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You know, listen, all the motivation
that I had to do chuvah, all the
motivation that I had to change came
from you.
I watched your films.
Spoke to you. Got the package.
But then
the rabbi told me that
you're crazy and no one can do what you
say. So, I just listened to him and I
didn't do chuvah.
Instead, I went and joined the cash
advance business. Instead, I continued
going with goyotes. Instead, I continued
violating Shabbat. Instead, I went back
to drugs.
This young guy called me.
And I haven't heard from him in 4 years.
4 years ago
he contacted me and uh
told me saw my films, wants to do
chuvah, change his life.
So
I do the best that I can to help people,
give them uh
some words of encouragement, chizuk.
And I sent them a
free cure of package. Invested a few
hundred dollars in it.
And sent it to this kid, even though he
had plenty of money.
I didn't want money to get in the way
and I sent him a bunch of material.
But
I never heard from him.
I haven't heard from him in 4 years.
But then I get a phone call.
And I'm not answering the phone and he
starts texting me.
He's telling me that
he made millions of dollars in the cash
advance business.
And he
went back to drugs.
And he's in trouble and
needs my help.
Okay.
Nobody else can help him. So I talked to
him.
Talk to we talk, we try to figure things
out.
He starts telling me
about his messy life.
And uh
tells me that
he was in the
cash advance business and literally
within the first month he closed
a hundred thousand dollars in
commissions worth of deals in just a few
deals.
By the second month he was already
closing a million dollar deal.
Literally made a
lot of money and I stopped him there and
I said, "Okay, so those handful of deals
that made you a bunch of money
tell me
are all of those people still in
business?
Or they declared bankruptcy?"
And it didn't take him more than three
seconds to respond, "Yeah, of course
they're all bankrupt."
Of course, they all lost everything they
have.
So these customers that you made
a hundred thousand in this one, fifty
thousand in that one, ten thousand in
this one, all these people made you a
bunch of money right away and you
continue making more money and
but right away you already know
you're making money, but you don't know
what's going to happen.
So you could excuse everybody that goes
into that vicious
immoral like business of cash advance
and those that are like it.
Well, people don't know the damage
they're causing people.
But you know after a few months when
those same customers are declaring
bankruptcy.
I told him, "So wait, so all of them
went into bankrupt? He said, every one
of them.
And what about the money? Do you still
have the money? The money that you made?
He says, no, Rabbi, all that's gone,
too.
Every penny is gone.
But now I want to go
into the rehab business. He said, why do
you want to go into the rehab business?
He says, because all of my co-workers
in the cash advance business, dozens of
people,
all of them are connected to the drug
world in one way or another.
And all of them have been damaged by it.
Sham Yishmo V'Atzi.
So, you have drugs,
you have
a
corrupt, predatory business that's
destroying businesses and lives day and
night.
Horrible.
I said look, listen,
I sent you a package 4 years ago.
At the time you were really right for
doing chuvah, I invested in you,
put money into you, put time into you.
What happened to you?
Not that it matters today, but still I
want to know what happened.
He said, to tell you the truth, Rabbi,
I spoke to you, you really woke me up.
You sent me that package, I was so
excited.
And then,
I spoke to the local Rabbi here in the
community.
I told him about you.
He said, ah, yeah, I know, he's crazy.
Nobody can do that chuvah that he says.
Don't listen to him.
The Rabbi told you this? He says, yeah,
yeah, this Rabbi, yeah.
He's the family rabbi.
Family erev rav.
So, what do you do after that?
He said, "You know what? Listen, all the
motivation that I had to do teshuvah,
all the motivation that I had to change
came from you.
I watched your films.
I spoke to you. Got the package.
But then,
the rabbi told me that you're crazy and
no one can do what you say.
So, I just listened to him.
And I've been a
literally dodging you for 4 years.
And I didn't do teshuvah.
Instead,
I went and joined a cash advance
business.
Instead, I continued going with goyot.
Instead, I continued violating Shabbat.
Instead, I went back to drugs.
In fact, this time the drugs were much
worse than the first time.
And the sins were much bigger.
And I've destroyed a lot of lives.
I didn't know
whether to scream or to cry.
I didn't know who was the bigger
murderer here.
I mean, this poor kid got into a
business
without even having the proper tools or
education of what it even is.
At least not in the beginning.
But I could assure you that in shamayim,
every single sin
that young man made in the last 4 years,
every single one of them
goes to that rabbi's account.
With just a few words,
he literally murdered this kid.
But he's a rabbi.
And some of you would even know his name
in different communities.
He's not
most popular, but nonetheless
certainly some people know who he is.
And he took a kid
that was about to do teshuvah, that was
doing teshuvah,
and simply decided to tell him,
"Nah.
Stay the way you are."
That's the version of Esau
that's more dangerous
than any missionary.
That's more dangerous than any Nazi.
That's more dangerous than any
version
of Esau that exists.
Because it's the Esau that's within.
As a rabbi, I must emphasize that this
mitzvah is mandatory for every Jew as it
ensures all members of Am Yisrael can
properly celebrate the holiday with
dignity and joy.