Parashat Ki Teitzei THESE ARE AN ABOMINATION

now this is literally a treasure chest full of mitv full of mitv that are relevant to our real life today later on in this par chapter 22 in uh verse number five where it says says that a male gar shall not be on a woman and a and a man shall not wear a woman's garment for anyone who does so is an abomination of hem guys that are wearing all of these female clothes because they learned from Little Wayne that he wears his daughter's jeans they want to be like little Wayne like a little girl a feminine guys that you have in his generation you should know looks at you and instead of seeing one of his kids and being proud of you he says disgusting disgusting why you're wearing a girl's clothes all these tight jeans all these female type of of atire that you have very serious problem with AEM very serious where but I go to Yeshiva yeah I don't know what kind of Yeshiva you have that allows you to wear women's clothes no it's not women's clothes clothes I bought it at the men store so what if it's tight forbidden for a man to wear just like it's forbidden for a woman to wear tight clothes look it up forbidden even more so you have some of your clothes looks like it's female clothes no but it's talking about here in this verse it's talking about uh a uh a Sim Sim talking smoking my dress I don't wear dresses Rabbi I'm just wearing pants and shirts what's the problem no NOAB look look at the verse says that the GB the Garb of the male Garb will not be on a woman and a man shall not wear a woman's garment right Sim right so you think that the woman is not wear not allowed to wear pant and the man is not allowed to wear Simla right wrong why couple of weeks ago we learned in the Torah said to us that our s our Sim did not have to be renewed our Sim did not our garments did not have to be renewed for 40 years that we were in a desert miraculously used the an the the clouds to dry clean our clothes all the time everybody's clothes was brand new and was growing with them 40 years they wore the same exact dress but why is he called Simla only the women no everybody wore a Simla in those days from here we learn that a Sim does not necessarily always mean for a female today we use a Simla generally to to to Define women's clothes but in the Tor Sim is for men and for women in those days and even until this day you go to different places in the in the Middle East you go to Morocco you go to Saudi Arabia you go to Dubai you go to different places in the Middle East you go even in different places in uh you know where where they still keep y yemenites Moroccan Jews all types of Jews from the Middle East regardless of where they live around the world they still wear a Sim till this day they still wear a SIM from here we learned that here is talking about it's not about it being a Simla it's about it being a female Simla meaning sometimes you have clothes that you can wear and she can wear right but everybody knows it belongs to her everybody knows this is clothes that is for women everybody knows this is feminine clothes this is forbidden for you you're a man you have to look like a man you have to look like a man you can't look like a woman a lot of these guys want to look like women for some reason I'm not sure why I'm not really sure why but a lot of guys like to look like women they like to look feminine and to says that's an abominable Act Abomination furthermore the lack of M lack of how are they going to have how are they going to have any fear of hem how are they going to care if they're an Abomination or not say oh well maybe I'm an Abomination but I still look sweet still look good yeah you look good you look good you look good burning up too and getting home why that's what it says Abomination what you think you get a reward for that what do you think you get a cookie for looking like an Abomination eventually has to pay the price where do he talk about that couple of verses later you're going to look you wear this female clothes you're going to make some money you look good you're celebrity you're Hollywood buy a new house right T says you're going to buy a bite kadash you're going to buy a bite kadash don't forget you have to make sure that there's not going to be blood on your hand in this new house this new house of yours what blood I just bought the house no no but this house has to have protection measures why you have a pool you have a roof you have different things that could be dangerous you have to make sure to have a a g you have to make sure that you have protection measures you have a fence on for your roof so nobody falls off the roof because if you don't have a fence on your roof but that doesn't necessarily literally mean only roof just like we learned earlier where Sim doesn't only mean for women anything that's dangerous don't have dangerous things in your house why mean you not have blood on your hands so if the Fallen one Falls from it because if you have dangerous things in your house the Fallen one will fall from it what is the Fallen one fall from it it sounds like a strange strange statement usually you say so no one Falls from it why does it say the Fallen one will fall from it teach us from here we learn nothing happens for no reason nothing happens from for no reason the Fallen the one the one that fell from your roof the one that drowned in your pool the one that got hurt in your house he was already fallen he was already fallen that's where he fell meaning there was a judgment against him for something that he did during this life past life whatever something happened he didn't fall for no reason okay I understand he made a s he desecrated Shabbat AEM said death penalty hasem said don't be homosexual or your death penalty hasem said don't waste seed death penalty hasm said a lot of things why does he have to fall in my house though why does he have to drown in my pool why does you have to fall on my roof it also teaches us that the Fallen one he falls because he deserves it because he deserves it in sham but he falls in your house because you deserve it too because you deserve to have this difficulty you deserve to have this difficulty in your life why you didn't follow the Tor you acted like an Abomination you act like of an Abomination and literally if you learn if you listen to this if you read this par just with basic commentary by Rashi you get invigorated every time why simply you find 5 million things you have to fix 5 million things you have to fix or somebody else has to fix or you have to fix and you have to pretend like somebody else has to fix it more and more talks about marriage how it's forbidden for a Jew to be promiscuous a woman that's promiscuous before marriage has a very serious problem to calls her a z prostitute not allowed for a woman to be promiscuous before no no I was only with my boyfriend that's it even if you were with the guy you're eventually going to get married to until you got married you're considered AA why not allowed to be with a man unless you're married to him plus your plus yeah what about him oh don't worry he also has a punishment don't worry he also has a punishment he also has a very serious punishment what's his punishment look at the 23: 18 there shall not be a promiscuous woman among the daughters of Israel and there shall not be a promiscuous man among the sons of Israel why these are considered the in in the eyes of hem both of them are an abomination of hem your God okay fine I'm not going to date anyone until I get married I'm not going to wear a dress I'm not going to wear tight jeans fine can I at least stay in my business what kind of business you in oh I'm in a good business what kind of good business are you in W in the business makes a lot of money okay what kind of good business makes a lot of money at 20 years old with no experience experience oh listen Rabbi I'm making 50,000 a month I mean I know I don't have experience but I'm a great salesman oh fantastic you're a great salesman a good business a lot of money in $50,000 a what kind of business is it what kind of business is it booby how much what is it I'm in a cash advance business merchant cash advance business oh okay let's see what to says about merchant cash advances and the like says if you have bad credit let's say 10 122 credit card 25% that's it finished other than that go to the mafia cash advanced business if you have a really nice guy and he's not an outright murderer he's going to charge you 45 to 50% but if he's a standard normal cash advance person 80 to 400% this is gizen