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wanted for for 2 minutes. I want to learn the parsha as Hashem learns something in the parsha, but I want to a couple of minutes express that I wasn't Zelig to know to know Yudi's brother Nochi very well. I wasn't Zelig to know him. I say I wasn't Zelig to know him very well because I know Yudi and Yudi is is extremely close to his brother, so I definitely feel some connection to Nochi, to his brother. I'm also close to Yisrael Winter, who was best friends, who was mamish best friends with Nochi and we spent many hours talking about Nochi, so I feel like I have some some understanding, some connection to Nochi. I Well, I want to express like just a truth, a truth of this world. We all have a lot of things on our Everybody has a lot of things on their plate and decisions to make. And decisions aren't always like the good place and the bad place. It's not how decisions work. There's such decisions. Should I do something bad and good? Usually Usually it's not even even that if somebody understands it that even that is not the aim of usually what's happening. Even that somebody's clearing night seder or rave is clearing Hashem and Hashem. The rave is the deep place that I want connection and and the seders I want connection and and the question how do I get connection to Hashem? When I connect to what? The deepest spaces of everybody's decisions, the deepest spaces are what's the best thing for you. What's my best thing? There's a line a goyish thinker said that the enemy of the best is the good. The opposite of the best is not the bad. It's It's It's something good that wasn't the best. So then What do you say? A friend of mine is my best my best friend. No, wait. The friend of my enemy is my enemy. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, there's a possuk in Mishlei. There's a possuk in Mishlei Yosif like this. Yeah. That's what he said. Yes. No, the enemy of my enemy is my friend. Yeah. >> [laughter] >> Then Then I appreciate you brought us Yosif a lot. Sure. Yosif, so [applause] the other You tried We all try to make decisions. And the other night there was a guy in Yeshiva whose sister was getting married. And the guy The guy asked many times, "Could you come? Could you come?" And typically I'm There's a lot of things. To go to a guy's sib- sibling's wedding is not always what I can do. It's not Typically not. But I felt they asked and I decided to go. I had a hashkafa. And I want to say I I witnessed there Elio Tusk. He's not here. I'm not flattering. He went and was being mesameach with Jojo. And I saw friendship and I saw care of a friend came another To me that's like the holiest thing in the world. I I I don't know if there's holier things in the world than a Yid caring for another Yid. We're We're reading the parshas at the Rav Avraham Avinu of the chesed of Avraham. Of of of of the innate ratzon for a person to bring cheer, to be godly, to be mesa- meach another person, to uplift another person. And I watched at the chasunah. I watched Elio come in and dance with his friend and I was very moved. And I could say that going that far was like That was a I did get to drive back with Azriel. But the sense of bringing simcha to another Yid in the value. And I want to say Anochi we have we have a funny world of what's valuable, of what's what's important. There was an neshama who wanted to make other people happier. Who cared to make other people happier is like a very very big deal. It's interesting. I'm going to I'm going to teach for for a minute. First of all, some to this morning I this morning I got a text like I got a text from Yakov Shwekey Yakov Shwekey this morning. >> [laughter] >> And he And he was giving he was giving he knew my father well and he was talking about my father. He wrote a it was a voice he wrote about my father. And I want to send him back but not in a way of like a cheap thing. My father valued singers a lot like a crazy amount unusual. And he wasn't somebody who like if he saw this is this is if if if a big star walked by some NBA player my father I don't think would would care. I don't think he'd care. It's not his type. He wasn't like chasing stars. If if some famous actor some Michael Jordan walked by some LeBron James I don't think my father would care I know he wouldn't. I I spent enough time with him. He wasn't a star chaser. And yet like a Jewish singer was like a very big deal to him. He felt them a sameach yidden. That was like I would almost say that was his maskana of studying Torah. Somebody is He came from the Gemara in Taanis. Somebody is mesameach yidden it's like a very big thing. I was telling even he's not here I was telling him Mordy Liner and it's not like a pat on the back nice kid. I was telling him when he walks into the room like everybody starts smiling that's like the biggest thing in the world. It's not like a nice nice nice guy. It's like a huge light that's like an aura that he walks places and brings the simcha. He brings a mesameach and causes another Yid to be happier. That's like a big thing in the world. Hard to say if something bigger. Hard to say something bigger. And I was thinking this morning I wanted to tell him a Yid that you're singing and singing to people that my father was makhshev that till the end of the world. I want to say on on Yidi's brother Anochi that that need to be mesameach Yidden is like the holiest place in the world. The loss is the loss is acute. The loss is unbelievably painful. It's painful stam to lose a brother. It's painful a Yid taken away at for us what feels like so there's so much of a career ahead of him and that's that's a tremendous tzar. We're talking about what that looks like to grieve in each person as their own There's a lot of chazal give us halacha and there's a lot of space within that halacha each person's journey. But I want to express Anochi that he was somebody who cheered up people with pure joy. I I met Yidi the first time I met him in the dorm. Usually guys come here and it takes like a journey of to get comfortable and happy. I got a hug from Yidi. Usually guys in Waterbury like 5 years to hug a Yid like that. We hugged here. You're you're more Waterbury than Waterbury. I don't know. If this was Anochi if this was Anochi then amazing amazing the warmth the care for another person the sensitivity to cheer up another person. So I wanted to express that we didn't have much time this year. It's been hectic in the start. And this whole thing happened in the summer but I wanted to express appreciation. What's his full Hebrew name? Chanoch Henoch Chanoch Henoch. Wow, named after the Rosh Yeshiva probably of Chofetz Chaim. He was Chanoch Henoch, right? Looks like Chanoch Henoch Alt Hanauer Ben Yeah. Alt Hanauer Ben A legacy of kindness, of cheering up another person. Yisroel when he ever spoke to Yisroel told me about about his friend Nochi He said he said remarkable things about a guy who cheered up other people. It's It's hard to find a bigger thing in the world. We would talk about the eulogy of Avraham Avinu that he say he is lifter happy. We need like we when we want to speak about somebody we have to say like crazy 20 or crazy stuff. To me like simple he He brought joy to people that's like that's crazy. That's like that's There's hardly much more you can say about a person that is he lifts the spirits. When we describe Hashem When we describe Hashem he's slave time. The if you want to know God he brings to people that are that are down to that's like a of Hashem. slave time. It's a it says about Hashem that that's a we have to look it up. slave time. To give suppressed oppressed people pushed down that's like a of Hashem. So your whole family Hashem should send to all family but and the legacy of Nochi. I want to say we all should be that parts of ourselves that just wants value it. I say not to force it like be good to other people it's in us the wants it let's celebrate that. When you see it that's like that's God that's an expression of godliness when you experience that. So Nochi's precious should have an aliyah and we should be following those ways bring chaos, you You a big thing it is, Daniel, to go into a dorm room randomly and just crack a few jokes? It's like you're literally bringing eternity. It's like everything in the room. It's It's an It's a light. It's an urn to the room. Go into the room, Daniel. You have this chaos. You crack some jokes. Sing a quick song. Sing one lazy who the one time through. Shalom shalom aleichem. Thank you. I want to welcome Yakov Keminsly back. >> [applause] [applause] [cheering] >> Come in OUT PARTY. >> [applause] >> MICE YOU MICE YOU WERE THERE? Mice you Were you were there? Yeah. You're waiting to to watch them And then DRS you'll get to see them. Get to see them mice you. You don't mind I'm going to repeat the rebel list that I want to repeat. I want to share something first from the rebel that's that I just found fascinating. It reflects something mice that I think I'm curious what you think about this. Rashi brings Yakov. Yakov's from Pittsburgh. Pittsburgh's one of the centers of Chabad. New England Pittsburgh. His friend's from Pittsburgh as well. What's your friend's first name? Izzy. Welcome Izzy to Yeshiva. Welcome Izzy. So, Izzy and Izzy. Welcome Rabbi Izzy as I want to shalom I want to share with you something the Rebbe Yechiel, listen. What job last night? Welcome home, Yechiel. Something [applause] Something the Rebbe says at the beginning of Toldos, the Rebbe asked as follows, it says the late Sunday Adar we're saying that Yitzchak Avinu was not from Avraham Avinu. >> [cough] >> They were claiming that Sarah Imeinu was married to Avraham for decades and had no children. It can't be Yitzchak. They were doubting the miracle that Yitzchak came from Sarah Imeinu. And the late Sunday Adar were challenging the miracle. And they made up stories that maybe Yitzchak comes from Avimelech. Avimelech had kidnapped Sarah Imeinu. And they were saying crazy things that Yitzchak did not come. We don't believe such a miracle. She's an old lady. They doubted the miracle. Now, of course, the Nes Hashem Pirsumei Nisa is a topic of today. It's a topic all year, but Chodesh Kislev, being mefaresh the Nes is a huge Sugya to publicize the Yad Hashem, that Hashem runs the world. And when somebody has a miracle happen to them, Pirsumei Nisa is a big deal. It's a big Sugya to be mefaresh Shem Hashem Baruch Hu by them. You experience Hashem, comfortably tell people about it. Comfortably tell people about you. I experienced Yad Hashem. Share with others. And Nisim wake people up. Hashem runs this world. And Nisim wake up people to Hashem running the world. We get used to things. And we forget to mention it. And Nisim we forget to acknowledge it and to see it and to experience it. Through a Nes arouses a person. Ramban in Parshas Boi, the very purpose of a Nes is to be aroused to see Hashem in day-to-day life, to experience Hashem. So, people were doubting the nice of Sarah having Yitzchak. Comes Hashem and he makes he does another nice doesn't say a miracle comes Hashem and Rashi brings what Hashem do. The late Sanei Adoraim the scoffers of the generation were saying "May have you milk the Sarei Sarah." That Sarei Menu did not give birth to the child from Avram he's an old man it came from Avimelech. I shouldn't say it wasn't from Sarah they agreed from Sarah they said it wasn't from Avram. Don't make the nice bigger Sarei Menu was a miracle but it wasn't from Avram. They were mocked and they made the nice smaller they said Sarah was nice Avram from Avimelech. She was with Avram so many years and didn't have a child. So, what Hashem do to be my friend same the nice Sarah class to punish the diamond Avram. Hashem formed the face of Yitzchak that it should look like Avram. Yitzchak look like his tata. So, everybody was able to say this child is a child of Avram. The nice was before some Here Avram is an old kid would be miraculous it was a miracle for Sarei Menu and Avram to have a child but people Sanei Ador from Sarah I apologize was undeniable the baby came from Sarah. That Avram was the father of the child one can deny. And the late Sanei Ador said this child did not come from Avram Avinu. And Hashem in his wonderful pierce my nice to publicize the miracle we discussed that Avram and Sarei Menu made a soda after Sarei Menu stopped nursing Sarah stopped nursing they made a very very public soda public face because they wanted to be the nice person and to spread the word miracles and nice. And here try to be try to lower the nice and they said didn't give birth to maybe maybe Sarah was a miracle enough but it wasn't from so what did do he was a cluster of foreign face to look like so everybody said this child the child of undeniably. After the children always look like their parents usually I bet most guys here look like their fathers typically a child looks like their Tata. So what's the what's this circle like there's something happened uniquely here it's always that way so what's the of cluster of that's like always that way most most kids in the world you know who their father is and people can't deny it just look. What do you say to the question what start a question never. I like real I'm not the rebel was an honest dude was trying to learn here it says so says is a good look like the mama. I do want to say even most people that look like their mother you can tell who their father is most people. So but it could only look like the mama and you could say here I shall make sure that it looks like the father. Yeah yeah there are different features but usually you can sense it's the father now I agree to start my says who says this is craziness. This child in a way the Rebbe is learning and I do want to say Marsha it says what Hashem do with there's like a response. My there's a problem with sir it sounds like a unique thing was done here. It should say that in this case like it's now every time it could be we're reading it wrong and here even like the even like the scene what Hashem do this sounds like something that needs to be a surgery and I make this one it literally what? Yeah like he did a whole what's he doing so much? What happened this one look it literally even the Hashem Marsha this child is 50/50 this one looked like Avram. Sir punim sounds like there was an operation a surgery as that. Why do you need a surgery? Is he hear the question the Rebbe asked? What? I think it's a solid question Yakov. But it says he made his face cluster punim did something with the face. What were you saying Yosef? Somebody said that Yosef is intelligent somebody said a little baby right away a day or two old doesn't look so much like anybody. They look usually look like a dry very dried out. Yosef says second one. Sir cluster punim should be a right away could take time. Nice job. >> [laughter] >> Yeah that's a Yosef said. >> [laughter] >> Really? Why? But everyone saw that she was labor, like oh, now we know this episode. Then the kid was born like, oh, forget it. Right. I'm just reading I'm reading the ration. But the sound but the sounding like a the sounding like something was done. Us Turk when 50% of kids look like their father, so sounding like some unique surgery is necessary. I'm not I don't mean to He's [laughter] He's right. He's right. You've experienced that also I like have no opinions and Mark can you say we have no opinions and the latest like he looks exactly I don't know who I And what's funny Adar and what's funny Adar, they're all women. >> [laughter] >> What kind of kosher? Could be it could be. Moe the The Reb The Reb has said The Reb has said something so interesting. The Reb has said that I I like I like a detail The Reb has said you don't have to be mask of this kosher. Sometimes you have to address this kosher. The Reb has said something that I found very unique. He said that if there's a physical resemblance is from the space that there's a deep similarity to the to the to the parent. The Reb has said that Yitzhak's Gevurah Avraham's Chesed in Svari should not look like Avraham at all. He says the and I always feel the physical world reflects spiritual truths. If the kid looks like the father cuz he has he has like a lot of stuff like his father. Yitzhak whose Gevurah and Avraham's Chesed by all Svari the Reb has said should look like you have to do research on this. I never looked at it this way when a kid looks like his father he'll be like his father. He looks The Reb claims he's making a cool claim. He says the parent you look like there's a big similarity to him in turn out in a deep way. And he says I've Ramos has Yitzchak's in Sefarad they shouldn't look. The of Sarah lasted upon is that he was completely not like him and I shouldn't look like him. Sarah is a surgery here. He formed what it should have been because Yitzchak's very different. Yitzchak's Abraham's cousin. That's what the Rebbe says. I like this a lot more and we have to stop like now it's funny I never was big in this what does the kid look like? I don't know like leave me out of this. I'm very curious now. I'm curious now to study on kids if they look like mama do they have more of the men? Obviously you can't say 100%. I still miss this something you've observed in your life? I haven't like not yet I didn't know but the Rebbe says that if they physically look is a reflection of spiritual things and I Yitzchak spiritually was not like Abraham shouldn't look like Abraham. I you need Sarah upon of that I shall like form them to be like that's Very very very good. Oh that's good. I want there's something I want to learn in the parish but there's a lot of guests is he's here we have we have him. We have we have Remind me your first name? Ruby the friend of the entire family. >> [applause] >> AZARIA >> [applause] >> EIGHT TIMES STRONGER IS HERE. Eight times brother was here. >> [applause] >> Where does he live now? Remind me your first [applause] name? Ezra and Ezra and Aaron Perfect. Ari, [applause] Ezra you with Ari and Tuvia Stein? Shloime, you could play Ashi Veinu for the chazzan and then we'll share. You have the guitar here, Shloime? Banger. It's like water, daily chill. Let's play a banger. We got some water. Thank you, Shloime. Rebbi, is this concept of Kedusha like spiritual that resembles that physical? Is that a Kedusha, like the concept? I don't know. It's pashut, no? What's the other side? Physical shouldn't reflect that Rebbi. That's what I like about you. No, no, no, I'm not I like when you see examples. I'm not fighting the world of Hashem. I'm just like I like that some concepts are pashut, right? It's too early in the morning, Shloime. So nice. It might be, yeah. I'll lower the key a little bit. Rebbi Rebbi, someone's not so grob in the game. You know what she says in the Olam Hazeh? What does that mean? Unless like we just don't see right. What was the case? 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[singing] >> [music] >> Amen. >> [singing] [music] >> Amen. >> [music] [singing] [music] >> How are you? >> [applause] >> Yitzchak Yitzchak Avinu is thanking you, Schlemiel. Yitzchak Avinu asks He asks who he thinks is Esau to please go trap him an animal. He wants Esau to be Amal. He wants Esau to work hard and keep it up. Esau has physical skills. And Yitzchak Avinu was Machia that there's a place for physical strength and talent that matters. That matters physical strength. And he tells him, "I want you to trap animals for me and do keep it up in the game." Yitzchak Avinu had that aura. In the world of service of Hashem, physical things matter. If somebody's strong, if somebody is good good-looking, if somebody's charismatic, if somebody's artistic, all the physical skills matter in the world of service of Hashem. There's a place. In the Beis Medrash, it's not like there's There's the guy who likes is the biggest masmid in the Beis Medrash and other things don't matter. Things matter. If a guy's an artist, in the world of service of Hashem, there's a big space for an artist. If a guy is good-looking, in the world of service of Hashem, good looks. If a guy is physically strong, in the world Things matter in the Beis Medrash. A yeshiva has to reflect this. Reb Meir Shapiro was strong at this. It's a Titus in the Beis Medrash. If there's only given over, it's not teaching Torah. If it's only giving over that only a certain thing is like precious in the service of Hashem, that's extremely extremely dangerous. I remember one of our chevra was a guitarist. And the rebbe said to him, a well-meaning rebbe who didn't understand life so well, he said like I hope one day you break your guitar. He told him such [music] a lie. It was a tremendous misunderstanding of life, tremendous perversion of life. We are musical ability and skills have a place in the base medrash. Have a place in the world of service of Hashem. And Yitzchak in recognizing that, of course, says to Esau that I want you to trap me an animal. You're physically gifted, you're strong. Be mechabed your father, bring back an animal and I'll bench you. Use your talents and your skills. You're great. You know how hard it is to trap an animal? Such a skill, such a the strength and the the dexterity, the the capacities. And Yitzchak in recognizing this, he gives Esau a task. And it's a deep understanding of an Esau and what an Esau's role and purpose is. And I'll celebrate says, "Take your sword that's so important to you and go catch me and go go at it hard, Esau, and go be matzliach and come back and I'll bench you. There's such a space for you, Esau." And of course, we know that it was Yaakov Avinu who was dressed up. And and Yaakov Avinu comes back. He comes back having having gotten an animal. He comes back, but he's back very fast. And Yitzchak's Yitzchak's like shocked that he's Bayom Yitzchak el beno. Yitzchak says to his son, "Ma zeh mehartah litzod beni?" You came back so fast. I know you're athletic. I know you're talented, but wow, you're back fast." And Yaakov Avinu dressed up as Esav responds to Yitzchak, "Hashem is the one who found me." "Hashem, my God, appeared tonight. It was like a miracle. It should take much longer, but Hashem made me find this very quick. He gave it up to Hashem." Says Rashi, says Rashi, this got Yitzchak Avinu very, very confused. Says Rashi, Yitzchak Avinu said in his heart, "Ain derech Esav Hashem shamayim shoger befiv." Esav doesn't quote God so much. This is Yitzchak Avinu quoting Hashem. Esav doesn't do this. This is Yaakov Avinu Yaakov speaks a lot about Hashem. Yaakov talks about God. That's a meter of Yaakov Avinu and he's surprised that Esav doesn't talk like this. This threw him off. Esav doesn't mention Hashem. The man doesn't say Hashem a lot. Now, first I want to talk about Yaakov Avinu that he talks about Hashem a lot. In Zichron Yaakov in the summer, many of us are able to be around the Rebbe in the summer, around the Rebbe. And I'm always amazed that it's Hashem shamayim he talks about Hashem comfortably. I sat in a I sat in a doctor's office with a guy and they said Hashem's name. I was very uncomfortable. And I felt I think I was uncomfortable. Felt very forced. It felt like they were preaching to me. Didn't feel natural and comfortable. So, it's like, "Stop trying to like don't wear your religion. Don't don't push me. You're like preaching to me. I'm just in a doctor's office. Don't preach." But when the rabbi speaks about Hashem, it's like normal. Talks about Hashem comfortably. When you see him when when you see him standing your shoes and then Hashem comes up a lot. Hashem It's like comes up in like casual, comfortable conversation with God. It just comes up. Of course, Hashem gave us some gives us things. Hashem takes care of us. It's It's real. And a very present person is very at ease. And the guys here have changed our changed my life. Guys here, a 10th grader here, I believe talks and thinks more about Hashem than I did in 10th grade. Learning Learning, putting in the big hours, whatever it is. And guys here is a tremendous God conscious that people are aware of Hashem, remarkably busy with Hashem. God, Hashem and thinking about Hashem. And a Yid who makes 100 brachos a day, this is like basic to a Yid. I've heard speakers and nobody Nobody means bad. I've heard speakers speak for an hour, crazy good shmooze, and the person didn't say God once. They said such a shmooze, so many cool subjects, mothers have played it. And chesed, the person didn't mention Hashem once. Now, I'm not saying that anybody should feel guilt. And certainly, we could say message to self before a speech today. I'll make sure you say Hashem's name. I'm not talking about forcing and pushing it on others. I'm talking about being more conscious ourselves. Being more conscious and present. We're people who think Hashem. We got to We got to We're going to go to lunch in a few minutes. Thank you, Hashem. Baruch atah Hashem, Elokeinu Melech ha'olam. Thank you, Hashem. Thank you. We're thanking Hashem. A guy asked me in Yeshiva this week. A guy said that his friend his he Somehow he said zimmun when he was going to do zimmun, and his friend said I don't bench. Okay, I'm sorry. So, he said, "But I thank Hashem always. After I eat, I thank Hashem." And the bachur by us said to me, he said, "I bench, but I don't thank Hashem." Then he said, "Which one he he Which one do I think is better?" I'm not coming. We have a mitzvah to bench, but we have to also We're supposed to be conscious to what we're doing with thanking Hashem. He gave us a nice soda. Thank you, Hashem. Thank you. Now, let's let's be conscious what we're making brachos. Baruch atah Hashem. She'kolam she'kolam, thank you, Hashem. Nice. Nishma. Thank you, Hashem. Appreciate it. Really. And Hashem, you you like me. You're into me. You're giving to me to be present to the truth. You challenge me. Be angry at Hashem. Be upset at Hashem. Why why why You're upset at me? What what what did I talk? Talk and be present. Yakov Avinu in a very very comfortable way, Yishak Shamayim mishager befi. He said, "Hashem made it appear to me. This is just He's just pleasant and and and present that Hashem did it." So, Yitzchak Avinu hears his son say it. He's confused. Eisav doesn't talk this way. Eisav Ramban kasha. Eisav Ramban, but I thought Yitzchak thought that Eisav's good. Rashi Ramban tamah. I have a peleh on Rashi. Yitzchak Avinu knows that Eisav's good. He thinks that he loves Eisav. So, how could Rashi say Yitzchak was fooled? And Rashi brings that that Yitzchak was fooled. He was sayid befi. He thought Eisav was good. So, then how could Rashi, the same Rashi who says Yitzchak was fooled, yet Yitzchak, defend. If Yitzchak was fooled, Yitzchak, so then how does Rashi bring that Eisav doesn't say Shamayim? And Yakov And Yitzchak Avinu knew that Eisav doesn't talk about God. I I he knew that I thought he was fooled by Asav. It says the Ramban says that he says the Ramban only and I love this Ramban and I want to talk about this for a few minutes. The Ramban says that the is that Yitzchak knew Asav doesn't say Shem Shamayim. And he knew Asav's very busy in worldly things. You saw this Ramban and Ramban says that he thought that Asav's Yiras Shamayim was a big madreiga. He's very tired. He doesn't want to say It's It's from disrespect Hashem he doesn't say Hashem's name. That's what That's what Yitzchak Avinu He knew Asav doesn't Asav's busy. He knew Yakov sitting and learning Torah and he says Shem Shamayim he could be present to that. But he was impressed with Yitzchak. He said that's his madreiga. Now I want to say it's not just a hava mina of of Yitzchak Avinu. Every hava mina of Yitzchak was the acknowledgement that there's a space for an Asav. Whatever we learn about Asav they say that Asav was Yisro Mumar was doing aveiros Yitzchak wasn't aware. But Yitzchak saw two Yidden and this is true this hava mina is true. You see one Yid who says Shem Shamayim Shogair B'fi. Wow. This is a person living such a truth. Another Yid is very busy and working and it's impressive that he doesn't say. He thought it was a maila on Asav. He's tired he's not a faker. He thought that he was very impressed with Asav. He doesn't say Hashem's name a lot. He's so real. Ramban speaks this out. It's the Yiras Shamayim of Asav is such a special You see two Yidden one davens a long Shmoneh Esrei one davens short. I'm so impressed with both. The guy davens a long Shmoneh Esrei. As that person he's mamesh so present to Hashem he could daven a 10 minute Shmoneh Esrei. Wow. I see a guy rip off a Shmoneh Esrei such Yiras Shamayim there. He doesn't want to pretend but he wants to do with cheshbon. He says the words he says and that's there's such a sincerity and an honesty and there's a job and there's a task in And by the way, we have times we do both. But there's a time and Yitzchak's impressed with Esau. He holds it's the year of Shamayim of Esau. Not there's there's such a space. He doesn't say Hashem's name a lot. He's just a very real person and that's a year of Shamayim. There's a fear of heaven. He's not It's not where he is. He has two shots and either his hands are tummy. Esau's very awesome. But he has another shot that his mind is on science. He's very physical. So he's not like in a pretend. That's wrong. It means a lot for him to say Hashem's name. It means a lot. It's not a simple thing. So both the Yidden saying Hashem's name, that's amazing. Shem Shamayim. He has two sons and he's impressed with both. He's impressed with the son here. What's going on here? This is not just a Hava Amina. Yaakov Yitzchak Avinu has two sons. One is says Hashem's name and one doesn't. See say good guy, bad guy. Yitzchak's impressed with both. He's no good. Impressed Yaakov Avinu's Shem Shamayim and and he Yitzchak can give Musar to Esau. He doesn't give Musar to Esau. He doesn't call Esau aside and say you should say more about Hashem. He's blown away by Esau. This is his son. Yitzchak can give Musar. He held that what was the mistake? What was other Aveiros he wasn't aware of. But the not saying Shem Shamayim, there was an honesty. He was like very proud of his son. The Ramban says it was a year of Shamayim that he's tired with other things. He doesn't bring out Shem [cough] Shamayim. Did Yitzchak have his year and not say Shem Shamayim either? It doesn't say. It's interesting. Do we ever find on Yitzchak Shem Shamayim Shev of interest? It's actually the meat of of Yitzchak's year of Shamayim. I suspect he wasn't tired in science. I suspect he would say Shema Hashem. Says specifically reflected Asav has a job. He's very busy. He's arranging things and I respect him. And he's careful. He doesn't just throw it around. And he said that for Yira Shamayim there's there's a madrig. From Yitzchak's Hava Amina Asav we learn so much. Different people have different roles and different way of expressing their roles. And it's sit cuz that you could be within your role within your matzah. I'm like extremely moved Daniel by this Ramban. And then each person in an honest way being comfortably where they are. One person is busy working and and there's an impressive aspect and that could be used for Sham Shamayim. And even that person with Yira Shamayim is not going to be Sham Shamayim like Yaakov and and Yitzchak's very comfortable and happy with that. And not not criticizing that. What a Yira Shamayim. He's like proud of his son who doesn't say Sham. Now Mr. Ramban says this. But for Yira says busy with the tsiyad. He's busy so he's working on him. And he's doing By the way he'll support Yaakov Avinu. By the way he'll bring to Yitzchak matana. Right now he's very engaged and he's not going to fake something. That's the That's this Ramban. I'm like very very moved by the Hava Amina. Now the maskana is not he's wrong. He should have been doing it. Maskana is there were other aveiros ketsiyad bashev. This how the Ramban says pshat in the I'm incorporating Rehersh here. Huh? I own way of learning, you know. You just said I'm incorporating Rehersh here. You just said that. Yeah. Mordy called you out like two minutes ago. Oh, you ready? Okay. I'm not I'm not fighting Rehersh. I'm learning Chumash. I'm pashut coming. I'm like really impressed how Yitzchak relates that he says there was some pigam it could be in the zaris mel mazurasim if I'm not like arguing with him. What are you saying Yitzchak? I thought he so you would make Yitzhak. Oh, Daniel, I'm sorry. Yaakov is like a smart guy, no? Silly. Why would he do the whole like Hashem is legendary thing? He wouldn't do that. That's a great question. That's very, very strong. Daniel asked a bomb kasha. Daniel says you're trying to be Esau and you say words. It's like a This is like the worst costume ever. He has a job to play. And Yaakov it's law it's Why is this law said on Yaakov? You know, Esau doesn't do that. And Amram Yitzhak believe Esau doesn't do that. So, he didn't role-play very well. He's He's being Esau. I don't want you Don't settle for bad answers, you know. It was so natural he couldn't He was very smart. It's a bomb kasha, Daniel. Daniel said It's not like a child It's a bomb kasha. He's being Esau. And Esau doesn't do this. It's I don't accept silly answers. You know that It is a serious thing. You're being Esau. I want to ask you that according to this Ramban that Esau not saying it was a reflection of Yiras Shamayim, so then possibly it's a reason It's It wasn't highlighted as a flaw. See, if that was a noticeable flaw in Esau, so then what Yaakov you know says it wasn't considered a flaw, but I'm still bothered by it even if it's not a flaw. Notice he doesn't do it. Why wasn't that studied that he doesn't do it? I wonder if it's better with the Ramban. Well, here this was like a noted flaw. Yaakov talks about God Esau's schlecht and doesn't so imitate him. Knock it off. If that itself was seen as an expression of Yiras Shamayim, they're both busy with God. So, then just say what's natural and comfortable. You can All you can do is what's natural and comfortable. I don't know if you can mirror that because there was a sense that Esau was present. So could be Esau sometimes when he was in the moment would say the way the Ramban's learning even in his not saying was an awareness of Hashem. Wow. So then if it hits Yaakov to say it, say it. You're going to start You're going to start guessing when Esau doesn't and uh doesn't and does you're going to be That's what I wonder with the Ramban if it answers your kasha. The kasha is a fist the kasha. Does the Ramban answer his kasha to a degree it might answer his kasha. I'm sorry. The Ramban's saying that but that's not the kasha. So why do you that make Yitzchak think you? This was the sugya that Esau typically the maisa didn't say it as much but because of Esau not saying it wasn't a a lack of awareness of Hashem. That's how Yitzchak saw and that's how Yaakov pashed this whatever Yitzchak saw that Esau Yaakov also saw. That might have been more in in in line with Esau but he says Hashem. It was like hedging his bets. Yeah yeah yeah. Should have just said a little lashon hara mikra. Interesting. Yitz, why do you say Yitz help us this is your sugya? What type of bad actor is he? Uses a word that Hashem doesn't The kasha trying to imitate Esau to say Hashem made it a fear. You won't So then like it's like It's like it it's like You're like the this is like the double spy like You help think yourself that You're trying to catch me. What's up? >> [clears throat] >> Yitz, why is this your sugya? What do you say to Silverman in this? Good kasho Daniel's kasho. Very sure. What do I like and I make in the way I learn the base is like a certain type of shot tower that I don't base like in my attack in the way I'm attached to I'm skeptical. That's the less that's the that's what I should have said but the base like there's such a life in the shot and it's like a deep if the in the that I saw not saying is saying that Jacob says says it's also busy with him and I saw him not saying is my I saw him doesn't say shame he's busy with him and and yes and Jacob thought I saw him not saying is also talking about him cuz I saw him not saying is right now I'm tired so then so then I can't decide when he says and doesn't say so then if he if you sense now to say so say it you're not being different than an I saw that's that their mistake was I'm not sure I'm not sure. The kasho I like a lot Daniel. What do you say to to Daniel's kasho? Wow. Wow. That's amazing. says that he wants he he wants to pretend I saw him he's also conscious he's about to be blessed. He wants the blessing to come in a certain way so yeah. Somehow he mentions he wants a blessing that should be a massive like like let the blessing reflect us I have to give like put this into I saw him somehow. It's more curved to the shot of what the Torah is saying to me something like that but I hear the base of Levy like this double half that he He said that that he that the base of Levy well Isaiah If Isaiah said the base of Levy said that that Asav >> [snorts] >> that Yitzhak that Yakov thought that Asav and Yitzhak would make sure that nobody plays him that Asav would talk like Yakov that would be his turn. It's too dizzy and Kokia Yakov came So you can't like predict he'll do such a thing and clearly he didn't cuz Amaryitz believe by this. Clark Yitzhak and Asav didn't do that they didn't do that cuz Amaryitz believe by Yitzhak said believe by he doesn't say I shall he's talking like Yakov they shouldn't have been surprised their plan was a show. No but he says Rashi's the point of Rashi's coming to say that why he was uncertain. Amaryitz believe by that's why he said come close it made him have doubt. That shouldn't make him have doubt. Why should he think that? There's no that's not a problem. Sounds like it was some sort of problem. He thought they made a plan. What do you say more to this to Daniel's cashier? Maybe to his father maybe Yakov thought that says he was say in the fifth Asav always behaved differently Yitzhak So as he said he always behaved differently. I never behaved different. >> [laughter] >> Why you saying like like Esau was like more like >> Reb Ezzy said to his father that Chazal said Sa'id Befein that he spoke from speak to his dad. So, Reb Ezzy Shlita said that since he spoke from speak to his father in front of his father, yet Yaakov thought that Hosea Shem Shamayim in front of his father. >> [laughter] >> In Mechaben the Chassidisha Torah, should I tell him Reb Bonam of Shas Koses? In Mechaben the Berich Shas Torah that I'll end with this cuz only I was I was going to close here Mash, but he said the Chassidisha Torah. In the Chassidisha Sefarim Daniel brings, it says Esau's Kibbud Av was Nifla'os. Esau had crazy Kibbud Av'em and the Tana'im are Nishtane me. He said we don't touch his Kibbud Av'em cuz he put on he had very fancy garment from Nimrod he stole. And whenever he would serve his father, he would put on a fancy garment. It's a reflection of Kibbud Av when he would serve Yaakov Avinu would say, "Esau and Yitzchak Avinu would say, "Esau, can I have a drink?" He would get him he'd wear a special garment to serve his father. Such was his Kibbud Av. Woo! So, he said we mamash don't touch Esau's Kibbud Av. So, in Reb Bonam asked, "Well, let's do it." So, start putting on let's do it. Like why can't we match it? It doesn't seem like the hardest thing Daniel. So, why don't we wear garments to serve our fathers? So, what he said was and he said it also gives a a depth. Esau used to have from talk to his father. So, stam it was like a fruit it could be that's not the oimek. The oimek is that in his Kibbud Av to his father he didn't want to hurt his dad. How many of us make such his way in this? I don't want to hurt my tata. So, we show our firm reside to tata. We don't want to We don't want him to have to put It's It's hard for him to put up with our struggles. So, we show our firm side to the father. So, he said that Esau's thing in kibbud av was not to hurt Yitzchak. He would show him a vad edut as a truth. We all have different statum. He would show that from So, that's what it means he wore bigadim to serve his father. Means he was a metzius of bigadim. He was a certain He looked a certain way and behaved. It was a metzius of bigadim. He said anachnu ami in kibbud av there might have been such madregah, but that's why he wasn't impacted by Yitzchak. Since he wore a special bigadim in front of Yitzchak and he said we wouldn't do this. Hagahamus madregah in kibbud av we want to be impacted by Yitzchak. To be impacted you have to say, "Tata, I'm struggling." So, my mishmachavin Daniel to to good Torah that he wore special bigadim to serve his father. So, Daniel says we don't we don't do that. We don't wear special bigadim. We say, "Tata, I'm struggling. I need Then we could receive from the tata. If we only wear special bigadim, we don't receive what we need to receive who we need to receive." That's what it says in Sefarim like that. So, I like Daniel's kasha. Daniel zogt Basically, Reb Ezi, this is just Daniel's sheer today. Two Daniels spoke together. Thank you, Daniel. Let's get ready for Shabbos Kodesh. Yasher koach. There's Reb Ezi Reb Ezi wants me to announce for everybody. Chevre, there's a Mincha, very important Mincha, that we have on the winter weeks. There'll be a Mincha right now. Tell sell the chevre. 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