Forever Connected - R. Avrohom Walkin - TorahAnytime.com

tremendous a special human being and I heard this verb from him and I every love to say it over. He asks like this. We know that I am to my beloved and my beloved is to me my beloved. And he asked what is the lion of why does the in why does it say the lion of instead of instead of um the other word what is to my my my one and only to my beloved of the is a very powerful theory uses it in also we we use the lion which means to give and to receive. In a way the giving is the receiving and the receiving is the giving. That should have been the why is the so he says a tremendous ver he says that there are two types of marriages a person could have. Obviously the one that we're obviously familiar with is a non relative marriage, a non-b blood relative. Somebody marries someone that he's not related to. And then there is the other element of a marriage a different kind of marriage which is a blood relative. Now you're thinking blood relative not so common yet in the times of the everyone married blood relatives. Yakir married first cousins uh Ara married s he was he was the uncle Morai and Esther also an uncle. And actually the brings down there's a special relationship when an uncle marries a niece. So therefore there is the element in kazal in inra thought process of marrying a relative but what's the difference between the two when somebody marries a non blood relative like we have mostly today an individual strays like I said again if there's they can't stay together if there's if they just are each other's necks what ends up happening they get divorced and once they get divorced usually if there's no children there's no connection obviously and even when there's children hopefully there's a peaceful relationship between them for the children's sake but in reality there they have nothing in common anymore yet if somebody marries a blood relative no matter how far an individual strays no matter how bad the marriage is and they get divorced they can never get completely separated or divorced from that person because they're related blood relative wise. Therefore, the is telling us a big what type of marriage do I have with you? What type of relationship I have with you? I have a we have a a relationship of a do of an uncle comes from the word uncle. That what that no matter how far we as ye didn't stray. No matter how far we've fallen, we will never be Hashem tells us completely removed or separated from him. Therefore, teaches us that yes, we've fallen. Yes, we've made mistakes. Yes, there should be reason to be divorced from the but the says I will never completely