even for a dead animal even for Yeah. So since you need if they died, you have to bury them. Who are these? Everything everything even even everything has to be stood up and evaluated. And even if it has a beforehand these are these are things that don't go on a what's not the that we that you put on the you don't put on the like a chicken. Oh, seems to to say that there's certain things that you don't do. You tell me you do for everything. So come to exclude. In fact, you're right. It's a good question. I don't know what to do with it. That if in fact they die, it dies. You have to redeem it. Why? Because on everything. So it's everybody. Everybody says the same thing. No. So if it's for Yes. If it's for the not but the Mishna cannot go like what do you mean you cover? Why do you have to bury? Cuz it has Okay. says who told you that the reason why they if they die it's because they need maybe there's another reason who you're you're you're assuming that has to do with because something no another maybe you don't redeem for to just send it to the dogs. It's another why do you have to say that it's dead even if it's a live animal and a live animal that's a is because it could still stand. Tell me tell me in that you cover the fact that it says me. So you see that the what because even right asked me a question. So why don't you say it goes like everybody? Yeah, you have to add it up. Okay, I want to show you something before you leave. Listen to this. >> But check this out. You ever seen anything like this? It's a meter 30. >> I've never How How many feet? >> Four feet wide >> from Shim Lefkuit. It has like two bottles of something in there of wine. >> It's pratt. I don't know what the other one is. And >> these are like all these drinks and this for the for the offer of today. Okay. All right. So now now we're switching gears. Now we're talking about there was a there was heish. Then comes m [clears throat] which I do. >> Why did he send it? What for the offer? Was it? I thought I said no. I didn't say it was for the s. [snorts] >> Huh? Ask Dave whatever he says. >> Oh, [laughter] you know we need him sitting again. That's is dead in here. >> No, >> no, no, no, no, no. >> Let's just do you are [chanting] sure. You [chanting] know your shel. >> [chanting] >> That is your [singing] [singing] way You know you show [chanting] not sure. >> Oh, now we can learn a little bit. >> So, there's a beautiful video here, but I don't want to show it now. I have to remember to show it later. So, you'll remind me. It's about [clears throat] a mum on on kim. So we have an animal that's and then it befalls a [clears throat] permanent blemish but not immediately that all these things you can't drink its milk and you can't do this and has all the things. So we learned by this is called again probably something we weren't very familiar with a few years ago. What does it mean? It means that you have an animal that's designated for and it gets a now you can't bring it on the so what do you do? It's a it can't be it's it's but it's possible now for the so what do you do? redeem it. But the Torah says it has you can eat it. Eat it. But it's like a deer and like a heart. We said it was some sort of deer. If this animal after it has a it's no longer a regular animal, you could redeem it, do whatever you want, but it if it has a baby, a firstborn, it's not a why it's like a deer. A deer for so says then you have to compare to a deer for everything. Perhaps the famous matonics. Yeah, you remember this me giving the the gifts to to now look closely at this. Look, look. Things have changed. I asked the eye to take the yellow bag out of it. Didn't listen to me. [laughter] Okay. These are the maton. Where's Ley? Lady, >> you got a stick of white since then. >> God, it's the same yam. >> What? >> You're the guy that didn't get older. You're the guy. >> Yeah. And you say you go like this. >> No, that's just because you didn't shave in the last seven days. [cough and clears throat] >> Yeah. So, the second word in the What does it tell me? We know that you eat the fats. There's no forbidden fats in in a deer. This is far-fetched. want to tell me that this animal that was designated for that broken leg for life that eat it and could even eat its fats maybe it's like it's like another says let me see if I even have it yes here only Why would I say that when it comes to there's no but there is matanis why yeah cuz every animal that you give matics but there's not this is something else this is used to be and now you redeemed it perhaps you don't have to give matis because only happens to the firstborn not in every animal very few animals we said already well I don't know what the percentage is 13%. Whatever it is, but should be different than because it it belongs in every animal. So tells us that doesn't give matonics. You don't have to give matonics. You know what? I have to I keep on forgetting and I said it a few times. I have to say it again. Not only to Benny for making sure that everything runs. You have Arna that did all the food, but we have Dave in the house. Dave worked really hard on Sukas. You have Gary. [applause] Gary did a phenomenal job and a Remy and uh many other people, but I forgot to to mention them again. Should I say it again? You have all the you know the editors worked hard, the the even the guys making the the AI. We have the artist to work during not and know these guys worked come day in the morning in the evening. It's a tremendous it's one of the one of the things you sign up 365 you sign up for. >> Huh? It's not a joke. >> Poor guy has a job there and he's doing he's doing two jobs while he's up there going checking the I'm serious. >> He has a job. It's like that. Okay, that actually pays. We said what? Oh, so now the ask a question. If a deer say keep on going. You want to compare to a deer and say a deer doesn't have aar. So there you know there's no if you learned with us if you didn't before that says it's really should be hold we discussed this but it means that a mother and her son do not she ever you don't shaft in the you don't shaft the mother and son on the same day but when you have a deer you could sh the mother dear and her and her offspring in the same day. So maybe you say so you have this animal supposed to be it's not no longer because so now you maybe you could check this it's offspring the same day wait a minute why how you compare this if it's comp considered 100% it's a sheep and if you want to compare it to regardless how before you didn't say the same answer or you're saying oh you should you should you should be able to eat and and then you said no there's a pos but say the same thing if it's regardless it's no so you know let's go back says that you can't eat it's it's fats and therefore I learned from the same word that there's you can't do you can't at the same can't same day as its offspring the word actually just comes from so how do I know that I can't eat the the fat from the word is right going to explain it says blood doesn't say fat how how do you learn fat from What? I really should show the video cuz I see the other ones falling asleep before. There's no video here. Let's go. >> But don't cry like I did. My mom shed a tear here in the Hebrew chair. And I look around. Nobody's crying. I guess I'm the only one. Nah. [clears throat] Okay. I'll show it to you. Time out. Time out. I got to show you something before before this whole thing. I'll show it to you again. Hold on. Just to explain in my sto and the source of having Barry Weber sing for a very long time. And this is this just the level the level the level is. >> [music] >> Yeah. [music] >> Oh, hold on. Just make Dam hungry a little bit. [music] >> Okay. And then of course these two sing and after again to bury Weber he left. He had two more jobs after this. Two more. So he left. I said no. Yeah. And then as soon as he left, Schweki walked in. So I called him back. I said, "You got to come. You got to do a do it just for me." He said, "Okay, Midas, I'm telling you, he didn't even didn't go." Okay. [clears throat] And I know that was under a lot of pressure. Anyway, so now that you know that, now that you know that, now we can go to this. It's a video. Anyways, you have to watch two, three times. Ah, it's Mia. Everybody had him. The frack the whole Everyone else is up and learning and you're still sleepy. What's going to be with you? You're a stipul to the dogs. [music] [music] Because he has a mim. You're giving up on him. >> Still he has a mim. He's still kadesh. >> Come [music] with me. SH [singing] [music] [applause] >> day was so busy to drive the motorcycle to move from >> Wow. and explain why he has. >> Yeah. Yeah. Oh, I I thought I thought >> Barry Weber has yeshiva for for boys that that were struggling are still struggling and he gives he gives a shir every day to the boys that are already advanced I think but and he watches our he gives it to them. He gives it over. It's a it's a life to be jealous of because he learns Tyra. He gives it to you. He has a yeshiva, but he has a very nice pasa. He's and he has a beautiful voice. He's going from making he's not he's not cheap. Seriously, >> huh? >> He's not cheap. >> He's worth it. You get what you pay for. You get what you pay for. Okay. So that we said this, right? Yeah. Because it says so let's go back the So how do you know that the of a sheep that that's you know how to eat it? I learned from the blood. You shouldn't eat the blood. You said you said that it's like a shouldn't be any better than is no better than a deer. and a dear the blood is also you must say when it says the blood it's referring to the obvious question is and it's a beautiful answer question why would the use a word a completely different thing it's talking about the brain that says a heart why why say it means but it said blood what's the answer is because we have a that says like that is like and we have the theorus we say that if you eat you don't get what it says that this carus on somebody eats it's talking about the the fat of a of an animal of a you get the honey crow here we have the pos if anybody wants to here. So that's why the Tory switched from the from the word you think that you only get to teach you two things. First of all that you not eat the fat but that the fat you get. You shouldn't say that it's only it's only says how could say such a thing but he's telling me what is no doesn't talk about the is talking about what is how do I know from the word the word comes from not Even if we wouldn't say the word I would say means like you thought and now it's the word. So the actually comes for if it would have said I would have said it's for okay I just want to share with I thought it's a very cute video I like it obviously you know how everybody tries to show you their grandchild the ugly one and they think it's cutest thing in the world and nobody nobody cares about your grandchild I get it nobody cares but I want to share with you for me yeah of course for me This week was a was a challenging week. I think it was a challenging week for everybody. So just to explain to the right we're making in a couple days and the family came in from America and we have and we have the shirim to then we had a party this that and then I had this just I I so once in a while I'll tell I'll call I'll leave Benny a message like I can't do I can't even prepare. They're not letting me prepare because every two seconds another kid comes to say something. They want to say, "All right." They didn't see me in a while. Yeah. So, here's here's one of the kids trying to get my attention while I'm learning. Put value volume. >> This is what I was going through for 10 minutes. She's whacking the li on the glass. I locked the door so she can't get in. Huh? Oh yeah. >> She the one that said you had a double chin. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. She's the one that also said that the donkey is more comfortable than me. >> Yeah. >> So I'm not complaining. It's just you can't concentrate with them. Boom. Boom. Boom. Anyway, I got this bottle of wine from David Le and it says like this. How old did he say he was? >> 30. >> Oh, 40. >> 46. >> I trust Israel. [laughter] >> 46. He said he's 46 years old. I was able the first time in my life. [applause] So, it's a reminder to it's perfect time. It doesn't get any better than this year. Start right now. What's a shabas? You have the full week. A lot of times you get one or two days and it's a long para. It always starts you off. You know they they say if you can do this you're good to go. But that first parishes is no joke. Again, if you didn't hear it only takes about 5 to 8 minutes. You could do my my little I have my little tricks. I write in my how long it took me. I time myself. How long does it take? So next time I get to it, I look at this is this is a threeminute one. This is a fiveminute one. And then could could I beat it? You know, you play you can play a game. Why not? I do the whole parachute from beginning to end. That's the way I do it. You can do it any way you want. I mean, for the most part, a lot of most people do two times the do. I just want to see an overview of the whole parish. I want to see if there's anything to get to the sh or whatever. So I go from beginning to end and then throughout the week do takes 5 minutes, 8 minutes for Americans. Okay, 20 minutes. Not a big deal. I see some people blah blah. Okay, whatever. You get what I'm saying? It's about 8 minutes maximum. Huh? >> Who? >> I didn't tell them this. >> Do not do. If you do, do not let the guy next to you hear you. It's not nice. It's awesome. >> What? >> What about >> all about they don't they don't realize they're disturbing about a lot about Korea told me this it bothers them like me turn. Okay. Another they do it so loud that everybody could hear them even more. Okay. >> Every year it gets easier and easier. >> What? It's a habit. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's true. That's right. But every every every year gets easier and I'll help you. And it's and it says also that you shouldn't even start your morning s until you're completely done because it's a good thing to do. And many in in the hundreds have started. They're not embarrassed. And don't forget if you ever skip a paracha, you miss a parish show, which happened to me this year, a bunch of paraches cuz I went to America and it threw me off completely. You just continue. It's a good thing to finish it up before. But you just continue like the we got to finish up here. This animal that you made, it was a regular carbon. Then it befell how do you know it doesn't go to let's see the gra oh here we go we're going to dish in the first three words over there not the first three but the red purple red so first of all says it's talking about this right we said at the end the same we saw before you could check it Do not cheer its wool. Do not drink its milk. You eat it. Do not send it to the dogs. Here's where we learn that you don't redeem it. Feed it to the dogs. says, "No, you don't learn from your anything about the dogs. What you learn is that when you that's when you're permitted, you you could redeem it and send it to the dogs." Oh, sponsors. It's a good thing I told the Israelis we're starting late tonight. No, this is there's a special a special school. First of all, I think about and how much he wants me to start on time and I try and this week I was mish. I was like, "Wow, I got this. I'm going to be on time. They're not going to believe it." And then for some sugar they already got in my head, you got to shave. I like I don't know what happened. [laughter] It's like there's always something then all sudden this hurts and that. Okay. Global of the rebellion is on the upcoming wedding of global talking. It's going to be it's going to be a good week. It's going to be a week every night. It's going to be interesting. Afterwards, it'll be go back to normal. Why is this milker after you redeem it? Let's see if we can find this one. Yoshi did a new one for us. Maybe this. Let's see. Yeah. Yeah, this one. Love this uh timeline thing. Zoom. He made it yellow. Then he redeemed it. Took the money. So the kadushi goes into the money then oh so she became pregnant and she gave birth after the pion. [music] What game is that? Mario, am I? Oh, at least [laughter] am I. What's the problem? It's It's like a It's like a a deer's offspring. We said We said is like a deer's offspring. It's like a deer. So deer has offspring. It's fine. Oh, so we have to say I don't know. We should speed this up somehow. But the point is that the pregnancy happened before the pion. Everybody's watching. Good. Boom. Oh, here's the pregnancy before the redemption. Then came redeeming. Then came birth. What if they gave if she gave birth before the redeeming? then it's actually how do you know that if they were born before the then they call it this is referring to I wonder if I have the let me just make sure that I showed everything here oh wow okay I I'm not going to show this video again I showed it on on Friday to the Israelis this one with the because it and it's like the end of the the it's not to us anymore. That's it. We're in the new year. >> No, it's already between us and now. [clears throat] Okay. Says the word the rabbit is of lad. You you could uh you macro the the offspring is a that if you do again what's you take you say I want this animal to be instead of this animal then both animals you're m they have that they all they don't have any blemishes and the doesn't have blemish so it's how do you know that there Should we stop over here? >> Have a good We'll try to be more on time from now on. [music] Merit disclose of spreading Torah throughout the world. 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