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Halacha View On Backing Out Of Commitments - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

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money it was very upset he didn't do anything wrong he called them and he want to know in case you missed but I'll be tire is they really such a thief couldn't you do that you send the bill because you cancelled within 24 hours we had a shower with someone called the car service going to a casa and that not a local job and he's waiting for the car and someone pulled up he gone to the casa no come I'll take you so he went along and then he was yep does maybe he did a novel that the car probably came the car properly weighted the car left because he have to pay how much do you have to pay a question where someone high is a worker and he makes the mix tomorrow you'll start the job and then he finds a different worker that will do the same job and a better price so he stands to benefit if he just cancels the first worker are you allowed to tell up with the evidence I wear well Elena there was a house on a schedule for that day and and the parent of the Hassan Ocala when if the so then there's no question about it you delay the kisana and of course that but is very sympathetic of the terrible story but the mice of the owner of the hall lost out he didn't have a hassle then I took the caterer that that situation that was the owner and Kato were two different people and the photographer the music the flowers the florist and again it's a Moroccan but then it's a very tragic thing but you can't just say well you know forget about it and really there are other showers as we'll see today but I think the point is that there are two questions to decide and this type of Shila number one is it right to cancel when you have a choice in other words you found the better price okay it's very nice you found the better price but when I see you hide the first work is it like I tell her to cancel and number two is if a person cancelled and the worker that he hired didn't have a job that day because he was officially booked with with him because he have to pay the worker after all he caused them to give up a different job he could have taken a different job virtually a hospital they're always booked away he's busy so he was until law lose so as always as we see the right height break okay the clerk parallel will tell you I'll state you have to just find the McCoy earth there's no doubt about it and this I wish I had more time to stress but by edon of artists of art the word has to be kept there's all such thing as changing your mind and just you know changing what you said a word is the word a commitment is a commitment and again there's a lot to say in thee and the other kite of how things were heating vert I think it's enough to point out how lava this is a Sioux gear in the Gomorrah and Sukumar craze now let's see if Allen equation is but someone paid money for an item but the luck is it's matter in my opinion just paying before he made a Kinyon he wants to change his mind so we know there's something that is called a misha para so my thing Misha para missive area for something you know but look at look at the logit of muhabba raised ah let's see valid Katelyn Makabe misha para so over a nice day Kirsten the best in Beslan does it for I'm Amisha para me an shaver hamabo Angela a flogger angie stef a Maura Mima thrives at top of a yam who year for me mr. aney I'm a birdie booray look at them a fatahna look at the company he isn't together with the worst of the worst Dora marbles are a flogger stay memoria betrayal ends up the smile let's see the cotton casts it chose these because these are this person as Gophers are semi as veritable here you see their burnished lamb takes care of those that do bed and he punished them publicly there's a sofa and sea bass says we think Skaar bhai is har who are very by Hal Malika that's not true here we see that punishment on this world Saddam half lager with Ryan ma boo these US or English in this world the point is it's not a half gevalt a person that goes off is his commitment is dealing with a potential Misha part and that's why I just want to mention before we continue in a lover but a prayer then commits himself should know that a vote is important and there are stories that people know my son FS because they said something to keep the word so how love I would always keep our words and I'd have Silas but the Schuyler is when a person does cancel the wants to cancel are there any types of missed by ramifications so the mice to me think about it let's say talk of a typical case he hired a workup and the worker roll him down in his book the tamari is working by planing the next morning plane he calls I'm sorry I got someone else you'll have a vacation today and the work is very upset I got a call from someone else that went to the hi you me but I was booked with you now that you let you you drop me I can't get the job so I lost a job because of you so isn't that something that you could be Makai of him you caused them a loss so you think about it that this is natural for two reasons first of all we find in a Gomorrah bava kamma grandma bill is rockin his putter I'll give you a perfect amorous example someone's in a nasty mood then he goes to someone else's born opens the door and the animals run out so the owner of the animals sustained the big loss the one that did that although was a very nasty thing to do is Pato because he only caused damage he didn't killed the animals he caused them to run away grandma Benny sock in his putter now a miser of course as we know the Gomorrah also says that he's high flood says bathenosh a Mayan and there is their burden will encourage him to pay not for some but encourage him I always say a fee of lots of elation I am to me is more frightening than bidet other you know you're on the punished thumbs blacklist that's not very good but any other point is that there is a lots of HDMI and that's true but potato autumn drama berries oculus putter our case that you hire the worker and then you dropped him it's not more than a drama but the Embassy's it's probably even less of a fear than drama why there's a Bob Lee and you shall me Sammy Khomeini are ever the typical example is you lock someone into his house and he can't get out and he can't go to work and he lost a hundred dollars that he could have profited that day even though it's a terrible thing to do but that's called either Movado kiss ashoka very ammonia sir ever whatever the case is that you caused someone to lose a profit they're also Pato there's only much like as if there's a fee of lot stipulation million maybe it's even less than a gram of you didn't damage him you didn't break something of his you just stopped him from making a profit so most points came there is a lots of mutation Miriam but we see there are two different reasons that if you caused someone not to earn profit you should be Pato it's grandma bunny zotkin and also money yes forever and I must mention that's why the mom ruthenberg and the tubers in Prague Tufts of Rage Aleph and the theis brings the most soon see who taka says if you cancel the workup even though he lost a different job your putter now of course the feedlots of addition I am but there's no fear bday other however as we'll see the Gemara seems to say not like that the macabre inshallah medieval Pascal's there is a fear and let's understand why I never could apply it to the numerous tireless the mission in government see a defiant Hamid Bayes says if you hire a worker if we hit Tuesday as their they fooled one another a lamb sells there a lotta rumors well soon see that fooling means that he backs out he hires the work and he backs out he only could have tyro mice they roam I guess in English his complaints he has a right to be fattening it now that sounds strange it this has a right to be fat eyelid you know many people have Italian it all the time you need a ride but the emesis the hezonia Cusco on the taste after in Zion ALPHAN bava kamma involvement SIA says no are ye did not wanna beef Italian it you can't have time this here the Mishna and will soon see the Gomorrah and chef Canora gives you a right to be fatality why because you're the worker he called you keep the day tomorrow and about I want you to work for me you wrote it in your calendar and then the next morning he canceled how could he cancel on you you have you has a workup that he because he wronged you because even a gun is a commitment you have a right to have time is now exactly what that means tyro mais is it just he's allowed to have a complaint so I saw the Episcopalian in serious you'd see if Zion ik says maybe there's a fee of Locksley they shamaya but it can't be equal to terror seized throw that no there's no fee of even lots irritation I am because it's less than a gram as we said so what then is it so the members the preacher on the circle mark says the Bala bus has to be mathias the worker he has to tell him I'm sorry estimate Elam now obviously it's a novel because of artists of art but the question is why isn't there any way of am ominous McCoy when he made him lose okay it's may be the vodka pieces you have a right but why does he have to pay at least lots of a Shania so if you look at the Gomorrah you start to get a picture sup the Gemara when is their only pisses off I above amazed when is there only Tyra might be silly Hoffman he called them to come and then the next morning before the the work had a chance to come to his house he said stay home and take care of vacation Avila mofos rashes he went to the work site nuts the lamps Karim he called the worker to come and go to work on Tuesday he's working on a work site in an apartment in a vacant apartment so if the worker went to the apartment or went to the house with a person Liz does make a difference but he travelled to the work site then he has to pay why so tear it says once he started to work then you can't cancel once he started to work you have a thief to pay a monsoon see it's a key of spirits has Enosh says why very possible you called him and he came and the esada finish of the gomorrah is he didn't even didn't start actually working but if he travelled to the worksite that's also considered starting so we have one possibility that there's a fee of two actually pay him because he started to work but there's more to this the restrain him twice this and other wish I know and this is positive shuffle Arif and shineth equation is maximum agimo Bayes lambda F give ho ho let's say the purse to work we'll say listen I am a very popular plumber electrician cop into whatever it is I get jobs every day and you called me to come to your house Sunday morning fine I reserved Sunday field I got a bunch of cosmic sorry Shabbos can you come to me I said no I'm going complaining Sunday morning cleaning all sudden cancels look I lost our job I could have been where I could've been working today I don't care where I work but I didn't work now I couldn't get all the jobs that I gave up so the macabre says and it's based on restrain him if he gave up a different job I raised the cadaver orbital ahem the nice and I'm far um well soon see cap I'll bottle the fact that he gave up a different job you have to pay the ball buster to pay even if he didn't start working even if he didn't go to the workplace so we have two possible to you then that if you cancel you have to pay number one if the worker started when I mean started literally or he went to the work site or number two even if he didn't start but the fact that it gave up a different job they could have had that day but he has to pay well soon see how much but he has to pay but the big question before we apply it llem I see is why do you have to pay how could it be you have to pay in the worst scenario you caused him a loss of a job that's a loss of a profit that's grama or maybe not even gruba me that's many a sir ever how could give me a high of the bow a boss that cancels to pay he did a terrible I've Allah mr. Ramos Michaud and of artists of art and all that but in the worst scenario is a grandma / mini Ostrava and indeed excites a fraction schellenberg in massif cotton base quotes his son who has this kasha why is it different a mini as forever and that's why victoy stuck a quote from Rosenberg that holds your putter but as we said in chiffon RF there's a fear what's the person so once we figure out what the shot why you try you've done we can understand then apply it by myself if you look at theis list on this sir guy above my base twice's uses a very important halakha terms twice this says that this situation of cancelling a worker is garmi now to make a very long story very the case the groomer is you open the door and that causes a loss garmi says the Gemara jeremy is cave now girl montgomery is not just a difference of a spelling the way they were Salem explained garmi is amazing why because the magic happened right away it's a burry has a cup it's bound to happen not bound but it will happen and it's a Mazda Cree Italian example one of the examples the Gemara gives a person see is being offered a coin he's paying a lot of money but it's a very valuable coin but he has known about coins he goes to an expert mara then Ellison II and the the expert says yeah this is a very valuable coin oh good you say so he buys it and it was a fake of the forgery counterfeit so then the expert has to pay I only cause damage no but it's a garmi by saying it's good he bought it the magic was right away and he did it my son this case the d bosom I sell our case and that's the way the place came explained tysonis is the same thing by the Bala bus calling the worker plane II don't come today I don't want you the it was a miser his cancellation was a miser its Boreas a cup because it's Sunday morning you can't find the job to Sunday on Sunday morning and also the hazuki's me on right away he's out of a job therefore tasteless his word that gives a lot of clarity to the signal taka gram abanazar cane is Pato but this is garmi got me ask I know but the question that you're all asking is ok I understand his garmi but it's still not more than money as forever he didn't have the payment in his hand and you made him lose the payment he didn't spend money like the case of the 4th counterfeit coin that he paid money for the coin in the worst scenario you caused him to lose a job fine it's economy in many US Rafa so listen to an unbeliever lying father suffice him must have told his son but that's what he entered the castle there is one case al P Tyra even ammonia's rava is high a minute Tyra to pay he says it can't be right but it is the prosecutor Tyra when someone does is an automatic one of the for her you were mischievous Chevis and English is unemployment the person has to go to the hospital you pay his hospital bills blasier she pays vices and also he has to recuperate he can't work for a month you pay unemployment what do you mean pay unemployment is the worst scenario that's Chevis which is really mini are ever subjects eyes when you have an automatic then the other magic is hired to pay even Shabbas even maria shriver suck the hell of the choice of a buzz I since we proved that this cancel that the person did is a form of magic its economy so it's an other magic with all its implications and therefore the magic has to pay service which means the person's lost income as a statement excites the other was showing him the Rosberg neuron band the nucleus of an hour sook you all have a different reason that is hired to pay with DNA Adam again something that gives Clark I to the Soviet let's say carrot let's say the balla bus hi is his work up and say listen I'm hiring you to take care of my material I put the material in and died in a coloring if you leave it 12 hours so the material has died and I could use it I could sell it and it will be great but if you if you forget you don't go and take out the die within 12 hours if you leave it longer than that the material is ruined the die is ruined I'm gonna sustain a big loss remember I'm relying on you I'm paying you good money do it in 12 hours the worker says no problem and what people say no problem is always problems but gets up he forgets the dice it's there the material sits there for too long the material is ruined the dye is useless so the workers I'm sorry but do anything I didn't get near him your material I'm only a grandma he's right he didn't get near the material that was the problem but that that's his solution but this is not true this is the sophomoric and mom again we'll see pay that our governor would keep going pitched in the highlights me I'm mishra the piyo cannot back out before because the volley boss real I didn't and if he forgot he has to pay in that situation why so the summer he was the word double of it which means it's not a derisive nicosia but it's a fee of cos out if you in the workup employee-employer relationship the worker has to be responsible what kind of world is going to be your hire someone to do a job he doesn't show up and things get lost King get room you can have a word a world like that so hazael said the work has to be faithful and if not he has to pay if there's damage he has to pay nike hiring a band for houses they come to a day late you can have a castle that abandoned you can't do those things so the shining say place Amishman has to be a two-way street the worker that's negligible has to pay as cover of a and let's say the bala bus is governor of eight he also has to pay what's double of a bail Bob boss very pushes you hire a worker he writes it in his calendar he gives up a different job and then you wake up you cancel think you can't have a world like that there has to be a mutual respect one another and if the bow the bus cancelled and the worker lost the job double of it to the worker and the Bala bus has to pay and the atmosphere you look at the circle Nora he says if they could have had a different job I raised dad of Robert Lamm and he pays has to pay them so we have two words so if we have the concept of Grove garmi which we understand is a form of service and now we have the concept of governor of it the Ritz Vaughan our sue can use a different word since you hired him claa and if you took a certain our voice like an RA you to come through so whether it's are a double of aid service or Grammy discipline Laura clearly Baskin and that's definitely halahala meisa you can't cancel the work up if you cancel the work up either and he went to the work site or started working or even if he didn't start if he gave up a different job The Vow the bus has to pay to apply this very much for my so let's begin a typical case someone hired a electrician and it'll expensive but okay that's the price the night before or the morning before he here is a different Christian they'll do the same job and a much lesser price so he says he wants to call and cancel so this is our mission this is our Kumar you can't cancel the last minute I will say I have a good reason them I said this other work is it 20% cheaper that's very nice for you but you know the world is not just me me me you hired a worker he didn't he didn't take a different job and this is the a locker in so Kamara if the other worker did not lose a different job he didn't have a different job offer and he didn't yet go down to the worksite then at least the worker has two rumors now the meter said this was this is not and Shin I'm again we'll see if cotton Alif says but he speaks out of course I the ball Abbas has a good reason to cancel he's saving 20% of the payment terrace is a good that's a good reason for you but what about to work if you if you want to get the best worker so don't hire him look around you can't hire the work and then cancel so the smash says the murder to get finished even though you have a good reason to cancel this still tell rumors I mean the reason is not great but it's you know decent but the stereo mice but that's all if the worker didn't lose didn't start let's say the worker is says I got a call and I said no because I promised to come to you if he lost a job that's nama SH our fear that's our machinimas our sukumara dibala bus has to pay now of course the bala bus if he could do it he'll find the work up a different job for that day if possible but if you can't the bus has to pay the question is how would we proceed now I'll tell you what the Shia ISM does the work you have to prove that he had another job or maybe no maybe the vowel boss has to pay regardless so here the arcus Olson says and cpa's Lamai said the worker that once payment is asking for something of a kiddush cuz the my sir it wasn't the regular damage it was our mission okay bad enough but he wants he might seem to have a right Oliver right the work has to prove that either he started or he gave up a different job offer and if not I might serve a Oliver ayah the Bala bus has to make a shoe assess us and his partner but what's interesting is at least today we could understand that this is something that's very very doable I put a person as a phone personally these type of work is that their calls to a job he has a phone he got a phone call and he says I'm sorry so he has I'm has thrown the proof someone called me a job offer that would be enough and the Bala bus has to pay the next question is let's say he proves successfully gave up a job how much does the bow bus have to pay the worker f he cancelled so the M is until today we would say well if you have to pay pay full price but you think about it it's not logical and I'll tell you why if a worker works a full day he deserves to get paid for full day work but what he's doing today he's getting what's called an America a paid vacation now we're used to that expression but that's really a contradiction in terms to get vacation you don't then you don't get paid but my master that's something that we understand but if I caused the worker to have a quote paid vacation why does he get full pay now here's what the Gemara says there those two words could boil bottle now the way the mapper should explain and this is really Martin I above my bass you don't pay him full price a Medina I bought aa bar akin Osamu luckily I said bottom why should he get full pay for being a bottle so what is pale bottle so the again they restrain him explain that you go over to a person listen you let's say you got $100 per day okay now would you like a vacation certainly would you take a vacation certainly not why because you can't afford it what would you take that I'm gonna give you a vacation you don't have to work but you're gonna you're not gonna get full salary doesn't make sense how much would you take to take a quote paid vacation well to pay 100 get $100 get paid - nothing that that's not fair so the taz on this mohab and shimla mcgee mo says usually a boil bottle would take 50% of his wages to do nothing more than that what he would like to do it but it's not reasonable less than that we can't afford to so the task puts it at 50% is what's called pile bottle he's not working and he's getting paid 50% lamai so from the lawston of the shower it seems as if cotton has it seem that it's not 50% it's each job you have to Schatz up truth is some jobs are a lot of physical work so to take a vacation you know it's maybe 50% this fear but if you have a desk job that doesn't do much work it's a comfortable job so he wouldn't take vacation just to 50% he would want more and that's just who this is a tube of the professor's mi'raj that also says if it's very strenuous work so it's we can understand their tilt take vacation for less than that then here for Barry or whatever it is but if it's a job that's really basically and a pleasure he enjoys it so he wouldn't take a vacation for 50 percent he would want more so it's hard to give a cloud but one thing I will say that the Capone bottle is not the full wages top you have to pay the person you have to make up a fair assessment everything either skite isn't you know is air lock it-- the work has to shuts up what would he take think vacation and get paid how much would he settle to the application what's noteworthy in the end of Shin Lambeth eyelid the Sahara says but it's ready and he's told not to come in one day he gets full wages because Arabia does not like take vacation that's his life that's his three years and if he doesn't work he stagnate so there are additional Eric says the beat if a person that cancels a Rabi and there are more explains to coal aimed a tire yes and I asked them little made me late last buckle I character staying without the tell me them it just not good for the health you know it's like they say retirement is not good to be helped he wants to teach so the Rebbe the is never a poll but he gets full wages now the miser I should mention if the Bala bus could somehow find the worker a different job so then the battle bus will save that money but but if you're not then of course the the the Bala bus would have to pay kappa your bottle the next question is a very interesting question let's say we think the bodies work worker showed up to the worksite and he has to pay as we said keep all your bottle what's the nature of the obligation for example they're lovely is mana look it's a pasta can the Taira and Submission there gratis fue serum there's a very very hama dick is a fee of mitzvah and and lab of paying bizminer you a mighty thing sorry I mean every is this common but you're looking in in Zoya's Isis you don't pay a work on time has to sell them it's the question of a dangerous to the ball of boss like the plastic says but anyhow there's a fee of and I say it lazy to pay this manner let's say you hire the worker he showed up and you called him he said I'll buy don't start working because I know okay but you know I showed up I'm I see showed up house who he has to paint what is the nature of the field so the here we could understand what the has in his rights of a Palmas siminoff demo see if cotton Lambert valve is right mirror that if he shows up or his soul disappeared not a sadhaka the kaffir borken ass there's a fear of Christ party serious play album to pay for the worker why he started the job whether we started or he went and has an issue dark a very buckets abut he throws three knife gaminess in an align their forms of the housing let's say the be the balla bus dies the arson has to pay the Earth's don't pay costly but they pay CSP Alden also if he has to pay yes to pay casteth not sub against it just like Spears pay Allan and and the nearest of the cousin ish the oval of the bell tolling if taki has to pay yes to pay the same day because this is not at Sadako or a Canasta siz a fib of skyress skyress ple now the cousin ish then continues let's say a different scenario he called the bulwark up and he and he called the work of just-in-time the work who did not leave his own house the worker did not start to work but the workers as you know I gave up a different job for you so the has a niche says then it's not so push it what's the nature of the field if you didn't start working yet so how could it be a scarce pay Allah so the hasn't issues but then it mentions that this is a fever of garmi which is amazing but it's not a fee of spheres pay alum maybe in fact you can't be guided from the Earthship and maybe it's no dinner bell tolling there's a din of magic but magic is not about solid so you see a beautiful knife convenient the reasons if the reason is serious pay alumns it has health is scarce bomb if it's a magic or an RA or whatever so the husband is talk it says if it's his stabbed us like the like we saw if that reason I wish stab deserve our aid then maybe it comes back to a PF Spears PL the husband H has that Suffolk but he says basically this would not be a fear of serious play olive if it's just that he lost a different job I wonder and again I didn't find from the first maybe maybe it's it's posh it but let's say you call the a a non-jewish work and you cancel and he didn't start working at is there a PF to pay so the embassies regarding garmi buy it by a non-jew taki there is no if he have got me that's a special here between Eden and I think in an in secular law there wouldn't be a fear of gar me so her it's Holly and that that if it's if it's a sea of Al's gar me and if by a guide is no gummy then canceling a worker can't be worse than that someone knows more I love to hear this next question very common question many scenarios someone cancels but not out of any negligence or carelessness it's positive and unforeseen - but mostly he hired a worker to work in his house Lele know that day he's sitting Shiva it was theoretic and the worker comes and he's sitting at the bar sitting Shiva can't work in the house of the Shiva or a very common case I guess the more I'm more happy a note someone hai is a electrician a plumber to put in the electricity and the plumbing and then he hires next week the someone to finish install the kitchen after the plumbing electricity is in place but as what what happens it's a backlog and electrician is late the plumbers like and the kitchen install this is listen I gave up a different job you told me Monday it's Monday so it's not the Bala boss's fault officially it's the kitchen's world my probably now would anybody blames everybody happiness not himself so what comes to mind is assuming it's annoying is fine but other mood Euler we know someone's Masek even if it's a - he's pot okay I mean is Gomer I'm so sorry I mean is Gomer this is Schuyler but other mood the Euler even is so to apply that to our case not true a not so caution because the embassies here we have a Gomorrah and this is nothing less than Gomorrah family the Russian of the South America was we have a big agenda but the Commission American race and our still I'm a gamer perceive olive has this very question you hire to work with the water I feel the muscle and the night before there was an unusual hurricane that raised a storm and the fields cannot be watered the worker already showed up the next morning he sees his no work to do Diwali buses I didn't know I didn't ask for the hurricane I didn't know about it so the B circle Arif in twice shah mahmud game of olive and shin mama Kim obeys in two places Canaris says that if the bulb us could have known in advance and should have known than it is for I will employ higher CEA's Bala bias but of a cloud Araiza onus the Nifty spotter so the Sun off twice based on the commode also twice that if Baba's cancer is hired to pay but if it's an illness and he had no way of knowing his putt the question is what stock of the shot if other mullah love is high of even on an earnest so why is Bala biased here SP alum different I think the answer is very possible this type of case is not a magic you didn't damage developed of work in any given way it cigar me true but it's the got me in veneers ever the end of the day the oil was not damaged it was a severe form of æneas forever so you could say listen if the worker is innocent he showed up okay but the bow the bus is also innocent he didn't know there's no way you should have known so here we have two innocent parties what do you do my super berry Oliver I this is definitely this farm if someone's mastic someone and he'd break something even biiian is you have to pay but here in the word in the worst scenario it's only minutes forever and that's why it makes sense that an onus of serious pay alum of æneas rather based on the money tomorrow twice I'm a habit twice if it is illegitimate is the ballot buses pot now I guess I would give you a similar case even though grammar burners Aachen is sparta he's high with initially but the halacha he's if it was an illness he's not high in Vinnitsa my why because it's not a regular mazak and if it's not your fault your part them Denisha my here we're going to say that's what the Gemara means to say is since it's not a regular magic it's only minier ever he's even pata what he would've been a sorry but DNA or them oh so therefore that's no doubt about it if there was a sudden Patera and you know there's nobody could have anything differently tomorrow buses pop the second question of the backlog nathie the the kitchen installer comes and he's waiting but the bill the christian was late and the plumber was late so this you have to know this is sometimes a little tricky because the balla bus is living a little somewhat in you know in dream world wishful thinking he thinks by year by monday you know you should come in you know and if not so you won't work and i don't care i want to have everything being already just in case if he was you know a little out of you know Esmond he decided just in case everything works out but there of nest then monday is good but you didn't tell the worker that you know so if again if it wasn't you know considerate enough that might be up chia but if it was talking oiliness and mama shall lastly the thing there was a delay then the bala buses puppy now the question what off what could be is that the Bala bus made a mistake he told them the wrong date they wanted him to come Tuesday but he told the date of let's say Wednesday so the ball of us the day of Monday I'm sorry so the word kaha kept Monday available and the boss is not ready for me well Tuesday it was the mistake of a date so that probably is not an oilless that's probably a shy gig so I saw in the safer Mishpatim Isaac on the tougher cos he has a good Damian that the shop says that even garmi Bishoy gig is Pato so like the shop would come out that if gamma is part of a show a giggle afire who had been our case but you know if it's a sticker love Shearer you know that you have to know it was Tucker something that he should have been more careful and that's Morton Carville up Xie than my that might be fire but if it's a nemesi shy gig a shy gig might be pot now a tricky question is let's say someone calls up a car rental I want a car for Monday okay now this is a small car rental they don't have that many cars so basically after this person booked for Monday someone else called Monday says I'm sorry there's no car available the last minute the the Renta decides to cancel so the foyer we would say same thing you know he gave up another rental because of you but here in this here's what's interesting is to say stop questions stickles if cotton Bayes says if it's a dinner of garmi which is chef s I could pick a face to face with she could say she'll miss the shy by you by you by inaudible Masek there's no Chevy's valet by Calum however you have to be other reasons of his hiatus of RA of what we said earlier of governor of a business has to be only will work when people who keep commitments and talk of the area of science and sound I'm a gimbal and many others say this and the truth is excites them self implies it it's only the reason of Sharra's doesn't apply by a bi-metal : but the other reasons of RA order of a it would make sense that if the other person gave up his rental because you committed the last-minute aside to cancel there will be a fee of at least the fee of our a lhasa to pay now how much they after pace you have to know it's not a putt it's like a pole buckle type of approach the car was not used there was no guests there was no other expenses so you have to figure out what the person lost by the fact the car is sitting and doing nothing a person hi is the tutor first child now this is a very common case and the child decides one day that he likes basketball better than the Rebbe he doesn't go and the Rebbe comes to the worksite the best measures the Rebbe he's waiting or the Rebbe prepared because this child needs preparation so Lamesa the phallus listen if my child did not learn with you what why do you get paid so that's we were on for one or two reasons at one first of all the Rebbe showed up to the work to the base marriage so that's like challah and if the Rebbe prepared it's also his school and even if not the mere fact that this tutor did not take a different job that evening because he was working with your son so we have a good reason two reasons that it's either he gave up another job or if it's her life or prepared or both who often is both but even one without the other there's a good reason that the child the father would have to pay because the debris did go down to the worksite now if the boy was if it was an onus of whatever type of onus it could be - we learned this part but if the child is sick so called the red so the father should have the courtesy of calling the in advance that the child's not coming an onus has to be an int that couldn't be prevented but it's basically our stood you now when the father will pay he should pay the sim softly shouldn't be reluctant in other the tutor is not at fault enough child been show up and it's a very important cynical add this that one when the child does decide not to show up afraid of the father has to sit down with the child and television face to miss but this is a shock on our if you don't just not show up and explain to him does it to someone else you have to think of you know the child has to hear it from a parent he'll who live with that sensitivity otherwise it's you know called the umpire type of living do what you want so this is important that the child has to be know that if he wants to not come he has to tell at the ready in advance if not there's a fight she missed but we have to pay now how much does he have to pay so we could maybe use these Ishihara for the end of shin mahmoud al did the Rebbe the tutors all was waiting to give to give out to come on you know think about has I'll compare like it like a mother wants to nurse a child the Rebbe wants to give over so maybe it's not just good Pol Pot well maybe it would be the full price like a rabbit that's denied the job to pay now you have to figure out but this should they work together to come to the Amazon someone hires a driver to take him to race to Muncie to lake with to the mountains and the last minute is he got a ride or the side he's not going that's very nice you can make your own decisions but if the driver gave up a different job about the after peg if the driver started going to location even if you think of a different job he came to your house and so by the way I tell you I'm canceling that's too late and they also has to pay so either the reasons if you gave up a different job or was his skull Ajala he has to pay now what do you have to pay so this would be like a poor bottle of course you'd have to pay for the tolls and gas that was anticipated because didn't happen and for a driver when after you have to escape on his driver what would you take to take a day off you know is it 50% less some more it's men you have to determine and that you have to pay the simcha now another important question is cancelling a car service so the truth is you know it's very convenient if you call a car and as you're waiting someone else I'm going to the science and they all happen every room it's very easy to just jump into someone else's car and drive off but you have to realize that San Avila you call the car and presumably he started going towards your location so this is minimally a case of hulloh now if it's not huh laughs but the driver gave up a different job even if it's not how laughs you have to pay so it's not just do what you want and hope for the best this is Manish alkmaar this is our Sultana this is our dinner of serious payout that you can't cancel so Lamesa if the driver came to the location you're high if they pay behind mine this is a bit of serous you can't pay the next time I meet you you have to take the owner often especially if it's a guy you sure car service is called to come to a a Shirley Shiva or in Jewish neighborhood and he's honking and he's calling and he's waiting in coilover a Niner now of course no one responds to his call because the person went to the class it was someone else so besides the avila it's also it's also a terrible Kailash em whether it's a guy you should drive we're here this your drivers Khalistan was also by either sir person I get that's the meal solution so we have to know that sighs she wished for the try a prize to car service and violet is a fear if any situation of hala or he gave up a job now but what often but people are upset about as I called them I said I need him right away yes five minutes I waited five minutes and ten minutes I just couldn't wait I call different cop that of course is the other half of crisis image but if the if the worker is not air look if the pile is not air lucky then he's messing you up you have to go to a maker you have to make a flight you have to go to a hostel you be on time so if within reason if he's late again you have to give them a little time to get there it's ten minutes from the base you can elect me in five minutes but if they committed yes five minutes and it's already 15 minutes and I don't know 10 minutes or 15 minutes five ten minutes late then you don't have to wait you could make your own arrangements so that's like develop that's like the pole is being pressured a doctor's appointment they say you have to cancel with it you have to give us 24 hour notice so till today we would think there's a hood smoke what kind of mishegoss II didn't wear he didn't do anything I didn't go to his office but now we realize that is a very good reason you have to pay limey boy if the doctor is a popular doctor Annie as us X a maximum amount of appointments he gave up a different appointment because of you so that would be like the case that he gave up a job but even if not and here's the interesting question the fact that the doctor traveled to the office to see patients maybe that's like holla but you'll be alarmed they say what it mean he didn't go for me only you guys everybody else so it's like the old silo area toy a very after all because of me and not because of me but the emesis if you're the first appointment tenure schlemazel in this case if you're the first appointment he went specially early for you because he would cut 9 o'clock to the first the second one is whatever 9 10 whatever it is so that that's taught gajala be feeling if you're somewhere in the end or middle then that's a question you have to you know you have to shut up because the doctor is a very good hired person and each patient is not mr. Eiland more late he goes individually for every single patient that's what he says at least but as far as he went for every patient but the truth is you that that's questionable but the embassies today the detachment is always that they come out always make a stipulation there's an agreement you have to give at least a 24 hour notice once you gave a commitment then it doesn't make it different the crazy submission with the risin risin wish but says you have to keep your work so if you committed to an appointment and if you don't give 24 hour notice we have to pay then it doesn't make it about to face your miss foot aspect is this is a real sub of a cable you accepted it and I bother you have to pay now the lambda will say a smack at them I never thought I'd have to cancel so I even though I signed there you know the agreement or whatever I said whatever I committed but I never thought it's going to happen it's like a smart aleck Anya but if he's alarmed then he should know you know the Gemara the Gemara says in in in the Sea of Cortez in my evil eye Arvid I shall in the Mater he has to pay because a commitment is not betting that's not a smash to like betting is a smarter a commitment is a agreement and you have to keep your agreement so if someone took it an appointment by a doctor when the condition was you have to give a notice is to pay regardless of whether that became or not how much to pay so that's the capo both you have to know so if the commitment month you have to pay the full price if you didn't give 24-hour notice as I'm a gay a purple you committed to pay full price if there's no commitment as just compiled bottle so you have to know a doctor and what type of doctor doctor it just makes examinations so he would though fifty percent isn't it's not enticing to him you know he's there anyhow and you know whatever it is so you have to make an affair assessed in the whatsapp oil bottle a fascinating shy up someone that was a rush coil and he had a coil and possibly couldn't go on he couldn't raise the funds semilla this man the Frasers hey this kiss lady says the coil is no longer in existence which way this kiss slave and on you want to come learn fine but we're not came and then go lighter very unhappy you know it's mine you can't find a different color so what's the Shila is this like a din of serious play Alan is a young girl I is a young light in a coil are they like a pile you can't just cancel me loves man you have to pay till the end of his life they started already or maybe you know I raise money and I give you tadaka whatever I give you some soccer star ever to call it but you're not my work up you're not learning my Tyra you learn in the brush times tighter so this was a question that was asked there wasn't so kind of rockin kala tres shimon shin test valve and the question was you know basically you're not doing anything for me and i fixed in my kitchen you learn to buy some style and so a voiceless says Lee be night the ice up the feed them at Sears have coil them that he has a specific his highest of the coil it's considered like a coil now his his husband is that he chooses special younga light and he has a cultural I don't know why doesn't say if I may be held his posh it that if the kale tells you what to learn and what time to learn and this for hairs and this responsibilities an accountability then it's it's like a poor relationship not just learning for the boy knows if someone wants to have a help out of the are you about being a man he says you learn I'm gonna give you support that's not a foil that's giving uh i'm sokka story but if the colonel has certain rules you have to keep that is very much similar to a pile that's working servoz Ithaca says that the about the rest Kyle whatever is in charge can't just cancel the middle of us not now he now how much we have to pay so that eclairs taco it says a younger man that's in a cable and he has that stimulation don't stay home he has no structure has no no have area maybe I've really the college like the shack says regarding a Malamud but definitely it's not just a sadhaka that I can't do it I can do it this is a fee of a pile and a Bala bus an interesting question that comes up all the time someone hires a caterer for a bris now the 8th morning the day of the bris the baby's yellow okay now no one likes when a baby's yellow so the father calls after the moil frantically there's no bris today and the caterer says I'm sorry about that but this but there's a caterer today and is there no soon it today so the fire up this is a typical case of itis no doubt about it no one wants the child to be yellow now but here's interesting because the my sir the concept of a baby being yellow is Dave of a bris is not so uncommon I think it's common but not so unheard of so the question is who should have said something so if you look in the end of Shimla I'm adalat when the shuffle neurosis clearly whatever earnest happens if both of them aware of the possibility and no one said anything so that means you're accepting the job even though there might be a cancellation which is a perfect analogy to our Grist Mila if it's a normal child and you know what happens so the caterers should say listen you know I'm catering no matter what or whatever the agreement should have been if there was no other stipulation then it's a regular case of Spheeris play album with the nineties and talk about their father via via Ben is possible if the baby was sickly under and the father didn't tell the Chuck they D care of that so that's an envelope but if it's a typical case that both of them should have known and a realize okay so make up if you don't want to make up sort of cater maybe is a happy to do the job matter what on the risk now but one thing I did see that whatever the caterer already spent the expenses he made he made food and he can't tell if he can't use it whatever the case is or he sent the work to set up in the morning so that is there enough sheeta's that hold whatever the work was done that's not many s River that's already a question of half sit so that probably could you know kid the man money for the work that was done now you'll say the food he could sell okay if you could sell he could sell but whatever work was done already done not that he has to pay the entire mini Ostrava because of a solid but whatever work was done let's say he sent a waiter and costed and fifty dollars to set up dad you have to pay now we're not gonna say you have to pay $50 e because you have to pay the whole thing because I'm a scholar that when I think it's tinnitus but the work that was done is work that was done you an enroll a child in a course in a camp a day camp so it's not simple and it's not right just to cancel if there was a commitment that you're sending a child then you can't back out and very often the today that is today's day camps are they protect their rights and they say you're gonna give us a the money upfront otherwise we're not gonna talk to you and you can sold too bad but that we can understand that cuz they big they cam has an X amount of applicants and they give up one of them because of yours then about that there would be a fee if to pay a big question like Elena it happens occasionally there's a cancellation of a hospital baby I'm the number one of the parents on if the so if a grandparent isn't if this or the concert it could go on talking about that their abundance a there's no Shila there's no hassle this week so again we have four or five parties that are very sympathetic but they're demanding money the the whole the caterer the photographer the musician the florist so this is definitely a illness but then again you know ami Rahman but then but then again or eNOS we see an hour context is possible so Lamesa in that case believe it or not even though all the five four or five whatever it is sustained big losses but the my said about them cuz also annoyingness and mom I see doesn't have to pay now if it was a shaky engagement and the father said you know let's let them get together a couple no no and they didn't get to the couple of the last month they canceled but I've heard this you know let them get there we'll worry about it then you know which is this is insane but Lamesa that stock up she'll but if it was a typical customer but there was a last-minute Ionis taka they would be put now if someone decides to cancel the the band because he found a different band the better band the last minute so you could pay for both Ben you can't just cancel the first one that's a question of rentals the most of someone rented apartment he gave him one year lease and decides to pull out after six months so push it this is again for the next six months it's only minier ever but then again and so it's only money Arif madam Isaac but what about our engine you made a contract and even not a contract but well mice if you made up for a year and he's not gonna get a different tenant overnight and that's why the pastures and shin you add basis earlier she needed based Eve's ayan if if you didn't give him enough notice to find a second tenant and again it depends on the the neighborhood and the time of the year you know but if you don't if you pull out without giving enough notice to Pitt to find a different tenant the tenant is responsible until the time that he could reasonably find the new tenant you have to pay the amount of the rent that's in chalk on our floor now although there's no concept of Chevis here because now it's not a you all my magic but thus far of dover evade I saw the Mizpah they shelling the the the marsh I'm inflation is because I involved Alice's incident or event that Connors has out and there's no doubt about it that he has to pay the rent until the Bala bus could find a different tenant a reasonable amount of time now the shock on earth does add if the if the tenant finds a different tenant who's again in the sheriff's it has to be a you know respond hug going you can take autumn Shana Harbin but if he finds another responsible person he could replace them with his rental he won't have to pay Lamesa how much notice you have to give that that depends on the agreement but you can't just pull out and say I'm Potter the taste after infest your Alif says lobbed Africa a long-term rental even a rental of a night in a hotel for example say my office you can't just last minute for a person who rents a takes a mention for Shabbos and he decides he wants to go for Shabbos last minute he cancels I'm not coming you know keep my food you can't do that they gave up someone else this is be the taste even though it's only a Shabbos but you have to pay whatever it is and so enough senior that senior days outlets at the fairs even overnight whatever the rental they can't replace you have to pay now the interesting question here is if there was an illness let's say the person rented and never before the person can move in the person passed away to the arson have to pay well let's say the person rented for a year and his son got sick suddenly has to go out of town and he has to leave his house so what would we say it's a case of an honest fire if you're paying else the fee above whatever it is duffer evaders Hiva so of dionysus pot de la hoya that makes sense here also is repot however there are sheeta's that say that rental is different flavors is like member imagine someone sells Ruane sell Shimon an item and Shimon is clean it and if he bought it and his kindness and I need has happened the lightning struck and the thing was this burnt so I'm sorry for the kinda but once you credits yours I mean this is your problem so there are shinin that say Cirrus kamenka that when you rent an apartment it becomes this safe his apartment just like this the DNA I know a serious Comerica so the regarding our sugar is like develop it's like this decipher owns the apartment and if that's the case then in a tsunami there wouldn't be a difference in the tinnitus and there are morons in Lambeth eyelid Aleph has this very Shila and there some days that holds like we said it's like a regular agreement that is is pata some say your I've asked you ask America and there are mas seems to make some out of a compromise if the person paid upfront the full spirits and I wants a refund because was an iron is Gummer so the Bala bus could keep it if you didn't yet pay and now the question is is there a dinner bonus by scale so the tenets could say kimly that there's no difference this is an onus I mean mrs. Potter and a lot of poison McKenzie all the placing but a lot of poise can say that in this case of oiliness packet will say very serious command cup he what if he didn't yet pay he could rely on the sheets that he's Pato last but not least let me just tell you interesting Shila where I saw this Merrill Diskin has this and others as well but it's something it's also of an attitude well this kid in the proclamation of bathe has the following silent someone that had a Haider worker and in reasonable time he had it he's wanted to tell the worker not to come but he was busy say Santosh Lea remember tell the worker that tomorrow I'm cancelling and I'll have enough time overnight to find a work well it's assumed that's true LeMay said oh the shreya was negligent I forgot whatever it is and the stay I've never got to the work up the workers showed up the next morning he said Oh even get this begin to get the message now well I cancel you don't have a nice day have a nice vacation so the truth is the bow the bus did what he could have done but something I'll disk in the mice of the work who had never told properly now it's your onus than your shreya but you didn't do anything you didn't end up doing cancel what's supposed to be so even though it seemed like a ball a buzz did what he's supposed to but he didn't he has to responsibly tell the worker not to come the point is we you know site manager but Philip we have to keep our commitments unless there's a perfect or we're back to the square one that we have to be keep our words in all of us you missed but I couldn't talk to you a shame you sure like you biggest occur to us mister today's year miss will say cecum summaries today she in been down five ten minutes not even a cachet - ago spoke of the Sacketts itself they gave them to mrs. their mother neck office and I see the angle to be either [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] see please put I hope I call them gonna be holder [Music] the cecum is not being canceled you know no refunds are being issued everyone please find your seats or are you standing places and Christmas will say the secret prison and the undercover undercover yvonne e just the learnt a recession it's an extremely important to honorable word that the Allah for the bays and the gimel of our suji is of Eartha support and after this year we heard stories and people that are in business that people just renege on their commitment they block some again and they change the mind these things without the face you miss but it has to know there's a punish lemon and ms and somebody ms and that's why there's a Misha para very very frightening curse for someone that doesn't keep his word as amicus hermana and this toy room is this a whole list of things that he has to know that this shouldn't this teacher should just be academic audit area but her it has to keep for it but if someone does change from his commitment there's also - miss but even though grandma bhanna sakina Sparta and even though many are ever equals happen to lose a profit you lock him into his room and he can't go to work Lia pata least with in the autumn but here there are few scars that you have to pay between a autumn because he gave up a different job or he started to work whether this far is garmi a direct magic or Chevis and unemployment in an automatic hive to pay me dinner Torah or a double of it has to be a worker relationship work an employee employer relationship or already but in any case there is more than just the the ethical point of view here but this is a Haitian mystery of the work up that you can't just cancel the worker would have to pay the fact you got a better price is not an excuse to cancel because he gave up his day of work for you you don't have to pay the full price of working because he didn't work you paper pile bottle which is hard to give an exact amount but the task says 50% and others say it's Tolley in each work or how much would a person be happy with not going to work and not losing too much if the worker started the work then there's a fear of the pale serious not just the canals and is about taller than you and even your she would have to pay this fee of it's a regular fee of skiers that was that was that that was took effect because he started to work if he went to work site and it's due then some say maybe because then it says maybe it's not a clear sphere but it's still the same thing above the pole bottle the finishes that if he's an oilless then even though he would defy of an onus usually by massacres carry but this is not a magic this is a cancellation and annoyingness does not have to pay the pole bottle even if it was a carelessness that caused the onus then of course that's more carville amazing but the concept is that you can't just cancel the work them cancelling a car rental or any rental for that matter and the person can rent it after your cancellation without the same feel according to most sheet this if a child has a tutor and it doesn't show up to the tutor that then and the Rebbe went in went or prepared or both and a rather the father has to pay and the child should be microrna that this is not a half gevalt you hire a drive it take you to Muncie lake with the mountains and you can't just cancel very often they could do one job per day and they lost a job even a local cost service if he started coming or gave up a different job there's a fee if they paid to pile bottle if a person the my sub missed an appointment by a doctor or any other cancellation of any other appointment and if they tell you straight out that there's a there's an obligation to pay if you don't give enough notice and as I've a 30th to pay and it could be the full price if it's only the dinner of a boil bottle then of course that would be less but if the agreement is you have to pay the full amount then the commission would certainly accept that agreement and you have to pay the full amount a rush Kyle and henry cowell usually have a dinner of a poil unless it's mommy's do what you want but if there's a certain structure to it and the it's a dinner of a pearl and they can't cancel and all of this man a baby that's yellow if there was no different agreement and it's like a regular lioness and you don't have to pay unless what the actual decatur actually worked for did already canceling a fast enough for a real lioness even though it's a tremendous loss to many different parties but anion is an I understand that a curvy Pato you rent a car a renting an apartment you can't pull that you can't just move you didn't give them enough notice and you have to pay the extra months that you they can't find the tenant if that was part of the agreement onus is not push it maybe there's a dinner of serious chemicals we said but definitely if the person already paid then you can't take back the money if you didn't get paid say Kim Lee that onus there is an honest even by a rental the same is true by a bungalow hotel or a Shabbos if you commit it to stay any person can't fill up that that vacancy you would have to pay corporal bottle Bongo Cal has generally take money upfront so it's not a game for that reason or a if a person sent thusly after canceled honestly have not do the job again the point is the work the Bala bus has to be air looked to his workers and at Cannes unless he gives them enough notice [Music]