Hefsek In Between Washing And Hamotzi - Rabbi Yaakov Zev Smith

like to welcome everyone to today's from in between 78851 8651 email.com Smith there was a family waiting for the last child to finish washing like by the sud there's always one that's late and someone spoke out it wasn't if he's yelling at the child to hurry up maybe it's considered but didn't it wasn't he spoke out and then there was a question what does he do do you have to wash over do you make another and it was no one could talk obviously so it was a little challenging what Tak do you do if someone spoke out after he dried his hand before question number two was we had a big camp we have a few and even all the sinks that you have you have 10 or 12 sinks is not enough for so many people the question is could you go to the bunk house to The Bungalow wash in a different room different building and come back and make a m to you in the dining room we're having suas is up is coming up can you wash in the house and make the m in the Suka question number three while you're waiting for the everybody to finish washing can you prepare the fish and put the crane and take a dip put it onto your plate are you allowed to do a in between and and the fourth question which is seems to be unavoidable what do you what do you do about the long wait till people finish till people come is it a half sick when it exceeds a certain amount at a certain time period now you notice we have four different questions cuz it's really four different parts of today's between in other words you washed you made a You dried your hands you're waiting for a is the sick is aick is doing something preparing the salad setting the table and it's just the passing of time maybe that's a he or typically when you have a Cho four Choice what's the right answer none of the above maybe we're going to prove today that none are really a he the main problem would be so let's learn the from the let's see if we can find theor but the truth is we could very reasonably assume that there is no h between now let me explain if you make a on on on the and before you ate you spoke out that's a he because the he is like a brick wall between the and the you made a on a Mitzvah and before you did the you spoke out again that's a he between the and the mitvah but our case you have two different activities you wash your hands and you made the and you dried you finished Thea now you starting phase to who said there a haveck I'll give you a beautiful Marshall let's talk about the time when Ezra when a person could not D when he was Tade so he had to go to the mikah so after he went to the mikah is you can't talk before you there and then you why can we look at it is but it's two separate and again I understand after washing before the or making a before eating is a half sick cuz it's one package maybe between Thea and is like between the Mikvah and the ding and we could find a source for this there three things that have to be right away take take we know every day by oh what is mean washing what does mean isn't this a wonderful M for our question well you note it does not say it's a he there's a Milo of take but we do see it has to be together right but the EM is it's not it's not compelling first of all you know what maybe BR means if you wash you may very good make but the real both and me you better bench and we soon that's a whole and learn that the is talking about after after after don't talk bench immediately so here we have a perfect why did the say take is going on the suda maybe like we suggested there is no problem of he between washing and and indeed the tour theour one of the and then he adds that's also the of the r and the RI that there is no problem of talking in between it's based on this that it's only now the Torah does stress that talking is not considered now it seems like he's saying if then it's a problem even between why that I understand because if you washed and then he lost the you have to wash over it's like someone that that went to the bathroom in middle of the suit he has to wash over so the only problem according to the tour according RAM and riff is only if and that we find you have to realize that the three big that based that is based on is the ra the Riff and the rush and here two of the three hold is no problem however thisi thei is in whoever makes this and that's the word we're going to use [Applause] today if you do it right nothing will happen during the he won't choke on a on a food stuck in his throat he won't swallow a bone now how do you T that obviously what is the the in this context of thei mean has to be washing BR means cuz had has been benching so you can't look back and say it's going to be a scho so now we see based on there is a not to be between and but the p is is also the explains that holds before you wash see in those days they couldn't drink the wine as it was it was called that was a very it was a pretty difficult pretty challenging activity you have to add hot water and mix it just the right amount so b b Hill said before you wash and you have to you have to guess that was when they made KES then you washed first and then you would make the Gin but the mik makes you do it before you wash why because if you wash and then you start with the m you violated take it from the so this is as clear as they first of all he's talking about washing second of all he calls it sud so we have a in that there is same T quotes the is no problem but my father was and I and and the sour is the take so now we see the a a beautiful picture of our question there are three sources is going on you shall is talking about and you get a and now we also have there is a problem with being with losing the how do we so this should be simple he's very indecis you don't have to worry about now this is very consistent with the attitude of the he took two of the three anding accordingly in this case you have a RI the ra why did he there's no problem sh what's noteworthy is the B says that the Shi seems to indicate you should be careful on that on that why do you only quote why do you leave out the in me and I believe that's why the was more than the cuz the M had a mind me so it's a a schoa but the says on this if you waited the time span of which will soon see is probably 16 seconds M so it's a beautifulu for us we have a b and AI not to be between and the between interesting the he says I don't know why he didn't mention that really the points that out now to me was that the he writes the of they go with the ram strictly after they finish washing they talk but they sit with their hand to make a not to be like some people they talk with they grab that so they they go there's no problem of talking but so they make a you know a a sort of [Applause] a now but I I don't understand why weren't they concerned about the scho because even the agrees because you have the scho that it won't be but we definitely see returning to is there a problem being between the answer is and listen to this no one hold this even the was saying it because of the and we soon is no one hold of we as and even even try to make it take to that there that MRI and this gives much more meaning to a beautiful in the the writes I I see very often even the call someone Al L he's Al L that they sit by a suda and they are very careful they don't talk between and they very Mo okay but after they wash before they make they do talk they're making a terrible mistake because after before is only a but after before you make the is the worst H so this gives more meaning to because we look at it when you're waiting for the you're not to talk that's a Hider but after you wash I how to talk people wash one hand then they're talking also wrong you have to make the right after the but we see definitely between is a but no more than a so now let's apply this let's start with the shallow we began someone washed made the BR dried his hands waiting patiently to make and he spoke out so until today we think oh not only you don't you don't have to don't make another but you don't have to wash over even the natila that you made is perfect the fact that you spoke out just lose you lose the take you lose a schoa no okay but it doesn't possible unless there was and Thea remains unaffected now I want to make a point says if you pause more than 16 seconds mck have oh maybe there are but it's not true you look at the he says what didur from this no one says it's the that passes on the only thing is you m and you lost the take so in the worst scenario even though he spoke out he did he lost the SCH he did not pass so how could you go and wash over with the BR and they want to wash over it's fine but you can't make a someone said no you know I'm going to do I'm going to touch my scratch my hair touch my shoes and make a new natila and a new what you're doing is being you don't need a that he does not have to wash over I found the if he spoke out you don't need a new says unless was you don't have to is [Music] not also says it he says if try not to make a pause because you're losing the theas but if he spoke out the atila is not possible now I'm not being Mao in the heres of talking writes twice and again is not to talk but to go and say I'm going to wash over with the is wrong now if someone spoke and so involved in his he was no but I did see the in the end of he seems to say that if someone spoke out maybe look at like a suff maybe so suff you could wash over but no one says to make another the seem to acknowledge the meaning of washing over also says they really you don't have to wash over butan is to wash over but again to wash over is not if you really want to wash over fine but to make another brother has a big I must tell you it seems that there was a certain organization that when they made a banquet they had a very mod Dominic that between the rabbi got up and made a whole speech thanking hasem for this and for that said that's a that you what are you bring to between talking he says you have to wash over if you do that it's wrong it's con you have to wash over with a now then how could you make another maybe felt that this whole procedure this whole ceremony is or maybe he wanted just to to to highlight that it's wrong and AP but again unless there was a there would not be now this is only between and if someone spoke out after he washed before made the that's the pain of and you have to wash over because you can't make a the way you are now now this also explains if you're waiting for the you know family to come to make a and you noce there's no salt on the table or the knife is not there you allow to talk out and say bring salt bring knife VAR it's nothing less before you ate which is much worse you made a there no salt you allow to talk out and say bring salt so to talk out between and and eating Cain in this sort of a p area of and now a like we do regarding all of we try to be more careful and if you need the salt better than calling out bring salt get up and get the salt or motion you know people motions very well you know that's a cloud we're going to see as we proceed even if it's to better do it without a verbal without verbally communicating so if you do need salt fine you could say better would be just a motion like you know salt and that's good now this applies to everything whenever you could avoid talking of being mic if just emotion would suffice about that's better one thing I would say I think it's cuz I mention this we do things right because we're especially when there's when a person is sitting with the family as we'll see it's challenging to make right away it's a part of the for some reason it just doesn't go but when you're eating at let's say in in the office so you're eating at home alone with a little bit attention you could really be even within 16 seconds but there has to be I'll just describe it briefly before you wash it's K to see if there's a tower because some after you wash there's no towel you have to look around for a towel So you you're spending time if you're in a place with paper towels pull out the paper towel some sometimes it doesn't come out or sometimes 20 of them come out fall on top of you and you have to be busy picking it up so again you're losing time have the paper towel ready wash like a make the BR right away like the is right after you wash before you dry your hands make the BR then dry your hands and that you don't have to rush because that's part of the natila then you make a m right away now of course you have to make sure before you wash that the bread is on the table the sandwich is open and there's salt on the table and there's no one sitting in your seat but if you prepare the table and the washing area you could very easily do take besides doing there's also SCH now this leads us to the next question that's extremely common let's say in some homes we'll soon see the r washes first some homes washes last some first let's say you wash first and everybody comes in and they make a br or from the kitchen you hear the do you answer a m in between your and your you finish washing you're waiting for a and you hear a half a dozen do answer so this doesn't sound so P because if I made my and before I ate I hear some are making a I'm definitely not allowed to say some say it's a he even but certainly I don't say aain so why all of a sudden here why should I answer aain but obious viously for us today not only allowed to but you should why because really it's not really a he it's only a lack of but this is part of to say says answer and that's why to my knowledge no one says differently I saw first the writes about that you're allowed to answer aain after says this says this now it's also not to say CU that's not a but you could answer a so that's sometimes a when you're waiting till the children finally wash at least if you hear them making a br you could answer a so that's a littleit in the long weight now my question only was if you say aain it's great but you're giving up take because you have the amain in between so stay true first of all and and you are giving up take is a bigger school maybe also maybe one word orain is not a Ste to take it's still just one word but no doubt about it you're allowed to and you probably should answer a someone asked me I couldn't couldn't figure out the question between could he answer K I said how do you manage that so he said he he the first minion shabas afternoon and he's wait about to make a and the second minion is saying K there's a later minion for okay whatever the case is the answer is if you're allowed to say which is now is a little longer but it makes no once we say it's not really a he it's a question of take then saying K is definitely a greater mil I'm not saying if you're sitting by the table waiting for a to make a see and in walks a guest goes oh you should be you should be allowed to answer in between here but it's not done don't be the first to do it probably this based on the famous quoting that in his times already people don't get insulted if you don't recognize them so is no longer gay in the times of because people know that you know you don't necessarily have to respond I'm afraid to say this but today people walk by in the street no one says hello goodbye so maybe the whole thing of sh or greeting someone no longer applies so if someone walks in give him a very big broad smile and you know that i' love to happy to have you and you know but let's keep away the he but if someone spoke out there's no problem I told the if your parents ask you a question and they want to answer now then you're allowed to answer so if you can't wait at that point that de would be okay the next question is quite challenging and that is when you have a big family shabas y Grand children grandchildren and there's a long way what he supposed to do so I always say the best thing to do I think I heard this he was once waiting for his Ritson and someone say so that's a good idea to learn G and sometimes you need K but let's say you learned G or you're learning Gult what else could you do so I'm going to ask you a simple question which I don't know the answer but let's see what what do you mean he never bored you know you could you could take out a sa you could look up look up a nice B in the par maybe believ it or not learning would be once told me he went to visit one of the in Brownsville in those days and he went to visit says you know I had an interesting story on on it seems he was very sick and D said he must eat can't fast the whole day but he could eat he could wait till have a half a day and then he must eat okay so came the afternoon and he go he has to eat so before he ate he decided he had a because he's going to make a br on the food then he's going to space it out to make it a separate so maybe on the second has to make a new because he wanted to separate from the first but then again he knows he's eating so he thought of he looked up he looked up by time he finished the it was the fdm so that's now the is and I mean it seriously if you if you get into a v to get into a suya maybe it's which is the worst problem now I'm going to read you a to and you tell me what you think to is sending us in a direction I'm not sure which direction says why are we so mtic to always have salt on the table by because since people are sitting around waiting to make until everybody comes and nobody's learning so the is what is this B so the bris protects us so he what is assuming that we're waiting and doing nothing why didn't you take out a safe why don't you think toyra maybe taka that learning is aome however I saw is a classic CH very he first says even though take is not a real have not but you should be very and you should do it but he says if someone ask you a sh and you don't answer him verbally between because since it's only here not to talk and now we're talking about to that's life itself how do you have the not to talk to to someone else it's only a question of Hi and then he says and not only is it but it's and then he says more than that since says that if you don't learn by the table it's you need so when someone comes your away between ask answer because it considered so the same that we thought is to learn holds to learn even verbally and two why and he includes emphatically that even without a sh you're allowed to learn and don't worry so the Mas definitely holds if you have if you instead of getting angry and and you already learned many times take out aor and start learning all say but no one addresses this simple question can you think can you take out a sa and learn without saying the words which is no more than here so to me the question is if it's takam what was T serious problem of so to say they were like us maybe is held that if you if you learn verbally you could learn thinking is not easy maybe some people would wouldn't learn but what I then I was thinking maybe the the whole the whole question is not really so so challenging you know when someone learns let's talk about bris bris was Legend they say his veins were bursting he he would think turn for 5 hours straight right now did he wash his hands every 15 minutes because if his mess maybe he scratched his hair and touched the shoe ter says no no when when when you learn that I like to say this when you're learning you're learning with you don't scratch your hand and if you want to get into the learning but there's an awareness don't touch what you're not supposed to so why can we say even though learning needs who said this you're going to touch your shoes when you learn you learn like Aid learns so maybe the whole problem doesn't really exist now we don't talk because we don't talk but why can't we understand that thinking or who i' been looking into a safer that's no more than her so it's somewhere in between to verbalize the words but to think to look into a I can't believe that it should be a problem if you hold it's a problem you know it comes out that between is worse than you all to learn now you can't and and the funny thing is it's not even take so it's Unthinkable but I will tell you I found three times in and he seems to say even thinking to looking into a sa should not be done because of the concern of okay I don't think it's a it's at all but definitely we could say that you're allowed to learn you want to be so I quote what one of the on said kite some people like to find you know a Mitzvah to eat and a ver to learn that's their fite you know you have to eat again next question that also happens quite often a person went to the bathroom and now he has to wash what's the procedure so the EM is this is really sim a whole Simon and basically the right way to do it is although many people are to was with a three times but it's not really so in this case you have no choice but to wash without a say and then wash with a K why not wash the First with a K say and wash again and then there says once you wash the first time you will so you can't wash again and make a the second I touch your shoes scratch your hair so that's why the most accepted Min is to wash without a and then to wash with a and you make some people espe was very sensitive to ever wash without a k so what he did was he would wash with a K properly twice in each hand however you do it then he made both I would ask you what should be the order of the bras what's first so everybody says goes first first and also you washed you went to the bathroom first that was first but for us today it's wrong because it's a heick better would be to make a so there's no half then what's your location after after you made the you're in between and Ah that's only a problem of take and there's a good reason for it but once you're doing it I would say do a little better wash once make it dry your hands and then make the because if your hands are still wet we'll soon see some say it's still part of the so you're getting a little involved with an issue better draw your hands then your B it's like's no you allow to say that's the right thing to do now of course people ask why can I do the the simplest thing wash make and make swallowed giml that's not an option because you make a right after you went you washed your hands you don't delay it next interesting question is a big tumble because every time we watch bot that a person must DAV every day for his and if he should do it really before you was if he forgot to make that special before he washed he could do it in between that does this is they say so it comes out that really supp do it before you wash even though it's important but why get but if you forgot to say it then say it after before come again many and they say why say it then you're running into a HEI problem it's only a question of take good but say why there between and is very against thein if you do once in a while is one thing but every day to stick in this is wrong but this was diminic acknowledges why it's very P if you supposed to avoid it say it before you wash or say it after but if you want to say it before and you got to say it before the you got to say it if you look in thisw this look look in the the yes the is make to say it he relies on the mar the mar says you allowed to even learn Ben Diamond saying this is also good so each people each person has their own mining many people say it before you watch that's the way it should be but if you forgot one time you're allowed to say it but it's a beautiful muscle because even though it's not really a he we try to avoid say it before you wash or after it's a true story someone always made K every shabas one chabas he was busy I don't know what happened he did not make KES but he's so used to coming home after KES came home and he washed and before he made a his child motioned him very respectfully like you know you make KES it took time from the what the child meant so his location was he had ready washed sitting by the table and did not yet make kides so what would you suggest he does no problem get a Bea get wine and make kids right there and there I between making is it's a for you can't eat without it I don't think I'm telling you when I tell you thats and that's the meaning of the the German that even Friday night you first make then you make the full KES drink the wine and then you make a the assumption is since you can't eat without Kish a Kish not a havei so even though most of us don't do that but in this challenging situation you have no choice you can't eat without KES so you'll make KES and you make a the person ever did such a thing but it's not really a problem next question interesting question Isa whena when you're waiting and the question is what else can be done while you're waiting so let me explain as I told you that even the ra that hold you can't talk it's only a m of but the himself says that it's not a he so with that in mind I think we could understand the what then says says if you wait more than it's a he but really means you lost the the take because that's the he proves based on that you can't allow more than to pass now this is extremely troubling when you realize that it's between 12 and 16 seconds if you make the of a mill 18 or 24 minutes I don't get into that now but it's probably no more than 16 seconds now if you have for every child it takes 16 seconds to wash what does their most what what was the mean how you supposed to do that so the answer is very pit that if you have children and you're not putting know for adoption right what do you do you wait for them and so either is it's not a to take it or what could you do is more important but I found both say waiting is not a problem I mean it can't be because we both to do the says and says the iant KE is only as AO if he have to wait wait now why do I say this because many people get nervous they were trying to keep and the children are are just you know procrastinating so let me tell you I worked in this for many years and it hasn't helped the seems part of the you can't get children you know just to wash right away now you might say you know I'm going to wash first and they're going to see me waiting and they'll feel bad doesn't usually work I'll wash last and chase them all to wash also doesn't always work so you might as well just say you know what I'm going to learn Gult and it's not a he but I found really beautiful the the Pim say that it could even be I will soon prove this that if what you have to wait is not a steer to take if because what can you do that's part of the natila so basically it's not to get aggravated wait the next question is is it an a to trim some of the time waiting of time to wash in other rooms or other floors you're at home so big Family Y is coming maybe some go upstairs some go to the base wherever there's a sink or more commonly in a camp you can't wash in as much as St 10 12 sinks not enough could you go to your bunk house to your Bungalow so not only is it but it's bias so you wash in the house and eating the Su now some people have the Suka and the porch wonderful and what do you do doesn't have a porch it's outside it's in the street whatever it is is there a problem of in this context so the end he says even is a problem like it is definitely is concerned about a now which problem is he concerned about you look at he's worrying about is not take you see take is a very objective word take means right away if you're going someplace it's not right away learn the problem is you're going what's beautiful let's say you're in a big huge they call it the sink is on the other side of the big room but right outside of this room there's a small room that has a sink which is the better option if you walk the other side of the hall it's a long but it's same the other room is a different so it's totally in these two reasons but be that as it may we come back to the same should make before you but if there's no other choice it's part of the so that means in a su your own Suka in a camp in a home if this will trim the the the waiting time people washing in other rooms there's no then it's not a problem of take that's your take to do it as quick as possible what I found beautiful he says and to use I'll use the English word but this is what he really means to say he says take does not mean immediately because it's almost not take is we say in English ASAP p as soon as possible if you're doing it as soon as you can that's know so that's why I think he means to make that differentiation but the he brings was an talks about a totally different context the is that before a person makes on a couple you have to you can't do it in a week Advance you have to do it the night before theit is done let's sayit is being done on Sunday so you can't make Problem whatever it is why cuz since the M can't do it on shab this would still be considered take and it's not M the problem is Mu it's not M because you did it the best you can so he seems to say that if you do the best you can ASAP like they say is what the is love necessar not necessarily immediately because you can't do immediately when you have a few children if you want to go to another room same thing that's that's the best way of doing it but we could do a little better and that is to make a long story short every Mitzvah we make the before the Mitzvah takes place is the exception we make after we wash because our hands are Tummy but we do make I we wash and then make the so is if you the drying is part of because if you eat without drying is is is wrong so therefore the N drawing is part of the even though today we use R so technically there no but it's it's not nice to eat with wet hands so at the end of the day even today is part is part of the and many and no one disagrees whenever you have to have a sort of a break in between this diamond the best thing would be to wash okay then make the broker right away and then either start drying or dry slowly let you're waiting for your family so you sit down by the table with a paper towel or towel whatever it is draw your hand slowly and if when you finish that's when the clock starts to tick the take it begins after you dry now he's really talking about if you're making you're washing in the house and you're eating the Suka so he says wash in the house make the don't dry yet walk out with wet hands of course if it's not don't walk in someone's floor and the drip people trip you have to do it properly with their but this would extend in AA so whenever person has to wash in one place and make a m another place in sh in his own house in a camp Anda house all that thing so it's m to make that but better would be you wash make the take a then go with wet hands to your seat dry it and then make this works in all these situations now of course the BR should be said right away because the BR is always said right after the even though you're extending Thea but the is said take the people sometimes they prepare laun lunch their home alone they either want to eat in their office or study so they prepare the the sandwich in the kitchen and they bring it upstairs wherever they go to the study or the office so it's K to do things properly if there's a sink upstairs then wash upstairs and you can be ready to take it wash downstairs run upstairs if there's no reason to be on this cooler best would be wash upstairs now if there's no sink so probably the best thing would be washed downstairs and make a mo downstairs ah you eating you going but helps but whenever we could do the right take of that's a much better option now Su is also theoretically you could wash in the house and of course make them in the if it's possible I'm not saying it always is it it's definitely better to bring out a bucket of water and especially on not of course but wash over the grave yes because this way you have take why rely on the cool of washing in the house and then and making the if you could wash Outdoors this better but again we don't do it problem of washing on grass or something not but at least when we could do the take that would be the best thing now the last group of questions is probably the most challenging because it's the most NE I'm waiting patiently and I'm T learning also while I'm waiting can I just take a little bit rain or dip or or set the table a little better or do something activity by the table so you're wondering why not take if you don't have any help because you're waiting right so but here the question is this is AA and for us today we're much more sensitive CU this brings us back to where we began with the in says all agree take that disturbs the take now I must say to be honest Miga does not mean pouring a cup of soda means mixing wonders why is such a and that is a problem of of it wasn't just pouring a cup of soda while you're waiting to make it was making you became a wine maker you mixed it the proper ratio and you didn't ruin it that if you're waiting so it's very hard to give a CL what's considered in a but the given is is the worst sh you know why because de waiting is not really a he the only potential po of the is and writes in two places I told you also that we should maybe treat every as a potential has so I would say that you have to be careful to do a you know maybe Tak but why take a chance if you're walking in after you wash from the kitchen to the dining room and you bring out a plate to help your wife or parent so that's probably a MIT going anyhow but to do something you know it's hard to give a cloud I want to read to you what the Ben writes in the safe an B the not live a thousand years ago okay but listen what he says I therefore don't look at a coin to see if it's legitimate or not if it's [Applause] real now look at the time now someone said he's talking about a sun dial I don't know he says it doesn't say Su di he didn't live a thousand years ago when I saw this I fell I fell back you know he's talking about looking at the time so maybe it wasn't as accurate as our time but this what he says so again that fell to the way side is irrelevant because you don't know maybe it's so it's hard to give a CL if someone ask you to you know motion to pass something you know you know but I can't say it's so P to do a gim writes whatever has to be done do before you wash and giv an interesting Marshall times thear before they ate they opened the belt it's a mish right I guess when they ate they wanted to uh you know grow expand and they have to leave room says do that before you wash it's for the sud but try to avoid every so it's really very hard to to give a cloud what's considered I did told someone who always gets nervous you know what for you I think it's better to do something between time and you could take the crane this way you won't get too angry if you get angry you know angry is definitely much worse but I think it's better off not to do anything and just wait patiently now when you have to wait is there any way of trimming the time so this I must tell you MIM says if you have a big family so it might be to give out a few extra and let each family make their own cuz till everybody comes is a long heick now even though it's not really a heick Some people prefer making so then you wait patiently again it's not immediately it's ASAP but if you want make small smaller you know and each make their own but I'll tell you is but I can't say it's K implemented because it might disturb the shom bias a little bit but this is a true story someone after The KES he decided he's not going to be he can't be with his father's he had to go out to the the bathroom for a second so he ran out to the bathroom and he came back just then in time to hear his father making a so his hands were clean and he decid oh let me he didn't want to get another so he sat down at the table and he heard the enti then what did I do I didn't wash yet so what's his location he heard he was the father him but he didn't yet wash yet what does he do to wash over makes no sense I mean he has to wash not wash over can you just just cancel the BR but you said you were y with it that you can't just cancel the BR so guess what this is the says this very sh but even more of someone is making a and someone's about to wash no problem stop washing don't start washing actually listen to a and then wash and make a I what are you doing midle of between a and the you're washing what's a simple ter so the now you can't eat so you have to wash wash you got haveck just like for for Med Halo they made K after they washed right F now could you make a br maybe we don't make a br maybe he said don't make a and make right away so stay first of all if make don't make I make after you make make after you eat it's too late once you made a so this is an if someone heard a before he washed and he was he could keep the in the back of his mind wash make a dry your hands sit down and eat from the and so was thinking maybe you could split up the family the pre wash is wash first and then the other group will listen to making the BR okay and then they'll wash the only problem I have with that is that we shouldn't do this see the whole of this is once you made so how you you can't just ignore the you have to do something but I'm not sure that's that's correct to make such a system half wash now half wash afterwards doesn't it doesn't seem to be correct plus the sh not going to be too good how you going to divide you know who's Wasing first washing afterward it it was never done but one thing I will say if a child comes in late and didn't wash and wants to be you could when regarding I should mention says don't be between and benching even and the she is many people do not wash by the sink they D wash by the table in a k of course to have take but I should mention this all the quote this story someone came to theel have a terrible shoulder problem I don't know why they went toel he wasn't a chiropractor he says tell me you say that he says well I I eat a sud and then I I wash my then I learn and then I Ben he goes oh that's your problem because you learish nice is wonderful but that's in between and benching so you ruin the so if you mix up take what do you have and sure enough his shoulder pain went away I said this in Yesa and someone swore to me and his family the same happened he's not but he stopped doing that Min and last but not least something to think about because there's no clear when when you waiting for the whole family you as the who washes first should you wash first because you're the oldest and the father of the family grandfather or to minimize the long weight you should wash last so this is two days in the God washes first the r used to wash less to minimize and there's no I saw in always washed first the SLE always washed last but probably the best answer would be if the father gets angry waiting for his children getting angry is never a good idea on sh let him wash last let him learn and say and say all the and then sh Smith for today's sh like to have this of sponsoring sh call 718 851 8651 email.com this point I'd like to invite to Wednesday night for my daughter vision [Music] he fore M or a girl give me second don't go okay let's try not to make too big a half sick between the of okay just we learned today I think there's a lot of at Le for myself that between all agree is not he it's not the conventional he there's it's not even such a big deal as far as take is concerned says there is a of but it seems that all agree that take is a based on a SCH but there's no real problem of he between like we saw from the from the it's two different happens to be is but it's not a actual one package that would be a real is the real problem because that pel the you have to wash over all agree we try hard to do and take and if you could wash and get everything ready by the suda you can make a within 16 seconds after the 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usually as we said take means as soon as possible not immediately because it's almost never getting nervous is not the right thing to do if necessary even a different building is okay the eights is to go with hands that are still wet dry them and make the BR right away after washing go with wet hands to your location and again you have ASAP even though you don't have immediately the Min gr they used to have small pieces of by the T by by the by the sink that they meant well but there's a lot of problems first of all you're supposed to make a br supp dip it into salt the BR standing is not preferable and once you're standing so the BR becomes like as you going so the minute was discontinued for a good reason you make a by your on a with salt the eating Outdoors if you go wash Outdoors better if it's not but if not you wash inside and make the outside the real problem is like we saw any real type of he of of and we said also washing first or last is different than hug but technically if 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