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When God Says “No,” Why Keep Praying? Rabbi Avi Wiesenfeld

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It's really amazing to see. Avraham Avinu enters deep into the world of tefillah for the sake of Sedom. He didn't just daven once, rather again and again, persistently begging Hashem to have mercy on Sedom. He even endangered himself in his pleading. However, what's really interesting is that upon completing his tefillahs, the pasuk said, V'Avraham shav [music] l'makomo. Avraham returned to his place. What are these words teaching us? What do they mean? We find actually a similar wording by Yaakov Avinu when he went to live with Lavan for 20 years. [music] Imagine spending a day with Yaakov Avinu, let alone 20 years. But yet, the Torah says, V'shav Lavan l'makomo. Lavan returned to his place. The Meshech Chochmah over there says it means Lavan returned to the exact same place as he was before. Not the slightest change. Perhaps, we can use the words of the Meshech Chochmah for our parsha. When a person davens for something and his tefillahs just don't seem to be answered, he's likely to get down. He keeps davening and it seems to be going nowhere. It can actually damage his relationship with the Ribono shel Olam. Where is he? I'm begging. The Torah is telling us no. By Avraham Avinu, it wasn't that way. And that's the message for every single one of us. Avraham Avinu poured out his heart in tefillah. And in the end, Sedom was destroyed. He could have been upset, angry, or even have damaged that relationship that he had, but no. Avraham didn't lose any of his greatness, his love, and his appreciation for Hashem and for tefillah was as strong as ever before. Every day at 4:00, Dovi's phone rings at the office. It's a 6-year-old Yanky. "Tati, can we get an ice cream tonight?" "Not tonight, Yanky." "Okay, love you, Tati." Next day, 4:00. "Tati, can I get a dog?" "No, sweetie." "Okay, love you." Almost every day, a no. And every day, 4:00 on the dot, he calls again, happy as ever. One day, a coworker says, "Why don't you just buy him a freezer full of ice cream so he stops calling?" "Are you crazy? That phone call is the best part of my day. If I give him everything, he might stop calling." That night, Yanky crawls onto his father's lap. "Tati, you say no a lot. I know, but I'm still going to call you tomorrow." "Why?" "Cuz I like talking to you." What a crucial message from this week's parsha. We often daven, and perhaps the answer is no, but keep calling and enjoy the conversation. Have a great Shabbos. >> Join Rabbi Avi Weisenfeld's new Kehilla. >> [music] >> Children playing in the streets, neighbors who become family, a place that feels like home, minutes from Yerushalayim and a world of its own. Get in touch now. >> [music]