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We have a amazing topic tonight.
We're going to talk about
Abraham Avinu's descent to Mitzrayim.
So, Hashem comes to Abraham with the
epic command Lech Lecha.
Go.
Mayartzecha from your land.
U'mimoladetecha from your birthplace and
u'mibeis avicha from your father's
house. Where are you going to go? I'll
let you know. El Ha'aretz Asher Areka.
There I'll make you a great nation.
I'll bless you. I'll make your name
great. You will be a blessing. So,
Abraham Avinu hits the road.
And as soon as he gets to the land of
Israel, there's nothing to eat.
Now Now you say, "Why was there nothing
to eat? There was There was food to eat
before." No, there was a famine. Famine?
Do you remember ever encountering a
famine in Chumash before this event? No.
There was never a famine in history. The
concept of famine did not exist. Where
was the famine? Only in the land of
Israel. Was there a famine back in
Charan where Abraham was? No. Was there
a famine in Ur Kasdim? No. Wow, this
listening to God is really working out,
you know?
>> [snorts]
>> So far, we're off to a really good
start. Here, Hashem tells me to leave my
house, my family, my job, my
familiarity, and everything will be
good. You'll be wealthy. You'll be
successful. You'll be blessed. And
Abraham gets there, he can't even put a
stale piece of bread bread on the table.
Wow, this religion is really wonderful.
It's very positive.
Abraham goes down to Mitzrayim.
Did he do the right thing?
I mean, you'll say, "Well, what else
should he have done? There's no choice."
Says the Ramban, an epic Ramban,
the Ramban says, "He may have done
something that he shouldn't have done."
Avraham Avinu went down to Mitzrayim
because of the hunger to sojourn there,
to bring life to himself in the years of
famine. The Hamitzrim always say, "Now,
when Avraham got there,
did the Mitzrim shower him with honor?
No, they oppressed him.
They beat him for nothing. What did they
do? They
kidnapped his wife.
So, now Avraham Avinu, his first day on
the religion, you know, that he formally
agreed to listen to Hashem, he goes down
to Egypt because there's nothing to eat
in Eretz Mitzrayim in in Eretz Canaan,
and the first day the IRS comes, the FBI
comes, the you know, they knock on the
door, they take his wife.
>> ICE.
>> No, they're good, yeah. They take and
and they take his wife and uh that's it.
Now, what happens?
No, he came to Mitzrayim in a big
diamond.
The Ribono Shel Olam avenged
against the Egyptians with great
plagues. Sound familiar? The
Ribono Shel Olam and Hashem extricated
Avraham from there with cattle, with
with silver, with gold, with gold. He
even commanded Paroh to send He forced
Avraham out.
>> [clears throat]
>> What is this all about? This is all
based on the Ramban's great principle
that he advanced in the beginning of the
parashah, Ma'aseh Avos,
similar bottom sefer HaYetzirah.
Whatever happened to Avraham Avinu
portended was the paradigm, a
pre-enactment of what will happen for
the Jewish people. Veramah Zeh Lav,
Hashem alluded to Avraham Kivan Avraham
Mitzrayim
that the Jewish people would end up
going down to Egypt because of famine
to live there temporarily, and then the
Egyptians would harm them. Now, the
Ramban reveals to us, everybody knows
that the Mitzrayim made a decree called
Hayilid
that throw all the boys into the river
and let the girls live. The Ramban is
saying the fact that that was created
through what happened to Avram and Sarah
meant the reason the Egyptians wanted
the women to live is not because they
wanted to be kind to the ladies. It's
because they wanted to assault, they
wanted to take the Nashim like Paro did.
And then Hashem plagued the Egyptians
the same way Hashem plagued Pharaoh when
Avram and Sarah went down. Ad she see
him until the Egyptians let us out
because
the
but sign or
make a covenant
my aid.
And they pressed us to leave. There's
not one iota that happened to Avram that
did not reiterate itself to the Jewish
people later in history.
And the Ramban says this is all based on
the idea
that Hashem tells Avram go and Kavash
conquer the path before your descendants
and you'll see whatever happened to
Avram happened to the Jewish people.
Okay, that's a very famous
approach of the Ramban. The Ramban
throughout Sefer Bereishit uses this to
explain
the episode of of Yitzchak at the wells
and Avram fighting the four kings and
Yakov Avinu going down to every event in
Bereishit the Ramban uses this lens to
explain.
>> Rabbi, how long was Avram in Mitzrayim?
Do you know?
>> It doesn't say.
Now,
according to most Midrashim, Avram
coming to Eretz Yisrael and there was
famine and being forced to go down to
Mitzrayim was one of the 10 tests of
Avram Avinu.
The Ramban doesn't learn that way. Check
this out. The Das is Ramban. Ki Avraham
Avinu hata [snorts] chet gadol bishgaga.
Avraham Avinu inadvertently sinned
egregiously.
Why?
Shehevi ishteiha tzadekes bimichshal
avon. He brought his righteous wife to
stumble in sin. Midnei pachdei pnei
ha'goiim out of fear lest they kill him.
Meaning, Avraham Avinu tells Sara Sara,
you know,
you're you're really a lovely wife. It's
been It's been great. Here's the deal.
If we show everybody our marriage
certificate, they're going to kill me.
So, you just tell everyone that we're
brother and sister. This way, they can
forcibly abduct you and they will
violate you and my skin will be saved.
You hear what Avraham tells Sara? He
basically tells Sara, "Here, Sara. I'm
going to feed you to the to the dogs.
They're going to violate you and I'll
save my own skin."
Why did Avraham Avinu do that? Cuz he
was afraid for his life.
Did Avraham Avinu do the right thing?
No, says the Ramban. He sinned
egregiously. He did the wrong thing.
What should he have done? Otherwise,
they would have killed him. He should
have had bitachon that Hashem would save
him and his wife. He should have said,
"Pharaoh, meet my lovely wife, Sara.
We're married. We've been married for a
long time. Don't lay your hands on her."
And Avraham Avinu should have trust in
Hashem that Hashem Hashem can't save
Sara and Avraham from from Paroh? So,
the first
amazing observation of the Ramban and
amazing comment of the Ramban is Avraham
Avinu sinned and he didn't sin
in a minute way. He sinned egregiously.
Now, first of all,
where did the Ramban get this from?
No other Mefarash explains that Avraham
Avinu did the wrong thing over here.
What was he supposed to do? Avraham
Avinu was supposed to say, "We're
married." What do you think would have
happened? Would that have ended well?
Yes, says the Ramban, Avraham Avinu
should have had bitachon. Now, this is a
a monumental
comment of the Ramban that the meforshim
struggle. Where did the What source did
the Ramban have that Avraham Avinu did
an aveira? Does it say in the Chumash
that he did an aveira? Doesn't say in
the Torah that he did an aveira. The
Ramban continues, "You know what else
his was a sin? The fact that he left the
land of Israel. That's also a sin. Gam
yetziaso min ha'aretz she'nitstavah alav
bat'chilah. Hashem told him, "Lech lecha
me'artzecha va'avarecha. I'll bless
you." Rashi says, "B'mamon."
So, he should have had bitachon. He
should have stayed.
Mibnei Harav Avain.
God
Go. Go to the land I show you.
Go to the land that I show you. Now, now
listen to this.
Um ki ole kim barov yiftenu mimaves.
Hashem could redeem from famine.
Says the Ramban, "If you ever wondered
why did the Jewish people deserve the
Holocaust that was Egypt where 80% of
our people were decimated, where more
Jews were killed than in the Holocaust?
What did they do wrong that they
deserved going down to Mitzrayim? I'll
tell you. It was a punishment for
Avraham Avinu in his treatment to his
wife and not having bitachon when he
went down to Mitzrayim. He shouldn't
have told Paroh that they were brother
and sister. He shouldn't have gone down
to Mitzrayim. He If he's going to go
down, he should have said they were
married. And to tell you the truth, he
should not have gone down to begin with.
So, because he sinned with Paroh in
Mitzrayim, the Jewish people were
punished by Paroh in Mitzrayim.
Where did the Ramban get that from?
All the Rishonim learn that it was one
of the 10 tests of Avraham Avinu that
immediately when Hashem said
go to Eretz Yisrael, he goes and then he
has to leave. Says Ramban, no, he didn't
have to leave. Nobody told him to leave.
So this is an
two
earth-shattering comments of the Ramban
that the Meforshim struggle, where did
the Ramban get this from? In fact, comes
the Maharal
in the Sefer Gevuras Hashem, the Maharal
says I'm going to ask questions on the
Ramban, ad she nakar peirushai mikol
vakol, I will completely uproot entirely
from its source the comments of the
Ramban.
There is nowhere in the writings of the
Maharal where he writes so sharply that
he's going to be oiker the the teaching
of the of the Ramban. First of all, says
the Maharal, if it's true
that it was decreed
on Avraham that his descendants should
have to go down to Mitzrayim because
Avraham sinned by telling the Paro that
they're brother and sister, so could you
tell me why shortly after when Avraham
went to Gerar and Avimelech says who's
the lady and Avraham says she's my
sister, why would he repeat the same
thing if it was such an egregious sin,
then why did Avraham Avinu do it again?
And guess what Yitzchak did when he went
with Rivka.
See, Avraham was polite. Avraham said,
"Sarah, here's the deal. When we go
down, you're going to say we're brother
and sister." When Yitzchak went with
Rivka, he took no chances. Paro says to
Rivka, "Rivka, who are you?" Yitzchak's
like, "Hey, you know,
she's my sister." He didn't even ask her
before.
So if such an egregious sin, why did
Avraham Avinu Avinu repeat it? And why
did Yitzchak do it?
Okay, so [snorts] that's a few questions
on the Ramban.
Again, the Ramban
uh
unleashes
two amazing Hadushim. Number one,
Avraham Avinu sinned greatly
by putting Sarah in this precarious
situation to have to say that they're
brother and sister.
And Avraham Avinu sinned even more
egregiously by going down to Mitzrayim
in the first place. And if you want to
know, why did the Jewish people have to
go down to Mitzrayim? Cuz Avraham Avinu
did not have bitachon in Hashem.
I mean, that's a very strong statement.
Mitzrayim was not a good place.
That would be like saying, why did the
Holocaust happen?
Because one of our forefathers
exhibited a slight lack of bitachon.
I mean, we can never say something like
that, but that's that's what the Ramban
is saying.
So, in the writings of Rabbi Yosef Shaul
Halevi Natansohn, the the
uh
Sha'al the Sha'alot U'Tshuvot
he says that
in order to explain a little bit why
Avraham Avinu
uh did not stay in Eretz Yisrael and
rely on Hashem,
the Rabbi Yosef Shaul Halevi Natansohn
says
that Avraham, in his great humility, he
was concerned maybe he was not worthy of
a miracle.
So, he had to do some hishtadlus and he
had no choice. He didn't want to rely on
this miracle. You know, the in the
Mesorat Rav Kook Ramban
um the it's the classic Ramban
there are Hagahot of Rabbi Chaim Dovid
Chaim Dovid Chavel.
In the Mesorat Rav Kook uh Ramban, you
have an annotated comments of
Rabbi Chaim Dovid Chavel, or if you
remember the English Rabbi Dr. Charles
Chavel.
I think I have
both editions.
He writes that the comments of the Rabbi
Yosef Shaul Halevi Natansohn would
answer the question of the Maharal. In
other words, the Marala is asking, "Why
did Avraham Avinu
uh say about Sarah that she was
uh his sister?" And the answer is
Avraham Avinu was was concerned. He
didn't want to rely on a miracle. He
thought maybe he was not worthy.
But like we pointed out
>> that for both?
>> Yeah. Well, how that Yeah, does that
really answer the question? He repeated
it again, and then Yitzchak also did it.
>> I mean, it's understandable maybe that
he
shouldn't have gone down in the first
place. That he should have had, you
know, maybe
>> Yeah.
Okay, so look at this. The Ramban is
also uh very difficult because all of
the Midrashim identify that one of the
tests of Abraham, one of the Nisyonos,
the same way the Akedah was a Nisayon
and Lech Lecha was a Nisayon. The fact
that when he came to Canaan, immediately
that was the only land that had a
famine. Look in the Pirkei De Rabbi
Eliezer. Number five, Nisayon Ha Ra'av.
Mi Yom She Nivru Shamayim Va'Aretz, Lo
Ba Ra'av Ela BiMei Avraham.
Not until Avraham Avinu stepped When he
got off the plane of El Al and he got
down the the thing, right then for the
first time in history, the moment he
kissed the floor, there was a famine.
There was never a famine before. And
where was the famine? If you looked at
the map, only where Avraham was.
So all the people who told Avraham that
he's he's, you know, delusional in his
religion, they're probably they're
laughing at him. Oh, how's your How's
you and your God working out? How's that
working out for you?
El Avraham Canaan, to test him and to
bring him down to Mitzrayim. The Pirkei
De Rabbi Eliezer says the test was that
he should go down to Mitzrayim.
So in the commentary on the Pirkei De
Rabbi Eliezer,
um
>> [snorts]
>> says that this is not like Ramban. The
Ramban is of the opinion
that Avraham Avinu sinned by going to
Mitzrayim.
Where did the Ramban get this from? Says
the Radal, Rav Dovid Luria, the Ramban
got this from the Zohar Hakadosh.
Where the Zohar says,
"Because Avraham went down to Mitzrayim
without permission, the Jewish people
were enslaved in Egypt." But the Pirkei
De Rabbi Eliezer is going like Rav
Shimon in the Zohar.
That Avraham Avinu was required to go
down to Mitzrayim. So actually, it's
interesting in the footnotes on the
Ramban,
Rav Chaim Dov Shavel
uh brings, first of all,
that where did the Ramban get that
Avraham Avinu sinned egregiously by
telling Sarah to say that Sarah is his
sister?
Uh so Rav Shavel says that the Ramban
got from a different Zohar. The Zohar in
Tazria says,
Pasach Rabbi Eliezer va Amri,
"Im rei na achosi at."
Question, Avraham who is such is so
God-fearing, he should he should have to
stoop to lie and say that she's his
sister?
So says Rav Shavel that the Zohar is
mashma that Avraham Avinu sinned by
utilizing this plan. Furthermore, where
did the Ramban get that it was an aveira
for uh Avraham to leave Eretz Yisrael?
That's the Zohar in Lech Lecha Amri
Rabbi Yehuda tachazi, "Keivan de nachis
Avraham le Mitzrayim, ishtabidu benoy be
Mitzrayim arba me'ah shnin." I actually
remember learning this Ramban
when I was either in ninth or tenth
grade.
So we're going back
more than 30 years or we're going back
about 10 years ago, you know? No, we're
going back more than 30 years ago and
our rebbe, Rav Moshe Polberg, taught us
this Ramban.
And
I remember him saying that it's a big
kodesh that the Ramban
says that Avraham Avinu was did not have
an error by going down to Mitzrayim. And
he said it's a big question where the
Ramban got it from. And I think he
referenced this note in the hago'is of
the Shavel cuz I remember he would say
boys the best Ramban to get. I remember
the voice he would say I don't do
imitations.
But if I if I did do imitations, it
could be I could do a good job right
now. But he would say that boys the best
Ramban is the Shavel Ramban. Anyway, so
I got the Shavel and here he does say he
says the source of the Ramban is from
the Zohar Hakadosh. If I could please
have a chumash. But what I would like to
learn with you is what exactly was
Avraham's plan?
Please say Sarah that you're my sister.
Why? So the next thing Avraham says
l'man, thank you. L'man yitav li
b'avureich.
And Rashi says so they should give me
presents.
V'chaisa nafshi b'glaleich and will
survive.
So it's a little bit odd. Avraham is
saying listen dear wife here's the plan.
The plan is that we're going to say
you're my sister. This way they'll
abduct you and violate you. And now
they'll give me a lot of good presents
and then we'll save our skin.
So what was Avraham Avinu most concerned
about? The gifts. It sounded like he
wanted the gifts. That's the first thing
he says.
And how exactly by them giving Avraham
presents would that save their life? You
know, the pasuk should have said imri na
achosi at v'chaisa nafshi b'glaleich.
Say that you're my sister so that we
could survive. Why even mention in
middle and they'll give me gifts?
There's an incredible Malbim here. By
the way
>> How does Paroh know who Avraham is?
>> Right now I don't know I don't know who
Paroh is. Who's Paroh? We're not up to
him yet. We didn't get up to him. Listen
listen carefully. Then the pasukim say
that
when Avram came down to Mitzrayim, the
Mitzrim saw the woman ki yafa hima oi
that she was very beautiful.
Okay.
So what did they do?
I don't know. It doesn't say because the
next pasuk says, "Vayiru eis Sarai
Paroy, the officers of Paroy saw her.
Vayihallilu eis Sarai and they praised
her."
Could somebody please tell me, so why
does the pasuk before say the Egyptians
saw she was very beautiful? So what? Why
does the pasuk never say "V'diafor"? The
It starts off by saying the Egyptians
saw she was very beautiful. Okay. Yeah.
And? I'm not telling you.
And then it says, "The officers of the
Pharaoh saw she was very beautiful."
And they praised her to Paroy and now
she's taken.
The Malbim has a really ingenious um
approach over here. The Malbim says like
this. Avram Avinu did not ask her to say
that she's his sister so that she should
be taken and abducted. The plan was like
this.
You tell everyone that I'm the big boss
here. I'm the brother.
And no one takes your hand in marriage
unless I give permission.
Say you're like an orphan girl and I'm
the big, you know, mafia boss.
And everybody knows what that means.
That means if you they want to marry you
they got a get my reshus.
Which means What does it mean to get the
reshus of the older brother? You got to
pay him off. Says Avram, "Huh, when they
hear the price that I ask, they'll say
never mind."
A woman that you have to pay big bucks
for, nobody's going to be interested in
you. I'm going to say that I'm your
brother. Say that you're my sister. And
I'm going to ask for an exorbitant price
and they're all going to back off. So,
that's how the possuk says. The
And what happened? They They asked, "How
much?" And they didn't get the answer
they wanted, so they moved on.
But Avraham Avinu never thought
that the word would get to the king
that that Sarah's available. So, what
happened? The officers of the Pharaoh
uh Sarah and they praised her to Paroh.
And Paroh said, "How much?" And when he
heard Avraham couldn't change the price.
And then the Paroh said, "No problem.
How do you want it? You want to Zelle or
cash?"
So,
Avraham Avinu had no choice. He was
stuck.
And guess what? U'l'Avraham heitiv
ba'avurah.
They did good to him. They gave him a
lot of money.
Says the Malbim, if you look earlier
Avraham Avinu says, "L'ma'an yeitav li
va'avurech v'chaisah nafshi b'glalech."
There's a difference between ba'avur and
b'glal. Avraham Avinu says, "I want them
to do good to me ba'avurech." Ba'avurech
means in exchange for you.
Meaning I'm selling you. Basically,
you're up for bid. I'm selling you, but
the bid will be a price that they can't
pay.
And this way, since they can't pay it,
v'chaisah nafshi b'glalech, I'm going to
live on your account cuz nobody's going
to pay for you and they're going to send
us away.
Then the Malbim adds something really
interesting.
The Malbim says, "It is known that in
the ancient times
any woman who they saw that she had
exceptional beauty,
they would figured she must be
a deity. She must be like a goddess.
And Avraham Avinu
um
would be in grave danger because what
right would he have to be living with a
goddess?
So, therefore, Avram Avinu says, "Listen
up. Don't say that I'm married to you
cuz they're going to kill me.
Instead, say I'm your brother. And if
I'm the brother of the goddess, they're
going to honor me. They're going to pay
homage to me."
The problem was that in ancient times
they thought the king was the god. So,
they took Sarah, who they
had this exceptional beauty, to the
Pharaoh. Okay. Another Ramban. I don't
know I get a I get a real good kick out
of this Ramban.
Now, nowhere
did Sarah ever tell Paroy
that she was Abraham's sister.
Nowhere did Sarah tell Paroy that she
was Abraham's wife.
So, what happened? Paroy was stricken
with great plague plagues. By Yikra
Paroy l'Avram, "Vayomer, "Mazois s'asisi
li? Lama lo higadeta li ki ishtecha hi?"
Why didn't you tell me she's your wife?
How did Paroy know that Sarah was his
wife?
>> Avram Yitzchak told him.
>> How? Sarah didn't tell him. We don't
find in the Chumash that Sarah told him.
So, the Ramban says, "Well,
when all of a sudden that the night that
Paroy took Sarah, all of a sudden he's
in terrible pain and you know, he needs
uh he can't even he's rolling around in
misery. He's being smitten by an angel
bashing him over the head. He says to
himself, "Mazois asoli kimlanu?" What
has God done for us done to us? So, he
asked her, "I don't know.
Are you Are you his wife?"
I'm sorry. He asked her, "What's going
on over here?"
And she had no choice but to say he's my
husband. So, according to Ramban's first
chat, she divulged to him that they're
married. That's why the Pharaoh called
Abram and he confronted him. Why didn't
you tell me that you're his that she's
your wife? Lam al he got it to leave
Kisha Kahili. But then the Ramban says
another shot.
The Pharaoh wasn't a fool.
What was the plague he was stricken
with?
Raw asson. What is raw asson?
It's a disease that
causes pain when for relations.
So Pharaoh put two and two together. I
just took this woman and all of a sudden
I have this disease.
So maybe I shouldn't be taking this
woman.
So now this Ramban, I don't know, I get
a real kick out of.
Pharaoh now teaches us the art of
cross-examination.
Pharaoh had no clue that Abraham was
married to Sarah, was related to Sarah,
but Pharaoh wanted to get out the truth.
Because
he wasn't sure. If she's the sister,
she'll be his new wife. If she's the
wife, he knows he can't touch her.
So what does Pharaoh do? He says
he says Lam al he got it to leave Kisha
Kahili.
Why didn't you tell me that she's your
wife?
And what happened?
Because when when Pharaoh said, "Mazo is
so silly."
If the if she was a sister, Abram Avinu
would have said, "No, she's my sister."
She's my sister. So Pharaoh basically,
this is the art of leading questions. He
led he set him up. He said, "Why didn't
you say she's she's your wife?"
Now, if she wasn't Abram Avinu would
have said, "No, she's my sister." And
what did Abram Avinu say?
He didn't open up his mouth.
Pharaoh said, "All right, I got you. Got
you. I wasn't sure, but now that you
didn't say she's the sister, I got you."
So, Paro is the you know, the first
training in cross-examination is from
Paro. Paro said, "Why didn't you say
she's your wife?" He had no idea. He
just took a shot in the dark. He had
nothing to lose. That's why
when you're asking questions for
shidduchim, now you're not really
allowed to do this. Actually, you're not
allowed to do this, but I know people
who do this. They're really good at
getting information. How do you get
information?
So, you know, you're not sure. Is the
boy clean? Is he not clean?
He smokes He smokes every week? He
smokes every week? You never heard that
he smokes. You have no reason to assume
he smokes. See, he smokes. So, if the
person says,
"Well, he only does it socially." You
see, you found out exactly what you
needed. But if a person says, "No, I
don't know. What are you talking about?
I never heard such a thing." That is the
art of yenta
information for shidduchim. And where do
you learn it from? From Paro. Some
things, you know, it's the it's it's
leading questions. Paro had absolutely
no idea that Sara was his wife. He said
it on the chance that they were married,
figuring that if they weren't, Avraham
Avinu would have jumped to deny it, and
he didn't. So, he got the information he
was looking for. I don't know. I thought
that was
amazing how the Ramban read into what
Paro asked to answer his question of
what How did Paro know? That's the
Ramban for you.
Okay.
Now,
what?
No, this is advanced, I think. Yeah.
The Ramban learns Avraham Avinu sinned
by going down to Mitzrayim.
Most Rishonim learn he passed the test.
That Hashem says go to Eretz Yisrael,
and the moment he got there, he had to
leave immediately.
Reb Chaim Volozhiner says
in the Mishna on Pirkei Avot, perek kaf,
mishna gimmel.
It [snorts] says there 10 generations
from Noach till Avraham
with 10 tests, nisnasa Avraham Avinu.
Why is he called Avinu specifically in
the context of his tech of his tests?
>> [snorts]
>> And the Nefesh HaChaim says something
very foundational,
very fundamental,
that throughout history
even simple Jews, even unlearned Jews,
were willing to be thrown into the fire
for Hakadosh Baruchu.
Where did they get this spiritual
strength from? How were they able to
summon up the
the commitment to God to just be moser
nefesh al kiddush Hashem? Says Reb Chaim
Volozhiner, it was ingrained in them,
it's in their DNA from Avraham Avinu
who's willing to be thrown into the
fire.
All of the 10 tests of Avraham Avinu
paved the way before Klal Yisrael.
Anytime a Jew has a sudden urge, you
know, I got to get out of here.
Got to get out of the Five Towns. What
is there What's the What's going to be
here in America?
Only in only in Europe they're going to
be uh you know,
that kind of behavior. It will never
happen in America. You know, we live in
two
Anytime a Jew gets in their head we're
going to Eretz Yisrael, it comes because
it's programmed in our DNA from Avraham
Avinu.
Anytime a person has a difficulty in
life and they say,
it must be for the good,
where do we get that from? Avraham Avinu
is sent to Eretz Yisrael and the moment
he gets there, it's a disaster.
And what does Avraham Avinu do?
Kama d'Avraham Avinu letav aved. He
doesn't question Hashem. He's not
meharer acharei av. He accepts the
gezeirah.
So,
I would like to point out to you, just
to paint the picture,
Avraham Avinu, he is uh
he's an old man, basically.
He's
75 years old. He's not that old, but he
he's not a youngster.
And he's comfortable.
Hashem saved his life. And Hashem comes
to him, "Leave everything you're
familiar with. Go to Eretz Yisrael." And
the day he gets there, there's a
disaster the likes of which the world
never seen only in that place. So,
Avraham Avinu doesn't question Hashem.
He says, "Gamzu Letova."
But it dawned on me, Gamzu Letova?
Do you know how good it ended up for
Avraham? I mean, think about it. Hashem
said, "Lech lecha me'artzecha
u'mimiladitecha u'mibeis avicha." And
Rashi says Hashem is promising Avraham,
"You're going to become a great nation.
You're going to become famous. You're
going to have children. You're going to
become wealthy."
>> [laughter]
>> How many of those things came true when
he got to Eretz Yisrael?
Nothing. He had no money, cuz Rashi even
says on the way back he had to go pay
all his debts. So, he gets there, he's
in debt, he has no children,
and nobody cares who he is.
So, nothing came true.
Something good came out of this, but
Avraham Avinu was thinking, "Gamzu
Letova."
But I wonder if Avraham Avinu even knew
what that tova ever was.
Because it dawned on me that actually
him going down to Mitzrayim
is the best thing that ever happened in
the history of the world.
How's that?
Because the first Ramban that we learned
tonight, that Avraham Avinu going down
to Mitzrayim is the pre-enactment of the
Jewish people going to Mitzrayim,
which means his coming out of Mitzrayim
is the pre-enactment of Klal Yisrael
getting out of Mitzrayim.
Now,
there's another layer of this. Because
the same way everything that happened in
Berashis created the future destiny of
the Jewish people,
everything that happened in Shemois
created the second
era of the history of the Jewish people.
I think we've learned many, many times
that the masei avos siman l'banim of the
Geulah Hashleimah, of the final
redemption, is the Jewish people leaving
Mitzrayim was the pre-enactment of the
coming of Mashiach, of the Geulah
Hashleimah, right? We say "Kimei
tzeischa mei'aretz Mitzrayim areinu
niflaos." The way Hashem took us out of
Mitzrayim was the pre-enactment. That
was the masei avos siman l'banim of the
Geulah Hashleimah.
We brought, I have here a number 11 from
many sources in Rabbeinu Bachya.
Also, the in the sefer on the Haggadah,
Maaseh Nissim
of Rabbi Yaakov Lorberbaum,
we mentioned this many, many times.
Do you remember this? "Al achas kama
v'kama tovah kefulah umchupeles." That
all the events of Yetzi'as Mitzrayim
were doubled. They were They created the
future redemption of the Jewish people.
Remember we learned that the 10 makos
that were in Mitzrayim, there'll be 10
makos against our enemies in the end of
days, and there'll be a Kri'as Yam Suf.
That the events of Yetzi'as Mitzrayim,
which took place in the month of Nisan
on the 15th of Nisan, will repeat
themselves when the Geulah Had comes in
the month of Nisan on the 15th of Nisan.
So, Avraham Avinu's probably thinking,
"Ribbono shel Olam, you told me to leave
Mitzrayim, you told me to leave uh
my hometown. You told me to leave
Charan.
And I arrive in Eretz Yisrael,
and it's an epic disaster.
There's nothing to eat.
There's food everywhere in the world
except for here in Eretz Yisrael.
I don't have children yet.
I don't have success yet. None of your
promises came true. This is a an abysmal
failure.
And actually,
it was the best thing that ever happened
in the history of the world. Cuz Avraham
Avinu going down to Mitzrayim and then
coming out, you know what that created?
The redemption of Klal Yisrael. It
created the Geulah Hashleimah. So, if I
were to ask you,
from the time that Hashem told Avraham,
"Lech Lecha, I choose you for the great
journey, for the great
rendezvous with me, that I'm going to be
your Ribono shel Olam, and I'm going to
be
your
your selected God, and you're selected
to me." How long did it take for the
Ribono shel Olam to start turning the
wheels to bring Mashiach?
It's the first thing he did.
The moment Hashem said "Lech Lecha",
Avraham Avinu comes down to Eretz
Yisrael um to Eretz Yisrael, and the
first thing he does is he goes down to
Mitzrayim, and he comes out, and that
sets into motion the Jewish people go
down to Mitzrayim and come out, and that
sets into motion the ultimate redemption
of the Jewish people. So, on at first
glance, it looks like this is an abysmal
failure. This is a disaster. This
relationship is a is a is
catastrophic,
and Avraham Avinu doesn't know how or
why, but actually, come to think of it,
his going down to Mitzrayim was the most
wondrous
narrative in the history of the world.
His going down and his salvation created
the future redemption of the Jewish
people. Hashem says, "Listen, I can't
explain things right now. Just take my
word for it. You're going to go to Eretz
Yisrael, and it's going to be really
good." And Avraham Avinu says,
"I don't see any good, but I just have
faith in you. This will end up very
well." And then you have to imagine,
Avraham Avinu is going with with
absolute faith in Hakadosh Baruchu,
having no idea that this disaster of his
wife being abducted and the plagues and
his coming out will ultimately create
the redemption of See, now rest assured
that's like
the story is over before it even begins.
In other words, the way the story of the
Jewish people begins
is Hashem says, "Abraham, you with
you're you're with me?" I'm with you.
Abraham says, "It's going to be good in
the end?" Rebono shel Olam says, "I take
care of the end even before I take care
of the beginning. First I'm going to set
into motion the end of the story, and
then you'll see how the rest of the
story plays out." So
>> Does the Ramban say that it was
>> Again, this is going according to the
opinions that it was uh it was a
nisayon. What?
>> Hey Grog.
The whole you said of my stuff is in the
Ramban though.
>> Yeah. Yeah. The Ramban interestingly
never applies it to Shema's. We
we we use other sources for that, but
I'm I'm weaving it together. Now
I want to add another thing.
The next thing I'm going to tell you,
you know that this was just an idea that
hit me. I think it's like uh
a great
treasure, a great nugget that you think
about it. Avraham Avinu passed the
nisayon and he didn't question Hashem.
He said gam zu l'tovah. I don't know
that if Avraham Avinu ever knew what the
tovah was, but we in retrospect we're
looking back, we see it wasn't yeah, it
was also pretty good. You know, it has a
silver lining. This wasn't a silver
lining, this was the most the most
spectacular possible outcome.
>> How do you know Avraham said gam zu
l'tovah?
>> That's what the Reb Chaim Volozhiner
writes that that this test that he
didn't question Hashem
the fact that that he didn't have any
complaints indicates that he accepted it
with equanimity. I'm going to tell you
something. I'm going to tell you
something. What?
>> Ultimate bitachon.
>> Yeah. I'll tell you something. I don't
know if I I I don't know
You know, they say it will be so so long
till it says not everything that you
think you should say and not everything
you say should you write.
So, this is something that not
everything you say should you write, but
I'm going to say it, okay?
I'm thinking
we're introduced to Abraham Avinu in
Noach.
However, even though we're introduced to
him we know that he has a father, he has
a brother, he has a wife, he has a
nephew.
How many words did Abraham Avinu say in
Noach?
>> He didn't say
>> He didn't say anything.
How about it when Hashem says, "Abraham,
go."
What did um what did Abraham say? "Sure
thing, God." No.
No.
He didn't say anything. He just went.
So I was thinking
it's probably very interesting, what
were the first words ever uttered by
Abraham Avinu in the Torah?
Because, you know, there's a principle
in Rab Tzadok HaKohen, the first time
something appears in the Torah
sets the tone for its whole essence.
So, probably it's significant, what are
the very first words that Abraham Avinu
ever uttered?
>> Hineni.
>> He says
Hinei
>> Hinei
Hineni.
>> No. He says
Hinei na yadati ki isha yefat mareh at.
Now I know you're beautiful.
What was Abraham Avinu misamel? Abraham
Avinu is the uh
is the parad- paragon of which middah?
Chesed.
Chesed. Yeah, he's the greatest ba'al
chesed whoever lived.
The the biggest responsibility of chesed
is to who? To complete strangers? When
we say a person has to show kindness to
others
your greatest responsibility in this
world is to do kindness to who?
Your relatives.
Your relatives. Of all your relatives,
your greatest responsibility of Hesed is
to
>> Your wife.
What's more valuable?
Giving kindness with money or with
words?
Words.
What's the greatest Hesed that a person
can do in this world?
To say to your wife
the words that Abraham Avinu said to
Sarah.
Those are the first words ever uttered
by Abraham Avinu.
I think it's worthwhile to to to point
that out.
Abraham Avinu, who is he?
Well, Abraham Avinu is the greatest
Ba'al Hesed who ever lived. Really? To
who? To everyone. To even criminals and
Sodomites, even to Arabs who come.
And what about his family? Then you want
to know who Abraham Avinu is? Let's get
hit the first words ever recorded. You
want to know the greatest act of
kindness you could do in this world?
Right here.
Think about that one.
>> The first time he said how beautiful she
was when he saw her reflection in in the
water.
>> That's a Midrash. Right now I'm talking
about the first recorded words in the
Chumash. Yeah?
>> When did he say that? When he saw her
reflection.
>> Okay.
>> So, how was able to marry her without
seeing her?
>> That's a stum akasha.
>> What?
>> That's a stum akasha.
That's a famous question.
That's a well-known question.
>> And what's the well-known answer?
>> There are many well-known answers,
including the Ramban.
Rashi says he knew before. He just never
had to worry about it until now.
Okay, but there are other answers to
that question.
But
that was that was on a human level,
okay? The first comments we um
attributed to Abraham Avinu is he says
he may know you that he is a fast I
looked around. I searched.
Does anyone point this out?" I found in
a safer Das Mikrah that these are his
first words, but nobody explains why.
Now,
now let's explain it on a more holy
level, okay?
Really, that one is probably more
important, but
he continues, Amravinu continues.
So, what's Amravinu's first request in
the whole Torah? "Please say you're my
sister so that I could increase the sum
in my bank account."
That's a little bit of an odd request.
Again, the Malbim explains that
Amravinu's going to ask for so much
money that they won't be able to exceed
and he'll be able to come out. However,
I once saw this in other sources. I was
only able to find for the sheer
in the writings of Rabbi Eliyahu HaKohen
of Izmir.
That Amravinu
had an inkling that his going down to
Mitzrayim and his coming out will
portend the Jewish people's going down
to Mitzrayim and coming out.
But he knew the Jewish people needed to
come out with great wealth. So, he tells
Sarah, "It's very important here that
when we get out, we don't just get out
with the shirt on our backs. We need to
come out with a lot of money.
So, say that you're my sister so that in
the future the Jewish people will come
out with a lot of money, which by the
way,
is later on in Lech Lecha.
Which, by the way, even though it's
later on in Lech Lecha by the by the
Bris bein HaB'sarim,
do you know that the Bris bein HaB'sarim
happened before this?
The Bris bein habsorim happened when
Avraham was 70.
According to most authorities, Avraham
Avinu came to Eretz Yisrael when he was
70 and he made he was yored, he made
yerida.
And then uh God said get back there.
The Malbim says it, the Rosh says it. We
once gave a shiur on it, it's called
double lech lecha. Lech lecha, couple
years ago.
So the Rebbe Yochanan of Izmir in his
sefer Megaleh Tziyunim also in the sefer
May Ol Sod says Avraham Avinu says,
"L'man yitav li b'avurech." It's not
enough to go down to Mitzrayim and to
come out, we need to create the future
destiny that the Jewish people will
leave with great wealth.
Now,
why the emphasis that when we left
Mitzrayim, the Jewish people left with a
lot of money?
You know, we were in Mitzrayim for 210
years, but the good news is when we came
out, we were loaded. We had gold, we had
silver, we had donkeys, we had clothing,
we had jewelry.
Many seforim write, the Shachal HaTorah,
the Alshich, the Ksava Kabbalah number
14, we bring many sources that the
rechush gadol that the Jewish people
took out of Mitzrayim, you know what was
really the great wealth?
What was the greatest wealth we took out
of Mitzrayim? Not physical wealth?
What was the spiritual wealth we got
when we left Mitzrayim?
The Torah.
In fact, the Shachal HaTorah writes, the
gematria of
of
rechush
is
yatzu b'rechush is gematria Zohar Torah.
So think about it.
Why were we zocheh to the rechush gadol
when we left Mitzrayim?
Because when Paroh sent Avraham and
Sarah out, they left with with of money.
Right? That was the maseh avos. What was
the maseh avos similar bunem that when
we left Mitzrayim, we should leave with
the Torah? When Avraham and Sarah left
Paroy,
they were sent out with a lot of money,
which I guess you would have to explain
how that's also some kind of spiritual
benefit, but let's leave that for now.
So, it comes out the very first words of
Avraham Avinu ever recorded in the Torah
is Sarah.
I know our life is on the line,
but we got to set up that one day the
Jewish people will receive the Torah.
So, do me a favor, say you're my sister,
so that when the Pharaoh sends us out,
he'll give us a lot of money, so that
when the Jews leave Mitzrayim, they'll
get the Torah. So, it comes out, aside
from the fact that Avraham Avinu's first
comment in the Torah was he was doing
this great chesed to his wife, he was
also locking in
the greatest and most important treasure
that the Jewish people would ever need,
namely that Klal Yisrael should be
mekabel the Torah. So, it's amazing, in
the first recorded words of Avraham
Avinu, you see how
great of a ba'al chesed he was, he
didn't forget the chesed, his
responsibility to those who needed his
chesed the most, and you see that what
concerning Avraham Avinu is lemaan yitav
li ba'avurech. What is that referring
to? The rechush gadol. What is the
rechush gadol? Toraseinu Hakadosha. So,
you see Hashem says, "Lech lecha, go,
it's going to be good for you." And
Avraham Avinu gets there, and it's an
epic disaster. No, it's not an epic
disaster. It's Avraham Avinu wins one
lottery after another. The moment he
gets to Eretz Yisrael, he secures the
Geulah Sheleimah. The moment he secures
Toraseinu Hakadosha, all of the great
gifts that the Eibershter has in store
for Klal Yisrael, the moment Hashem
says, "Go, it's going to be good for
you." Avraham Avinu says, "It's going to
be good? It was a disaster." No, it
wasn't a disaster. It was good beyond
his wildest imagination.
And as good as I thought the show was,
even better now that I'm giving it. It
came out better than I thought. Okay.
No, you think about it. Hashem says lech
lecha, go for your benefit.
And Avinu was thinking to himself, this
is this is this is tragic. This is
disastrous. This is catastrophic. No, it
was better than anything he could have
imagined. And the moment he stepped foot
near the land of Egypt, all of a sudden
the Ribono shel Olam
sets into motion the whole destiny of
the Jewish people.
The Geulah Sheleimah ve'Torah Sheleimah
Hakadosha. Have a wonderful night. Chag
Sameach.
>> Chag Sameach.