Daf Yomi Chullin Daf 106 by R' Eli Stefansky

HELLO. >> I've been away almost a month. It's like a schmuck a month. There was a little a little a little of both. The the final trip was it was very much I think I hope we'll see. But I went to in Brazil. It was I never even thought it wasn't on my radar. A few people talked me into it and I'm happy I did it. We have some very good over there that I I wasn't aware of and uh some that I was Rosenberg's with us for seven years but just to see the island there it's crazy this it's it's like I felt like a New Yorker meeting you know coming to Chicago for the first time it's like what there's another city besides New York it's like what there's normal people in Brazil yeah there's thousands of normal from people that dress with white shirts and black hats and also blue shirts believe it or all the types but all all types it's unbelievable. So he went there, gave Shirim Don came to to hear the shim is into it. And a lot of people, many people that I spoke to, they they get the the WhatsApps, they get the videos. Even people that don't do the sh they're they're familiar. They know what's going on. I went visited some raised some money for MDY. There was also a big part of the trip. So to uh my host over there and you know it's just MD the fact that this guy right over here what's his name >> the the quiet guy he bought a ticket I just he bought a ticket for $65,000 to come just to join us but at the end he had to cancel Muti Bellski came on his own dime was very instrumental helped us a lot over there ysy clim our CEO. We we kind of like uh expected from him, but he pays with his own money and he came and he spent the whole week with us. Benny Rdnik the whole the whole week. Um who else was with us? To came all the way from he was m she was uh he worked and he pushed and he gave druses over there. It was very very very positive. So is to everybody to all the people that hosted us. I'll show you. Um we had a lunch. I gave a cheer in somebody's office over there and he said, "You want to eat something?" I said, "Yeah, I I've never had such tasty food." And he got a a catering a catering company. As I was saying, this was probably the nicest meal that somebody ever made for us for the five and uh and his family's Mishbach and friends that came. some sugar. The food is delicious. >> You're going to get watermelon drinks and this clan. Well, that's just the dessert. Now comes the the meat. The meat, the chicken, the fish, the tuna. You don't see all the stuff. Okay. Anyways, many types of food. Unbelievable. He also had somehow I also want to show you we so we left Brazil Wednesday night and we got to Israel today at 3:30 in the morning and um I went straight to part of Davening and uh I'm giving shear now and then I have to give another shear at 2:00. I have to prepare shear. So if I'm a little off a little bit more off than usual. So we we found a room. We found a little hotel in Frankfurt hotel in the Frankfurt airport. Let the people should know that this exists at gate Z25. This 4050 rooms over there they can rent 3 hours at a time. $130. But you can mish take a good nap and a good shower. Check this out. a real room. So we I sat on the bed >> and it gave Sharon the >> You see it or no? >> Yeah. >> Oh, it's working now. >> Yeah, it came back. >> It got jealous from the other one. >> But I don't There's no sound cuz you turn the sound off. It's fine. It's better without sound for this one. I'll tell you when to turn the sound. >> So this is the little tiny room, but it has a shower and a bathroom. And here's Benny watching the I took the picture. put a light on myself >> to my dear Rebi Rebelli. >> I'd like to share with you something I just did because of what we learned today. When I read this this morning, I cried, but that's okay. When I'm tired, I cry a lot. So, it could be go. You might cry also. And I'll tell you why. When you say that you are changing people's lives, I don't think you realize how much my life has changed since I started learning with you. There's a message I sent to my kids. I want to share with you because as a small example of the impact that learning with you has on me. Thank you for everything you have given me through these years of learning with tremendous appreciation your talked ask me to remove his name. Yesterday we're learning about milk and how many hours you have to wait after eating meat. Seems like from the gumar you have to wait 6 hours. those who are make to one hour is because of a the says what the means between meal and meal is not it's immediately after the meal after so the people from the brings it the taz and the shak went on a whole campaign to convince people not to wait an hour to do six hours like the the of the so he writes to his children I don't know if I can read it to their children today is And in today's 105, the Gumar discusses the laws of waiting between according to the mig of most the proper waiting time is 6 hours. For some reason, when I was young, I took about myself the min of the Yakis in Switzerland. Even though, as we all know, we are not Yakis. For a very long time, I've been meaning to tell you that I myself have changed and now I wait six hours between. I'd also like to ask you if you're following this many because you learned it from me, I'd appreciate it if you considered changing as well and waiting six hours. You hear this? The change people make. This is the change I'm talking about. Of course, you're all grown up now and if you are married of your husband and your family, I'm not telling you what to do and you must do, but if the reason you wait the way you do something because you learned it from me, then I would like you to know that I've changed my own practice and I believe it is right for us to wait 6 hours. Thank you for understanding and always being so dear to me. As we enter the month of may all be good health, happy may all be written and sealed with lots of love. >> Many of you know this person. He's a normal guy, a successful person. He saw that maybe he when he was younger and we could all relate to these kind of things that we took upon ourselves for pretty much no reason but we're make >> maybe I should tell my kids about what are you saying >> it's unbelievable yeah I'm going to forget >> you also got a stickle tear there >> I watch you you make me cry >> yeah I don't know I'm serious >> you cry I'm more when I'm tired when I'm tired it comes a lot easier but >> they're belly I'm 17 years old themselves since I'm in school we finished the every year for the last few years and now I'm yes too but I'm sure you know how these things work in the class finishes but not everyone really does it I started learn and then I went to when I finished and this is the first time in my life when I really finished the I can't explain the feeling how it feels for the first time in my life to accomplish such a thing 17 years old I never had such a push to learn till I started joining MDY It's definitely changed my whole look at Tyra and how to fill up your free time. Thank you so much. You should be to bring this good feeling to so much other to to to much others. M a month New York I got to say, you know, I said this in the sh yesterday. I'm going to say it today because it was mazic. I know at least one person and it's going to maz more people. Benny Rdnik learned 20 daf on his flight from Israel to Frankfurt Frankfurt and from Frankfurt back to Israel 20 daz. And I'm saying it because he deserves a big uh a big round of applause, but also it's a tis tis to other people. You know that when you fly back, how you doing? Thanks for being here. What what do you got over here? >> What's your present? >> Oh, I think I know what it is. >> No, it's not a book. I'm not sensitive. >> It's from you. >> I know my book. My book. >> Wow. Let's see what it is. >> Wow. It's a arts girl. >> You made it to arts school. You always been an honest guy. 10 minutes a day to be a better to a better marriage. I don't need this. >> Getting your spouse to understand you. This is what I call a bra. Everybody in this room knows that it's not. You just got to live with them not understanding you. Well, I'm supposed to read this short. >> It takes only an hour a day. Takes only an hour to complete and it takes only 10 minutes a day to improve a marriage to you and your dedicated team for the most informative sensational entertaining and devoted sa Mayor Wickler. Where's the doctor? Beautiful. She have a lot of stuff. So many copies, but not as many as the MDY book. Just right under cuz we're going to be number one coming out soon. Okay. >> I wanted to read more stuff, but uh we got to go. Okay. Breakfast Passam in memory of my little brother Abam Shalom for third year will be missing for blowing. On the plane, Benny looks at me. He's learning suk. He goes, "You're talking to like what are you doing here? It's late at night. You're on Zoom." Sam and Kamilies dedicated to memory Daniel the world's greatest camp director of the foundation bring us closer to and thank you to chief Benny for complete in honor of the MDY family. anonymous for my birthday. my family. The Spanish sponsors Barl Ben daily sponsor in honor of my wife on her birthday. Dan Rubenov, the famous Dan Rubenov in memory of my grandmother in success in all endeavors and protection for all followers for the entire year. Rachel and Alex cats in our beautiful children. They grow in and real is here in the room. Of course, he came for the early shakas that started about what I I thought it started at 6:30. That's the problem. 610 today. And they probably had to get up at 5:00 to get her initiative anonymous. I missed one at the bottom. Uh, day Isaac and Talia Oil in honor of Alex and Rachel. Catz. Is that how you pronounce the last name? >> No. Oil. >> Cats. >> Oil. Not cats. Anonymous. Listen. MDY Initiative. So for all the people that haven't watched this year, and I'm only for referring to one or two who were sitting right next to me. I'll give you an update. The initiative started three weeks ago. >> You were in Brazil >> and and the so far the way it works is ribb >> people put in their resumes and the AI goes to work and decides whether or not there is a match over here. A girl just wrote Matibilski, the one who initiated the whole thing. She's a sing older single girl. She finally she can't wake up to wake up in the morning to see what the computer is suggesting. She's finally getting suggested me about this. They said that the AI finds whoever's comp the most compatible. He said it doesn't make sense cuz it's always opposite the trap. >> AI tell. So hold let me tell you the numbers and then I'll tell you the terrors. >> So over 80,000 matches happened. 80,000 matches. There's 2,000 people, but there's 80,000 >> possibilities. >> And from them, yeah, but no, the the the AI said this one of them we're going to knock off off the bat because it recommended a man for another man. Okay, so that's minus one. But >> right now, right now, 20 couples are going out. >> Amazing. >> Now, it might not work out because of his part. And one of them was in St. Paul, Brazil, and the guy came over to me and he says, "I'm going out because of the he's in St. Paul, Brazil, and somebody in St. told him about it. >> So, we'll see what happens. Oh, and there's a that we're giving $10,000 to the first couple that gets married, but also $5,000 to the second couple and $5,000 to the third couple. So, don't just rush there and then get another date to get the 5,000. And our kids too are of the month. We're holding on. We're holding where we need to hold and we have 10 minutes to do the whole D. No, but really how many how much time do I have? I don't know cuz we had a we had a technical difficulty here. >> We are 22 lines from the bottom of the B. But the good news is that B is only like 10 lines. So we're holding I did not read it well yesterday in I'm reading it over if somebody gets a disease by drinking a beverage that has foam on top. So at the lunch right after we finished the gumra they served me like that watermelon drink with that much foam on top you know it's like for the so but if you have foam from wine what do you do how do you get out of it that gives you that nose problem you should drink a bunch of beer the familiar with the foam on top of the beer what do you do with that mayo drink water the mayo but what if you have foam on top of water that I'm not so familiar with I guess it's possible Leslie Tanto, if somebody gets sick because he drank the phone from a top of water, he's he's up the creek. It's it's a big problem. >> Oh, and this is what people say. The poor get poor, the rich get richer because the poor person can't afford to drink wine. He's drinking water with foam and that's why he got sick. Had he drink some gishmaka stuff? There's a mic. Some have a min never to drink water. That's a seriously they have a they always drink like soda and they mix things into the water. That's more to get to the later but such a vom. I know buter goes after is not familiar. Do forgot I wasn't here for a while. Perfect. >> Also, Raoai, if you're going to do it, wait for my call. I'll call it out. Go. Yo, go go go quick. Yeah. Okay. Here. So, says, "In the beginning, I thought you know, look at this uh this bundle something like this. the the garden with the garden were put together like a bundle of vegetables. So all these things he thought were physical things and then he realized it's more of a thing. How come you don't eat this? It looks like you're you're can't even wait to untie. You just pull one out. No, explain it to me. When you do that then the work on you as the gar is going to bring a story. So this as I said this whole parag is very full of full of stories and full of things that we do on a day-to-day basis. They were on a ship so one of these women said could I please sit with you? No, it's not proper for is fatherly should sit with with a woman. They ignored her completely. So she decided to punish them. She said what is it called when the witches say like uh >> no there's a better a spell. A spell in she said spell. Forget in your books they say those words the words that me and meni could understand. She made a spell and she got the ship to get stuck to the wall. Wouldn't move. They weren't very impressed. And they said something else and they were able to untie it. So she said to them, "I can't even punish you. I can't make any more spells than you." Why? Because you don't do the three things that if people do them, the could could stick to them. You don't use earthen wear as toilet paper in those days life was a big problem and if you saw one crawling on your shirt you just give it a little and kill it. No, you didn't you don't do that because if you do that then could stick to you know here you think it's a simple thing you think it's a joke but when you pull out a leak onion something from a from a bundle without undoing it it allows the kishov to stick to you I'm going to say this again this is the famous in who says that the safer that there were because was good is because people stopped domining. Huh? >> Right. You wanted to say yesterday, but you couldn't. The screen >> he did a few good things, a few bad >> six all together. >> Six. >> Three and three. He they put the safer ra into the garra hidden in different places usually in these kind of sug but somebody like could read this and he could get an idea and he could help people with with rafu in the beginning I used to think is there anybody in this room that's careful when a vegetable falls on the floor not to eat it anymore Anybody? >> The 3second rule. 3C rule. If a vegetable falls on you, you don't eat it because it's disgusting. Especially after the 3 second rule said no. Now, if you have bad breath, you should know it's because you ate a vegetable off the floor. And we're talking about a chronic bad breath. Not because you didn't brush your teeth in the morning. Bad breath. one of these bad breaths, the neb doesn't go away. I'm saying maybe, I don't know, I'm just throwing it out there. Maybe if you know the the source of the problem, maybe you could fix the problem. You know what I'm saying? If you go to the toes and you say, "Listen, I have bad breath." What I do? He says, "Uh, stop eating vegetables the floor." So now you understand why he said it. Whatever. Why aren't you supposed to sit under the gutter? Not the gutter in New York, but the gutter on the roof. >> On the roof on the roof >> on the roof because I used to think because it's a natural thing. Again, all these things he thought were physical things because people spill water on the roof over here. You walk here to MDY. So, there's a guy that decided that his washing machine has to go not into the drain, onto the guy's roof. And once in a while you go there and you get a a a whole thing of of soapy water. Why? He decided goes on every day when he does the the thing. Can't walk in the sidewalk. Yeah. Is you go you know what I'm talking about. All of a sudden you're walking there and comes right out of the pipe. So I thought you shouldn't sit under the pipe because it's dangerous. No, you don't stand there by that's where they like to live. They like to live in the down spouts, in the gutters, in the what do they call them? I forgot what the real word is. >> Drain pipes. >> Drain pipes. Whatever. So, the brings a story for it. Do these uh >> porters. They were they were porters. So they they were shleing a barrel of wine in those days. They didn't have the wheels. They didn't have the tricks that we have. They wanted to rest. So they put it underneath the down spout. It exploded also. Now these are not stamped porters. They understood exactly why it exploded. And they had a why did they go to they pulled out the and they blew the kiss from why? Because bar of ashi it seems like these porters also understood that a barrel of wine doesn't just explode. The ones who are responsible for the explosion in this barrel are are shading. A shade must have done it. They wanted to sue the shade. So you go to what do you do? He starts calling the shade to college. Shade doesn't show up. So he put him in. So the the the shade was nervous. He didn't want to be inim. It's hard to understand why and how. But that's how it is. So he shows up to the basin. Why did you break their their barrel? They placed the barrel on my ear. It was a little painful. You know what I'm saying? It's like smashed it. It's your fault that they put it on your ear. What are you doing in a place that people go back and forth? You're the one that changed the way things are supposed to be. Zil, you must pay now. As far as I know, Shan don't walk around with wallets. They don't have credit cards. How How is he going to pay? So, he has to go Bitcoin. Who said Bitcoin? My brother. Bitcoin. I don't want to talk about this Bitcoin mice I heard. I hope it's not true. There's a mic going around now about a firm person who stole a lot a lot of money and ran away and put it all in Bitcoin. But it could be just a rumor. Hope it's just a rumor. Unclear. Hopefully hopefully it stays unclear. But if not, you heard the story here first. Bitcoin. She says, "You know what? I don't have any Bitcoin. and I don't have any cash. Give me some time to to to figure it out. I'll pay it. Give me a date. He says, "Okay, come back next week at this time." They're waiting and waiting and the shed doesn't show up. What kind is this? You told me you're going to come at 12:00. It's already who knows how long later. I had a problem. anything that's sealed and and you could you could count permission to go take from there. We have to take only from Hefkar only things that are explained. and I and kids are things that the owner is not aware of that it came. It's halfkar and we couldn't find I couldn't find anything halfkar. Oh, so you see from here that don't sit underneath the gutter because that's where the shim are. Here we go. HELP. OKAY. YEAH. OH. He's protecting his ears cuz the he doesn't want anybody to put a barrel in his ear again. So he has his ear. Okay. Another in the beginning some people they take like a pitcher and they don't drink this they spill a little bit off the top like you know they spill a little bit. Why? I thought it's a normal thing. If you look sometimes there's like dust that falls into your cup. Little things fall. If you look closely in a cup you're not going to want to drink the top layer. You spill it off. says these are waters that the shadim drank from and they're very dangerous to human beings. Once the the the shade puts his mouth on it. What's a shade? Shade is a half a human half a theor talks a lot about shadim they were creatious as Shabas came in. So they're like in middle being created so they got stuck in that they they could have relations with human beings. They could they could uh they could have children they there's a lot of interesting things about cham. So I was once friends with a guy I was once friends with a certain person. My father tells me says, "Why are you friends with him? He's a shade. You can't you can't be friends with the guy. He's a shade. Stay away from him." I'm like, "Okay, if you ever run into a person that's like mamish, like he's a shade. You should just know some of you are married to Shayan." I hope I say that about. >> OH, does this help if you married? >> Yeah, this helps for shadum also. So why does it say in the bottom for shade as well? >> So there's a shade that was working for for he was working for him. What good are they? You and you make them work for you. Also has to be my so he told him go go get some water. They didn't have faucets in those days. I'm going to slip the water have a shade free token took his time. Didn't show up. Now these are getting thirsty. What kind of is this? You're late. I needed to wait there until the bad waters of other shad that drink from it went downstream and I was able to get you nice clean water. He he gives them and all of a sudden he sees that is pouring off the top layer. I would know that that's your maybe is a new shed. I don't know. He just started working there. He's new in the job. If I would have known that you pour out the top water, I would have drawn the water. You would have poured out the top layer. You would have gotten rid of all the sha shed water and you would have clean water. As why didn't he just bring the water right away and pour the top layer? So he says that he was nervous from the other shad. He didn't want the other shad to to know that he's giving over the tricks of the trade. Shade them like to put the poison in the water and and and harm people. And you're you're you can't just go against your own people. Here's another one. shady business. >> Oh. Yeah. Okay. We did this. Three lines from the top. Oh. I know I see no already looking at me. There's a famous story that was the time of of when the were what is it called when the go were and people and people were hiding from the guy. They pretending they were not and the guy a guy had a restaurant. guy at a restaurant and he would look at his at his at the at the patrons at the people coming in and he if he saw that they were he would give them a kazer and if he saw that they were Jewish he give him kosher so he's watching this guy and he sees that he didn't wash his hands so he realized right away he's not Jewish so he served him so it says he was Jewish and because this guy wasn't on the first waters. If you're listening to the few past, what's more important to wash your hands before you eat bread or to wash your hands right before bigger saus What do you say? >> Because a Muslim is obviously more as all the pas I we're not so m on it sometimes. Am I more people are than the why? >> No no no. >> No no no that's not but the is more important. Okay. And what happened with the reason why people are not so I said this in I'll say it again what was the story with the famous story that had a few by him and they gave it was the to give your money to the balabas you m your money maybe was over shabas he had a safe whatever he did and when he they came to get the money back he said I don't know what you're talking about you never gave me the money so they went to the wife and they said they noticed that he had like a bean on his mustache. He forgot to wipe his to to wash his mouth. So they went to the wife and they said your husband Keedor said that you should give us the money where you hit it and as a simmon he said that we ate the two of us Keor and my and the wife we ate lentils today for lunch. So she got to simmon she understood it and she gave them money. When he came home he found out what happened. So he divorced her or he killed her. Oh, hey. Hallelujah. Yeah. So says the Gammorra. So that's why you wash my because my you wash your hands plus you go like this to your mouth and you wash everything is great says I'm going just say it again because I said over the story in cheer without saying the name I'm not going to say the name a certain person that I ate by him a few times wasn't so makan he's sitting here on this table from right and uh I'm just saying for you because you didn't listen to everybody else knows the story So he uh it wasn't so mak then I asked him about it. He said nah it's not so not so important. So I went to the store and I got a my thing like a whole uh silver thing and I gave it to him and I was sure that was going to solve the problem and then I again he's not he's not doing so. So I asked him where is it? He says oh where is it? He got a little nervous. He starts looking he starts taking everything out of the closet and it's nowhere to be found. So when I was learning that gimmar, I sent him this gimmar. I just gave a snapshot. Send it to him. So he sends me back a picture of the like as if he found it. I told him, "You don't have to lie to me. I know you bought a new one or whatever. You went to the store. Didn't look anything like the thing I gave him." Whatever. So why does that person Why is he not cuz there's a Ty is not here. There's a Tis thing anymore. >> Oh, Tyus says there's no melt dus anymore. But brings Tyus and he says that just like everything else in the like there's no snakes anymore. And but yet we're on and all the things you should be on that and talks about it and we are on more than also we don't have truma now we don't have this but we by the way the taz the taz says that from now on now from the story of kedor when somebody has when there's a mamzer so the rough calls the baby kedor so everybody knows if you bump into you know he's a mammar and he says the story is The first one the first one wasn't. So let me ask you something. What's worse or they're the same? Huh? What's worse? >> Huh? >> Na is worse. Anybody say is worse? >> You are worse. >> You say is wor because you saw the sh beforeh you also saw the sh before. It's great. So we're asking great kasha. It's more it's more to eat. Why? Because says also it's an says it not just explains this is is worse on the second part killed the woman because she gave the money to the he killed her. They didn't divorce her. And how you going to remember who said what? It's not really for us. But people in that generation that knew the came to bubble and only afterwards. Imagine by us if came to and then came. We would know which one came first. In our minds, we know came first and came. She says that he divorced her also. And Raven says Raven came second. He says he killed her because you can't kill somebody. You can't kill somebody and then divorce them. You can only divorce and then kill. So the divorce happened first and was first and there or so we know that it was that said divorce Robin said he killed he says he takes the two stories and he says the worst of the worst. The the the restaurant story happened was Kazzer the story was that he killed her. Why is more than says but so if you learned one thing today people say oh it's too fast it's this so you learn one thing today I'm sure you learned 10 things but even just one thing has two >> huh >> it's together you mean this before what happens when you have boiling hot water. So I wrote here last time around in my I don't know if that answers your question. Now we had a whole sug yesterday that boiling water you could use for natil. Remember I said over the story from seminary girl that came to my house and she turned on the hot water by mistake. I'm saying just all these stories hang over for these guys. She turned on the hot water and chabas and then she comes out. She goes I had to leave the hot water on for the whole chabas cuz I couldn't turn it off cuz I realized it's hot water and I turned on by mistake. She left my hot water for 24 hours basically from Friday night all the way. So are you allowed to use that hot water? you. What are you supposed to do? I don't even know. She might be right. But I was annoyed at her at the time. Like, you know, cost me $400. This is heating up the water. The whole show is in you know what it means to leave on your faucet for for 24 hours. It's like $1,000 over here. So, so how how's arguing on the we had yesterday? You're allowed to wash your hands for for boiling hot water. And he says says a tisk is a t he's think the the brightest. No what we learned yesterday. You can't use boiling hot water for your hands. you could as he's a special person that used to eat the people in G they would use boiling hot water for what about so what is 60° what's 60° uh Celsius 140. >> How'd you do the math so fast? >> 32 guys. >> 60 * 1.8, which is how much? >> 108. >> Obviously. >> Oh my god. This room is a school for to put you in your place for Anova. I sit with these clowns that know math. Then I sit here with the with the guys that know and they're throwing out you just okay gave you a brain the size of a P. Okay, you got to make do with it. That's what it is. So says your hands in water. You're you're you're on a trip and you're there's a there's a river you put your hands in. It's better. It's It's a It's more effective. There's a special for it. You don't say, but it's more effective than washing your hands. So says, "No, you can't wash your hands with boiling hot water. But if you want to stick your hands in there and burn them, that that's okay. You could jump in like these guys in the mikvah with I don't know how they do it. the the but do not put your hands ignore the in the right now we're talking about the hands you cannot wash your hands for in the water says you can put your whole body for even you can jump in and boil why can't you put your hands in there so makes order over here if the hot waters initially your if you put your hands into the kamit and I have been there used to be I don't know if you guys ever go but we used to go Thursday night they have like a whole massive and I don't know how real it is real what do you say not over here in a big pool and they have ch there Oh, if you do it in you take water and you put it in, it's no good cuz you lose the part and it's boiling hot. So if you you it's connected to you made a channel coming out of it. This is just for chant. Here's kamit fairy over there. And you connect a little pool to kamitia. Now the problem is it could look like a cle. It doesn't look like it's fair. It's its own little thing. Yeah, he's with his fine. So why does Klein go into the thing with the other one says um we're not goer on this. You know what it came to my mind so I'm going to say it over here. I know some people don't watch the email part and also our host doesn't really watch the email part but the amount of work that he put in for weeks before he came and he went out of his comfort zone and he set up meetings with his friends to support MDY and it's very hard cuz I know people ask me if I can make meetings with my father-in-law and this one can you do it and I usually I say no you know it's like it's uncomfortable to go to to the friends and he went out of his way and then he is we're and uh people say, "But why? What's going on here? What do you need?" So, first of all, our budget is $3 million. We have a lot of people that could afford to give more and they don't give. Just this week, a guy said he wants to give a very large donation. After his wife asked him, "How come you don't give MDY? You give everywhere you don't give MDY." He says, "She's right." So, I spoke to him on the phone. He says, "Don't worry, I'm going to give a huge donation, but why? Because our budget is $3 million. But why $3 million? We have 60,000 people that watch this year every day. So $3 million is the budget of a yeshiva that has 150 people. We have 60,000 people. A lot of people say, "So why did Stfansky pay it?" Hal should be if I had the $3 million to pay every year. I would I wouldn't give this to anybody. It would be like the guy from Du. No, the other one from Kalon. He doesn't let anybody. I would self selfish. What would I know everybody knows? But I'm saying even and this coming year we have massive massive expenses way above the 3 million. We have to do a whole seas here in which cost probably like a million dollars and we have to do something massive in America as well. So that's why we're preempting it and we're going out. So if you know people, the big trick is if you know somebody, somebody knows, there's somebody in this room, I'm not going to say his name. He's sitting on the left side. He might have a little kid with him. He he introduced us. He introduced us. It wasn't introduce us to somebody that could give a massive donation. So we went to this house and my laser hashem. All you need to do is make that introduction. We'll do the work. But there's so many people watch they don't know. They're not aware that we need it. So I'm letting you know now here not in the email part. We do need it. It was a tremendous to go to to Brazil. It was not fun, but it was so could help. And we don't have to go to these trips, but we might have to go again. I might have to go out. Seriously, I might have to go to Brazil in a few more months. Abby said I have to go again, right? You never know. But if helps me out, then I won't. You have water that's no good for an animal. Says, you're not going to believe this. like it's true. If you ever went to Kamit, you don't want to drink that water. It's a fascinating question. Listen to this sulfur. What happens to water? That's disgusting. Like, but you're able to boil it down. You clean it out. Clean it up. Pum hold a lot of poison can't use it anymore. Once it becomes fossil it's fossil you can't put it through filtration there. So there's a massive problem here in Israel. A lot of the water comes from the ocean. Ocean water is not kev. No dog in the world could drink that water. It's impossible. You drink it you die. So they filter it out and they make it this and that and they I don't know exactly. >> It doesn't they okay? So you're taking water and you're changing you're changing whatever you want to change. It goes through a whole process. >> Okay. I don't know exactly what they do here. Just but the question let's say it's like that let's say you take salt water you put it on a pot you boil out the salt let's is that simple are you allowed to use the water according to them you're not you're not allowed to use the water it will be a big problem how do you wash with that water from your sink throwing it out give another now people are going to be importing water from America so we have this water that became no good for animals beimul if it's in a k it's no Good. Because check this out. If water is in the ground, do you know that mikvah water even if it's not very uh tasty and you can't a lot of mikvah water today is not and then it it occurred to me imagine the time of mdash when they had these mikvah that were not they didn't come from streams just you know there's no filteration there's nothing like what what happens over there how do they problem If it's ina it's okay. Why? Because water even it's good. >> Reason if you put your whole body in there is going to ask the question how how's it possible you could put your whole body in there and become but not your hands. It must be the story like you see on the screen here that he made a channel. It looks a little bit like a Why in the world do we wash our hands every single day on to make it a routine? to make it a hgle that when the khan when the b of comes their hands should be t for truma see here what's going on here in order that the khan shouldn't mess up when the bish is so for generations thousands of years since the till now even have to wash their hands but this idea of the herle because no matter what the you learn this from the what's the one of the biggest things is is the is getting used to something getting used to doing the daff every day, every day. Every day becomes ingrained. It becomes it becomes like a motor skill. What is it called? A muscle becomes a muscle muscle memory. So you wash your hands automatic. people that were on the derek and off the derek you'll see they come to your house they the first thing they go to this thing they want it's it's muscle memory that that something that never never so the idea is to make many things in your life muscle memory that we're going to talk about a lot in the coming weeks working out eating healthy working your marriage for 10 minutes a day muscle memory another What's the big mitzvah to listen to? So is playing around with the words here. You're saying it's to hear it's to listen to basically what he's trying to say is it's a it's not why anything that is he has the same like you touches you you become you become a and the says and you didn't wash your hands in So we have to understand what this means. You have to go to the forget about washing your hands in the water. This is where you see and that's how knew this. That's why said it's not as what is he talking about? What do you see? It seems like if he would wash his hands, he become. How could a person become tar if he touched the just by washing his hand in the sink? You need to be the is not a real it's nothing to do with the nothing to do with a person a regular person. If you don't wash your hands before it your tummy great. It says in my gummor. I'm reading this for the very first time. I can see it actually because on the plane when I did use this garra, I didn't see this at all. Actually, I didn't use this on the plane. It says over here a kamyanski. So, you look seven and a half years ago, there was a shir in your house. I don't know if it was sukus. I don't know what it was. That's what it says right over here. Why do we wash our hands for fruit? It's just for cleanliness alone. So in the beginning we thought maybe means but there is some sort of mitzvah says this has nothing to do with with this is even non-Jews wash their hands before they eat fruit. of the other. So you see from here that if you try to be mach and something shouldn't be mahm you're balg some people they they take upon themselves these things they go walk around the street they do funny things it's goman says you shouldn't wash your hands at all we have to find out how many times and are mentioned together like they're always together. They brought a whole basket of fruit to them. They ate without washing their hands. They didn't even give me anything. What does it mean? They didn't give me anything. Oh, and they benched each one to themselves. So says, "What do you mean? They didn't give me Why should I give you why should they share? Who says they have to share? Three things. First of all, they didn't wash your hands. You don't wash your hands for food." Now, of course, if the fruit is wet, you must wash your hands. Do you say, do not say that's you don't say you do say, but that's something else. But everybody should wash. If you have like grapes, you just wash your grapes and they're wet. You have to wash your hand. Everybody holds you have to wash your hands like just like you wash your bread. You don't make ze of fruit. How do I know you don't make zon of fruit? Because they didn't invite him to be the third one. That's what he was saying. Why don't they say hey if you're eating bread two people are eating bread and their friend walks in what you should do is say make come now we'll have a good how you doing now there's a big mitzvah for one person to bench and be everybody say we were at in Brazil they had a very nice muk because they have you know the type of people you know academics that come the new to Yiddish guy they say word for word from beginning to end everybody everybody says it together it's nice thing so but when you only have two people it's don't one person should not make a for another person interesting thing it happens a lot I just thought about it sometimes you're here in a kdish and uh someone says no no no say it yourself says the gar over here It's it's better for two of them to say it on the by themselves and not you never had that when they're unsure if they >> know. Yeah, that's fine. That's fine. Sometimes they're lazy and they don't have the bench and they say go I don't know about who knows. How many people know about don't embarrass yourselves, >> right? If you be for multiple people that's okay. Maybe It says to both know how to read if you invite somebody that's new to the religion doesn't know how to read. So it's a mitzvah. It's a good idea to bench for that person. Don't give him a bencher in English and have him break his teeth. So here we're going to go. People have one, two, three, four joints until you get to your hand. This we're not going to even talk about this first joint and talk about this. This is the second joint right over here. So I'll show you in a picture. Let's see. That that's the joint that we're talking about the blue line. We go to the next the next joint. Confusing, right? If you just you don't see R. What's araperic? You think it's the same joint? No, it means the next one where it says truma right over here. What we call in English? >> What do we call that in English? >> Knuckles. Okay. They used to wash their hands in the mdish from the that's already till the wrist. So now, by the way, just throwing this out there, it's my pet peeve. People come to my house, my kids. I notice a lot of times people wash their hands almost like it's kipper today. You know, they do like neglass literally negle water. They're just the nails like supposed to. So we're supposed to wash until our wrist. Why? Because the riff learns this whole sug he he starts one one more this way. So he gets to the wrist. He's at the wrist where we only get to the knuckles. So says if you have enough water, you should go to the wrist. to go to the wrist. Turn global specialist in international financial services here all four of you for keeping it nice and short. anything that's like a that that you put you put like dirt on your hand and it's not good for for you have to make sure that your hands that's why women take off the rings etc. Same thing applies to uh the kids. We'll stop over here at Boyai. 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