Do Not Break Your Word: Why Speech Must Be Guarded | Rabbi Rakhmin Dodobayev

There's a small story that talks about that we have to be very careful in these days whatever we talk, whatever we say, we have to be very careful. The Torah says Whatever you say, you must do it. You should not you should not transgress your words. You should not disrespect your words. So, there's a small story. A guy was about to get married and happened to be he was learning in Yeshiva for many, many years. And one day when he found his couple, his uh Kallah. And it was a big wedding to be happen in Israel in Bnei Brak. And the one day wedding was supposed to be happening his parents came over from Jerusalem to for the wedding. And when they were driving from Jerusalem to Bnei Brak, it happened to be they got into a car accident. Unfortunately, mother passed away and the father was a very bad injured. And nobody knew the Khatan did not knew that his mother passed away on his wedding day and the father was badly very injured. And all the Rosh Yeshiva knew about it, his rabbi knew about it, friends knew about it, but he did not know himself. And everybody in the Yeshiva gathered in Bnei Brak to rejoice this day. And the biggest Rosh Yeshiva came over and he never saw that all the Rosh Yeshiva of the Yeshiva about 400 people came to his wedding. And he was wondering, so why everybody came over to the wedding? It's it's really unusual 400 people to come over for the wedding with the biggest Rosh Yeshiva in Bnei Brak. And he was dancing and people were also dancing with him but inside of their minds everybody were crying. The next day in the morning there was a knock on the door. Rabbi Yossef he sees the big rabbi came over to him and he told him Rabbi, I have to tell you a bad news that your mother had passed away and he explained all the laws to him. Why this happened? Because the mother said, "Are you going to get married with a religious wedding?" He said, "Yes." She said, "I would not come." And that's what caused the injury. And these are the messages to all of us. Be very careful what we say and what we do.