Knowing Someone for Real - R. Tomer Zino - TorahAnytime.com

How do you get to know a person who they really who they really are? A lot of questions people ask me is people could put a show people could act to act. One time I read somewhere that says in a person says King Solomon a person according to his praise like says person is recognized in his cup when he drinks a little bit alcohol you see his nature comes out. When it comes to money sometimes you have a good friend when it comes to money all of a sudden he's not your friend. He all of a sudden his true nature comes out. When it comes to the anger when you see a person situation of anger his true nature comes out. But a lot of times you could you don't always run into situations like this. So the King Solomon says see how he talks what a person likes to talk about and what a person you see the glow in his eye when he talks about something. Talk about BMWs. Whoa. You see the guy's open he knows all the details. He knows you know the years and the difference between the models and you know he talks he knows all the ins out. He the conversation's flowing when when he's talking about these things. Talk about learning. See he's a little bit reserved. You know it shows something that shows something other way around too. If you see he's excited about learning and learn and in rabbis in Torah and he likes sharing you see the twinkle in his eye. You see what his init and then when it comes to Kashmir he's like okay that's nice but whatever yeah okay he's not so excited about it. So a person can pretend to behave a certain way but when he speaks what he praises what he gets a twinkle in his eye about then you can really see what the person is