Daf Yomi Bechoros Daf 44 by R' Eli Stefansky

Good morning. Welcome. Welcome to all the guests. I guess I'll give a a little a small warning here. Last night we had I want to say like 20 Belzer Ber maybe even more. We could check the video I don't know 15 20 30 standing in the back and I I gave a warning. I said you know on B there might be some suggest that are not 100% appropriate for children or for and in fact when we got to bay a lot of them walked out. So, I'm giving this warning now. I do this uh when we have interesting sugas and uh maybe I'll say it later for people that skip the emails as well cuz sometimes parents get uh bent out of shape. Hi Rebi Stfansky, my name is Usher Becker. I grew up in Elizabeth, New Jersey. Now live in a Shamir. It was unbelievable to see [clears throat] I mean it was like a busload of they just came in together. They all it was their mi shabas activity outing and they like they they said they liked it. So I asked him if they want to do a um satellite location there. Satellite location. >> So another bells are nothing to do with them jumps up. He goes I want to make a satellite. Where do you say he wants to make one? >> Where I'm bel I want to make a satellite. I said first make by them by the here and then we'll talk. My name is Ash Beck. I grew up in Elizabeth New Jersey. Now live in a Shamir that's here in Bes. I've been giving a sh for the last seven and a half years on Zoom to Havas Torah in Anglewood New Jersey. been learning to do since I was 12. In 2005 was the seventh grade to see Mashas and he ended up getting a ticket going there to see Mashas. The next day in seven in seventh grade he started also my first day of getting to the guys in Engle was last cycle just a few days ago. It's unbelievable exactly seven and a half years ago. Give giving a shir for seven and a half years. just wanted to comment on your okay but love your shir he says love I like when say this love your wishing you lots of and >> huh >> there's a big contingency in that show that does that doesn't die from us >> with us oh so we're taking away from him it's not good >> to my dear Rebian teacher oh this is from duty braver very nice email at a shabas gathering for donors of arim held ator in a dear Y' approached me and Gman who looked like a true and asked to share something personal with me. He told me that last year he went through an extremely difficult period in his life. He experienced a deep personal crisis that caused him to leave Kyle. For 6 months, he found himself shut away at home all day with only one thing remaining as his guiding light, a desperate need to maintain some kind of spiritual connection. In midst of the darkness, his wife convinced him to leave the house just to attend your shir rebell and then return straight home. He agreed to a request and day after day for six consecutive months he attended the shear faithfully. He sat quietly aside and listened occasionally you would smile at him. He shared with me that with remark remarkable honesty you know one thing other than this year I did absolutely nothing during this entire period but the consistency of attending she kept and slowly rebuilt me without any psychological or emotional therapy. Eventually I got back on my feet and returned to Kyo but I will never forget his final words. Today I learned the entire day with joy and freshness with real friskite. It's not just this year. If not for this year, I would probably have ended up hospitalized. Personally, I feel uncomfortable telling Rebell this myself. So, please be a messenger. Please tell him that he saved me and my family. I owe him tremendous. Thank you. I fulfilled his request and deliver his message. I want you to know the incredible miracles and wonders accomplished through the he such tremendous dedication with war regards and immense appreciation. Duty brain mark. I enjoyed what you said yesterday about don't look back. Keep looking forward and moving forward. how we shouldn't let our past hold us back from continuing to grow. I'd like to share with you something I saw in the in the of which is said by I thought it relates to what you said. We say remove the sun from front of us behind us. The sen in front of us is clear. It's a click of the mouse. We shouldn't make the outfits at all in appropriate. They won't breathe and move. The funny story about someone we shouldn't say and that's what cost your business deal. We should turn down. But what is the southern behind us? That is our past. Those mistakes we made in our in our insecurities that are now whispering in our ear. Who do you think you are anyway? You're not so firm. The next step of growth isn't for guys like you. Just give it up. All of this is false and our mistakes in the past do not prevent our future growth. We therefore ask Hashem to help us overcome the s of the past so we can continue conquering new levels of growth. I thought it was beautiful thought and also one one small that I like to say once in a while because there's a person who told me I said but why do you talk during kadesh why do you talk dur says says okay I'm going to I'm going to try talking not kades I'm going to try so I said no but did you try he says it's embarrassing like people know that I talk during kadesh how can I stop all my friends are going to look down on me this is what he tells me am I show this there such thing that people have a bush what I'm going to I'm going to come to and start doing with my papers in the middle of people going to say what happened to this guy became a fa guy [laughter] no people have I'm going to open up a gar now when I'm known as the biggest batlin in the world I never opened up a garra it's a busha for certain people it's a busha yeah you have to overcome that busha for two days >> and then it's you're the one that you're going to stop talking you're going to Tell somebody new in in the middle of when you're the biggest smooer in Jo. It's embarrassing. Yeah, it's a little embarrassing. I hear there is a Tina. Don't look back. You got to look forward from today on I don't talk during kadesh. I thought it was a beautiful thought that ties in with your message. I'm not trying to advertise the one I enjoy using and thought it was worth sharing. Cult of mi wine ribb. I'll skip here. I don't know what that was, but I'll skip. >> This is in time. Let's do this again in Tom's River. Look, look how many people showed up. >> It's a nice crowd. A very nice crowd. Thank you and pizza place. Not even taking food. Look at this. Mom's all learned. It's >> beautiful. Beautiful. Mom is beautiful. And this is our boys in Staten Island. Staten Island. Check this out. [laughter] [clears throat] >> It's very nice. Very nice. >> Wow. >> Okay. Beautiful. The special NDY edition of Verin is coming out soon. There's three new satellite pickup locations in remote car. Should I just do that email? I'll just do it real quickly. I don't know what it was. Let me just see one last one. Good evening. Thank you so much for your show. I hope it's okay. I'm reaching out to you directly with a personal reflection question. For some time, I found myself reflecting deeply on my purpose behind our daily actions. Oh, seeing a way to make them genuinely impactful rather than a matter of routine autopilot. Your recent share captured this exact dilemma, articulating the core issue, a lack of foundational knowledge and essentially studies of amuna. My question is, how do we practically bridge this gap? What steps should be taken to cultivate and absorb the foundational knowledge we are currently lacking? Furthermore, how can we anchor this amuna so deeply within ourselves that it remains unshakable regardless of external circumstances ensuring our connection is built on a profound grasp of its foundations rather than mere habit? Thank you. I think it's a very important question just this year doesn't really deal with it so much. We try once in a while we stick in foundational things but that's not our share. I I do think that uh in our dar we're lacking this. It should be it should be emphasized more in in school in elementary school and yeshiva I'm saying it's not my thing you know should deal with it I think there is a lack of basic knowledge like why do we do what we do why do we d why do we learn what's so important about what I think just the basics the basics okay good question Nathan Kamyanski perian the captain children and grandchild In honor of Gish and Elana Kaplan for only continually revealed good MDY MD Krauss in honor of our beautiful children who give us so much. Wow. David Saled dedicated memory of made right. Yeah. >> Yeah. Dr. Nick Sabo, Sheridan Dental Services, the family foundation and gratitude for all you do for gratitude to all the monthly sponsors. the Spanish year sponsors for the week to be able to continue supporting daily sponsors the consortium in honor of anonymous but anonymous with utmost appreciation for your continued support of MDY So why the consortium? It should have been an anonymous >> anonymous. The anonymous consortium follow sponsors anonymous. Anonymous. [laughter] I don't mind doing anonymous just should cost a little bit more. Another $80. Also, nobody's anonymous. And as the more people sign up, the more matches are made. Spread the word. mdyd.com. This week we're gonna have at least two. Come on. I don't know. We got to do it. This doesn't make any sense. >> Said it. You said it. That's it. >> Okay. >> I said at least. >> At least this week. >> This week. Crazy. >> Nine days later. [laughter] I said this week. And not nine days. This week. Mdy. Ben, >> if it was in like only Israelis, we would have like they only go out once or twice about it. >> Your stance of how many like how many times they went out? >> Yeah. Everything. Everything. You know, I don't know. >> Either it's a numbers game or by saying the numbers are off the charts. It's crazy. Talking about 20 something couples a day. A day. couples a day going out and >> 70. >> No, it's more it's more like we right now we have about 70 couples that are actively dating and like >> like more than two or three dates. >> Oh, that Yes. Some are some are 10, some are four, some are one. A lot of them one and done. One one finish, you know. >> Huh? >> It's the effort, not the result. >> That's right. Ink, it's the effort. But in it's different. [laughter] We tried the girl. Let the girl say that. I tried. Oh well. >> Fine. Rabbi right before we start I have to say this again that um might you might feel that it's a suggest that are we're talking about mumim of the body. So we have to go through every single body part and therefore it might not be for you or your children or your bakar Yeshiva. So be aware we're holding we we did a Mishna we did the Mishna of Say it again. Why not? If if a person doesn't have eyebrows like uh 12 lines from the bottom on doesn't have eyebrows or doesn't have he only has one eyebrow this is says means he doesn't have eyebrows is going to say he doesn't or he does maybe it means he has too much I said, "I once was walking around." At that point, I would be also to do that vitam cuz I got shot by a firework right in my face and uh my eyebrows burnt off. That was the only damage at that point. And uh instead of running getting me some ice and whatever. So my wife said, "I told you so." It was Yeah. Okay. So everybody I said, "And what did my wife say?" The whole the whole place like together, they didn't they didn't even skip a beat. told you so. Oh, no. He has way too many here. Like this. Something like this. [laughter] Also we said yeah [snorts] had a special like a spoon that I think he has two backs and two spines. So maybe something like this. >> I can't scratch my back. >> Why are you so bent? >> I have two spines. two spines, you wouldn't be alive. The >> word says you can't live with [music] two spines. >> Let's look at your X-ray. One spine, crooked surgery, half a million dollars. Do you have insurance? >> Half a million. So, what can I do? Salmon. >> Careful. His spine is very complex. >> Got it. >> Now it's crooked the other way. >> Got it. Perfect. >> Boy, my back. [snorts] But the word means it he doesn't have this. The the mission starts off. He doesn't have eyebrows. Doesn't mean he doesn't have. It means he has too many. It's [clears throat] like a unibrow. The word by itself means he has too much means he has too too little. You're right. You have to say when the when the when the Mish is talking about he doesn't have eyebrows, it's working on the word because the word means he has too many. >> [clears throat] >> It says the Mishna, he has two spines. It seems like if you have two spines, you could live. If a woman gives birth to something that has two spines or two backs, it's not considered that she gave birth to anything. There's no unless it's a you're not allowed to eat it. So it says so you see that it can't live. So why does the seem like from the you could live it's interesting we're going to have it now just remember over here it says the word if it doesn't then the he sticks in then you have to say somebody sticks in maybe so he says well you're the famous how could you say such a thing doesn't mean he has two spines it means He's a hunchback. That's what we're talking about. Yeah. If a if a woman gives birth to a creature, a brio that has two spines, it's not a human being. It's not a It's not a living thing. It's not something that gives off tum. So, how do you have an adult with two spines? You don't because he can't live. It looks like he has two spines. Says the means. What does it mean? If you notice, we have in our [snorts] between our eyes, we have a little bit of a wall. We have the bridge of the nose. This guy, look over here. In one in one swoop of one application, he could put the makeup on. Men used to put this um eye whatever it's called, eye eyeliner maybe, whatever it is. Women use it for makeup men just to, you know, like we put cream in the eye. So, they put this stuff. So it means you don't have to go apply it lift up and then apply again in just one one application because he doesn't have his nose is sunken in that's a is going to describe all this he has two eyes up two eyes down one up one down how do you say pel in English >> crossed crossed to the point where he could see the ceiling and the floor at the same time. One eye is looking upwards. So that that stays with that. That's what this means. He's looking in two different directions. Somebody who hates the sun can't stand can't be in the sun. We'll see what that is. And that is eyelashes fell out. So if you notice this last line in the Mishna gives us a reason why. >> Let's go. Let's go. No pun intended. >> Yeah. Mamesh. Yeah. No pun intended. Again, the Torah talks about certain particular mum that's that we're talking about, right? that has these possible iss this this category number two which is it's look you don't look like a descendant of children were regular average looking people I don't know if they were good-looking not good they were normal their heads everything was formed normally once the head is deformed the eyes are deformed the eyebrows eyelashes then you're not but now the The mission is saying this there this third thing this so is in the it says you should be like it's in the it's not a severe it's not like a real the you're but if you perform the it's a good then you have category three which is only the it doesn't look good guys missing teeth over here now the mission says an example he doesn't have eyed lashes eyelashes okay it's in the >> very interesting Because in the meantime they shaved off all their heads. They shaved all their eyebrows. They shaved off completely. And then it's a pu but that's what said you have to do every single day. >> Now listen to this. Just you weren't here last night so I'm just going to How does all this have to do with us? What kind does and have to do with us in 2026? We don't have a bas to be a kipper. These are things that could puzzle a person for for I'm not sure about but yeah we said everybody in both people could be yeah and now I I don't know the guy doesn't have teeth he can't I don't know but the says on a day-to-day basis also you shouldn't be a you have one of these mim but it just means that you know no I'm fix can't be these you know it's a a guy missing >> what yeah he's fine he's fine I can't build you any >> other reasons I can't voice sing. [laughter] >> He has a good voice. He has a decent voice. I heard he danc No, but the the Mur brings down if even better. Okay. I got to tell you this Mr. Bur I said I told no by me Friday night. So I said I said I have an interesting that if if you scratch your back with a a back scratcher, you shouldn't use the same one on chabas as you do in the weekday. I showed him I have two back scratchers. I have a red one for Shabas, a blue one for the weekday. He said he never heard this. Show it to me. Show it to me. So I came to his house after Shabas uh on after on Shabas morning. It's in says he shouldn't scratch your back on Shabas. So Mishu says, "But if you have your special tool, special one for Shabas, you could." And I open up his Mishu. It's underlined in his Mishu. He underlined it. He himself >> that's very got a phenomenal memory. >> But his entire Mish is underlined. He has like on every page at least one or two from beginning to end. He he ran he did the whole Mr. Bur. Very impressive. >> Underlines. >> No, I didn't say everything. every the interesting things on every page such as you need a special back scratcher for shabas. [snorts] Anyway, if his nose is >> indented is uh there must be a better word. Sunken. Sunken. I love it. No, no, no. That's >> Yeah, sunken. >> Why is that better than indented? >> Because it's a better word. It's sunken. Because shakua is is the word means sunken, I think. >> Yeah, it's a sink. Yeah. >> Yeah, it's it's a better it's a better >> I think. So if his is uh his nose is shrunken, small. So this is interesting. He doesn't have nostrils. They're closed. Sealed. Sealed shut. I have a great picture of it means his his nose is drooping down. Check this one out. There's a real There's a real There's a real animal. It's not true. That's all. How do you know all these things are a problem? The extra has all these interesting noses. No means that he's missing that he's missing the whole bridge of the nose. I think you exaggerating a little bit. It means that it's sunk in. It doesn't have to be one one one shot. It's it's different than regular people. Then it's a it's of my stain of lal. So this is a very easy and almost like repetitive. We could do like 20 lines here in a minute. What does it mean? Two eyes up, two eyes down. It means he's looking upwards. He's looking downwards always. It means that he's looking in two different directions. That's the fourth one. Fourth one is I see the room and I see the the attic all at the same time. So what's the third and the fourth? The third and three and four are the same exact look at this. His eyes are in his forehead. I've never seen a person like that. But this this would be a little bit of a [clears throat] or like this. His two eyes are down below. Physically, one eye is on top of his head, one eye is in the bottom. But if his eyes are exactly where they're supposed to be, not he he's crosseyed. Cross crossey to he up and down. We'll talk about side to side also, but it's the same idea. How do we know these are all no good? Anything in the eye? Where's the care? Means all these things that are have to do with the eye. Now, two up, two down, one up, one down. And he sees two different directions. He's talking to you or the other guys thinks he's talking to him [snorts] crosseyed like this. Maybe that's a person's blind whether he's blind in two eyes or blind in one eye. How do you know if he has white speckles or he has constant water dripping? How do you know that says a beautiful I need all these different mim here we go these are all the words we're going to learn from each one a different type of so the first one is you see over here in the picture he has no eye at all the socket is empty see this white in the socket so we're going to start from the worst go all the way down even to the the least. I need all all these. He doesn't have eyes at all. They're out. They're gone. So that's a big that's the first thing we're going to get rid of something like that as a says here a little bit more than we knew. Guy that has he's just not he can't see. He can't see in the whole eye. Nothing. I mean, I guess it's very um >> blurry. Very cloudy and blurry. So, let's consider he doesn't see >> cataracts. >> Yeah, [clears throat] he has eyes. I think it's not a M. Look, you look at him, he looks good. No, that's a is what we do to word because he doesn't see at all. But let's say he sees, you know, half. There are people they see only to the right. They'll see only to the bottom. But he sees what he sees. He sees clear. So maybe that's not a that's not such a big. So that's what I learned from Doc. He's missing some of his vision. Look how many things could go wrong in a person. There's so many different things. Hundreds and hundreds of things that go wrong. And that you have a baby that's born with mameish every all 10 fingers and toes and sees well and hears well and the whole thing it's mish need some [snorts] >> huh be grateful >> m is grateful we have to say uh we take it for granted us we can walk we talk we see here so many people suffer all these little things little big things So this is the remember that a little bit of the white goes into the black. Now it doesn't affect his vision at all. It looks terrible. Actually it does. I thought it does because >> black does. >> Yeah. I know. It seems like doesn't because Oh, that's why I actually saw that they're saying that it goes into the the color of the like the person has blue eyes. It goes into that part, not so much into the black. But we said even the black because it looks terrible. >> This billable. Yeah. It's it's mixed in. It's a mixture. It's blended. It's a marble means that the eye is in a different location. One is up, one is down. Or they're both up, both down. Or that they focus in different directions. That's also part of means um crossside. I don't think that's not a So now we're going to do and everything for two lines, one half lines anything has to do with blindness is that's the second word ish. The fact that you don't have eyes that's already in the beginning either is if there's a a lack of vision in any way. In other words, 50% not zero 50% that we learned from when the eye looks difference not solid black solid brown around the black solid white there's some mixture that's and if the eyes are in they see perfectly they're just in a different place where they're supposed to be in the in the sockets of the eyes are in different places of the on the skull that we learned from you know >> a bunch of these culture test is I don't need either. >> Yeah. Yeah. I know. But it goes in. You wouldn't know what to do. If you started from the last one, you >> should assume that's blind. >> If if you knew for a fact that is means that it's crossey, then all these we wouldn't need. But what we do is we have to start with the worst. So ish e means no eye at all. And then you just keep on going. Yeah. It's what is it called? Whatever. >> No, no, it's like just in order. Somebody they can't I had a crazy misa that happened. I know this person. I know my daughter's friend. I hope they're not going to take it. I'm saying it as a unbelievable messa. I saw with my own eyes. Well, I don't know the first the first part I heard from my daughter. Her friend, a good friend davined. This is what she ded for that she was pregnant. She her daughter shouldn't have black hair cuz everything but black hair that was go I don't know she black hair her daughter comes out born white white white >> I think it was I I know this kid white hair >> albino >> but I don't know if it's albino albino I don't know if what the together is I have to ask my daughter the hair was like albino yeah could be albino why am I saying this does does it's like wow this is what you're diving for like you could diving for like you know this is what bothered her said okay you don't want blackheads no problem no black but albinos these these kids they they have a loss of pigmentation so they're very very sensitive to the sun they always go around with the the sunglasses so can't can't be in the sun any sun what Look at this place. >> No, no, no. >> Oh, that's why they have England. >> Yeah, they they have a lot of them. >> Manchester. >> He moved to Manchester moved to Manchester because >> I mean he could sit down to say that. Okay. >> His son of sunlight >> and they told him Manchester there's no sunlight [laughter] from >> Wow. Wow. Wow. And what does this say for all the people that live there and they don't have uh >> Wow. >> And there's some people some people that need the sun very badly. They go to Yamamelo Bas. You're on a flight. >> He's I don't know. He's not on a flight. That doesn't look the background doesn't look like tonight. >> Maybe he's in that flight that has like a a bar in the middle of the [laughter] >> Oh, we have to say to Penny Gilden is Yeah. Zagdon. >> Zagdion. What's so instead of saying what it is? So says one eye like mine, one eye like what are you what are you putting me in this thing? Why you call me a what's going on here? So says Yeud's eyes were weird different. doesn't go on to explain what he's the tallest guy in his generation. Super tall. Rauna was super short. Didn't look different than everybody else. He was a large person and he had very large eyes. So rauda was that that's what the says that the he was saying oh a small a normal eye like me like Rahuna and a giant eye like you that's a that's a what are you throwing me under the bus like that you call me a because I have large eyes okay that his eyebrows are very long this is what we're looking for what's a zag you just said a zag done is like a large eye. Different different shape eye different size eyes. No, one eye is black, one eye is white. It's not even what >> eyebrow eyebrow. Yeah. Okay. The eyebrow is one is black, one is white. So it's not even the shape of the eye. It's the eyebrows. [clears throat] When you have Interesting question that I asked. Think about this for a second. I know a lot of people you look at people they have like a little let's say dent in their ear. A little like some imperfection in the their ear lobe is attached to their whatever it is a little imperfection a little I have a friend that has like a little kvetch on his left ear and then his kid also little kfetch on his left ear. Let's say the husband, the father has a ketch on his left ear and the woman's earlobe goes like this. So question is it possible that one kid will get the left ear from the father and the right ear from the mother? Think about this genetically speaking you say yes. Okay. Oh, no. This is genetics. This is like we know >> different things come from the father and different things. Mar the pette square of what's the dominant trait and that will fall down to the >> red but I'm saying is the dominant trait does go to both ears or each ear is an individual dominant trait. So ear right is mother dominant and therefore he's going to have a little bit like this and ear left is going to be like this. I also thought no and the answer is yes. >> It's possible. >> Who says >> I looked it up? I asked I I had the >> Shiloh said because we have like it's always >> okay so you guys look it up. What does Dr. Epstein say? >> Hey. >> Is it a It's a good question though. >> It's a good It's a good sh >> Um I I have a Rya. I have a Rya. I had this Rya. I have a friend that his ears both ears are he doesn't have a lobe. They're both they both touch. So most of his kids have the their ears are like this. But his wife has, you know, a little thing. So he has some kids like that. And he has one kid that's one and one. And that's where I I c that it's possible. Okay. I call him say like this. Anything that we have in our body that has two we have two legs, two arms, two eyes, two ears. If there's a difference in size in the ears, if one ear is like this and one ear is like that, that's a m. If you have two eyebrows and one is black and one is white, that's a mum. So a male if you have two eyes one is large and one is small that's a m it doesn't matter if it's eyebrows if it's eye sockets if it's ears so don't ask questions says that's a zag zagd say oh it doesn't mean the eyes rahuna and yehuda's eyes one is small it means eyebrows you're right it means eyebrows and it means ears it means toes and it means hands if one hand is longer than the other by a lot so you're a zakd couple's hands are sense >> the couple itself is a zakdun Yeah. Big time. >> Yeah. We're not going to say which one you thought referring to. >> Huh? >> Like it's noticeable. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We said you can not measure not measure with a laser. No measuring tape. When you look at it, it says, "Whoa." One ear comes up to here and the other's up to here. [clears throat] Roundish eyes. Vitron is very one is round and one is rounder like more. Here we have three that are in the same category. A little bit of tearing a a lot. Varus tremendous amount of tears. What is What are these things? We have We have good stuff here. Oh. Oh. This We didn't even see this one. This one is interesting. Don't be afraid. If you follow all my rules, you will control the tiger. [music] Rule number one, always look straight into the tiger's eyes with both eyes. A direct stare. That's how he knows you're the predator, not the prey. Understood? >> Understood? [music] >> [screaming] >> You see, direct stare works every time. Zarzer. This is a Zarzer. Okay. Buffion. If a person has long eyelashes. >> Where is he? Where's my Luffian? Oh, here. Luffian. Long eyelashes. The deficient ze. Sorry. Yeah. Oh. One is oh what is he has long eyelashes doesn't have any like on the right side [cough] this is a we say I even pointed it out why is it it's not why you calling it If you have roots left over, it's only the is when it the the roots are removed. Says large like that of a calf or small like a goose. These are all misproportionate disproportion misproportionate disproportionate body. In other words, he has a like a a papey almost, you know. I didn't really have the supposed to see, but I saw pictures. Small body, giant arms. [snorts] Here we even have some pictures, I think. Yeah. First of all, here's um where's that guy that was mish massive? Oh, he has little hands a little bit misproportion disproportionate to his body. Very long hands. Okay. Varv. He has here something like this. Stick a larger than normal. Another guy has is smaller than than he than his body. [snorts] What's is that? Oh. Oh, this is I like this one a lot. This [laughter] a little tiny ear. I wasn't to say any of these. Oh, this is good. So, first of all, you should just know that there's something called cauliflower ears. They look like sponges. The fighters have this. The the guy uh Bronstein from I forgot his first name. Willy Bronstein. Brownstein. Brownstein from Chicago. He was on the United flight that uh that crashed and 150 people got killed. He survived. Sous City, Iowa. >> United Sous City, Iowa. Terrible story. very traumatic experience. He's by himself flying all by himself. His parents put him on the plane to go to another city and get a home where a guy next to him switched seats with him, asked him to switch with him and he switched and that guy got killed. He survived. Oh my he comes to learning yeshiva here and he got ran over by a bus surgery and the whole thing very very traumatic hard life. So I see him one day and he has colle like his ears like what's going on? He's like his forehead. He's a fighter. He's a real MMA. Like you he's a firm guy, but he's >> what? >> Fighting cages. >> Yeah, cage fighting. Anyway, this is what it looks like. And they take it as a pride to them. It's like, wow. But anyways, I like what Yoshi did here even more. It's more like a sponge. [laughter] His ears look like a sponge. He didn't make a picture for this one. His upper lip is larger than the lower lip. Something like this maybe [laughter] here. This guy raised his boom. Oh, his teeth fell out. Apostle blame our side. So no, this goes back. I asked the question yesterday, but I don't know you guys that didn't come out, you might not know the answer. If you guys you guys very important to you guys. What if you had a hair transplant? You want to work in the B mikdash? You feel >> because you want you don't have a M. >> It's bad. >> This is the argument I had. It seems from the it's not good to have a M. You should try to get rid of the M. It's not that Hashem made you a certain way. you live with you don't uh so what if what if you your teeth fell out you know it's your bum and you go and get dentures I'm asking if once you're can you undo the mum and if you get a hair transplant are you considered no longer are you no longer consider we got to emphasize it >> what you >> yeah but you look good you look good it's about looks >> it's not yeah it's more you done with the marine Right on it, you'll see that I'm right. >> What if what if a guy gets Okay. Didn't want to have tooth taken up cuz he would be positive for some. >> So he's saying you bring it right that you could have put a new tooth in. >> He said as long as you leave one or two teeth. It's okay. >> Yeah, but that's a different story. >> No, he says all his teeth out. >> He said, >> "Okay, but over here we're talking about looks." Looks mar looks >> it's not it's not appropriate >> plus >> I don't know I hear but what's tell me tell me logic why it's about going to the basic to performing a fight in front of not looking good if his teeth are perfect >> it's not his teeth so so what it looks good >> oh so the it's not it's not the >> oh you're saying it's like putting on a he's saying very good he's saying like a bold guy putting on a it's Not okay. I hear I could hear now. Let's do this. Very very simple. An is from here to here. So if a person is a giant like Mohab was very tall. So from here to here. Now the a person is only three of these. This is approximately 2 ft. So I'm about 6 ft from here to here. Okay. So his from his elbow to the tip of his finger at three of these in his body, however tall he is, doesn't matter. You're three times right. So if if we go like from here to here then the Mishkan if he was 10 tall. So how tall is the how tall is the Mishkan? If you're going by based on his from his elbow to his tip of the finger 10 [snorts] tall Mishk wouldn't be good. It should be three. Let's see if we're going by his by his >> and yours is different. >> Right. If we're going to go with the measuring tape, that's the Gar's answer. But if we're going by, we have a little bit of a problem. He himself, the Gar proves from here since he did this himself. He put this whole thing on himself. He must have been 10 tall. He didn't have a ladder. He didn't have a a stool, nothing. Put it on. It says that the the was 10 tall. So me the question is it's disproportionate it comes out if if the mishk is 10 that means his hands were very very small it should have been only three because from elbow to this is only three three times his his his height he had small hands over here he sticks in the word you say such things I'm talking about regular of It's not based on has a large nose. You take a small pinky and you put it over here. And then you see so just says what do you do? You take just like the Rashi. He says at the end how do you do this? You take somebody his height and then you you check his nose the other guy's nose and check this guy's nose. If it's one pinky larger than the other guy, you know he has a What is they didn't know what the word means? Who wants? So they heard a ta ta is an Arab and many times in the doesn't know what a word is and they they say oh we heard a t saying uh who wants they saw that he's trying to sell a goat with very long ears. So they realize means very long ears if a a goat doesn't have horns or you have a weird sheep a sheep that has horns you bring it as a carpet. There are things that are but not a you can bring it as a but it's not a you can't it as a you can't say oh this has a say these three things that are not so much we just said in our that is a what do we do it's not a's I'm asking a question very long ear is very this that and all of a sudden now when it comes to to the it's not a says it's a because it's not it doesn't look like human being so that's a special only for it's not it's not a it's not a in the horn there's a bony core there's like a a bone in there. If you remove that bone, you can't you can't bring it as a carbon. Nevertheless, it's not such a that you could redeem it. You can't redeem it. It's in between. You take off its hoof and the bone inside can't bring it as a carbon is such a that you could redeem it. So, we make a distinction between the hoof and the horn. Basically, now we're putting it together. We're bunching it together and that's a problem. If you remove the horn and the hoof and the bone, even the horn you can redeem. We said before the horn you cannot redeem. You can't bring it as a karma. You can't redeem if it you removed it with the with the root. So now it has a hole in its head. That's a major m and you can redeem. But if you just cut it even with the head without removing the the roots, that's not enough to redeem. But you can't bring it as a carbon. Is that you have a paradum that must be 100% red? It has black horns. No. What's wrong with black horns? What's wrong with black horns in a paradum? So the villain says the problem is mar it doesn't look good. Maybe it should be white. I don't think it means it should be red. Although I saw some that try to explain that should be red. Okay. I don't understand. So well cut off. >> Oh, >> we said that. >> But are you allowed to cut it off? It causes a >> Oh, so that's exactly what we're going to discuss. Cut off. Cut off what you can without creating a That's what the says. So we have actually a very nice he did a very nice job here. Here's the paraduma and it has a little black tip over there and we got to get rid of it. So you see over here the blue is what we see the the car but the inside is like there's a bony material. So he says you think cut it off you're cutting above the bone because once you cut the bone so check it out right here there's a black part. So chop off over there. Good. That's great. Now that's caution. If you you cut off the uh thing you pass. Now what you you do such a that your latter redeem is when you take out the sh you take out the actual the the root itself. Hello. Let's get take it all out. Now there's a there's a hole left over and that would be puzzle to the point where you can't redeem. This is the place where parents uh could have their children whatever um yes >> sponsors healthare global national financial services have a safe flight. Thank you. Rebelling Steven Schwarz my parents Millie and J Schwarz says a man the chest is like that of a woman. So it's a crazy he has a problem with his stomach. So they explain he's not heavy just he has like a weird it pops out >> protrusion >> protrusion not not not fat cuz there's actually certain that you're supposed to do with heavy it's not a m >> but he has a boy said this is unbelievable I bet you there's people in this room right now that have this >> hernia no like no >> heria >> oh that you're talking about crazy I'm already holding my belly button is Audi >> Audi mum, you believe it? >> There's a massive amount of people, like 10 15% of people that have this. >> Obviously, none of your kids have it. Great. [laughter] Epilepsy, even. It's only every so often. I bet you there's people in this room that have this sugar in the cup of once in a while. He gets a little bit of a large bait larger than normal and a larger a was talking to my son yesterday. He I had no clue my memory. He said um he said you learned with me from beginning to end from my barit. I did we did a together because we were learning in seven and a half years ago. That was his barit. So he says, "Are you holding back?" [laughter] He tells me the This is a not this one. Look, there's going to be a story here that no one is ever going to forget. One of the most famous stories in everybody's going to remember this. You could go to the bathroom. We're talking about to urination in front of in public super [laughter] even non-religious people. Super super mock are you only the thing from that's the only one I'm a taxi driver I'm very m that what's going on here because we don't understand so much in today's science but the understands that if you hold yourself back going to the bathroom it could cause infertility and you can't drink like I just did in public. Now, I was getting all nervous. So, I have a Tyus right here on the DA. The Tyus says, "Where is it? You could look at it by yourself." [snorts] >> No, not this one. This one. He says you should look away. Cuz people don't usually drink water. But today, especially in America, half the soul is drinking, right? It's like everybody with their with their drink. So it's not a problem anymore. He says, "No, but wine not a problem to drink. It's water that nobody drinks." But listen to this. There are people that are more than usual. You don't have to. But if you're you're you're more of a person, you don't drink, especially not out of a bottle like I once did. Then I got all these emails. I was stuck in a place, you know, on a vacation. I didn't have a cup. Oh, you're more refined. A refined mench drinks. Doesn't drink in public. But a refined person should go to the bathroom in public. That he has to do. That's what he's saying. Don't be a big cause damage his body. We learned there's a story. He didn't he didn't relieve himself. His belly popped. We're going to see in a second. So remember the story says not he was giving but not the of the year. Thousands of people came from all over the world to hear and he had to go to the bathroom. I remember this. I was maybe I saw a picture of it. Maybe I didn't see it live. There was a like in the middle of a football game, a big game or whatever and they had a somebody had a so they put sheets all they they they just and this m what happened they put a bunch of sheets and he went to the bathroom. Imagine if I did this here in the middle of it would m be great for ratings. What >> not great for the he came to his father. I'm going to pay you 400 which is you know the gma number. We're going to give you a tremendous amount of money visit go repeat the story. In other words doesn't mean go do that again. It means go tell your that what you did is wrong. Why you okay very good you're have people that have she and they're going to do things for you. Great. But a person a a regular human being that doesn't have a gab and it doesn't have this what he should he should put himself in danger because he's going to learn from you to do that. So you should tell them that what you did was wrong. This is the story that uh you can't forget. He was walking across a bridge and all of a sudden he had to go see he went off the bridge and they told him your mother-in-law is coming. So he said budna I'll go in her ear nowhere else >> I know but they say listen never mish in front of her it has to be done but it's a lion of a very strong lion like if you have to go you have to go >> nowhere else to do it even in the ear that's >> nowhere else >> of course nowhere else >> if you have nowhere elsewhere else >> they did a little the Israeli loved it I don't know if is going to like this very much this This is Ben. I used to live right behind this Coca-Cola building. It was still there when I was a kid. outside when I see you outside [cheering] V. So I I have to tell you that we had to hold these artists back. Their imagination was going there. Got a few other ideas also. Okay. >> I mean, we're we're still Okay, we got to do a few more minutes here. I'm I'm just not sure. Where do we stop here? Okay, we'll stop over there. Let's Oh, no. No. So Gar just goes back. We have to know the is going back to the thing. Remember I totally remember that he he held himself back and his stomach popped. How do you know his stomach popped because he held himself back that what is it called in English? Um aluka >> a leech maybe drink a leech. They say over here you go you go all these do not drink from the water. It looks so like like you did in Switzerland. Oh so that could be it's okay. Here they say it's dangerous. They have and somebody said, "Yeah, my friend was hospitalized. He drank straight out of the thing. You have to boil the water." I call upon him. Maybe he drank a leech. And that's what says when he went to the bathroom was dribbling in a way that you see that he had two problems. First, his stomach was bloated. Plus, it was dribbling. So, you know that it came from holding himself back. A person has two like pipes or whatever. there's a little layer in between. So talks about this. He says look we know from today there's only one pipe for both. So either you're going to say goes with the but others bring a that the knew about this and they prove that it says mafur that's one. I looked it up in mikv there's a mission that says it's one. It says Mafur over there that if a person didn't go to the mikvah he's about carry he's with his wife he didn't go to the mikvah and and then he urinates then it makes him tame so you see it's one pipe I call upon him so maybe it's something inside his body where they're two different pipes when they come together sort of and over there it's a very very thin layer separating them and that's what we're concerned that's going to rupture what you spoke about this seven and a half years ago >> I know and I spoke no I probably spoke about in also I have a similar thing I think I remember yeah a membrane it's thin membrane definitely the because I I was telling my when we learned this I said the says I'm telling you says so person has to go if it ruptures this membrane he'll become sterile when won't you have a problem with and is when people act like animals. They go animal just goes whenever he wants to go. He doesn't wait for a second. So when you're giving she don't prevent your from going to the bathroom because it could be a big problem. There's a whole gar that says I was in they were all in the shar and they all became a because they didn't get up besides one maybe that says um what was the over there the um something I had I foraw this okay your about children says shouldn't be >> wasted how's I need to show you this is very very important. So says is very very important. When you put yourself like an animal you're you're you humble yourself then listen to this. That's the famous answer. If somebody insults you and you don't answer him quieter then your issue have a wonderful day. Merit disclose of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor Ashir today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor atmop.com.