Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 30 by R’ Eli Stefansky

Mordecai welcome to the 45 minute share today we have one of those schmuckster dampen in all of kadushan but I have an amazing piece of news to share with ilum you're hearing it here first if you blink maybe it's not fair for the island that's watching that's here live you won't be able to do it during share but the website is now officially on [Music] mdyshabas.com mdyshops.com they're really on their phones you snooze you lose there are only 440 rooms well yeah they're already 50 taken basically with uh us coming from Mary distroll and staff and and all sorts of you know singers need rooms and it'll be why why [Music] because it's gonna be a weekend to remember unbelievable you know the document how you heard you heard about your early you did here no but I'm saying he's he manages so happy Shabbos of inspiration and check out this email this is I I want to speak about it but we didn't have a chance the rebelliously that I wanted to take the opportunity to reach out and thank you for the difference that being part of daf has meant to me I went to Yeshiva through high school and although I've attended she reminded off I was never never able to learn on a consistent basis I married in my late 40s and such started a family later in life responsibility obligations job family made such commitment difficult I think Hashem each day for the opportunity to be part of mdy family I've been a lawyer the time since how long ago was that a good two years no and look forward to keeping my personal commitment to finishing the entire shots with you my second condition holds a special place in my heart it reminds me how fortunate I am that Hashem smiled upon me by allowing me to find my zevog my Asia's father who truly embodies the phrase even if even at a later point in life my wife who is also dedicated in The Wire and I wore and I saw during the summer and after you were in Chicago I was disappointed we didn't have the opportunity to meet you in person you've been speaking great deal lately about the upcoming New Jersey however you haven't mentioned whether or not wise and family is a part of the equation I respectfully ask if it's an appropriate way to celebrate an Enderman self-exclusion by excluding Wiseman no so before we accused the Shabbos is for women also and a big part of the shop is to celebrate the wives that allow us to learn Toyota there's gonna be special programming for them special here no I mean who's here by the meeting headies massages are for them special speakers the Shabbos is also for men by the way no I'm after share I spoke to Noam he was serious I could I thought he's messing around with me he really did go out there made some phone calls out of his comfort zone and got us more than 10 he said he said about another ten thousand but it's actually more and we are going to give him a free room for him his wife so it goes like this if you bring a sponsor we really need sponsors because it's a huge huge undertaking and uh a couple of times when we made a nice huge human mdy lost a lot of money and we hope not to lose money this time but it's a huge undertaking and uh so if you bring five thousand dollars with your sponsors you get one ticket to come in two two times five thousand dollars which is what ten thousand ten thousand you get a whole room for you and your wife otherwise you have to um be in the same room with Homer Levy or somebody we're gonna have to [Music] if not when Seltzer is looking for uh a roommate he's coming don't worry he's coming after share we'll deal with him the right price shine [Music] no you know what the sir sir limits we have red lines also would it be a violent however beloved wise and families with us to truly be my cash now I am gonna try to discourage children I think that it takes down from the I know that we want to celebrate with our children but the noise that there's the running around I don't know people if they have no choice they will bring their children but we'll charge double wouldn't we give out no my wife especially loves me oh she wants to meet his wife wants to meet my wife okay that's that's what it's about meeting people and then all the staff is etc etc sincerely Baruch Shapiro Riverdale New York you described her borrow looking forward as you mentioned at the end of daf has you theorize that each of the seven heads is another year of the Sahara I have found that over the last three years learning the dafyami since everyone that base I've had tremendous making sure I accomplished that day's death as you're aware I work the night shift and when I have a commitment in the afternoon that would interfere prevent me from learning the death I seem to wake up earlier than usual so I can accomplish with that because worms help you know I was seriously just now I'm thinking he says it probably is but there's also a physical thing like when you got to do the dive you got to do that and if you know there's something going on today you'll wake up that's how the death has to be it's like either way it's amazing how it works excuse the Yeoman Kessler and here boys my name is I'm boarding from Tel Aviv to New York I'm waiting at the gate to be open next to me is standing rabbit and doing the death of your belly he did an amazing Hashem this is the picture now if you hear the video put it on some volume he's in a different world think about the kids screaming in the background the whole Bobby machine different world here we go [Music] he's in the world of Tire he doesn't know it's flying screaming is garnish the robot you said the coil of sponsor maybe he's married to Karen Hashem is planted by luck and loving big families like New Jersey because Toyota Naples are the best and the old MD wires all right thank you for all the good he has given us and continues to give us by his brothers Muncie again a big huge Mazel Tov to slimy it was a big one waited for a long time for the shirt of Hashem big Nissan happy birthday Marx PS where's your hoodie Uncle Joe Staten Island whatever that means who the boy Ah that's what it is okay you're gonna have to put it Benny what are you drinking over there Benny's working it's Eric yantiff then he's uh what do you call it he does meat so every he's a butcher so every once is his heavy time the art of the month is we're holding 12 lines from the Battle of Testament base [Music] foreign a person has in front of him two Mitzvahs to learn Tyra and to marry first go to Yeshiva learn and then get married if he can't yes so she can married first first he gets married then he learns what ah when we say happy birthday if I'm small Mark Sir you came on purpose lights you can sit next to me come how old are you 14. and when did you start learning with us she could ask you questions in front of everybody okay so I'm not going to ask you if you said yes for such confidence not gonna ask you I don't want to embarrass myself to get married and then you learned it doesn't sound so good he he has lives he has this oil he has this Stone around his neck in English they call it a leash maybe not he should learn how he's going to learn now the minute was to leave so he's not worried about the bills he doesn't even know what the bills are it's not his problem so he could get married and disappear but energy scroll with the learning right there that's the center of the tight row then it's a problem for me heard once up shot hold on if she understands that she's getting married to a guy that's into learning and the learning is is for him then everything's good but if she she's getting married she thinks oh I'm getting married and I'm going to get all this great stuff and it's for herself she get a nice house a nice car oh it's for her then of course he can't go learn but uh okay something tomorrow told ravuna that you remember whoever Luna is we just had him your name is not rev Nuna your name is foreign that maybe married man wore something special like a Talus God also there's no Riot but the past this is almost about that they didn't wear a Suitor they weren't into the yamaka today you know where young girl you're good it's worse than being Cloud Shabbos but coming to school yeah but it didn't show one way or another please no I was you didn't tell a story I said the story I just said it two weeks ago okay it never stops you before it actually makes sense it says story okay story whatever you want just just edit it in put it in okay put in the charts also next time you want to put it into somebody oh my goodness Mash destroy me but rather okay hold on let me dive oh hold on I have two boys I need a down four hold on okay so he's not wearing his reports okay so when I moved here to straw I said it's two weeks ago fine we'll cover it whatever he wants is it good cover he said I should say I moved there this road first we're only here for a few weeks I brought my kids to Terry Sean to the school and the manal he gave me a cold shoulder when I first came in like oh she wasn't on the phone everything was great ah the video of America's coming is going to be valid like the whole school is going to pay for and also like gives me his coach older and invite her and then I'm walking home and you know the typical Israelis I knew that I'm moving to a place where everybody stares and finally I get home and I look in the mirror I see I was wearing my yamaka what you guys didn't hear the story from a week ago foreign [Laughter] [Music] this was a little bit much it's too much information what's going on why do you wear it out you know I'm not even married so I'm not wearing I adrenaline so he turned he looked away from him ravinda looked away on Malay make sure I don't see your face until you get married don't come back here because if you're 20 years old you don't marry all your days are sitting in a very bad very simple you didn't do it but you're not being married by 20 you are going to be my hair you're gonna have bad thoughts um when it turns 20 let's get married it's a big thing that when you turn 20 you stay up the whole night and you learn Torah because of this gemara and there's also I heard that by hasidim even married hasidim stay up the whole night 20 20 is a it's typical of your your bones should swell it's a curse from um you know why I am greater than my friends because I got married when I was 16. you're having a similar by our base are had I got married when I was 14 the flavored Olive and I would have called the saturna arrows in your eyes I could poke fun at him and he won't he won't he won't damage me um when you have the the control over your son so one shot around she is that you should not be my kind of your kids really should go really light on them so on the one hand the famous a couple came to the club and said when should we start you know so this hotel says how old is your kid it's two years old says oh you're two years late the this starts already when you're pregnant doesn't doesn't start up what Rove says that you should start at 16 in other words to to up it up a notch before that they don't really have what you're talking about they don't understand he's not gonna accept it so Mela you went until 16 until the age of 22. today it's almost it seems like it's the opposite like once they're you know 16 years old it's kind of like you kind of give up on the teenagers they're buying their own smartphones three of them they take one away they pull out two more from the bat it's like a whole different I don't know maybe it's just people I know what never give up but one thing for sure you don't go with 22 year old and start giving them muscle like if you want to get kicked in the head that's what you do five minutes some say it's from 18 to 24. each kid appears Derek a very Stark of art was that in Europe they used to call the Kozak somebody that's a symbol of strength it was a Kazakh this this uh Soldier this Russian guy that could jump on top of a horse standing and jump and grab onto the tree you know because that you want to say like a symbol of a lazy person so you would say uh a retired Kazakh so the child is if it costs like it's such a uh what's the word active person and it's athletic and so this so what's up that when he when he retires he's like this lazy heavy you know fresher kind of guy the answer is because he didn't never really wanted to be that he just wanted to retire early and get all the pensions of the of the state and this and that so it was when when you find the um the talents of the person or what the person really wants not the money but what he's really good at and you're able to tap into that and say okay this kid has a great memory so he's more like uh because this kid likes Allah this kid this this kid um my husband was just telling me yesterday the gallipolak said that his father realized early on that he's more of an artist than a learner so he pushed him hard and then try to you know today he learns a lot and whatever but that was his those things he puts into that okay it's 16 to 22 or 18 to 24. foreign so the gemara switches from how much to how many generations his grandfather you see the grandfather should teach his son what we're going to see today is that there's a huge Indian for Grand fund to learn Torah with his grandchild we learned everything if he just learned hamesh you don't have to teach him not just it's the tough of the Tanakh just the tire apart no Nivea mix oven that's it once he learns that and then he's on his own let him figure out by himself says not all that his woman whose grandfather taught himself does the grandfather have to teach the grandchild your son and not your grandson so so we're going to see this another shot just to remember one shot is not your grandson and another other child is beneath him and not your daughters teach tell them all the way to your grandchildren Allah no you don't teach your grandchild but if you teach your son my Lord when you teach your son and your son teaches his son and his son teaches it and that's how he got to tell her all the way back to so all you need to do is go one generation says the gemara and the Next Generation to the following generation so but we said it's a big Mitzvah now we're saying it's not a social media only a father does son who is a nice thing this is grandson what do we do with the Lima that you said before it's only to your sons it's as if you were there as if you accepted the toy from our C9 what's up shot was it kilo this kilo there what is y dafka kilo kilo marcina so the they say in the name of the tamida that a person always wants to go back as far as he can go to the Messiah so if you find the 95 year old man that could teach you tired if you go back to someone that's 250 years old it's even better when you teach your son Taira saying that I am considering as if you went all the way back to the first to those who heard it right there that's if you're ever seen I and that's the vert because and as you see here on this chart s foreign this has nothing to do with anything but just literally last week or so I saw a minute walking towards empty Waters after Shockers and his he was carrying his like three-year-old and he had like a thousand his head like what's going on and then no and then uh 10 seconds later the next guy another kid with a beautiful side I'm an idiot I didn't take out my phone the one time like I was just like watching and a lot of the parents were holding their kids the rapping dolls it turns out that they were learning I think the first possible homage is talking about a grandchild he brought his own grandchild to show what's the rush why do you put a sheet on your head you look a little funny here usually you wear a nice uh Hamburg you know you you have that because you're talking about grandchildren here foreign I think like it became a whole thing you shouldn't eat fat you know like you shouldn't eat meat in the morning it's better to eat Corn Flakes and and then sugar cereal and orange juice and pancakes and and french toast that's a lot better than but in those days they used to eat meat I guess meet in the morning with the with the huh you said Son okay yeah huh but he was a goddal he was uh he said he asked him okay you wouldn't eat anything you wouldn't eat breakfast until he brought his grandchild to this child to to learn tiger I'm gonna have safer because why because it's like harassing you might have said um no that's later that's later oh yeah yeah yeah I missed it had the microwave relief till he learned with his grandchild or son what he learned yesterday um added one more thing so you do Hazara and learned I think I didn't even read it it says you should teach your sons it should say without a double known would mean you should repeat it's an interesting lotion of double known it's already three times so what you learn during your life is a very famous and important gamara you should always learn a third of your life is foreign places here after two days every day itself you should split up the three okay he says that's why every day before the Zimmer we say we say Patrick's Atomic which is micro um that's already gemara foreign the same exact places exist in our desired a few tests and he says one extra word that I think makes a big difference he says vanilla every time us that we learned gemara dayenu that's all we need to learn of your Testament base but he explains that all we need a lot of people are like worried what's going to be with it's going to be with this when we do that it includes everything includes etc etc starting up again and this is the easiest year because it's uh this extra month so we have very small pair of shiitis we also have a great start preparations we have a full week to catch up it's one of the easiest years to start it's gonna die and you should learn Michigan but if you only have one limo one limo that's why yeshiva's learning that's why we learn gamar because it includes everything based on what we said before new peric called Pericles they used to call The Originals sorry from those who count so you're serving police check this out is large because that if you count the oceans just the letters that is the center because it's the half of the oceans of the tables of the words also has a very large gimbal in the savior is the middle of the sukin now you want to hear unbelievable kiss from Hashem this gimora coincides with half a chance now you can't say that they put it here on purpose because they didn't have this villain shots but so happens to be that the middle middle of our shots is we're on liminal so to answer the question but it's a little off from the kiss of Hashem the answer is that if you do a barrel line search all these nothing really works out here in the Gambar and a lot of people discuss they're not my Mish half it's a little bit off so the Llama test works out perfectly no you don't like themselves no but even if it's the point is this is Mama's half a toy or a half a oh you see yourself this here we are middle halfway through shots huh yeah yeah on what no no there's a guy run all safer Dodge durash means the drushes rushes and in Russia is halfway through the dresses oh oh sorry yes anyway s that's halfway to home by the way talking about the Hillary every single day oh it says I heard a very interesting thing I I want to be my virus so the Brisco raw used to learn foreign and then later on in his life he started saying to him so they said why are you saying to him he says because he Roshan is a day you wanna you wanna maximize every moment and when you learn Eon sometimes you stop you go to the Shelf to grab a safer to look it up I wanna every moment to be full but if it's true then how come you don't do it every day okay so that's real sorry you mean on Earth very interesting wow okay cool two people know that here about it says again so here is does it belong to the right or does it belong to the left obviously you might understood it's not in the center maybe the gamar knew how many letters there are and it just it's not it's even amount so can't be I don't know what is to the right let's let's figure it out let's open up the secretary fine [Music] they knew which words I actually revolve extra this that and at the beginning we don't know even if we count we're going to be off buyer of yourself certainly if it's just one ice whatever you guys this guy like my geese so what about the word of his girlfriend we said before let's go to the right to the left I'm gonna buy it so so let says Abaya let us at least count Suk him that we could do no you want to say that we can't count letters great over here this is a very very long passing and by us it's just one passing positive test but you could break it down to three and in fact broken down three seconds so if they break down three never completely off and we don't know and there must be other examples like that but real basketball foreign Apes looking Less in division anthem um means that Tyra should be sharpening him out in other words which is a big problem one of the Titans we have kahoot there's different programs and everybody should do their own khazara hello this is one of the first times in my life that I'm able to literally understand is gilmara because I am with people no matter what you ask and where you ask them before you finish the question they tell you where it is and they just finish off that's literally after gaming talking about the Carlo for us we go to Safari and do different things they stay in basement and learn because they have a thousand off tests these coil guys and that's why it's foreign [Music] tie it to your fingers you should it should be written on on your heart the ones that has the famous what's the difference in the villain going and your brother absolutely also no Shots by heart inside out the bell's also no shots inside so what's the difference between the Belser and the Family Guy she said the difference is who here doesn't know Ashley about pet everybody knows actually about that who in this room could say Ashley backwards no one to say backwards that's the villain going you can say the entire shines backwards in other words it's written on his heart all he's looking at it the way we could I could open up a sitter and relax read backwards but I can't say it that was the difference that's what you said oh sponsored in honor of the uncle Rebel Khan impressment and as this was for a year filled with massive by Greg Haber Barack Obama's for his family her belly all of mdy and everyone doing the dance yes yeah answer let's make a donation for you guys we do not speak about this people are thinking that I spoke to Noah and I spoke to you and I'm telling this guy to say this there's an opportunity to sponsor coil guys on the website if you want to especially now coming up coming up with with young Thief this is my name that we have we have this okay yeah a couple people already gave tequil guys I'm not saying that they should give more the more the better 100 they add a lot to to the share Etc in the day we talk we they give a lot of good information okay don't worry reliable you're not getting any of it I'm talking about the other guys I know if anybody went to Dylan groups okay whatever different time the Americans have no idea what I'm talking about because if you set the hill on for six hours straight on Travis morning you got one of those 10 agurat Isis in the whole the whole Miracles are running could I have Isis what are you gonna do for the Isis I'm gonna say to hell in the entire afternoon you can get it it's really care for Garners okay yeah you got a picture of Bonham that's good I got an Arctic but the orange one that nobody wanted that's the I guess that was even that was on sales the sales of the sale he keeps him your your arrows are your talmudem they're your children we're going to get to the Raya you're you're the the arrows of the strong voice the Nations will fall below this is not asphalt like garbage this is actually talking about okay a different time Ash plus is a quiver it's the the thing that holds the arrows so if you fill your your ashba with they're going to ask you questions you have all your stuff in your quiver you mamish know it you just pull it out you so why are you calling them your enemy the choice they become enemies they fight in learning I don't know about you I learned with my father probably thousands of hours of my life I never fought with him like that maybe it was a certain like uh average I didn't think I could talk to him like that okay but it says over here that when you get into it you get into it even with you ready even with your oh wow there's a I don't want to don't show it but it's this is legendary I think I I got a video of a receiver here that I saw just recently a guy was arguing with him and learning like crazy and he said them shut up you know I know you're cool I know shots be hard you argue with me like you he lost it completely lost it Ms don't show Ms don't show it but it's um it's no you get so it's own valid you become like an enemy and you say sometimes you look at the um what's going on oh I guess Yoshi was here I put this hat on and you'll see oh maybe not I don't know maybe not maybe Yoshi was maybe that's just because I stole his hat from everything okay okay so the way you're learning it is that through the safer the the Torah you have a Muhammad with and vaheb is a lotion of of Love of ahava you're gonna have a half a bit sofa you're gonna love each other at the end the symptom what does it mean Sam Tom it's the perfect antidote is a marshall to the antidote of Life father takes his son puts him over his lap gives us and then he puts a Band-Aid in those days you know they didn't know what they're doing we know what we're doing they used to damage them real big and they they put a Band-Aid afterwards calls Manchester as long as the Bandit is on my channel eat what you want even if it's not good for you eat candy ice cream soda all this terrible stuff now today we'll let you take a hot shower usually you don't have to worry about me and if you get rid of this Band-Aid you get rid of the Torah Harry Malinois you're gonna be full of boils the muscle is and I created Torah which is the antidote is you won't check this out today's beautiful art I I really hope this sticks in people's minds this was a collaborative effort of Yoshi this is uh Netflix he's shooting Netflix at the guy it's today what we struggle with devices good food gossip and uh his sword if you look at his sword look at that you look again so you'll notice that one leg is made out of metal one leg is made out of stone ESPN sports the worst of the worst not the worst any and what is he holding in his hand you look his sword is is a smartphone you see it's not your volume yes it has a smart device what no he's wearing he's wearing a football helmet what oh the pipe yeah that's what no that that that's where his weapons come out of there he's shooting first he has shooting movies at him then he's shooting kashmias and shooting he shoots different stuff at him and then his mdy gamara is able to Shield them not only that it pushes him back hell you like it I will tell you I will tell you that he sent me a message that's 3 3 13 this morning that's when uh yeah hello David says how do you know this because it says by Cayenne if you do well you'll do truva take this Ace it'll be good for you is then you'll fall for all the hr's weapons I'm just getting late and we don't we have to do sneakers what are we gonna do we have like more than a DOT left there the bark Hashem they they forget about us they go to sleep if you have an enemy that's working to attack you 24 7 without a break let's say it's originally he wants you but if you want it's in your handsome but you could rule him who created him calls him evil kids he's evil from his young years and this is that don't think that you know you understand you just know that he regenerates and he gets better and better every single day of your life he wants to kill him take him out of this world he's dying to kill you yeah it's a horror is the Saturn it's the same it's the same entity doesn't help him help you then then you can't you can't sit up against him the martial says that even though it's a bigger side here and then you get awarded for for breaking him so where's that coach bro helps you say something you cannot you cannot you cannot go up against them and accommodations can help you but what you could do is take the first step take that first step you take the first step then then there's no Titus there was a doctor who came into the ER whatever he came his first night there and they said listen you're in charge of the night shift it's very quieter and I but if there's any issues pick up the phone calls we'll be there kids are one night goes by two nights third night all of a sudden one patient starts going down so he starts dealing and also a second patient she's running back forth fourth then the third patient hey there one patient died so they fired him and they sued him and all things so what I did everything I was running no we told you pick up the phone make that phone call that's all we asked you to do and you you didn't listen to what we said you tried to fix it yourself don't try to fix the XR yourself you're supposed to pick up the phone make one step the smaller thing make a step the rest we'll take over from there because you won't let us out from that point on foreign and a guy came over to me one of our friends here and he started talking to me I said I'm in the middle I gotta do this and he's the captain going so I threw out a word I said um you know and myself yeah ten minutes later I turned the page and here it is in the gamara it was like it was one of those moments of like a kiss from Hashem after I I said in that nice thing to him I asked him if you remember I I sent them a message remember he said yes I don't remember you call me in manova he says but I remember you said so if you go back to to Yoshi's picture I understand if he's just made out of stone who her melt Vin barzaloom spots it so we'll he'll explode if he's made out of metal like when you bang the hammer against the metal the hammer breaks if you're thirsty go to the water no what's water and that is the the water has the ability to to erase the the storm S have a wonderful wonderful day