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Recently I heard the old question about
giving saddaka during keshan
are you supposed to are you allowed to
and should you make a takana they
shouldn't be collecting the truth is a
similar question is when a either a or
an older person walks by you when
typically there's a mitzah of standing
up for a zak or does that apply during
as well and we had another interesting
question where someone had a minute he
got so used to it that walking to shul
every day he would say krishna in other
words he would d and he missed this man
but he he wanted to say Krishna before
this man before this man so he said it
on the way to shul and then when he got
to shul he dus after this man but he was
with therishna that he said before ding
and he got used to saying it walking to
shul and someone says you can't be
krishna walking in the street so these
and many other questions will be the sug
for today
about that is krishna and really it's a
certain sense it's one the kudra about
the ofishma of kavana by Krishna how
that impacts our saying Krishna on a
daily basis.
>> [clears throat]
>> One thing is for sure that Krishna is a
very important
a very important mitzvah with a very
important object objective. The truth is
every mitzvah is important and precious
but as we'll see Krishna besides that
but there's a lot that goes into this
magnificent package that's calledishma
[clears throat] I mean suffice to say
what the Mishna says in
why do we first say and then we
and then we say
that is in pares [clears throat]
because first First thing
you have to
a person has to declare his devotion
once the person is focusing once the
person is doing what he has to do then
in other words it's it's a procedure you
have to first show your allegiance to
and then you do mitzvah. What about vay?
So the say really is the par of ses
which is only by day not at night and
therefore that's last but the empises
the fact that we have in Israel shows in
krishma shows that another facet of this
package because mora says in that that
in krishma the I'm sorry in the in the
isum is mitzvah
Number two, besides in by in the last
para, we also have the very important
concept of
which as we know is the fundamental of
our amuna and our devotion.
So just think about what goes into this
magnificent packet that's called
just that alone the you throw you think
about it. I mean just think about it
over the generations. How many tens of
thousands of the the
all went to their deaths with the
greatest they said on their lips
but it's more than that. You know
[clears throat] it's interesting the
Rambam and
init
the same they both say that the mitzvah
is a person has to think about the
mitzvah and then he should reach a level
[clears throat] very real the person has
to have the ultimate pleasure in that
the
also of when a person
said unbelievable you know we think that
now have tyus you're supposed to have
tus you're supposed to have tyus but you
don't settle for cheap imitations don't
just take a a sandwich
is a it's the ultimate pleasure we don't
settle for cheap imitations
and all that is supposed to take place
during Krishna
The first the Israel is the total
devotion and then the the second part of
the oil.
Then of course the oil mitzvah that's
the second para and it what culminates
with the parish of school of and and the
of course the mitzvah of
now you could appreciate a little more
the way in when he speaks about the
mitzvah of
he makes it very practical why is
important twice a day
wanted to give us a treat.
Every single day, every day of the week,
247, we have a need for Krishna. Why? He
says a person living in he's only a
person
and he has many and there's so many
things attracting his attention. He
needs to
he
therefore
from the times benevolence he gave us a
mitzvah both parts of the day day and
night that really gives us that it's
like a like we charge our like a battery
and day and night we get that feeling
nothing that we do is unnoticed
[clears throat]
and that's a magnificent reminder of the
has of us and then he adds that's why we
need it by day and by night weekday
shabas and makes
and then he adds which is most important
and that's why you find we'll soon see
this is a is a gor
that
by certainly by the par of is absolutely
a person says a person says it says and
the propon is not
because there's so much that has to take
place there has to be a result of
therishma to make it work we have to be
focusing we and he said the kazal
planted the the the program to make it
work.
Why?
In other words, if it's not just lip
service, you're connecting with the
ultimate amuna. So therefore, and I
guess he meant to say I'll tell us a
mitzvah without kavan is like a gof.
I don't want to tell you what a gofam is
but it's you know it's like
and a mitzvah without kavana is like a
without it's it's valless even worse
because a m is unpleasant. So he's
saying basically we need it every single
day day and night. It again it's sort of
like recharging our battery and gives us
the for that part of the day. Now this
explains another bigish but
and that is the
speaks about something which
there are certain things that leave
irreparable damage in other words
there's no way to reverse the problem
now I always helps so the mish gives two
examples Number
one,
a person did a terrible and he has a a
constant remind of his there's a child
that's
something irreparable damage. We
understand it. Another examples of the
not he left the but he was and he made
the most horrible mistake and he left
the okay we understand
there's another member of this club
another example of
and that is
the play and the assumption is he missed
Krishna wants and that is on the level
of
as as bad as
I mean it's a how could they be s that
is on the same level as amen
obviously
it shows how important every single
Krishna is you miss once I mean what's
so bad you miss once But you miss once
is because you need it in this world of
we need the and of course it's mentioned
at this time of the year when there's
man Krishna is the most challenging it's
8:05 810 this week was 810 but if
someone says Krishna after this man
Krishna
>> he wasn't he's not
>> oh I'm sorry 910 right we dominated
right 910 very good so the misa would
after This man is is not a mitzvah used
to warn people that those afterish
there's an you say before and then you
after the are not going onish per se. So
says but if a person says and thinks
that I'm saying now and I'm
therishma after this it's
because no such in the verse of there's
a mitzvrishna of course butrishna has
and saying after this man thinking
you're doing a mitzvah is so what do you
do like the says you say
but The point is that a Krishna after
this man is not a Krishma.
They say someone told Baron once that
once there was a story that Santa missed
the first man and he fainted. So Baron
says
so the fellow says why could it be true
that he he fainted goes nish
ever missed the first man. That's how
unthinkable it was that the okay many
people rely on the second
man but the point is that after this is
a
now as far as the actual
it's clear that's and that's mitzvah
that is definitely one of mitzvah there
is a a
but this is the past of the gor
says that someone has a suff if he lain
or not he has to repeat the why because
and it's interesting devotes an entire
sim I'm not sure why but the whole
is one if you have a suffic
because maybe to emphasize what aishma
is now of course we say that when
someone has a suffic I mean a real
suffic today unfortunately there's a lot
of nerfing going on that people are
nervous and anxiety I always say it's a
pellup because during Krishna when you
see so much you know people have so much
anguish that and they're nervous and
have shas Krishna is supposed to be a
it shouldn't be that a person is
overtaken with fear and every time it's
a struggle you say it with and then you
don't have any you know exactly even if
a person thinks he might have
mispronounced a word But at the end of
the day says
if a person
is so you say it with and then we don't
have which parts ofish is the don't
forget there's
there's there's
so this also is a big but the emmesis as
although as we know every word of
krishna is important but it seems that
the real what's what's the real is the
fact the
and says that is when
obviously that's the part of Krishna in
fact the Gmorra tells a story Rav told
Rabia you know I didn't see our rebi
saying Krishma and Rashi explains he
came to the sh before
You could even say Krishna and he went
straight through obviously must had a
very long sh and he didn't say Krishma
when did he say Krishma so they oh you
weren't watching carefully
called him look you ever notice during
the sh when he covers he puts his hands
over his eyes and he pauses for a moment
that's when he says he's
now of course the gmorra says oneita
holds held that he he continued he said
the rest of later one held he didn't he
sufficed with Israel
and because this
was on the level of
and he only did what he had to do and
the bare minimum is saying
so we're pretty comfortable to say based
on the
ofishma is the par of Israel and that's
and that's tak Why
is
now again the rest of definitely at
least
some hold that that that that
is some hold and some hold even.
So let's be clear every word is
important and no doubt about it there's
a treat at the end of and that's
that's definitely a every single day. So
you could say it then and
but as it seems that many is hold that
is the
now this is implicit in the Ramo the
Ramo in the end of Simov
quoting a and the Torah says that since
sometimes people are get too involved in
the various that they had that they
and they might end up ding a little
longer and missing man Krishna. But
today the problem is when a person has a
long and he ends up missing Christmas.
Whatever the case is there's a problem
he might miss this man. So therefore the
quoting of
he would say
and in the carbon and then if just in
case he missed his man he knew he
hadish. Now it's interesting the meaning
you see in the today that in the in the
you say
but the quoting
that make sure to say and
now obviously
this held and that's where they're most
comfortable to say that if you just say
and by the way in all is treated like
even though it's not a in the but it
becomes a package with. So it seems that
you could be that the is only
the fact that you could be with that if
you missed this man indicates that that
is enough to be
now
in there's no indication what he held
but in the end of
the says it clearly that you could rely
you could understand that the that is
the only is
now again every word is important in
fact we're so careful to have words
so every word is important and is count
account accounted for we add
whatever is but no doubt about it at
least we could say there is definitely a
a strong basis both
that that's the and of course day with
now this is both
shak and arvis there has to be kavana
minimally in the first now let's apply
it to our shilas so the first shil is
interesting because it's you learn and
you seem to get in a certain you get a
little of a mixed message the the
question we'll begin with is someone is
walking to shul can he say krishna
walking to sh could be shak when he's
about to miss his man It could be when
he feels he's late and if he's going to
wait till he gets to sh and start he'll
miss but kids are saying Krishna as
you're walking to sh now obviously there
are many distractions in the streets
could be the lack of I'm talking about
that there's no problem he living in a
quiet suburban area or he's in a camp or
in a in a bungalow colony the only issue
is any problem with walking and saying
Krishma so [clears throat] pashas we
would say what's the problem we pan like
b hill you could say krishna any way you
You could stand, you could sit, you
could walk. The says that's
oh another another reference that how
could you say you can't walk when you're
saying the says differently. The says
and that's probably why the
In other words, you could say it any way
you want, even
however seems to qualify that somewhat.
And
though it seemed like those words,
you have to stand up for
no, you made a mistake. That's not what
I meant.
till you get to the words in in
you have to be standing
as opposed to not as opposed to sitting
as opposed to being mahalik. In other
words, you could say it's standing or
sitting the whole but mahal
you have to first stop say until
then you could then you could be
mahalik. In other words, stand or
satisfy but walking is only after
very strange what's why but more strange
said the whole first para
has to be stationary you can't be going
second and third para that you could be
mahala
what's going on here so rashi andis
explain that really a person could be
moving during during during Krishna but
that's only
only after the words of why so is
integral torishna you have to have
kavana when a person is being mahalak
he's going his kavana is being
challenged he's doing something else if
he's looking around and he's distracted
of course no kavana but the mere fact
that he has to be going walking looking
where he's going it's just distracting
according to show me that if a person
even though
why
in other words's
because really if someone saidish the
entireish
walking he's we'll soon see the primadum
says Mr. Bur says it as long as you
how can you say that you're not if the
but
to guarantee it's interesting guarantee
includes the first para
do do better than that don't be walking
don't be in transit be stationary now
the question is wait a second so if
that's the case why can't I already why
olive
after that you can't you're allowed to
be moving. So the explained very posit
because what's the next after
the next says that so you can't tell me
I can't be moving when the could be
moving. So they made sort of a
compromise really
if you're moving the entire let's do
things better than that and let's do
and in one place after
then the says
I can't tell you not to and that seems
to be the compromise and that's why
And that's all he says. interesting
twice only says
what's the
but I'll tell you there's more than that
because the in the beginning of par
has a question
can you say
so the lion of the little
And to them, like we said
should be in one place.
Now you hear this when you start to
do what you want.
So apparently is based on the was not so
you could say the entire moving but for
we want you to do better. So for and as
the points out based on
don't be moving the
you could even though the says
but we are only the first so we can't be
more than that. So we have clarity that
there are three options standing sitting
and moving
you could do anything the entire if you
had walking you're fine but the some
holds until should be stationary
was not so and made up
don't move afterwards you could move so
now we could tell this person you want
to see Krishna walking Stop in the
street wherever you go walking say and
then continue going now that's the way
the
and therefore
says
that
stop for including
and the rest you could go anywhere you
want Mr. Bur explains
Why?
Now, of course,
does imply you're allowed to be going.
That's going on the rest of
however both the riff and the rush in an
hour. They quote the riid that there's
another factor and this impacts the rest
of the sh besides the mitzvah of the of
there's something that the pim called
Christmas should not be dery.
Krishna needs a total focus. You have to
be focused on one and one thing. And I
once had an English teacher and I was in
high school and he said I want your full
undivided attention. Someone said
like why
so I don't know if it says that or not.
One thing I know when it comes to these
are saying
you have to give your full undivided
attention. Doing something else during
Krishna takes away from Krishna's
kashis. Even if you have kavana a person
can be mahalak and he has kavana but
you're doing something else you're not
being focused on therishna and as just
like we'll soon see when when someone
that's being mame he's gesturing
nonverbal gesture during krishba he says
I'm not really I'm not not distracting
me. So even if he convinced himself it's
not a
but you're doing something else now we
have to give your full attention to
Krishna. So this is one package when it
comes to gesturing nonverbal. It's not a
heik and or when it comes to mahalak
they both have the same concern. You're
doing something else during
and that is inappropriate. Again it's
not a it's a but as they say you're
making a you're making it like just a
secondary. You're making it just to get
it over with and that's wrong. So this
is definitely why we understand that
besides the the factor of
there's a factor of making
and not a so even if there's there's not
a lack of kavana it's still a problem of
moving during the rush adds so if that's
the case why why can you walk around the
rest of krishna e i the lack of of kva
so very simple The says we can't aserate
the entire Krishna but we make a
compromise either the first
or the second par the the the first par
I should say until
and that's the of the
and that's why you'll find that
in in per
says that you shouldn't walk around the
entire
even
But you don't have to choose that. How
do we
don't forget the very
in the end of the
when he saw two of three of the he would
rely on them. So here we had a field day
the riff the raam tois and the rush
are basically makeas. So the
held that you the is the first
you have to be stationary the rest of
you allow to be moving the B takes
exception as a and he says why not say
until in one place and there are so many
besides what the what the what the B
mentioned plus that holds even the
second para so Why be only why make
after
so basically we do see that the and
that's the of the
that the
of being in one place extends until
then you have now the in contest very
strongly worded you know a few words he
says that mahalik is worse than no
kavana mahalik means you're making into
like you know by the way you know you
want to you have to do something you
want to get it over with you want to go
any say krishna the point is it takes
away from the importance of krishna it
makes it a a a shiff with walking now
it's hard to explain but lis when you
understand it if you want to give your
full undivided attention then sit down
or stand and say krishna don't be busy
going needs a certain amount of kavana
of certain amounts of so even if you
have kavan in krishna laa it's not the
right thing so what we see clearly from
this and then we'll use this as the next
shila is the the laa krishna the first p
is definitely the rice with and that
needs the most beyond that we saw a that
beyond that it's all equal we did see
the of many that that until should be
treated like
now so therefore
if someone wants to say as he's walking
to it could be could be for if he's late
so we could tell him
should be said in one place better would
be if should be said in should be said
in one place now the rest of the could
be said going to shul now of course you
have to know what else is doing in the
street if there's disturbances says if
there's a lack of sneeze very often
you're saying Krishma kavana going to
shul you meet your friend good morning
how you doing why you ignoring me so
you're embarrassed to tell them you
don't know how to communicate that I'm
saying krishma why you saying krishna in
the street so that's also a certain you
know the back of your mind you're a
little concerned about that you see
someone you start thinking you know what
how am I going to react to him where's
your kavana now you you have you have
two kavanas you know how to get out of
this mess and how to say krishma so I
can't say it's advisable but definitely
after or even after would be
obviously the focus has to be to
maintain at all times.
But the evidence someone said the entire
walking even that we saw
I should mention a little concerning to
me that says
does he mean to say
usually the word is but it's hard to
think that no one points this out quotes
even if he said walking had the meant
literally maybe he should have pointed
it So we could say even means the next
question is when someone is driving not
walking he's in a car on a bus. So we
find this that's that in
other words is sitting in a wagon and
he's he's going like and you have to
stand up for him. The question is that
apply torishna. In other words, you're
sitting comfortably in the backseat of a
car. Can you say well you say I'm not
going my feet are stationary but you're
moving.
So
in a car in a bus in a plane hopefully
you're pretty comfortable. You're pretty
literally what's the problem?
But do we apply this of
so
why the Ram say
that that we could learn that
is a problem. But when someone is being
even
Rabbi
not in our context and the truth is it's
very understandable because the
it's not a
status the is are you having able to
have are you focusing so but the Ram
takes this to the nth degree
So the Rambam seems to say even riding a
horse. You could say it even
because you're not being
glove. Now to us it's a pella. Riding a
horse needs a lot of attention. No, you
can't just, you know, put the course on
autopilot and t the the the bach wonders
how could the rama say that is that make
sense that you're allowed to be riding
on a horse
but he says its kavana he says we don't
say in this context
he says I do say it
she sends you to simmon bay cotton hay
okay but here he says here it's a
problem of soil you can't be.
So it seems that he does say that if a
person on a boat or an
we could understand he's he could be but
it's not like mahal. So at the end of
the day does say in that or a you don't
have to stop that's considered on a a
horse that is a problem. Now it seems
now this I guess you have to understand
the m see a little bit the p say driving
a car is absolutely assa when when
you're saying Krishna either you're not
going to say krishna properly or you're
not going to drive properly both of them
are not an option but it seems that that
driving a car needs much more attention
than driving a than riding a horse now I
never rode a horse in my life but it
seems at least the ramblam held that
riding a horse is okay not not the
passenger in the wagon but riding the
horse is Okay. But no one should think
that according to the Rambam that
driving a a horse is mut or driving a
car driving a car is dangerous enough
with even when you're fully attended
attention. But to go drive as saying
Krishna that of course is wrong. But
definitely we could say that a in a in a
in a bus in a in a car in the back seat
in a planeish
the whole could be said the the bus that
they den they stop but not for Krishna
because that we could say there is a
certain you have you're not worried and
that is okay.
Next question is a a tricky question.
Someone told me he saw an during he was
pacing back and forth and it bothered
him because you're not supposed to walk
during so
he kept me busy because that's a very
good question deeper than you think
because you think about someone that's
pacing back and forth. It's much worse
than than even driving a horse cuz
driving a horse you're not walking here.
He's anish a mahalak he's walking back
and forth. So could be he's worse than
even driving a horse.
But then again, you have to know what
exactly is the is because could be we
could say mahal is only.
So once that's the case in shul in the
comfort of your there's no is at all but
then again you have to look at the at
the source and and and try to figure out
what is the is so from the we have no
indication the talk you have to be it
doesn't say it doesn't say what the is
but you look at all the lion is it
shouldn't be mahalik the riff rash and
the and the and the and the other all
say mahalik the ismay
is quoting the
in fact the only the only redeeming
factor is the is the misqu by the way
but you look at the lion of the tan he
says that the first
you have to say with the full kavana and
then
mahalik
or you stand you could do what you
So it seems that the at least the is
that the is but the of the
that the is
now what's really tricky is the
quoted
you have to stop and in brackets
so the word is questionable so I looked
in the go says the the is based on the
so I quickly took out
And what does the shami say without the
word?
So obviously the go understood that the
is like the shami says does not say
but most sources stress
going then I found and this is this the
earlier didn't have this this is
his his father was a tal of an of so
talking about a few hundred years ago.
So
he says that
he says some people
I mean he really is clear what he holds.
There's no bigger kalis and lack of than
walking around back and forth in gimmel.
He again revisits the question and he
says even by by
stay in one place don't walk around and
he says that even that even though
you're not going any place in the street
it's
[laughter]
I guess he's saying you got to be in one
place it's all the same is wrong
lived a few hundred years later was born
was printed tough
That was the the
so has a sh also is pacing back and
forth a problem and he quotes that's
so in it's not you're not you know
you're just pacing back and forth but
the mahalik he says would indicate any
type of movement so he says that the and
allah
so he doesn't really say something
conclusively but we definitely could say
that The is that
so obviously the is also saying
now what really concerned me I saw
his new say
he says
means when he or his house
he would go back and forth in the
So either in his in his house or in his
house he would walk back and forth
except for and you see now one thing to
tell you why the pace back and forth I
don't know but I guarantee you there
wasn't a trace of kalus or aoy in the
pacing back and forth if you know the
kesho it was unfathomable.
But it's absolutely no that it was
lacking in
and it wasn't the
but maybe that's takos
maybe it's just basically me you know
Kaz was what was like a powder keg about
to explode from kaduca and draers and he
was like a locomotive they just had to
let off steam I guess maybe that's why
he walked back and forth I don't know
but I could say like the best thing like
says,
"Now, usually when someone's pacing back
and forth, it's just, you know, he's,
you know, impatient. Maybe wants to get
over it. Maybe he's on wheels like they
say. But if you see a god pacing back
and forth beyond and beh and I'm not
concerned at all that would be an
expression of the
I'm always spoil how this plays a
prominent role in in a totally unrelated
context in
the discusses
and people that were busy couldn't say
because they were mitzvah. So after the
before the gets a chance to go make a sh
to go stand by the sh those just quickly
say and
then they have the mitzvah and they
don't have to worry they might miss this
quoting says why are we talking about
you're going to the you can't say when
you're moving so he says no maybe means
you get to the you have a few seconds as
when you get to the sur
here we have mitzvah that put them in a
mitzvah by a novel but
you can't say
what and that all agree don't forget the
question only is but
is an absolute necessity and that you
see even in that case it has to be done
right
the same question someone's late and
he's rushing to get to you could stop if
you want but you have to say and
preferably until
not walking
And the rest you could say when you get
to sh and when you sorry on the way to
sh. The next group of questions is what
we call nonverbal communications.
Someone wants to motion to a child uh
say this stop fighting or he wants to
give soduck or stand up for he wants to
do things that are not verbal haveen but
he's doing something else during
soar in a different context very very
much
raan was learning and he quoted from
Ben kaput with a pay
ra was there and he realized that it's
not kaput with a bay It's kabuto with a
baze. So he motion with his hands like
you know you're making a mistake you
better re say it over again properly
if he's making a mistake tell him that
why are you motioning
to this mistake
so because during
during
and quotes the famous
don't motion with your eyes
with your lips
and is quick to explain
each there are different ways of
motioning with eyes, fingers or lips but
it's motioning doing something else
during
so
if indeed it was wrong to mo to to say
something that's why he didn't say it
motion is just as bad dig and for digra
that this is talking about the second
para the first para of of rama that's
awesome And we'll soon see even
why as the Gmorra says because when
someone says and he's motioning the
if you're not busy with me you're busy
with something else
that unfortunate
doing something else unforgivable.
But wait a second let's figure this out.
He was motioning and I must tell you
both the and
say it was a mitzvah because there was a
mistaken quotation that was
misrepresenting and you have to set the
record straight. So he was doing a
mitzvah and that's why in the second
para it's mut. So why in the first para
he's doing a mitzvah the terret has to
be that not only but even the first para
there's no room for a Muslim even
mitzvah the second para that's a level
lower than that but that there's a
leniency for a moit but the first para
there's no room for anything whatsoever
so now everything stems that taka he was
motioning in the second para not
permitted in the first para and this is
all the B quoting the that we mentioned
earlier we said about walking what's
wrong with walking there's no
is versus you have to give a total focus
undivided attention that's the problem
with a nonverbal gesturing you're not
being mic there's no heick but you're
doing something else with
the
and that's what the both and the rush
explain and I guess we can understand
based on the because because the mitzvah
is not just lip service there has to be
a commitment if you're doing something
else you're not thinking you're missing
the or even not but the connection that
is so much detrimental I'm always the
spoil I think it's a
quotes that a worker is allowed to skip
parts of benching because he has to go
back to work. Not
benching but we're accentuating what it
means
you have to work whatever is there
okay that's okay today we we're not for
that and we do say benching entirely but
quoting I understand you have to be on
time to work and even does not not time
at work which is a tremendous but
quoting so why don't you get to work and
and you work or going to work, why just
bench the rest of benching? Isn't it
better than nothing? And says that says
mathematically, no, it's not better than
nothing. When you're doing nothing,
you're doing nothing wrong. When you're
doing a mitzvah and doing something else
during the mitzvah, he quotes the p the
in the
what does that mean? Even though my
mitzvah but
not do anything during a mitzvah you're
showing that the mitzvah is mikra with a
hey or m
and even to learn to when you're doing
another mitzvah is wrong because you
have to give every mitzvah our full
undivided attention.
So the
but it's carry it's so it's a pillar
says it's benching it's all mitzvah it's
even doing a mitzvah and tora at the
same time
but don't mix one thing at a time full
undivided attention so that would
definitely explain a little more why is
even if not a is just you're doing
something else and that's why
it's all one simmon
after he speaks about
he says no gesturing in any form
you're not giving it your intention but
here the makaba makes a point of not
only saying the reason which is not
common but he wanted to explain it he
also quote he referenced the yuma that I
didn't yet mention where do we see that
you have to be fully inrishna
In other words, it's aishma
full undivided attention, no walking and
no gesturing. So this is basically a lot
about what we learned. I mean there's so
much going into this this this is it's a
it's etc etc. Now but the is even at
mitzvah is awesome. How do I know this?
So
it's in the first
correcting a misquote of our
why is
if it's a good it's a good
because really he could have done it
after
and not interrupted. So maybe it's not a
perfect ri why why that from from this
but I will say one thing that the say
that it has to be fully attentive to
therishna that was saying what's
interesting is
it has much more to the
ver what if you're doing something
that's a heick you're doing something
else that's the
the
quotes the raam that para
also is a
so the explain if first and second is so
so what's the like I told you the first
para is so even if our mitzvah is a
second para also no gesturing but there
there's a like we saw mitzvah okay now
the piskim do say that perhaps there
would be another
forrishna and The total devotion and how
could I not mention this? We find in
parash the joyous reunion of Yakov and
Yo 22 years of separation and as we know
Rashi quotes the famous Kazal that Ysef
embraced Yakov but Yakov did not
respond. Jacob ignored his son. He
hadn't seen him in 22 years. Why? He was
saying Krishna
in sim at the end of bay but Jacob was
constantly showing
now was a question of
the taz you know why he didn't he didn't
respond to his son because he was saying
and nothing is justifiable
so the taz already is connecting that
awesome story with our suga then I saw
say forma month later in the taz of
course but sim also has the same raya
and he says that maybe it's it's you can
understand how again how this is from
this story
so let's not just how serious it is
being gesturing we have a
we have the story of we have a but I
guess more positive look what the
krishna is how a person has to give it
his full undivided attention
But here I want to tell you maybe I have
a suggestion. You want to give you want
to I'll maybe why don't you stop Krishna
for a second as long as you need give s
to daka and then you continue
walks by stop saying Krishna don't do
two things at one time stand up sit down
and continue in other words maybe the is
only when you're doing two things in one
time you're saying and you're doing
something else.
So we'll say to that
if the iso
there's also you think about something
else now is Christian why something else
coming to your mind but
I'll tell you how beautiful you saw it
has this sh can I stop does it help
stopping saying and doing what you have
to do so he says look again
The has three examples of what's
awesome. Don't gesture with your eyes,
with your fingers, and with your lips.
So he says eyes and fingers you could st
you could you could do both at the same
time. But with your lips, you can't be
gesturing and saying Krishna at the same
time. Must be when
gesturing
it's even if you stopped
but two things don't go. It's not the
that there's a it's the attitude. Why
are you thinking of something else when
you're
and I saw the the
all the same idea the is of gesturing is
even when you stop doing what you had to
do. So that's why lisa it's a very
sensitive shila the shila of giving soda
during
you can't do anything is a human being
with human emotions and there's a lot of
bri is at stake especially tell don't
come during ding don't come during
during that part of dvening so I looked
into this and obviously it's a sensitive
issue but a little bit I could tell you
that it seems clear that during the
first pik and the first para
nothing goes even because even a gesture
is also even if you stop and that's
now beyond that in the second para so
there's a good reason to believe that
indeed that since it is a mitzvah so if
it doesn't distract distract too much
you're allowed to give sodak you have to
give and it seems that the only concern
here is maybe there's a az
but I did see that the
Zion say that if now it's you're allowed
to stop givea and go back to probably
better to stop saying givea and go back
the I think gives the right
and it really depends how much it
distracts you but one thing we could say
it's best to organize before Krishna
some people do this. I saw that didn't
leave on the table and hopefully the
only will take what he should take. But
I did see also they asked Rabbi Yashiv
could you make a taka no collecting
during Krishna he said yes but they
write there that in his sh he didn't
make s and he did givea in fact even
during the first para because he was so
distracted by not giving they're waiting
for him so obviously he felt he had that
he was distracted
I think also a little bit maybe more
than a little bit you know sat said once
told someone said you know rabbi I can't
d because so much stuck I can't d who
knows
or
so again to give a call some have is no
collecting some don't is think and make
and again
standing up for is a mitzvah
in the second par
but the the question only is and this is
what's and others say maybe now it's
inappropriate because now You're giving
cover to
so imagine you're saluting a king and
just the general walks by. So you say
king excuse me I have to do something
and you salute the general a lack of
priorities. So this is the the the
says this clearly
is very brief
about it
and
is very emphatic about it.
He said some held you can't stand up for
during he says the biggest is when you
do mitzvah. So what do you mean? And
the
and most emphatically the
asked his uncle the the
should he stand up for during and he
said absolutely. So again it's you don't
look for it but if it comes your way
it's a mitzvah that you could definitely
mim and have the mitzvah. Two last
points I wanted to mention the question
about someone asked me this time of the
year waking up a son or when if you
don't wake him up he's going to miss the
second man.
So that is
maybe it is
in
told his his wake me up to make sure I
get up. Okay. There he speaks about the
first par because the rest of he would
say when he was little but this the
if someone is sleeping wake him up
because otherwise he's a victim of
not to say he's an and when a sleeping
person is like
he went to sleep without a plan
he went to sleep very late how is he
going to wake up Krishna is 910 so
that's a mitzvah to wake him up and the
last question when someone said without
so this is a for itself but basically
you're not but what does he do he wants
to continue to go back the says
so the answer is very simple it's a
basic a person should not say twice
because
as he's subscribing to two gods
but as can point out if he says the
first without he can't
So what he could do is say it quietly
and no one hears is not a violation of
if he's diving for some reason.
So then there's no problem even loud
because no one's there. So basically I
think the best is have
if someone did not have kavana you could
go back to if he knows he didn't have
kavana and talk to your woman.
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>> Let's we learned today. First of all,
can't forget the magnificent package. We
have the injection or the antidote or
the vaccine that we have twice a day,
20, 7 days a week, 20 the whole year. We
have this package of
Then then the second paris
but
should be had for the entire because
but since
and of course so in the first par the
first which the rest a person would be
without if a person misses or misses
this man it's
because we need it every day twice a
day. The disa as we said is only the
first is but we have the first par as
well and example walking during a person
should try not to walk until at least
some hold the whole but at least because
the next is
but
only to stay in one place
I should mention if a person said the
entire
He was still because it's only a
there are two reasons for this of not
walking and now also of not gesturing
besides the there's an isa of making a
when it's supposed to be it's supposed
to be our full undivided attention going
in a car bus or plane is fine even
driving a car is absolutely and on a
horse is
pacing back and forth should be avoided
unless It comes from a a kesh of kavana
or zahav
but basically it should be avoided
certainly until at least until
or minim minimally at least they have
when a person is late coming to whatever
it is. So again this say Krishma but
make sure that you'll be able to say
Krishna in the street it's the and it's
not going to be any distractions
nonverbal gesture in any form is also in
the first para of
even
the second parit
again the same two reasons kavon and we
had the beautiful wife and y that yakov
did not even say did not even
acknowledge his son because he's during
krishna even if someone stops saying
Krishna to gesture it's still awa
because that itself is the
giving saddaka during the second para of
Krishna's mut during the first para and
should be avoided unless there's unless
it's it's disturbing you can't give to
that we saw from but basically in the
second para to make a taka depends on
who asks and depends what it is but
standing is the same idea in the second
par is definitely mut even though some
are but it seems that the
is to do mitzvah that don't disturb the
kavana waking up a sleeping person
should be done even though someone just
asked me there he told the person wake
me up but the is why did he say because
he don't want to be so what then if he
doesn't ask you to wake him up now and
also the question of a person he's
allowed to repeat is either quietly or
even out loud
you shake your and the set precautions.