R' Yitzchok Feldheim Innocence vs Soph Project Inspire Convention 2023

I have to say like something Al to any time want to start again no oh they head is okay all right okay they that part G guys to they used to ask to do that or not here no T you say always start off saying well oh you so okay very good got got got all official all right I got the this is this is a little bit political this title because I feel like this is sort of one of the suus that really divides even the filla today there are uh different kuas different times there are different issues that are at the Forefront of what thinking people are struggling with this issue is the issue of opposing values of tus innocence keeping kids away from learning things and knowing that those kids adults you know versus the competing idea that uh yish kite is about bre k k created Brio and we say the g world they're all locked up in their basements watching playing games and we we live in the v that has created and we don't feel like we have to hide from from reality when I was in yiva the msh they always used for for the world of toyra is that the world is a mble and Yesa is the Tava and you run away away from the M you live you float in the Tava safe from the storms and and cozy in this little in the Tava and basically you have to know kind to close your eyes you know when to close your ears and not to see to escape a worldz and of RA and of T and and that the world of the Mel and we created a little safe place and that's what the t is that's one attitude then is the other attitude that cre us with eyes and and ears and wanted to be in the gun and the image of K was the K to conquer the G to live in the G to tend to the G and instead what did they do they ended up curled up hiding in the bushes in the gun in like in a fetal position so are we supposed to be hiding from the larger world the safe cozying place with without being exposed to the n and the sounds of the n and the words of the world and or are we spoke in that image in the image of the god the ultimate Evil the ultimate RW was was weening from the gun and separa from the gun and the sadness is that I could have the Magnificent world and here you are I gave you a bre that total total pleasure total and and instead what are you doing you were curled up in bushes missing out on my mat so in that in the image of the gun the beginning of T the picture of kadus and tar is the opposite of the mus of the T and the the larger world is the goal and escape to this little little ghetto this little little Wallen area is a terrible tragedy in the few pares later you get to and it's a whole different world the world is the gone the world's a mble and the world's a mble then you want to Reed these are these are ideas that may be started with the image of the God and the image of the mble but they're prevalent today you know it is the goal of life to live as much as you can in the world and uh the more restrained and closed in we are is that a tragedy or is the goal to be pure and T and to survive 120 years without becoming tainted without being corrupted and therefore to miss out on whatever's out there is is a a very V very worthwhile expense to pay in in in the struggle of deserving the purity of n what is the ultimate goal and this these are the these are the debates that really divide kill us today and different even in the world the the pure to World these are subtle things people who are more more concerned with safety and protection and people who are more concerned with the openness deals with issues of how much should we be learning nothing secular how much secular and then issues with with with technology should we be having computers should we be having internet where should totally get rid of all of it is what's in order to answer these questions you really have to wrap your head around what is the pure toyra Outlook of what is the priority what is the goal is there a way to create a balance is there value in the balance do you want to be extreme to one side and other side this is what this year is about I called it innocence versus sophis ation there's a lot of ways you could describe it I chose that way in is because it's the most simple way to understand the argument there are other ways to say it innocence is again the idea that we maintain Tara if the holiest value is innocence so if the value is innocence then you want walls big walls to protect anything from getting in if you want sophistication you want to be nuanced you want to be expansive and large then then you uh you you the walls are are the opposite of what you want you want Bridges you want to figure out how can I go to new places how can I figure out how to expand I call it Bridges versus walls that's the image and now we're going to probe over here what the answer is I think the t's approach is fascinating I think it makes shom between all the ideas not that there won't be malas after I say it because there is Maas and the people leading the different movements know everything I'm saying so it's like I'm tell not like I'm telling them AES I just want you to to share that we can wrap our heads around what the is and the aspects of all of the different at least all not everybody's always but it's possible to be on both sides of the debate and uh this is where we're going to go now so I really I want to say I want to do it in two ways I want to I want I want to first start with a a certain image the word aov a heal is called and uh the idea of a what is the AK if you had to describe what an a is the AK is it's the the part of the G that is probably the hardest part of the gof I don't know how much I should get into it I always want fight off more than I could and I end having they rush me they stand by the door two minutes and I finish it maybe we'll come back to it let's just play that for now I wanted to start thinking about the idea of an A and akv is is is the problem with akav is is I want to use it as the metaphor for the entire share the benefit of an aav is is you know I'm going to say the whole thing it'll be clear and I'll take my risk yak and as was supposed to be partners Yak is the is he was The Simple Pure man who lived in the tents as of was the the the is the man in the field the the this debate of what we're dealing with is is really yak versus asov and the answer at that stage in history wasn't it it wasn't y or it was there was they were twins they were supposed to be the world was supposed to be run by a partnership of yakob and asan there was such a thing as as a duality of theim the pure the innocent Y in and out in the world and somehow both messages would be accomplished unfortunately what happened is asov left and uh he wasn't G to the he was he was doing his own thing and we you have a problem you know if you uh if if you for to have a shus of the innocent guy and the sophisticated person you know I use a mush sometimes like uh yeah you ever go shopping there a Best Buy you know Best Buy so Best Buy is a it's electronic store everybody buys you have to buy Electronics culture Electronics don't the shabis slams but they the alarm clocks okay whatever you want to buy so there's two types of workers inv Best Buy there's the the guys in the blue shirts they're called the what and the guy the black shirts the black shirt guys are called The Geek Squad they're the technical support and then a the blue shirt guys are all these sweet little kids you know sales nice friendly V they don't know that much about the product you know they but they're nice talkers and they're they're V and you go to them and they have they're trained to answer two or three questions on each laptop or whatever is that you're looking at and uh that if you have a really hard somebody comes in they start asking real questions they want to know some real stuff and they bring oh you go to The Geek Squad you know they take you to the Geek Squad and The Geek Squad guy he's the technician he knows he starts telling you numbers and stats and specs and all these things but they're not salesmen they're they're they're you know something you hearing old information but you don't want to buy it anymore you know this is we have problems with this model and this model is this you're overwhelmed it's two different people there's a partnership of the best Ideal World would be a person who can do sales and and who knows the product at the same time and this is but there's a benefit to having this because you have a guy whose whole life is sales he becomes an unbelievable salesman and then you have the guy whose whole idea whole life is the specs and the details and knowledge of the hardware and the software so he's a that and that's how it runs yakob and ASA was supposed to be a similar Arrangement yakob was supposed to be the the technical guy the all day and ASA was going to be the guy in the field the salesman the guy selling tah they had to work together the muscle that uh used used to describe this is similar to the mush of a and a go we're we're M of we're combination of the sh and G the sh is a soft pure holy part of us and and the world does a course grub a world how does Nama work walk and F things in a pure World Nisha can't go into a physical course world so hasm created a gof and then can can express the gof has capabilities to interact and walk in the world but the g g is a physical thing so if the Nish is in the gof the Nish is the holy part the gof is if the gof is taking orders of then can affect the entire world that has this medium the Marshall the far usefulness the easy way to see it is a foot and a shoe the is the the Goof is called the N of the the shoe of the Soul cuz what's the role of a shoe a human being has a foot the foot is very soft and there's a hard there pebles and rocks and glass and you can't walk in the world you get hurt but you want you need to go places so we put a shoe on your foot and the M now you can you can you can walk in the world and you can you can accomplish things in the world that's it's a very could mush to understand relationship of M and G the gof is the shoe of the Soul it's a conduit that allows you a pure you to perform in a coarse world and that was the relationship of yob and as yob and as was supposed to be the the foot and the shoe when yob when asov quits his job so now we're left with a shoe with a foot without a shoe and now you have no way to affect the world you have all this Tyra and all this Goods kite and all this stuff to share but there's no way to get it across no one's going to listen to you no one's interested you're not a talker not smooth as as a the it's a hunter with his mouth he's a Salesman he knows how to sell so so what is the answer in that problem in that situation what do you do if you're you you're a shoe a foot without a shoe and there's a big world waiting for you so what's the answer the answer is a heal an AEV is a fascinating thing and aov is with the foot itself learn had to adapt to a world that the foot itself can learn how to get hard and callous and the foot can work walk in a hard world it's never going to be as good as a shoe but there's a Milo of an aave over a foot a foot and a shoe is two things that combined have both roles and aov is is where the foot itself gets hard right aov is the heels calluses could walk walk in a world the Indians grew up in they walked around you do it for enough years you get hard feet and nothing hurts you you can run even you can jump that's why Y is called is the idea that one person could be the and you could be the and the you can do both and that's what y wants to give the bras when does he he cons comes over we think he tricked him it's obvious in the story he wasn't so tricked he says are you really my son Yak like like the voice is the voice of Yakov and the hands like so he knew something was up what it is is he's not saying that you're an impostor he's saying if the voice is the voice of yakob and the hands are the hands of es is galic that it's fine I don't mean to give the BR to es if Yakov could figure out on how to have if you can figure out how to how to be the Regal and the n then that's the perfect world that's the ideal the ideal image and you can understand the Mila imagine the Mila of a Salesman who actually was a m in the product then you can talk to the guy he knows that I'm talking and he knows this a of course is that if a guy all day long does sales and the guy all long is does Technic all day long does technical they're bigger but the guy who spends half a time doing both there's a mile in that and that's the tradeoff between the model That was supposed to be akov and asov to the final product of yob himself the r of the heel so the role of the heel is some kind of coess that you develop that you can now walk in the world I want to start off for that mus there's a downside in the in the aov what is lo what's lost when in this adaptation when if yakob was initially supposed to be this no to the world like clueless like just just you take a guy like that and you make him B with the world you give him skills he can now he can be in K but he knows how to go to Wall Street he can walk around in Manhattan so there's something lost right there's something lost in the muscle of the heel you see very clearly what's lost what's lost when the foot develops calluses what's lost when a foot is sensitivity is it doesn't feel anything the Milo of the heel is it doesn't feel anything and the turn of the heel is it doesn't feel anything and that's the Shila I think that I wanted to start this sh with there was a long way to do it I should have just said it we'll see if at the end I'm going to have Kar I did this whole introduction but idea is is is all this exposure even if it's achievable going to see there's a 100 pitfalls in the way and dangers in doing this but even if you can do it isn't there something huge lost let's say we could go out there and be a sadic let's say you could which probably you can't it's so dangerous to world even if somebody might have written the saer 100 years ago that it's possible or we can show the ra did it did it did it even though there are cases in history where people were and business and worldliness and exposure was and he was the if it's happened and but even if you can show me that it's happened doesn't mean today it's possible and even if it's today possible and even if you could tell me you could have a phone and filters and still there's something lost and that's what is that even in the perfect world foot loses sensitivity when it gets callouses when it walks in the world there's something huge L Tyra doesn't the K didn't create the world for for compromises he didn't give the he created the world that we should have so I want to know if it's not only is is it if this isn't the is it technically possible to do both is it teally possible to do both and also end up with Aus because because to do both and to lose like in English they have an expression that that I don't use it anymore but in old books you read that there's like expression when someone's C and you cheat someone or you take advantage even when you was allowed to do you you didn't break the law but how can you that to me is legal but I fear you call the guy a heel don't be a heel a heel is a person why do they call him a heel cuz how can you be so non feeling how could how how can you do that it's actually what y tells the brothers when the brothers come down to and he says he calls them spies what he has AAL a place to go through what he's trying to accomplish but what is he saying when he says what Y is saying is that you know what a spy is what's a spy Spy is like the lowest thing in the world if you place draigo is the weakest piece on the board anything can kill a spy but a spy can do huge things it's very important to us what's so terrible about a spy as a spy he's working for his country he's totally shame sh whatever his country shame his country sincere but what he has to go into a country he has to marry a woman he has to have kids he has cowork and it's all fake it's all lies he doesn't love her he doesn't he doesn't have to care about his kids he doesn't care about his boss it's all to get close to the country you think about a spy it's is he wrong what do you mean he's my country save my country I didn't do this to hurt someone I did this to save millions of people my whole nation we in war Y is saying to the brothers you had good I'm sure you sold me all sure it was totally ered but how how could you do it it should be impossible you shouldn't be capable of selling your brother you could say I'm I'm going to become a I'm going to be the worst thing in the world maybe me but the just because something's right doesn't mean you should be capable of doing it it should be impossible to have kids and not love them it should be impossible if you could do that you're SP about he's saying you're the people you you you have your eyes so clear on what's right that you can't you don't care enough so sometimes Perfection and Kad has a loss you could be the biggest sadic and but how can you be so C and AEV is very powerful it's sham it's protected but something's lost I don't want to get I want to startu to get a little real over here I is how I explain this whole question because this question is a question that comes up always with I always do work on college campuses so this is always the picture in the world is that from people is that we don't that's the biggest obstacle for people is that you don't care about the world you don't care about knowledge you don't want to know anything you so but I was able to be successful in cols because I didn't have a long beard and I didn't wear I I I worked for as for a while and they're rulle in is was that you have to wear colored shirts I know to still the rule cuz you don't want to scare the students to me students they already looking you different try and look as Stu as most as possible I had I lived in Lakewood and I did I didn't want to I Really Work colorir Not color shirts you know but I still suit to my community I don't want to be uh my P also this is what I'm doing this is their hash they have and and and Pim who tell them what they to do what they do but I live in the Gilla so I remember every night I would come back from the canas I'd be on Route 9 like 2 in the morning like changing my shirt I I dislocated my rotator cuff and I still hurts today cuz it's the worst motion to do is changing a shirt while you're driving lifting your arms to get the out hurt okay this this this is my life every single day so the idea was is that is that when going I was able to work on cvus I was sort of the normal cool Rabbi I I was I was I was normal i t their language and then one day we did this event K so did this event in City Field against the internet and the Kat ruined my career every day I would go to school and they would go everyone was all over the secular press these religious Jews look at them that you know they go like oh you want of those like you're bid lot like you're gets the internet like like we're going to listen to you you fanatic you weirdo you you're you're the Taliban and I face that obstacle afterwards is there's no colored shirt there's no color that's going to overcome an event in inst Stadium against the internet so I had to develop a Shear which was my sheer my new first cheer was a response to the question that I knew was in all their heads and and this is and it's a heavy sug this is what I explained to them is that so you think we're crazy that we're against the internet that we're all the imagine how much you can learn and so we we so much information it changed the world it revolutionized knowledge and you cutting yourself off of all of this sounds crazy so I said you think why I said why do you think we doing this so they tell you we know why what the land said they answer question I said why do you think we're against it of course cuz there's inappropriate things on the internet this is it'ser and I said okay and what and what's so bad about that go oh you're going to say you become a mus a low life lose respect for women and pervert you all these sters I'm talking how how how it's actually said and they said and and I and I say good very good that's what you think and you know that you looked in all this and you did all this stuff your whole lives all you guys you all sitting looking at us and you think you're normal and you are you're nice guys I like talking to you so you know that you did all this and it didn't ruin you and you're not a weirdo you're not crazy you're not taking advantage of people you know so you think we're crazy that we're making a whole event to protect people from something that you're you do and it didn't ruin you so you think we're crazy listen that's when you're wrong you think that we're against the internet cuz it does huge things it's calamities it changes you list said you know what would consed none of your reasons you're right you can look at it and you still can be normal guy you can go to school and you can take tests and you can pass and you can do and you can be nice to people so that's how I we're against it what the internet does is something very very tiny that's all something very tiny it makes you feel a little bit ashamed that's all you don't look in the mirror and say you're a Mel you feel a little low that's all and they go okay for that you R City Field I said do you know what that little bit of low does children are born I always say this the first people up in any house on little kids they're bouncing off the walls they're levitic and Alive we call it wide-eyed everything the world that's Schamus we start off shalim we start off complete and everything is with a br when something cool is happening H we're up at the balancing up waiting for momy wake up it can't get there fast enough every trip is Are We There Yet everything is Mom this how come why curiosity expansion that's called sholim you complete and then you one day comes the parents have to tell the kid like just because you're up doesn't mean M have to go you play in the living room and let m s doctor has to go to schol in an hour momy has go to work whatever go play and let us and they tell the kids go play and they lock their doors the parents and that works like that for 13 years 14 years then all of a sudden one day comes when the parents wake up and there's no Lo who stole the kins and what happened no no no one stole the kins they look in the room and there he is is in bed AI School what's the matter you don't like I heard you T right and then Tata come comes back in five minutes goes H I'm I'm up I heard you I heard you come back five more minutes a don't me up T enough already you're getting weird I got it what happened for 13 for 12 13 14 years the kids are up with the sun and then after that all of a sudden they're the ones locking their doors and the parents do you know what happened what happened is a little bit of Shame what keeps the engine of levite is innocence the reason why kids can be on fire the reason they can be Ledic is because they feel tahar and pure and Tara I have no doubts I don't think anything bad's going to happen I don't think I'm going to fail cuz I'm good the second that you feel guilty and ashamed you lose the entire balance in your St you don't believe it's possible we don't understand the significance of B dancing in the gun what was meant to be ended up not happening for one reason a little bit of BU it's a metaphor for all of life everyone in the world we're all we all have a gun that was supposed to be dancing in and instead of dancing in the G we curled up in a fetal position somewhere in some bushes maybe with thorns not a comfortable bushes but we'd rather be in there than the gun why cuz we feel ashamed they were they were and they felt ashamed they went to hide in the bushes shame is what destroys our lives that we don't know to the extreme nothing large doesn't you're not looking for big things tiny little shame the kid is the first kid out to recess the kids are are alive until the day they see something inappropriate and from that moment on their whole life is hesitant and reluctant little kids are why you know what happens after you have you shame you learn how to roll your eyes the opposite of wide eyed is eye rolls and eye roll is what is making fun of everything in the world cuz when you have dreams and you don't believe they'll ever come true or you don't believe CL me because I don't deserve it I'm not I'm not a I'm Not Innocent I'm not pure so then you get sarcastic FC and cynical and anyone says something beautiful you have to roll your eyes so weird I when do you do an eye roll anytime someone you meet someone who's still innocent that's what an iroll is an iroll is a response to who you were 5 minutes ago that's what happens and all of that happened from B Bosa is the worst thing in the world and this is why we made an event in City Field gusten entire purpose of life is giggly giddy people there's no more beautiful sound in the world than the giggling of children and there's no more sad sound in the world than the cackling sneering laughter of teenagers after they've lost their bu the idea the crazy idea that there's one word called laughter and you can say laughing laughter there's no two things in the world that are more far apart than a giggle and a cackle a kigle is a word is a expression of total anticipation and excitement and just trust to the whole optimism like you can't experience things fast enough and the cackle is the attempt to turn the lights off on the entire Ur in humanity it means the world can never get dark enough to satisfy me we're given a gun and everyday people people are losing their gun why are they losing their gun because of this little tiny problem and the most important war in the world is the war for the the preservation of Tara of Innocence now so people say like this that it's very nice I get it but who are you fooling are you ever going to be able to to to stop that everyone is going to have that bua there's not a Ben in the world in the best yiva who's not being exposed and it's true we wish it wasn't true but it's a it's a very my sheer I just gave to now I think it's a very powerful thing I say it a lot maybe some of you heard of more what wants of me already where I'm going to go is K but that's an Al B my that's very very real but it's not practical it's philosophy practical people say what a wonderful she how was possible it'll never happen innocence is gone there's no such thing as he'll be innocent anymore it's a lost possibility and that's true so then why you so then so then what do they what are they advocating instead of making higher woles and bigger shmiras and rules and yeshivas know technology and know this we should be putting all ouri that would work they'll even want the people who dka want exposure but let's take a Hal a person there are the the most noble version of the exposure argument would say it like this I agree with you if we could protect the innocence of people I would gladly build big walls but if it's never going to happen and you building big walls then when the inevitable happens and the B sees whatever he sees he's to totally unprepared you see if we prepare him and we talk about things then we're the one exposing him and we're the one doing to hezek so we should totally keep him wrapped up in in plastic you know that I would agree with you if you could do that for 120 years but it's never going to happen so it's never going to happen eventually he's going to see it so then we should right away make a decision now to prepare the kid for this teach them how to deal with guilt how to deal with shame how to see things and survive it there are tools for that kind of thing that's their argument again there are much worse arguments people D want to destroy the fir world I don't not going there maybe if I have time to talk about that because that's maybe the most important part of the share to be cognizant of the war to Rob us of innocence and how they masquerade as concern for us I hopefully I'll get there but the B the main thing I want to deal with is this nuda how do we respond to the sincere people who tell how do we defend ourselves why are we so there's a lot of tar that comes out especially when I'm in kir because I have a lot of coming Bala they come to join from communities and they're so excited but they grew up with certain things and yimas aren't accepting them because they're not ready to get rid of all of their things we corrupt like this we corrupt without technology people whose whole life was this to go and tell them you want to get you they want the best for their kids they bought into Tyra they came to conventions and weekends and seminars they love yish kite and they want to fit in then you tell them not take your kid unless you get rid of every single thing in the world and you can't have a smartphone you can't have this cost us a lot of turn why is it so bad why aren't we preparing for this why if it's going to happen anyway so what's the answer what's our defense what is the world what is our our our defense to someone who tells us what are you bothering with walls everyone's going to see everything anyway I think the answer is a very simple thing when you hear it it's like I'm surprised that so many people make this argument well-meaning people I've talked to B well-meaning people who who make the point you know how much people are missing out on that being so much suome I say but it's dangerous and they go They're going to see it anyway teach them how to deal with it I'm not saying fakers sincere people the answer I think is like this is that nobody really believes that people are not going to see everything but what happens is when people see things when they're young the younger you are when you see things the theusa and the shame that comes runs through your personality unchecked and it destroys you if I can delay the person's exposure to shame and guilt if I could delay it until he makes a c on makes a seem Aus then the boy feels Pride he works worked a whole year outside of Yeshiva in his free time shabas afternoon instead of napping and playing he had a Kusa and he finished macas so he feels like a gber and now when he has his first shame he has a response to his shame and there's another voice saying yes you feel terrible but I'm also I finished marus you can't take it away and shame doesn't run through his whole personality if you can delay it two more years and he finishes Bama then when the shame comes he goes Bama it's a hard and if you can make it to the point where he finishes Bas or then the shame comes he'll deal with it I feel but it's not going to knock me out cuz I have value shame is the feeling of worthlessness the most important we don't believe we don't believe that we're going to protect anyone being T him forever maybe we could do it Cas but that's not our SC for what drives our society what drives our society is the knowledge that the longer we can delay shame we can build up a person without but when the inevitable shame comes he will survive it but the secular world is being overrun by shame before the kid has done anything and it destroys you and you have no voice to recover with is the most simple truth in the world I started with the question of do we want our kids to be sensitive and present and experience the world and see all this beauty and wonder and or do you want to c a kids protected in a small little box but no is a hezek there's something lost when you have a heel the heel loses sensitivity it's such a tragedy to lose all that beauty of the world and all the sensitivity and the because you want to protect them I get it we make a good case for it but why does it have to come at such a cost the parish just want you to hear this word the par starts if you listen to the I learned up if you learn the laws in a Tyra like an AEV with walles cold unfeeling nothing's going to derail you we don't let anyone tell us what to do we go like a un feeling a you're going to keep the Tyra like a machine you're going to build High walls not let anything in not let anyone bar Cloud the FR world with their if you will live like that then the whole para para ends off know what happens if you do that then every place that you will walk on your feet that your feet will tread will be yours then you'll be conary to soil and you live it after many years I learned and it's a night poetic thing that poets don't like to repeat the same word twice so you call it a in the beginning of the end you call it nice little di you walk if you will have an AEV then every place that your foot will step will be yours you're not going to lose out in your world you're not going to curl up it if we build High walls then you won't curl up and you'll you'll you'll be able to live that's how I learned it till I really thought about it and I realized that it's not just a poetic thing a a and cafel it's very far from poetic there's nothing in the Goof that is more of an opposite than an a than the cafel the AEV is the hardest part of the human being the akv feels nothing that's the beauty of the akv it can go it can step there is no more sensitive part of the Goof than the cafreal the P you have a we tickle our little kids when you want to tickle a kid when you tickle him in the palm of his foot it's the most sensitive part of the Goof is that a fast thing that in the foot is the hardest part of the Goof that feels nothing and right next to it is the softest part of the go what do we make of that nice little C mystical cabalistic Stell that's a very simple thing you only to it what's the what's the relationship between the two do you know why the cfle is so sensitive do you know why the CF regel feels everything because the akv accepts the impact of everything in the world because the aave is so hard that every single the aave steps and takes all of the impact all the Cel never has touched the ground and the nail of the cafel is so sensitive because of the achm my entire Shear was built on a false premise I had to give a Shear so I set up a structure that sounded interesting do I have should I trade the ability to feel and to experience the world for thick walls that protect me it's a nice dilemma everyone talks about this dilemma but the Dilemma is a Lie the way we say it is thick walls I understand in aave you feel less but it's worth it at least you survive or do we want sensitivity and presence and go out and smell the world taste the world and then that's risky get clobber you'll might end up in the bushes that's the Dilemma presence and sensitivity and risking of loss of everything or safety and training off having a lower experience for a safe existence the whole question is a Lie the only people who can the way I said it was with the Tava should I be out in the world experiencing the world but it's so dangerous or should I go and confine myself to the little Tava and live in the Tava away from the mble what's the answer the answer is exactly the opposite is that if you have and walls then the kids inside are still vibrant that alive and they can be present and they can go through life giggling forever when you have an aave then you have a CAO if the only present people are the people on the Ark on the table if you're in the table then you're present if you live at the world you lose your sensitivity it's not choosing thick walls versus sensitive presence it's the thick walls it's the a that creates the cafel you only get it there's nobody more feeling and more present and more subtle and more nuanced than a child who grows up in the house of woles cuz a create CF regel the cafreal is the result the product of an we we live in a Tav because there's no truer view of the world than the view of AA the world where there is no when you strengthen the bolts of your Gates your children become GED and this is our I think this is oura we we don't believe there's a trade with the A and aov creates a CFO and you Tak see it you see that the look on kid you see on the there's a kid a kid this this there's a look of innocence and uh and whatever it is and the boys and the girls it's lasts twice as long and it's twice as tar cuz we excel at this there's nothing lost the the college students are are they are not more nuanced and sensitive and they not deeper feelings at us I I've seen thousands and thousands of kids over their and they have so many layers of protections they greatest skill is cackling and eye rolling not everybody so mean they roll their eyes but there are other ways nicer ways to demonstrate Detachment and disillusionment there's nothing more beautiful than the image of a of a 40y old man who can still giggle of a guy in a b good picture in a b Lish giggling you can you can see it you can see tar and Kusha and it's sad that I see I talk a lot that there are so many from people who are insecure about our position we have a lot of who are very strong but a lot of people feel like like insecurity with to argue this far from feeling insecure this should be your your goto argument this is the greatest demonstration of the wisdom of arahal is the purpose of the world is a dance in the gun and there's not one step of the dance not only not one step of the dance that's lost when you build High walls the dance is that much more beautiful and free and uninhibited because of the K of the T how much time do I have left I I do the anyway what are we on have time okay let me let me say something let me let let me let me just add something else I spoke over here let tell you a msh it's a little bit outdated of a musall but I was saying how could I link the two things I want to tell you to make it into one share because they're not so related but during Co during Co we had uh there were two suas I remember my daughter Hadas was We Got Married during Co it was a CO wedding it was but there were two s in the world going on at the same time if you remember those times the early days of it one suia was the suia of Co and the other one was the early George Floyd black lives matter riots and I spoke with my daughter chevas I said the every single thing you turn on the radio you newspaper all you're hearing is co co co George Floyd Derek shauvin right the cop who put his I can't breathe that's all we heard what one story to the next story and back to the first story I said Do You Realize both stories have the same punchline what was the punchline of the Derek schin story what was the the punchline of the co story was I can't breathe but they're very different there are two different ways that you can lose your breath life is who breathe life into and and brought them to life and this image of losing the bounds in your step and the wide gu look is the loss of yourish but it happens two ways Co is the symbol of the way that comes from inside it's the part you look at things you feel guilty you feel shame and you get eaten up from inside and from inside you lose your breath but there's a far uglier way that you can lose your breath and that is people from outside who need to step on our NE you can be the healthiest person in the world there's nothing lacking in you in your ability to breathe but somebody squeeze it out of you the second reason for shme is and for preventing for building big walls in arilla is because if the whole world was just sincere about science and math and business wouldn't be so one it wouldn't be so difficult but there's two skills that the outside world has that are their best skills and this is what you face when a child goes online two things that work in tandem the greatest skills they have are shaming every beautiful thing in the world every traditional value marriage families morality religion truth to make anyone who feels any of these things feel guilty weird old-fashioned racist bigoted and their other skill is even they're even better at this as good as they are at making the people who are moral and good feel proud feel ashamed make proud people feel ashamed the other skill is taking all the narish kite all the emptiness all of the evil and making it look like their Heroes they take emptiness and make emptiness look like glory and they take glory and they make it feel shameful this is the skill and this is where children are going the entire existence of an Instagram and a a Tik Tock and and a Facebook has one purpose for people with meaningless empty painful lives to convince everyone else how happy they are look at how perfect my life is it is to convince people that that their emptiness and their depression and their suffering is the most you should be jealous of who I am and they're so good at it five minutes online is enough to take a kid and make him totally insecure and shamed about his holiness and totally PR and totally jealous of all the other of of of all the people of emptiness this is the other side of I can't breathe the entire story of PM what is the story this is the story we're going now in m and b and PM the first the first uh Facebook the first instagrammer the first influencer was H Russia sending out every single day tweets and pictures of his bunam and his power and his guilt he had every bro in the world and everyone had to know and he needed everybody to bow in front of him everyone was that was oldfashioned language for likes and following and uh I don't know what all the words are everybody was K except one person was there was one person who refused to buy and hon was willing to destroy his entire nation because if he had one person who's not buying that the fancy meal you're eating and the pictures of your a fruity and the car you're driving and the clothing you're wearing and say oh my God I wish I was you then he ruins your entire lie cuz it's just a mask and one person can ruin your mask masks only work if you have Universal bu it if one person looks at what you're doing and says come on who you're fooling if one person won't bow it ruins it for everybody it's the same reason now add it's the same reason why why does I said this I think earlier but why does why does call Vash to come to the party who would do that it's a queen no you're it's a heart you can imagine low lives but a the king to call the Queen because what it is is that the entire purpose of a party is to make people who have empty lives feel free and happy and look at my life and party and be vild and then in the vild kite and the noise and the dancing you can forget who you really want it to be parties are the best tool for silencing my real dreams if you feel empty throw a big loud party the problem is you can invest a billion dollars at a party you can invest 10 bil a party and it's worthless you know why cuz if there's one woman in the room one dignified BOS M the whole party can't happen if the guy is a sit like this a little tala wait for her to leave someone tell her to go home the party's got to start because the image of a woman the Dignity of a bash reminds you of the truth and you can't pull off the LIE the LIE can't be successful when you're facing the truth the LIE can only work in the darkness so if the woman were doesn't leave so what's the other alternative we have to degrade her she has to lose her dignity she has to be H has a lie he needs the world to B buy everyone has to Bow we have a party to run everyone has to Bow the metaphorical bowing of Mori is the degradation of aash if all the women will lose their dignity then the party should go on if H Kaz tell doesn't come and doesn't bow so B says good I mixed doesn't vow doesn't vow so have to wipe out people doesn't bow the gets up and says we have to destroy this is why why if if if if his name was it's not like we're shamed or shy to use the word says h a few times though right lot of hum one more time would have hurt somebody why does it call maybe he wasn't K say he was what K saying is saying the guys who need to degrade women and the same as every the guy who needs the Jews to Bow is the guy who needs women to Bow because what a woman is to a mad is what the Jews are to the world we are the reminders of their dignity and she is the remind us so if he wants the party to be buil she's got a bow and if he the party wants to be bow the Jews have to bow it's the same story it's a small microcosm and in the macrocosm the war of men destroying women The War of the World destroying the K and Tower the same story m is H we all know how terrible the humans are the are just as bad the same drive the same character the same person and this is what is going on in the world the world's skill is on destroying the BOS M and destroying the kit is nothing more threatening to the world than the wide-eyed giggling of a Jewish kid and all of the investment in the power of Tik Tock and Instagram is worthless as long as is one giggly kid walking down their block and even worse if it's four five 15 kids and matching clothing on of walking with their parents it is the destruction of the entire investment of all these sites cuz one m not this is what it means when it says that because is the children who don't break the survival of the Innocence that allows the world to survive because without the innocence of our children of our children the entire world will be able to go on with their party and the world will be destroyed but if we can preserve the innocence of our children the will remain holy and the Soul can remain holy then the parties will stop in its track everyone will go home and sings mirrors with their kids to homework with their kids and go shopping go for walks and the world will be the world it all depends on the ability of to keep the purity of the children we're not robbing the world of experience and herish the heel the a creates a cafel if you want children to be a cafreal if you want your children to smile without any inhibition to be Allin and boyed and excited and to giggle overflowing with joy then you have to have woles it is the wisdom of people we're not against information we love the world we love knowledge we love the gun the only place you'll see the gun is safely behind wolf from there you can see everything like nobody out there sees it from the distance of Behind the Walls we have a Clarity and a depth that people who are sitting and holding it in their hands will never ever imagine to sheare this or to bring the rest of the world out of their bushes back into Aron