Daf Yomi Chullin Daf 94 by R' Eli Stefansky

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Are you I think I was over on this and you were also probably over on this in your lifetime in some variety or another. But let's say there's a a particular person that you they invited you for Shabas. Now you have to invite them. Okay? Just social norms and uh you don't really want them for Shabas. So you know what you do? You find out that they are going to so and so for Shabas. So you go over to them and say hey you want to come for Shabas and they say I can't you know I can't I just I just accepted INVITATION BY PLY. OH what a shame. I know you're going I wish. Okay. Is that okay? Is that mut? So that's what we call geneva das. But here's another the bigger one. You're at a suda shabas. It's you're at your own your own home and there's a guest and you were planning on drinking that beautiful bottle of wine, your $200 bottle of wine. You were planning on drinking whether this guy came or not. But you pull it out and you want to make him feel good. What's wrong with making somebody feel good? You say she to make him feel good. There's a there's a and it's interesting because we're going to see in the sometimes it's okay, sometimes it's not. In this particular case, you say, "I'm opening up this bottle of wine because you're here as my guest." You make him feel good. And the truth is, had he not been here, you'd have also opened up the bottle of wine. What's wrong? It would be okay. You can think of many many different cases where I know of a case of certain person I found out that he's going to another place another so I invited him to my my kids. I was hoping he wouldn't be able to come and I didn't want to be uncomfortable and I invited the whole parag is talking about the sciatic nerve that we're not allowed to eat because of what happened with Jacob and the mal you're allowed to send an entire means a thigh the whole thigh to the non-Jew that has a gir inside. Now I want to ask you another question. Here's a much bigger question. Are you allowed to commit geneva's das against a non-Jew? You give your ga that works at you in the house. You give her a bottle of wine. You tell her I bought it just for you. No, you didn't buy it for you. It's something that you can't drink. strafe is make her make her feel good. should now shall work better or the bigger thing is and I think this will be hard for people in business a little bit of a trick a little bit of a you say something to the vendor he's not a Jew no so you said a little bit and you you made him think a certain thing and then he gives you a better price is that okay we're going to see that it's not okay it's a big big that's why I'm telling you this this suggest Today's daf is mindboggling. There's a lot of that we don't know and it's going to help us better in our business, the way we deal in business, especially with Micheloon and even with non-Jews, the way we have to act. It's a big big. The Mishna starts off saying you send a thigh that has a Gha because it's obvious the way you sent it that the G is still in there and even if a Jew buys that meat, he's not going to be he's not going to eat to get says why does the why does the mission say means a whole thigh? Seems like if it's cut up like we we buy today a pound to two pounds of meat that would be awesome to sell to the guy. Now before we start I just have to give you a in fact I was going to give you this but our guys did a phenomenal job here and that is right in this video. pounds. Leto for the Okay. So, what do we just see? You're talking about a city. Let's say it's Bra. Most of the butchers are Jewish. So, even a non-Jew that's selling meat. Let's say you have an Arab selling meat. You got to buy from him. You hear this? Because most of the butchers in the city are Jewish. Where they getting the meat from? They're getting from a Jew. So even the non-Jew is buying from a Jew. So you could buy and he's reselling to the Jew. But that's if it's in a place where they announce. What does that mean? If there's a so gets up on the table and says, "Hey, he says a certain that tells us, hey, there's meat that's going to the non-Jew. It's if it's trave not to buy that day. So there's no concern that you're going to be buying trafe. Why? Because if there is tra in the city, there's an announcement made that there's tra and therefore you know not to buy from the nonju. But if it's a place that they don't announce for whatever reason, you don't want to upset the go. So you don't announce now you can't buy from the guy because perhaps he's selling tra. So the says the full bottom line what's the case if it's a place where they don't announce and if they don't announce it's to buy from the guy because you don't know what kind of meat he has. So it will always be awesome to buy every day it would be awesome. What's the problem? Why do you have to send the only the whole the whole thigh? You could send them chopped up pieces of meat. Why? There's no concern. A Jew is not going to buy from the guy. This is a city that you don't buy from the guy. So, we have to talk about it's a place that they announce and today they didn't announce. Oh, so if they didn't announce, how could you send the non-Jew a full thigh? He'll cut it up and sell it. And this is it's talking about there's no announcement that day. So there's no announcement. Everybody's going to buy from the guy. And you sold the guy the larger piece. So he's going to chop it up into pieces and you're allowed to buy those smaller pieces. But the smaller pieces have a in it says are three ways to answer this. You could say he's talking about a place that they make announces. If they make announcements, it's to buy from the go is talking about a place that they don't make that announce to buy from the go and but we had a question on each one is talking about a place that they announce and therefore you're allowed to buy from the made the idea. So the guy the the Jew cuts it in a certain way and the guy cuts it in a certain way. I'm not concerned that the guy is going to cut it up and and and then sell it to the Jew because then we'll know we'll know that it wasn't it's not it's not good meat. We're talking about a place that they don't announce. So if they don't announce, what's the concern? Nobody buys from the guy. We are concerned you're going to buy from the guy because a Jew is going to see how a Jew sold to the guy. So you have Ruvane just watching. Ruven sees how Shim sold a nice piece of meat to the guy. So Ruven is going to come and buy it from the guy because he doesn't know that there's no in there. I it's a place that you don't buy from go but he's gonna be my head he's gonna say hey I saw with my own eyes there's nothing to be concerned I saw a Jew selling it to him okay the adds that the Jew heard the yid telling him this is kosher meat but the Jew didn't say that he removed the gan and the Jews the guy buying it is not going to know there's a ganach in there okay a third Oh, and this brings us into this phenomenal gam with a and all sorts of very interesting. It is prohibited to pretend that you worked hard for the go that you worked hard and removed the the go is going to think to himself, oh what a great Jew. Why is he giving me this piece? because he knows he went ahead and he removed the before he gave it to me and listen to this I think this is important might be the most important thing of the I don't want to exaggerate but hey if you take away one you saw it from the you live in even it's to steal the mind of other people. In other words, you're not allowed to make people think certain things when they're not true. We have to repeat this. It's also to do. The Ram says in add one word that could change a word of pu a word that will convince the guy to do something and certainly say certainly not in business it's hard to to comprehend in business tell somebody tell the guy that the house you're selling him the car you're selling him yada yada fill in the blank you know what I'm talking about it's never been in accident whatever it is but he's a guy who cares no it's also some say this is the some say it's the regardless it's user it's also for us to say a word whatever it is you know what I'm talking about we all do business with the guy so I said he thinks that my house is a better house because I said a one word okay I didn't have 10 people. What name is Das? mental pickpocketing, marketing and distribution. Okay, we can see tell them A when it's really B. No, that's ga mish. Geneva is d would be you tell the guy, oh m case, you don't want you have this guy that works for you and the appropriate thing is to invite him to your kid's wedding. You're thinking to yourself, what's the guy going to do at my kids's wedding? I need go now at my kids's wedding. So you tell him, you invite him after you know that he can't like he already has a trip planned somewhere else. So you go over to him, you say, "Hey, Johnny, you know I want you to come to my son's wedding." "Oh, I'm so sorry, boss. I'm going to Hawaii that day." "Oh, really? You're going to Hawaii?" "OH, I DIDN'T KNOW. OH, I really want you to come to the wedding." That's and that's also even to the go. So the says you should know that never said it straight out but we we're able to learn from what happened was going over the the river on a boat. go pay. He tells the shamish is mashbak he says please do me a favor go pay the driver say so he went and he paid him was very upset so from here we see what's the story why was upset what he gave him was a chicken that had a you have an he gave it to him the second is instead instead of a the thought that he's giving him a nice chicken. In fact, it was a afford tells his I want you to give him an that's a glass like today we have small shot glasses for whiskey for tequila. Then they used to have a special glass for wine that wasn't diluted with water. So he went ahead told him go give him some non-diluted wine and he went and he gave him diluted wine. That's why he's upset at him. That was the das. So we have uh go pave. says, "Okay, isn't this pretty obvious that held that you shouldn't do?" Why is the Gumar saying, "Well, he didn't say he can learn from the story." Says, No, you know why he's upset? Cuz why do you have a tray of chicken with with uh with you? What? Well, you should get rid of a tray of chicken. Somebody might come to eat it. It's a problem. He wasn't upset on the das. He was upset on the fact that he had a trace of chicken with him. And according to the it was that he told him to give him non-diluted wine. He was upset at him that he didn't listen to him. Told you to give him non-diluted wine. You gave diluted wine. What kind of is that? Perhaps it has nothing to do with that. We cannot do it. We're not going to lose. We're going to make more money. This it's not like, "Oh, but I need it for business." See, here's the thing. I I spoke to people just just recently. Somebody told me a lesson like that. I was mama shot. Like, look, I never steal. I don't I don't I don't lie. But in business is different. It's part of business. He tells me starts giving me a new a new cook. It's business. I heard this a bunch of times. It's business. Business is business. You know, it's not true. So, but we're going to see if the guy fools himself. You didn't say anything and he thinks XYZ, that's his problem. That's something else. But for you to mislead him with your you you say something. You're not saying you're not a shakra, but you misled him because you said ABC and he understood XYZ. That's a problem. So, we're going to see in the Gar T. So, yeah, that's what I told you. It's Listen, don't ask your friend to come have a meal by you in Shabas when you know he's not going to come. Why is he not going to come? Because that day you found out he's going to be on vacation. That day somebody else invited him. So it's for you to do that. Don't start loading up gifts and you know that he doesn't accept gifts. You have a a giant barrel, 50 liter barrel. You know, everybody knows that if you open up a barrel, you open up a bottle of wine today, it starts spoiling immediately. Probably won't even last the next Shabas. You open up a giant barrel, 50 L barrel, it's not going to last him to next Shabas. You open it, he comes over to you. He comes to Shabas. You open up a barrel of wine. thinks, "Wow, he's he's opening up a 50 L battle barrel for me." But the truth is, you already sold it to somebody else on Sunday. You're going to deliver it. So that's you come to him, you know, he's not going to use your shampoo. You come to him with an empty bottle and tell him, "I got some shampoo for you stuff." And he says, "No, no, no. I I don't need the shampoo." But I was just trying to be nice to him. I didn't have any shampoo. I was trying to be nice. Awesome. Oh, so here's an exception to the rule. And that is that if you're trying to show other people that you're he's your RV, he's your this. You tell people, look, look what I want to give the RV. I want to give him these gifts. I want to give him shampoo. I want to give him wine. And now other people are at the r because of that. They they they see how much you're at him and and that gives the covet. It's not the one-on-one. The one-on-one is also even though you're giving him cover at the same time, that's not but if you're doing it in front of other people and giving the cover to the rub in front of other people, that's okay. Ravi was once a guest by Ravi opened up barrels the 50 liter barrels that he already sold to somebody else. How can you do it? Says do Yehuda told by the way I sold these barrels and I'm not opening them for you. They're already sold. I'm going to I'm opening I'm opening for you for for the cup. Not I'm not going to Don't worry. I'm not going to have a loss, a 49 liter loss here. I'm going to I already sold it. Says loved the you know what it means when the galador comes to your house. Yeah. He would open up a 50 lit bottle just just for whether he sold it or not is not important. He would have opened it just for him 100%. I know people that would do it. I was at house p. He was opening up $500 bottles of wine. Why? Because that's what he wanted to do. That's what he wanted to be with it. So regardless if he was able to sell it later or not sell it later, which obviously didn't, but I'm saying that's the people do that. When they have somebody they like, whatever it is, they open up a nice battle. He wanted to be. So yes, it was sold and he was he wasn't going to lose on it. But even if he was even even if it wasn't sold, he would still open up that bar that barrel of what? He goes into the the house and he knows the guy is not going to drink from the wine. He's a novel. He's not he's not allowed to drink wine. And and and and he has uh this this bottle of wine. It's making a lot of noise. He's going in. like he's a he's a nice guy. He knows he's not going to take it. Or fill your battle with uh instead of bringing vodka, he brings water and the guy thinks it's it's vodka, but he's not going to drink it anyways. He's fooling him. This is like a lot of people from the from the city the the mayor and his people not in New York in other places because now you're giving to the in front of other people and that we said is that's mask makes is you're not allowed to sell a shoe of an animal, a leather shoe of an animal that died. And pretend that it's was it came from an animal that was there. Two concerns. First of all, you're tricking the guy. The guy doesn't want a shoe with leather from a dead animal which is inferior. An animal that died from old age or whatever. Not good leather. You have to be careful because the shoe might contain some. How did the the animal die? Maybe it was bit by a snake. It has snake venom in it. Something like this. Send them now oil. Oil will flow to the top. It's heavier. And uh oil is more expensive than wine. So you lie. Now he didn't pay for it. It's a gift. So So okay, I'm allowed to give any gift I want, right? No. He gives his friend. So it's really wine. He gives him oil. So now in those days they used to dip the bread in in oil. See, oh I got oil. Let me invite 20 people. He invites all these people when they came with during the meal. He realizes wait a minute. He put his ladle inside and he pulls out red a red sub. What's going on here? He smells it. It's wine obe. So now all his guests are sitting there and they don't have anything to dip their bread in. He went and he hung himself. Okay. So you're not allowed to do something like this. It could be it could be it could cause somebody to lose his life. So don't don't trick him in the beginning. Say, "Oh, I brought you a whole barrel of oil." But in fact, it's really white. Okay. another misa to preface the story. A number of times when when we were growing up, we grew up very very poor and a few times we had guests or my father would invite somebody in cho or whatever and my mother wasn't prepared. So my mother would give her portion to the guests and she would say, "I'm not I'm not hungry. I can't I'm not in mood. I'm sick." Whatever it is, because they had exactly the amount that they needed. like each person got that piece of chicken. There's not a single piece extra. So now that my father invited a guest, you know, the guy saw a guy in that really needed to come. So she had to give up her portion. So says the Gar based on this if that guest wanted to give his portion to somebody else it would be very problematic. Why? Because there's no more food in the kitchen. So if the guests decided, oh I want to give my portion to one of the kids and the balabayas will go and get me another piece of chicken in the kitchen. But there is no piece of chicken in the kitchen. Listen what happened over here. There's a terrible story that happened. I'm not sure if it's before this or after, but it's that if a guest wants to give food to the children of the of the host, he has to ask permission. First of all, sometimes it's it's not healthy for the kids. The the host doesn't want his kids to have stuff with dye or whatever it is. So, so don't give them the food. Ask permission. So, listen to the story. Ask permission. There's a person during the famine. He invited three guests and he had nothing to serve them. The sh had some people three eggs or the amount of three eggs. That's all. Each one got an egg. You can imagine it was famine. This kid didn't eat for who knows how long. He's starving. And he goes and he begs the the guests if he could have an egg. Each one gave him their own thing to this to the kid. He found this kid. One egg stuffed in his mouth. We have a picture mish like this. One egg stuffed in his mouth. One egg in the right hand. wedding in the left hand. The kid is starving. He killed this kid at a busha. What am I going to give the guest now? He killed this kid. Story's not over when the wife saw that her son is dead. Somebody just asked me. I forgot it was the vin seems like she fell off. The person fell off by themselves. just had it a few days ago or a few weeks ago, two weeks ago maybe means she jumped off the roof. She committed suicide. He also went up to the rooftop and he jumped off. From this story, three Jewish souls were lost because the guests didn't listen to and they gave the kid food without asking. Why does it say that said three people died because if you know if you read the story three people died. So why does say oh and three people died because of this? because the the Tana forgot to say this saying this. So at the end of the story sticks in's name just so you know that the whole story is the whole is there's no need for it. You're right. So if you send a thigh to your friend to another Jewish person, if it's whole, you don't have to take it out because the Jew knows he has to remove it. But if it's you have to if it's cut. So if it's If it's a non-Jew, so doesn't matter. Even if it's you don't have to take out the and we're going to see why the guy and you're not allowed to sell a toy. This would be a big problem if you're passing like this because we sell to the guy. All the tra in the go to the guy and one is because one reason is because you're fooling him. The guy if he knew that he wouldn't buy it. We're concerned that the the non-Jew is going to turn around and sell to to Jews. Another we have three here. We have the ratio the safa and the saf of the last is here. Don't tell an NJ, please go to the store and buy me a piece of meat. Here's $100. Go buy me some meat because of two things because the the guy that you're using as your messenger might steal from the Jew. You don't want to You don't want the guy to not pay him. The guy has your $100. He goes and he flashes $100 to to a Jewish butcher. He buys $100 worth of me. Then he runs out of there without giving the $100 to the Jew. So it's not it's everything. If the nonjew shows up, it's obvious that he's not a non-Jew. He's wearing a non-Jewish necklace. I don't know what comes to the store. So the Jew selling the meat is going to think, "Oh, he's buying for himself. Let me give him the traphus. I just I just had today. Let me give him the N." And then the guy's going to come back to the Jew and give him the the turning of the Dlobal and MD may all turn the page a new chapter soon global. So, let me tell you the updated numbers. It's exciting every day. It's more and more exciting. Right now, as of I don't know how many Well, these in New York, so it's not so long ago. 1,150 resumes uploaded and 40 Sorry, here's the new date. 11:31 11:31 profiles and 46 46 matches. What happens with those matches? They go out. Don't go out. But we have a few people going out already. matches. Meaning that the boy and the girl both said yes. 46. What a number. In two weeks. two weeks. Who knows where this could go. Okay, what what could you do? 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I want to say to to Yoshi because in Shabas I was like, "Okay, I'm Shabz I'm going to get together. I'm I'm going to uh put together these charts." And sure enough, these exact charts that I was going to put in um I wonder if Oh, I didn't even click. Huh. Let me see something. No, I can't do it. But um I already I was starting to build the chart and then I I looked right there and I saw that Yoshi put the charts in. So when you send, we're just going through the the three that we learned is going to make um going to explain how it all fits together. If you're sending a thigh to a nonjew, even if it's cut up, you don't have to remove Now we're saying even is okay if it's a place that they announce make announcements. In other words, it's a place that you could buy from the non-Jew. What's the reason they allow to give him sell him a cut up piece since that day there's no announcements. The Jew will come to buy from the non-Jew because he allowed to buy from non-Jew. So it must be that we're talking about a place that there's no so let's see the chart the ratio you give the you don't have to remove okay but you see all the way on the right now let's go to the middle case what's the middle case first we said because we're just repeating because you're fooling him because he might sell to another Jew if it's talking about like what that's a place that there's no in other words you're not allowed to buy from from a non-Jew no Jew will buy from him because it's a place that you don't announce if you don't announce you're not allowed to buy from a non-Jew push the button boom the middle case is talking about a case where they announce And therefore, if you sell this to the guy, he might go and turn around, sell to the Jew, and a Jew will be eating. Let's go to the last last case. You shouldn't use let's say you have a guy working for you. He's a nonju. Here, take a 100 bucks, go buy meat from a kosher butcher. Why? Two reasons. ask him because he might steal the money from the butcher. See a nonjew showing up a customer. I'll sell him the and then the Jew will end up eating asking if it's like the middle case that what the middle case we said is a place that they announced and if it's the place they announce you're allowed to buy meat from a nonjew wait a minute if there's a that day they would have made announcements but they didn't announce let's push the button so the is talking about a place that there's No, you're not buy from the gut. Makes no sense. You don't mean three cases. You just said three case is straight. It turns out the first case is aism as you see in the chart. The last case is aism. The middle case is so it's a sandwich and that doesn't really go well. Usually everything is consistent. When I was learning this and this is many times I I learn like this and I say to myself, "Wow, it just seems like a always says this." I might be completely off because I have a bad memory, but it just seems like a says, "Yeah, in you have a problem." You know, that's the way it is. Yeah. the rais the middle is not middle and then always comes along. I have to I have to ask the I have to ask just seems like it's a the comes along says no no no no let me explain to you it's not no that's a problem to say everything's so let's just do this says yes it's just like this comes and says no no no everything is consistent all three are green it's a place where they announce and if it's a place they announce you're allowed to buy from the nonju so Let's see how it works. In fact, there was in those places here you can see he put in in the middle box in the first and the last and the middle one in red it says there's no we're concerned that he's going to steal the money because says it's consistent but there's the other way everything The reason why you sell to the guy cuz we're concerned. What was the middle one again? Um, why can't you sell a trade for the guy? Because we're concerned he's going to sell it in front of another Jew. And the second Jew that doesn't know it's flying, he's going to think that he sold him kosher meat and he's not going to hear that it's a says, "What exactly do you say? What exactly do you announce on the table? We saw in the first video they scream meat fell to the non-Jew." says, "Why don't you just say the truth? Why don't you say that a tra went to the non-Jew and then people will be really nervous about it?" Says, "Then the nonju won't buy." If you scream, "Hey, it's a tra they're going to get all nervous by it." Says, "But by you not saying that it's a you're fooling the nonjew and we just established, you're not allowed to fool the nonjew." says who the non-Jew is fooling himself. What's the we have to understand doesn't fit with what we said before because before so we'll just repeat usually a piece of meat is kosher if it's kosher the guy is going to think that it's kosher but you selling him a piece of meat that's not kosher you're fooling him and that we said is awesome over There it's different. Why is it different? Because it was an announcement made. There was an announcement. Oh, the meat fell to the non-Jew. So the non-Jew should have asked, "What's going on here? What do you mean it fell? Why did it fall? Why are you making an announcement?" And they would have told him, "It's tra by him not asking, then he fooled himself that there. If you offer information and you're misleading, that's also If you don't offer any any information at all, that's also misleading. Yeah. If you don't offer information, it's misleading. But if you if there's a certain announcement going around town and the and the guy should have known from this announcement that it's tra and he didn't, that then you say that's his problem. says of listen to the story this stuff but amazing stuff was walking from one city to the other were walking towards him they bump into each other who listen to this thought he thought that Safra and were walking towards him to meet him to greet him. Wow, it's so nice of you that you came to greet me. You didn't have to Why do you have to be m yourself? He's being blunt with him. We didn't know that you're coming. Sorry, we were not coming for you. We didn't know you're coming. But in order not to bother him too much, he says, "Had we known, then we would have gone way out of our way. But I have to tell you the truth, we didn't know. We didn't know you coming." Why do you have to be so honest with him? He thought that he was getting we were honoring him and now he took away his honor. What was the point? We're fooling him. Says, "No, that was his his problem." He fooled himself. So, we have to really understand. What's enough between all these cases? So, in this particular case, they didn't say, "We're coming to you." They didn't say, "Hey, Marutra, we we we came to greet you." They didn't say anything. They were just walking. You want to think that it's you? Let's say here, let's say you open up a bottle of wine in your house. It's a $200 bottle of wine. You have a guest. And the guest says, "Wow, thank you so much for opening up the bottle of wine for me." He made his own his own assumption. You don't have to fix that, says Rob. That you don't have to fix. If he thought on his own that you're opening up the bottle of wine for him, fine. The problem is when you open your mouth and you say, "I'm opening up a bottle of wine for you." Merik, we're done. But let's understand and let's remember what we learned today. When a guest comes to you for shabas, you don't lie to him and say, "I'm doing all the special stuff for you." When in fact, you're not doing it for him. You're doing it for yourself. If there sometimes people a guy comes to the sh he comes to he traveled from beerva to the shir. So don't say, "Oh, I came special for this year." And they don't. Usually they say, "No, I came for but I'm just going to jump over for some you think you're making somebody feel good, but by what?" Say, "I traveled. I came all the way from to New York for your It's not true. You came for a business deal." And the is also another thing. So you got to be honest about it. But more importantly from all these things, are you allowed to in business trick the guy? are you allowed to mislead him? And the answer is no. Absolutely not. There's no difference between the Jew and the non-Jew were not allowed to mislead one another. In any case, if a person misleads himself, he you didn't offer him information, but he on on his own decided to do XYZ or he thought you're doing him this favor, then you don't have to correct it. Rais have a wonderful day. Merit this close of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor a shir today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor at mdy.com.