Issac & Rebecca - Making Our Prayer More Powerful

welcome back to our Tuesday Lunch and Learn and again we welcome everyone to join and participate Tuesdays at 12 o'clock Eastern Standard Time New York and we hope to utilize this opportunity together to touch on some aspects of terah things relate to personal growth ways to develop ourselves as as Jews develop our personalities and come closer to Hashem so as always you know I welcome your comments please feel free to unmute yourself any time and and jump in and ask a question and be happy to address it or if you don't feel comfortable asking a question just you know send me an email and I'd be happy to to respond to it either as a group type chat or or privately if you'd like but in case I I welcome everybody participation always and and I'd like to hear what you have to say about these particular topics so with that said let's take let's go back in time to parshas told us and actually what we read not last week two weeks ago and parshas told us we're still exploring the safer of the book of Genesis the book of righteous so I'm gonna be jumping a little round in gracious different topics so going back to the opening line it says something very strange and I'm gonna read the opening pasok and then take you through it a little bit and see if we could work it out in in part she's told us who this is as follows it says either total Seahawks been Avram and these are the generations of Yitzhak son of a Brahman Avram holy this year stuff I really gave birth to who to get stuff that we know but yet skok been Arvind Shana back octo is rific Abbas purser rumbling baton of Rama and the in stock was 40 years old when he took his wife Rifco she was the daughter of basu L Romney from the Armenian meet Madonna ROM from the place were on Iran I was lovin she was a sister of love and her rummy lo the Isha and took for him took her for a wife then it says the yachty is suckish M the no Harish doe and it's her parade sort of facing his wife Kia Currahee because she was barren she couldn't have children the otter Louis schember terrific oh each toe shall respond to him photography each toe and rifki conceived and we know that the children whom she conceived were of course Yaakov Anissa so just going back for a moment it tells us that rifka was barren but she couldn't have children which seems to be a commonality by the way of many of the Mohave no sorrow was barren Firth til she was 19 you know that's and we know that ruffle I had a very difficult time conceiving and you know because one of the reasons because Hashem loves that the feel of subsidy cam wants prayer even sometimes with holds back things that we want so we should utilize that which we want as an opportunity to get close to him but the verse is very interesting it says that first of all it tells us who she was she we know she was but forget another description who she was she was a daughter of Bethuel the soil was a was her father was a not a good person as his name indicates his name in the case the idea of the two loved Eva which means them she's virgins indication of the type of tire on an inappropriate desire that he had and acted upon here her brother was lovin a rummy love is constantly the word white to be mob in and and we say that when you embarrass somebody you ma be the pinnacle Vale Barabbas you white in her face apparently he was called love on white because he was someone who did not have respect for the creation and would cause embarrassment to people so this type of family which were getting another look at the family which she comes from and then it says we got to use calculus chemin o'clockish doe and the o'clock starts praying for his wife why because she's barren so apparently another mid Russian that said that she was married very young that that she was maybe three and maybe that's for another discussion but the marriage wasn't consummated apparent until she was of women.the age 12 or 13 and then another 10 years went by and there were no children so this juncture there's reason to believe that it requires extra to fill out that the Shem is not allowing it to come naturally as it were but needs an extra degree of divine intervention of course in all children are a function of divine intervention but apparently needs extra to fill out here extra prayer and we're told that the otter get Scottish Emlyn no car keys though so the dude's clock started diving to a shams that that is why she conceived it says that he's the no Callisto a foreign language that he's somehow he's not with her he's like opposing her he's he seems to be facing her he's he's not next to her why Kia car he because she was barren via Turlough a Shem and Shem responds to him but our if Koresh dog and then finally Rivka we know conceives let's just take a look at Rashi for a moment and Rashi we know when we speak about Rashi we're always speaking about rev Rev Sloane by his sake the 11th century commentator was probably the classic commentator on Altera and what Rochester self-proclaimed mission in in writing a commentary on Hamish is he's looking for hints in the text which merged the Oral Law in the written law together if something is unusual in the text or something is it doesn't fit in syntax or some extra word or something that for him is a point to say where does the oral law comment how can I explain the full picture what's going on here because we know that the oral law and the written law really work like you know hand in glove you need you need you need the oral law to explain what's happening the written law and Rossi suffered admissions to try to give you the simplest explanation that they can and usually based on mid Russian or a different place in the Talmud and everybody could splice together so to speak the written oral law so Rashi comments and he says what does it mean that Viette are yes luckily Shem Noah feasto and it's not was diving to a shaman no Huff each Toso facing his wife so right she says homemade pizza Bisou Bisou father was old - for something so miss Burrell Ellis calling from the braces robber that he was standing in one corner and praying and she was standing in another corner and praying that's kind of interesting maybe even a little bit strange you know we know why your husband and wife's are standing in in different corners of the house of war likewise you know he's in one corner she's in the other corner why don't they stand next to each other there's no reason why a husband and wife can't stand next to each other when they're davon Inc it's it's in the synagogue obviously we have to have a pizza and separation but at home there's no such rule and maybe this is a higher level perhaps but it's uh it seems very intentional and and very dramatic and something which maybe isn't necessary yet the toy records it and and Rashi tells us it means that he's all made bizarre exhume he's staying in one quarter and she's in diving and she's dead the other corner Dominic and then the verse says something and this is really want to focus on right now it says viatra in scala shellfish tokyo Currahee we are too low hashem and a sham responds to him so let me read your ration to hear Rashi again is quoting the c'mon you vomit tough summer 2064 stay tuned or sages why does the Torah tell us that Hashem responded to him this is lovel Allah to him and not to her she ain't DOMA to feel excited Ben Rusch of the Fiat cited Ben sonic because he can't compare the prayer of exotic Ben Sadiq a righteous person is the son of the righteous person to the prayers of a Sudeikis Mouse Russia to a our girl the situation a woman who is it today kissing or a right righteous person but the daughter of such an evil person to soil you can't compare the two ain't no DOMA that the Fila of Yitzhak the Fila of rifka why because he's exotic Ben Sadiq his father is Avram the illustrious Aram and she although she is she's an enormous a great woman but she comes from a terrible family and if we can't compare the two felis the two prayers and Rashi concludes by saying Athena Nova Lola and therefore Shem responds to him and not her the fika for this reason a Shem responds to him and not her now let's just analyze think for a moment I think you know when you read a statement like this it's very troublesome you know there's a Shem desire the family give us and calibra we called Eagles there's a Shem value that person comes from a an important lustrous family for one's prayers to be heard it's certainly a it's very discouraging for those who who did the work out they're all you know became belly truth island became you know became very elevated very righteous spiritual beings and and maybe won't be other families it's ash Emily looking for the feel of the the child of the person who was born so to speak with the silver spoon in their mouth II the one who was a psychic been Sadiq they get sucked the son of of Avraham and what a hole we grew up in imagine Avram is a father and Tsar as a mother comparatively Rifkin grew up in a home of we don't know about you about a mother but we know a lot about her father that disorder there's a Russia evil person so it's it's it's a disturbing statement to us that a Shem seems to favor that the Fila of the Sonic been Sonic to that of the the Fila the prayer of the Sudeikis bus Russia so see what could understand it a little bit deeply and try to understand what's going on it's interesting by the way just when we read the words of raschi's quoting the Camorra vamos so this history that's worth one more time so we just hear the sound it's as reactor lotion responds to him as the plastic says the verse says Fiat a lotion respond to him to exclude somebody else Nova Lola him but not to her they want to feel that made it up there and that was the feel of that was the crucial to feel it the crucial prayer that that enabled rifka to conceive shame don't want to feel it Sadiq been Russia to feel it's I've been Sadiq because you can't compare the prayer of a sonic been sonic to the prayer of a sonic pen Russia in this context eight Sudeikis bus Russia well righteous woman who was the daughter of an evil man Lathika lover Lola therefore he spawned to him another now that statement the end that says and therefore he spawned to him and not her is going on the hijos in other words in terms of yet Scott and rifki they might be equal to some extent but the host is the difference the difference is the fact that one has a better family than the other now let's say we could work on that and and get some understanding what seems to be a very troublesome statement because first of all you know we think about a person just in general you know a rifka what type of movement in her life did she make to achieve what she achieved imagine coming from a family like that a family that you know a father suela brother is loving we know when the Eliezer comes to look for a wife we get Scott we know that the Suleiman tries to kill eleven what a family she grew up in a family that you know was just did not share the values that rifka grew into and get a young girl and that sounds like Koerner state sages a very young age is capable of discovering that the purpose of this world is Crested and kindness like a frog you know when an Eliezer said this look for a wife for for four years about this Huck says I need to look for someone who's gonna do cus it was a new kindness and he creates a test and the test is if I see a girl and she's gonna come to me and it's gonna offer to give me the drink in my camels you know they set up this whole test and and she passes this test without being prompted magnificently she comes and notices he - what to drink those are the camels leave what to drink and our city says something so interesting even that you know when he was coming he was coming with ten camels so if anyone has ever ridden camels before they're very unruly beasts I remember in Israel we used to occasionally with students have camel rides and there they're not so much blessing the animals that's what you see control so if you have ten camels manof camel drivers and it says Rifco was running back and forth to the well to provide for all these camels but how she was doing it all you know his camel drivers were watching it strong men and according about Hirsch he does a little bit of calculation and he says that you know camels can drink enormous amount one of the thirsty and it could be something in the range of let's say it's 20 gallons isn't like that so if there are ten camels there might be 200 gallons that she needs to carry of water so if you think about the type of jugs that she had you know it wasn't the Poland Spring Water and light plastic weight jug yet carry on your back was an earthenware Harris potted pottery she's a little girl so how much could hold maybe a half a gallon and she just got 20 gallons so I mean she must be running to that well 400 times and everybody sitting there watching and she's doing it with with alacrity and fervor devoted to the aspect that I have an opportunity for custody no one ever sees us of course he understands that this is this is a sign of what the personality the Mito of this woman is of this little girl isn't what she's gonna be capable of being and therefore she's the perfect match and why for for forget stuff so for a rifka to have overcome so much in her life without a family assisting her without the values of the home is something of enormous credit and therefore one would suspect that the to feel of the prayers of somebody who's overcome so much in the life to become great it's certainly something which God desires to hear it's true your skull was great that's very true but and we could always attribute his greatness to the fact that he grew up in a great home he grew up with a and huh from a father like that a sorrow mother like that Wow you know that that that's it's it's if he didn't become great there would be a question so riff cos movement in her life the fact that she became who she became almost on her own is something enormous and one would think that that is the type of prayer that God wants to hear the type of prayer that would be instrumental in producing the fighter or the final thing that Gandhi say here in order to allow him to send down children know if that's so why does Rashi quote the good morning evolves that says that as he says that the feel of exotic Vince attic is greater the inner dome we can't compare to Solomon selected that of a it's a Degas bus Russia so the reality is in fact according to Jewish law in all other cases the two Fela of the person who made the greatest strives in their life is in fact what kind wants to hear that's the hollow one would suspect that to be the waka and that is the whole took on a Jewish law if you have a choice between a Tzadik who is the son of it's addict or you have its addict who is the son of an evil person of Russia and you have a choice who should I choose to represent the community on the High Holidays let's think of Kippur Rosh Hashana so according to Jewish law believe it or not who do you choose you choose the person who was the bad family it's just an anal you know stick the baggie across the back family that is Jewish law why because in fact what do we value we value a person who's made strides in their life a person who has created that change and that's the person we want representing us on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur we want that it makes sense that God would love such a person's prayers because he made such movement in his life and it makes sense because a person who's made the type of movement can inspire others to grow and that's what purpose of of to feel and prayers to inspire true the closer to God as the purpose of life so that's the person we want we value those people don't nobody worry nobody money doesn't matter family doesn't matter that's who you are what you made of yourself so I'll just read you I will read your solution talk just for a moment sohe lark says and I'm reading from the the Tories are of the Taz norheim in section of the joke inaugural I am Simon Moonan Gilmore 53 self caught in Gitmo in in safe cotton paragraph 3 those are the ties and this hat says son is to read it so we see it clearly the Todd says it says but or cost-efficient rush says in the tour I was riding in the name of his father of the rush she ain't mallow sasebo Ptolemy hos wish but that when you're looking for someone to represent the community in prayer we don't look for Christmas bauble we don't look for a family that has a great lineage diva moment wish Bartleby zuyev exotic if he's from a mish mokuba's ouya meaning he a bad family disgraceful family wits addict but he himself became at Sadiq like rifka 12 the colour of me Zara hokum it's better to take someone who comes from this distant scene so to speak when the band that family as we know because it says in in in there's a passage in Isaiah meow it says it follows if I the PASOK and nuns eyeing you test 57:19 shanem our Shalom Sheldon the Rococo the cur of greetings greetings peace to be with you to home to the distant one and to the close one the Navi is quoting Chavez were to say peace be to you to the distant one into the close one first the distance one then a close one the person who was distant but came back seems to take precedent has a has a greater value or a greater than love in some ways or Shemin desires that person even more than the person who was close Shalom showed the Rahula car of many ways for the sick but but then basically in the verses the verse in Isaiah puts the distant one before the close over however if they're both he goes out a little bit he says this is Tov the Kirov because why is it better to take the person from a distant family it says mash machinery run it smash mr. Clinton applies and you have a choice you feel the heartbeat of the coexist you ain't a mucus mucus it's better to have the one represent you in prayer the one who is not in the US the one who does not come from a good lineage why but the person himself has become great it says kedai the carver Leo so Zahra latrina because he'll be more effective in bringing other people back to chuva dude oh come on a little boy because Hashem desires a heart who dat feel establish mass yo sir therefore his prayer will have more power be heard more bit Seligman Sonic then the prayer of a psittacosis son of exotic they said no more by passing the rock or the car of canal and as we learn from the verse we just mentioned that Shalom shown the rock Xiangshan de carros so interesting the TASM gives us a little bit the tour Azov gives leave a little bit of explanation that when a person changed their life when a person perhaps saw and understood watch people doing things that are wrong and and made the effort to say I'm gonna change and no has knows maybe how easy to do something wrong but I'm not gonna choose it or maybe they had done something wrong but did Schumer on it that person is gonna train with much more perfect this will be more of a heart this is a feeling of like I assure my eye I've been somewhere I've seen things but I want you that heart that he's gonna have this would be such a great model for other people to witness but they're gonna dolphin better they're gonna pray better it's gonna inspire the world it's gonna spire the community through a model deeper boy because it shouldn't desires a heart that'sthat's broke in the heart that that feels such a person be so sensitive sensitive to sin sensitive to I could do the wrong thing I did the wrong thing but I'm the right track than that person you know I am thank you for preferred for taking my listening to me and forgiving me and such at a level of a feeling in that and that double of feeling is so rut so so desires desire is desirable to me Almighty that is going to affect the power of his prayer and the power of the prayer of the community that's what the tad says that's how the the Torah says of the rush it seems like Vishal Clarke seems to basket this way when we have a choice everything being equal one is it sort of both side thank you but if you could find the one that doesn't have the good family that's the person you choose that's the person you shouldn't baby should choose so with that said let's go back to our problem your scarf and rifka need to have want to have children and they start praying and what do we learn we learned that a Shem responds to whom to get slots prayers lo Lola to him and not to her and why because he is the Tzadik been soldered and she is the sudeikis mouth wash the feet all over the line therefore to him and not to her question is I think maybe we wouldn't understand the problem how does this fit with what seems to be a seemingly contradictory Halawa which the two felis of the person from the lesser family is the is the more desirable to feel that the more desirable prayer how do we understand this so I'd like to just offer an explanation but I to beautiful explanations how we understand the sin then really this is problematic this is you know for you were in were in the struggle of last 3300 leaven years of Jewish thought everyone's bothered by this how do we understand the statement of our sages giving us shocks to feel a more power and the statement of our sages which says that the the fields of its Otakon sadiq is not comparable to it to feel of a Sudeikis bus Russia how do we explain this so one thing just parenthetically I just want to point out before I give an answer I just wanted to point out pathetically you know sometimes maybe were under estimating the power array of exotic bit Sonic maybe it's not so easy to be the son of exotic and there but maybe histor felis have a power that that we might not be able to imagine you know that for example you know if you grow a Mac and growing up a house of album of evil Damansara he grew up with a father who is so loving and just loves humanity and and is so devoted to kindness and Hesed and just doing for others and he's just adored by by the world but you're not that personality yet Scott wasn't that personality they had all in fact the descriptions we get about yes like in the Torah is he seems to at times not always be able to relate to people that it says the wells that are on dug be closed in the letting the life of your stock there was tension with him we don't learn much about his interaction with people except to say that he was someone on his own in fact his Huck's personality we say was meeteth and in there was restriction it was perhaps taking our rooms crescent of just expansiveness but saying no that's not what needs to be you have to limit you have to have rules there has to be law there has to be you have to have there has to be restriction not everything is the path to God there is direct path to God that requires a very specific movement that's called in limitation it he was completely the opposite similar to his mother sorrow you know as we mentioned a couple weeks ago in our in our class about the marriage of two opposites similar to sorrow but imagine you don't have your father straight and you grow up in that home how do you feel about yourself I think you have two choices choice number one is you can run you can leave it and say I don't want anything to do with this house I can't I can't I mean I can't live up to what they want me to be so I'm gonna I'm gonna leave low - did that by the way this is one of the reasons why loads had to separate from his own call Avraham was it was too difficult it was too difficult to be a novice presence I don't feel good about myself well nothing there on someone who's so great it's not easy to be around a great father like that and yes I could have run by didn't run he stayed and he did something really spectacular he developed his own brand of serving a chef a brand based on what we called as we mentioned in exactitude preciseness limitation law he took his personality and he developed himself in other words he said I'm not gonna copy my father I can't begin but I'm gonna be me I'm not gonna be intimidated by him I'm gonna use what he gave me and I'm gonna develop myself to be who I'm supposed to be Cressida is important I love him for that but I have to develop my brand that's built on that you can't just be open to everything you have to come fine sometimes you have to move forward based on direct path that's Dean and of course the combination is what we got Alvin brought the kindness Scott brought the denon Yaakov as we say is 2/3 he's the synthesis of the other two so he didn't run he stayed and he developed himself to be where he was supposed to be I would suggest that there's a greatness in that and and therefore it could be that is to feel also very very powerful beyond what we can imagine again just because a person you know and one day grows up in our great house it doesn't mean they don't have their own struggles they do they have their own struggles am I going to live up to what they expect of me am I gonna be an imitation or vined developed me and he passed that test beautifully so there's a there is a greatness that comes from from Chloe up at house like that too and therefore I don't want to mitigate in any way and minimize his to feel oft but the question still is going back to what we see as the pure hollow ho that when we need someone to pray for you God wants that person who made that enormous change in his or her life and certainly would be rifka yet in this context in this weather darling for children it says that he responded to another so I'd like to offer a beautiful piece right now by a a great ruff who died about 15 years ago tortion Schwab George Schwab was the grove of the of da sky assurance Dasha Shirin in Washington Heights he was born in Germany in the early 1930s he escaped the Nazi Germany came to America was in Baltimore and then eventually he was worked with Rev lawyer in Washington Heights and eventually became the the rub of the community and one of the great Robottom of really the last part of the the 20th century in America and somebody I haven't to know was able to meet that a few times met personally it was connected to to his son-in-law and somebody influenced me greatly and they had opportunities to be presence and that was a true source of true merit for me to be in the present such a great person so I'd like to share with you what rep Schwab says about this Sarosh Schwab focuses and says let's think about this for a moment you know we start the discussion by saying is interesting that when they were dominated they were praying in different corners that detail seems to be maybe it sounds like sex trainee Asst but maybe it's not maybe that's an important piece of the puzzle because the reason why they're diving into corners is because really there are two different prayers that are being sent up what is the prayer of a person who's that sonic of sunlit sonic and what's the prayer of a sudeikis boss Russia but maybe the two prayers are very different and maybe when it comes to having children which is the specific thing they're asking for right now it might be that the difference in these two prayers is a difference that makes for a difference specifically in prayers for children in other words in general and other situations yet it could be we go with the person who doesn't come from the mucus take a family from the the illustrious family but when it comes to children it could be that the prayer of Yitzhak is greater there are two different prayers and that he's in one corner and she's in the other corner is indicative of what that these are two different modes of communication to God and in this context maybe one is more powerful and you can't compare them let's listen to the words of our swab and see we can just take this one step deeper he's writing in this is his working a home which called the main bait I should wave oh I want to thank my friend rather Gladstein for for pointing this source out to me and he says his follows he says l made this up it zoom in spiral of Zellman a specific zoom is balelo's that Yitzhak is standing in one corner in Dominic and Rivka was standing the other corner dolphining we got to low and it showed responds to him as we mentioned you've almost somewhat valid shame dome about to feel excited inside the flip side up in Russia you can't compare the prayers of a of exotica been Sadiq to that of it Sudeikis the daughter of a Russian an evil person Lafitte for this reason Lobo Lala I've come to shown of this one bra she tells us via attacking the Viper has been explained as follows she's made the volume Halawa looms Amazon maybe these two things are very connected should Tom shifted Stark released by local Arab Azov it Shalom the reason that each one needs to dive in and pray in their own corner we've nation T filo same hail her Lucas being so done because it's really description of their prayers the prayers are completely different in their fundamental approach in their foundation what does that mean should the feeling it's the heist the Philips Sonicare insightiq the prayers of Yitzhak was the prayers of his boy who was the son of a great Sadiq Avram but the feels rift Christ a field site up in Russia and the prayers of Rivka were the prayers of a great woman but the daughter of a very evil man pursuing obr inion the explanation the thing is she can share sonic Ben sonic Miss Powell our Bannen one at silac the son of it's addict prays for children hurry who miss polishing your lilo Ben Cove what's he diving for he's praying she you learn no Bend of this that he should have a son just like his father was a book called Derek whatever and that's in the realm of we called Derek whatever that's natural in other words Yitzhak understands what a psychic should look like I've seen it I give a description of it and when I pray for a son a child who should be a great Sadiq as we all pray for I can do that because I know it is part of me I lived in that environment I know what it sonic looks like I know my father looks like never might the felis are much more natural they flow more easily they come from a place of understanding a place of clarity exactitude of what I'm asking for a vodka should sonic been rushing miss parlo when it decided the sudden evil person Davin's let's say that's a riff go miss Paulo abundant and praying for children hoping vodka she learned low bench and loike up in Russia that person praying for what they that he or she should have a child that's not like their father they're working the other way I've seen an example of what you're not supposed to be and I want something different I don't know exactly what's supposed to look like I haven't seen it but I know it's not him so was it's a Wizard of Oz you should look at that whatever therefore for her to feel us to be successful it's really should look at dark whatever means it's not natural it's not the natural flow instead it doesn't come the words don't come as easily the ideas don't come as ease the clarity of what I'm looking for doesn't come as easily I know it's I haven't an idea what it has to be I know what it's not supposed to be but in sort of that Derek whatever I don't have a natural ability to really connect with the concept that I want to pray for him because I've never seen it or the pain therefore know how you to feel those same shovels and therefore the two felis were not equal we call it crud he's father Boozer V slats mo each one Goblin and pray to their own corner why are they their own corner because the two fields were completely different that's what our saying - that's the turns trying to communicate to us there's no reason why they couldn't stand next to each other and tell me when different corners it is it was because that's an illustration really about what the fields were all about they were so different gets like know what to ask for over here it was part of him risk we really didn't know what to ask for it wasn't really powerful all the wards that we like issue amar and if this light it's possible to suggest to say shamash a mucosal should to feel it Sadiq been Sonic Nana's codon the fact that gifts have responded to first is lapa called the fellows that's not necessarily true in all the Philips and all prayers and the rocket should miss bad my mother bought him but only when you dolphin in for righteous children she eyes nannies to filtered sonic been sonic then the prayers of the son of the decider cathodic Panasonic Bipasha in Lavaca Jewish to negative all the reason he's responded to first or his the fields are gonna penetrate further is why because he's not praying for something which is against what is natural for him he knows it he understands it he can organize his thoughts better he can have more intention of what he's looking for and therefore his to feel oh when it comes to children specifically specifically are gonna be more powerful and shall respond to him and not her so let's just think what we can take home from this concept your first of all number one I think it's a beautiful resolution of a very difficult statement of our sages and you know that it's not always true that the son of it's Sonic will be answered first and as we mentioned according to ties in the tour in the rush in general and other situations we specifically want a person from a bad family to pray for us because of the movement that person made in the life of the chef loves movement he loves chuva he loves the heart and a person might have more emotion because of where he's been or what he seen or what he or she has seen but this beautiful resolution of our Schwab when it comes to children his de Fela is more powerful because he gets it he understands what that child needs to look like I want to look at my father I want to resemble my father I can naturally flow in that direction and I think perhaps the greatest take home from this incident really my reason almost for saying this particular class is I think we see such a uniqueness in to what to feel it isn't prayer you know sometimes when we pray we pray three times a day and and you know it's something which were obligated to do and something we need to do we need to always be connecting with our Creator that that's the purpose of life and to feels the opportunity but I think we learned something very very important that the way we arrange our to fill out the mode of our communication the clarity of our thought the the insight into what we really want can create a much more powerful to feel in other words to feel it isn't just a standard thing I'm gonna the frame it's gonna go up it it's true it does go up God listens you this is very technically no question but I think we're learning something deeper the power of the feeleth also depends on us if we can have more clarity more direction more intention a greater vision as I mentioned of where we want to go with our to feel out our prayers it's like shooting a bow it's always the metaphor shooting a bow and the further back you pull that bow will determine how fast and far that arrow will fly how deeply it will penetrate we could pull that bow string back even further when we have more clarity and direction in our minds when we're praying and that's what gets luck had and therefore he was responded to first my blessing to everybody is his a champion grant us the ability to have that clarity we should work on ourselves to have the clarity and all the feel should shoot to the highest point in heaven and God to respond to all and everything that we dreamed about we're looking for now we're asking for thank you everybody enjoyed speaking with you and so looking forward to containing the discussion next week oh you're welcome thank you have a go David welcome in Bolivia of the weather's good over there thank you for joining in and looking forward to seeing everybody since see you next week everyone and please tell me any comments email me any comments you have any questions about what we spoke about our comments that we could add to the discussion as well okay I think if I just think everybody self by