No More than a Whisper - The Best Date Ever

this elderly Sage gave a course a beautiful course how to be better husbands and he gave us the craziest most counterintuitive advice every night when he was speaking I was thinking this is ridiculous and then he would say go home and practice that and the next week my wife would say go back learn more so one night he said that if a couple's not spending private time together two to three times a week their relationship is headed for a crash now when I heard this I was so confused because it was the first thing he said which had made sense in 20 weeks I knew I wasn't understanding him properly so I walked up to him after the class and I said to him Rabbi when you say I should spend private time with my spouse what do you mean at which point he looked at me like wow you're a bigger idiot than I thought so I said no no I understand what I think is private time but what do you think is private time so he said to me tell me something you ever take your wife out to a restaurant so I said yeah sure he said find a restaurant where there are none of your students set up the chairs right across from each other 180° throughout the evening you should whisper so I said to him why he said to me don't you feel how small the W becomes when you whisper so I tried this don't do this unless you're married yes extremely effective now I went back to him and I said to him where on Earth did you get that like I was sure he was like reading psychology books in the bathroom so he said I got it in the code of Jewish law I'm like yeah right where laws of laws of dating you know like come on so he says no right here and he pulls off the code of Jewish law opens it up puts it down in front of me laws of prayer he says it says right here when you want to create an intimate moment with your god what do you do he says you take three steps back from the whole world a restaurant where there's none of your students then he said you take three steps forward sit right across from her and throughout the evening he should whisper he said why do you whisper how loud would you speak if you knew that her ear was right next to your mouth and he said and why do you have to talk he said because God is head over heels in love with you and he just wants you to join him in that relationship and the hottest organ of intimacy in the entire human body is right here the more that you open up and the more that you speak the more that you fall in love [Music]