Meet Once, Get Engaged_ Why Dating Matters

meet once, get engaged. It's just that people are have a challenge facing themselves, being their individual self, putting themselves into maybe what can be a a uncomfortable situation because you'll have to get to know a girl. You'll have to treat her properly. You'll have to show some masculinity right there. And you can't face it. So, instead, you wing it. Meet once, get engaged. Now you're married, so you have no choice out. Now you're having a child 9 months later, so you can't even get divorced anymore. This is life? And for who? For when? This is This is Torah? This is halakha? What is this? Who Who are you following? This is guidance from leaders? >> If you don't want to >> you Hasidic leaders that are showing that and encouraging you you should date. You should go out. You should get to know the person. So, where are you taking this