Remembering Rabbi Avi Oberlander ZT”L - Part 2

Okay. There's a lot there's a lot to get to. There's there's a lot a lot to get to. >> Not there. that after >> dialectic look that up. That's what that description of >> I think it's great. >> Either way, I don't think >> but somebody's Yeah. Yeah. That was dialectic. I didn't remember. It's a big thing. It's sophisticated. >> Each thing has a space car inside. Okay, there's a lot. There's a lot a lot I want to get to. They're all different. They're all different areas and things. Step number one is I want to welcome Arata. He's [applause] here. I want to appreciate I want to express I want to express it's Ryland's yard site. We're sitting here because not in our normal spot. I want specifically all the learning we're gonna say there's a I never even told from that I fix electric I never told this never in my life I never shared with because I wanted it's a big deal there's a ver I'm going to tell you Gabe I want you to remember your whole life I want to share this I want to share this with you but I first want to express appreciation has made a massive impact on our yeshiva this year. He's uh it's funny we're not [applause] in it's a very weird place. I spoke about Ry Overlander that guys were confused rebi Obi things are not so defined here who's what somebody is I'm not I I don't like that pretend of the of like Rebi we're people we're human beings go somebody calls somebody rebi fine it's not like clearly defined I want to say an ara he's a rebi here he's a dorm counselor he's a he's also a bak here his impact has been significant. He's somebody who's been in the besh hours and hours a day. He doesn't look down at anybody. Typically somebody is like looks at another person and you're like hey I'm doing this what in the when there's understanding and so then we don't look at other you don't know you don't know somebody's struggle somebody's journey we don'tate in the world of is full of stories there's a lot of stories I was I I played for guys something in my car there's a lot of stories of the y and the the town like everybody laughed and he did one story. Kbak has a whole story of aid who like who who helped he helped the get married and he was like at his lev he had like the lev of we don't have system we don't know people's we don't have a system now we certainly have shas we want to be and we want to do everything but we have to be honest we don't know people's tik and somebody does a pool and has a certain sus might be saving saving the whole world. The world ofidos highlighted the value of of a pool of a mice of a thing. When a person lives in that honest space, you don't judge people. You just don't know. You admit you don't know. We really don't know. So the way is other people is very very deep and profound. himself he's pushing himself demanding of himself but judging others knowing I don't know don't know just encouraging and looking positive at people so I appreciate what you brought the whole year you've made this place his father pays tuition I'm not involved in the mus if things were this is an alma shikra if it was a real we if it was an honest world the yeshiva would be paying his tat take that to the tuition committee the yeshiva should pay his tat >> I don't [applause] I don't think I don't want to make I don't when we say it's an alma the shakra to me it's not to become cynical on the world I like that it's a world of sheer it's the only world I want to live in because here's an opportunity we could choose sheer we could live sheer it's cool it's amaz it's not as cynical she I like you could you could be dishonest here and it's such a space be honest it's amazing I've I I spoke to one of my kids for hours about this. It's a very aggressive world. Anybody Hashem made such a world. Look at the animal. I like animals. I went to the safari and four lions are eating a baby a baby rhino. It's an aggressive world. Hashem made that world. I see people soft people, gentle people. They tend to run from the world. If you know addicts, they're the most gentle nishamas in the world. Typically addicts are very gentle nish. Now they disengage. That's the mistake. Engage in the world. We need the soft person. Bring kindness here. Don't dis don't disconnect from the from the world. I don't have deep opinions about awask. I'm studying the sub. I'm curious. I have seen benefits of one-time use in the right circumstance for especially for for OCD. I've seen my I'm not here to comment on something that's a complex. I get very nervous when people retreat this world and there are people who are part of communities. It seems to me like the decision to detach from this world I don't like them. The soft ones we need engage now people see an aggressive world. Hashem made that and your job is to bring kindness and sweetness in a world we are yet to survive. The lions eat the eat the rhino. Your job is to bring softness and kindness and sweetness. So yeah, there's a possibility of Shakare bring MS here. I tremendously appreciate that we have Arya here. I thank you for being here today and joining Arya and just appreciate your whole family a lot. I want to express [applause] that as that Ellie Goldberg is here. Ellie is from the early Talmida. I I all of us are have learned from each other. There's a tremendous collective wisdom here and a collection of staging and growth. And Ellie is one of the people who put this in the yeshiva. He's absorbed and given to the yeshiva taken from and the yeshiva. I'm just tremendously tremendously proud of the family he's building. His son binyamin is three and a half. Don't forget the half. And he's building a beautiful beautiful family. And just appreciate it that you came for the day. I'm going to ask in a few minutes Ellie to share something. Revzi will share something about about Ray Olander and then we'll ask Ari to make a sem my rebi was very midas has to be said as a suda beautiful suda he'll invite his friends tomorrow by lunch will go out whether it's a little pasta should be flesh unless you have an aversion so the suda will be tomorrow by lunch we'll invite They used to celebrate for a week. Well, like we get it. I want him to make the now because his tat is here. But the sudu will be tomorrow by by lunch. If a guy didn't eat meat except mitzvah, it's he could have a mitzvah tomorrow by lunch. You're lad. They used to celebrate for a week. We could do for 24 hours. But not as gishmakas. We have to we have to as our hearts get open we'll learn to celebrate longer. >> I'm trying to get the information. [clears throat] >> So the where's the sin? We're going to announce he'll announce tomorrow morning. He'll tell >> and his his friends are invited in. >> So we'll have a see him in a few minutes. >> I want to share I want to share the following. There's something I want to share from the Bradesh. But the first thing is, did you hear Gab's new song yet? Ezie, Ellie, I pull Ellie, you didn't hear it yet. I thought he composed the last sing heaven knows heaven knows heaven knows my name. >> Did you hear it yet? >> You heard it recently. >> There's a newer one. >> Get sick of it. Like, >> have you heard heaven knows my name? He needs an excuse to play. You know, >> come Gabe, let's have the guitar. Where's the guitar? >> Yes, he come. Let's heaven knows my name. >> Who ran off? >> Gave mine another gave. >> He got fumigated when I need. >> No. >> So, you saw sh right? Yes. >> Yo, he got fumigated. >> He got fumigated. for next year. >> No, I can't. >> Ellie, check this out. >> I want to share, but you heard it. that one. >> You ready? >> I want you to hear the spark badly. [music] But first, this song [music] >> I heard you're happy. >> You moved out. You [music] went to college away from town. It's kind of crazy the way it all [music] works out. We didn't grow up [music] in the same house, but we're brothers. [music] So, I want to tell you about something crazy that I found. [music] It might be [singing] useless. I might sound stupid [music and singing] cuz I can't prove [music] it. But I need to tell you that [music] there's a God and knows your name and he knows your heart and feels your pain. Oh, I wish that it [music and singing] was something I could explain. I can't, but I need to say there's a God and he [music] knows your name and he knows your heart and he feels your pain. Know you might not believe me, but either way, I promise heaven knows. Well, do you ever [singing] feel that spark [music] that is burning in your heart? Does it guide you [music] when you're in the dark? >> [music] >> Oh, do you wonder [music] if there's more to life? If there's an [singing] answer [music] to the great big why I believe [singing] that there is truth to find. [music] It might [singing] be useless. I might [music] sound [singing] stupid. cuz I can't prove [music] it. But I need to tell [singing] you [music] that there's a God and he knows your name and he knows your heart and he feels your pain. Oh, I wish that [music and singing] it was something I could explain. >> [music] >> I can't. But I need to say there's a God and he knows your name and [singing] he knows your heart and he [music] feels your pain. Or you might not believe me. But either way, I promise heaven knows your name. I hope that you hear this song and one day [music] you sing along >> and together we'll say [music] >> there's a God and knows my name and he knows my heart and he feels my pain and it's not something [music] I need to explain. Oh, I just want to [music and singing] say there's a God and he knows my name and he [music] knows my heart and he feels the pain. Oh, I've [music] waited all my life to say that heaven knows my name. Heaven knows [singing] my name. [music] I've waited all my life to say heaven knows my name. >> How are you? [applause] [applause] >> New song. New song. New song. New song. >> Let's get We have a few things away. We'll get there. Keith Hashem, Hashem tells me gave give back. >> Hashem says to to Misha saying speak to Aaron and his children are telling speak to the Hashem gives a there's a mitzvah one of the mitzvah one of the 248 and Hashem says are saying as follows shall you bench the Jewish people and say to them this morning we had four and the have and they're supposed to now there's one word that's totally like doesn't it's extra if you read the on it there's a word that doesn't belong the would have been perfect without this word I'll read the whole say to them the word is totally extra is very measured speaks exact that no extra words by God. And he says, say the following words are literally like this. It says bench how gab is a hashem talked to you said and tell them you have a mitzvah to bench have a mitzvah to give in they do it every single day in do it every It's a we don't do it every day. It's a we only do it on if you ever have a chance to dab with go once in a while. Goes I try to go with the on on we all but on we don't do it. So I go with the because they every single day it's avid to get benched. It could be the mitzvah for sure. >> Why don't do it? >> It's a big problem. It could be there's not enough in the I have a guy in the who's a very he's like he's a sad he fell very badly. We have no kahan in blurage. I I bet one day I'm gonna GET GABE. HE'S GONNA HAVE NO I'm speaking to you. >> A statement just >> we need a kayen. >> He's buying your house in Blueridge, bro. >> We need a but we have no right now. >> And this Y is a very he asked me the Shabas. He said Rabbi, he was completely serious in full sincerity. We had Shabas. He says it's the Shabas. He was totally sincere. Gafriel Lazarus, he completely was sincere. He's like, "Let's do the we have let's go. We missed the we missed PE. Let's go with right." >> He's It was like I What am I supposed to say? Are you Why not? You can't give a real reason that well we don't have enough the famously wanted it's it's a big shenan I dare say seem right. They every day. Why don't we do you'll go there a lot of mile to go to tons and you don't need this as an extra enough but you get every day of course why don't is very difficult reportedly we don't have enough the tried to enacting every day he decided and the sh burned down >> so the grass backed off so the backed off that was a He felt that if they were telling him not to. It is a lesson. Don't start up with our not tough luck. Gabrielle came up to me now. Let's go. Like let's go. I was like I don't think so. But I couldn't like say why not. And he was right. Like he said, "Let's go. We'll wash the hand." I didn't let him. I we didn't do it. I don't start up. I didn't want you know I don't start up with Isra. What would you have said? You know the you would have let him do >> what? He's a >> he's a right. He was like here it's the word the word is so strange like this. K means like this. I wouldn't have a problem if it was like you're saying because it's telling us God is saying to bless how so Hashem says what to say what what the tell us should guard us should shine his countenance upon us give us but even if if you would say well the means as such but it says to me the word it's not me it's okay skip the word >> that's a good question that's a good question very good question but I'm not even up to what the bra is like this what's the k the The word kai is like no mash. It's a very weird word in the tyra kai. It's a strange word. It's an awkward word k. It's not even how to say like this. You say bench claw. How am say these words? This whole word ki is like awkward doesn't fit. What does mean even means like a mirror almost like this. It's not even like it's not like this. This is what you say. Kai almost means like K is like the word Kim means similar to that's a weird K it's not it's not it's this and it's very clear what to say more they say the even sounds the word is whatever it says means similar to the whole It's this this is what you say. So the word is like a very difficult word. The said as follows. This is what the said it's pretty cool in the word. It's a big light. >> This I'm going to explain. It says means and bench. Okay. I'll give him more. Hashem says these words. What's the What's the What is that? Like this. It says already. >> So the you had the question. >> What's the definition of >> as follows? >> As follows. But but it's funny. It didn't even say what the is yet. Like in bench. >> It's funny. K means as follows. But it doesn't even say what the bra is. After Hashem says Ben, she says what to say. So the literally it's very I'm not like forcing it to read the iss like this. The balm was very very busy with this. The bardich writes he says he was coming he'd go around telling this to yiden the the the bar saying that the balm this was a big thing he was giving yiden the bashem saw us as nish and felt the yid should know his fire we're big people anybody no joke that's I promise it's not cute. It's not funny. We're We have a body for sure. Wonderful body. It's very useful. Do things. We're big. Big light piece of Hashem. You don't like it, but I I like studying on a guy who who's who's difficult. Find somebody. I don't have a guy here. I could use a son. Find somebody who's hurting you, who's difficult. He's an is here. Whatever you say, he's so annoying. He's so difficult. He maybe he's not in touch with his nish. Maybe I'm not saying he is. He isn't. He's a big nish said just under. It's like a crazy thing. A guy who gives everybody problems. A guy who's like insul. He makes fun. He's impossible. He he beats everybody up. Whatever he is, he's a big nisham. Yeah. Maybe he's not in touch with that. Maybe he's confused. Maybe he doesn't know his own light. It's cool to contemplate this person's a big light. He's namir. You try to see maybe what he doesn't see but he's a big nishem said she that it says our shadow a can tell him says I want you to remember these words say it after mem say that >> perfect what does that mean is your shadow what is a shadow you show one finger it shows you a finger two to it shadows that mirrors what you do. Hashem is your shadow. I want to try to express the way I understand it what the balm was teaching. David said, "Hashem, Hashem's your shadow is as follows." I want to say that we have crazy backing crazy backing. I feel guys in yeshiva is expensive. And I tell the guy says, "Rebi can't afford $30,000. I like it's it's a nutty world we're in. It's crazy. I don't say we have support for everything in the world. We have very good backing here. We have a yidd from the kindest people ever met in my life and we want to do something. Tomorrow night we I feel good that we should have the last two weeks should be a lot. Tonight I'm speaking in yeshiva 8 o'clock. I want the whole yeshiva there as many guys can come 8:00 I will be here. We're going to speak eight tonight. But I want there are a lot of things I want to get to the last two weeks. I am Guri and Schlommo are going to put a concert. Bring a whole band. There's going to be a concert in yeshiva tomorrow night. Everybody should come. It's going to be very beautiful. Now I want a concert. It cost a lot of money to bring a drummer, a keyboard. It cost money. We have crazy backing. We have crazy backing here. Crazy. No text me yesterday. There's an alumnist. He heard that we want a piano in the yeshiva. What type of piano do you want? He bought it yesterday. A guy an alumnness heard that we need a piano in the base mish we need that sim should play he said what piano you didn't tell me he bought it this year bought a piano we have very good what >> in here >> it's going to come in here >> brand piano >> I don't know what piano you have to ask I have no idea a keyboard he has a keyboard >> recommended this type of keyboard so we got >> we have watch this we have crazy back said to knowm is your shadow. You show a finger, he shows a finger. You show two, he shows two. Aid has crazy backing behind us. A person might say, "What can I do already? What impact did I have?" Hashem, Hashem's your shadow. What we show, what we show, Hashem backs up. Show a finger. Hashem puts a finger out. Show two, he puts two fingers out. He backs you up. And the yid has to know that he has a supporter whose mom is a shadow. What he shows hashem hashem mirrors hashem mirrors means hashem when hashem mirrors hashem's fingers siph I I think ry overlander's story people at his levas like friends of his were saying the leva was the lev of a god people when did this happen >> it was ava you you don't go to such things in your life literally people were there so friends like when did this happen over hashem backs you You bring, you show, you want, you put out. Hashem, Hashem is your shadow. Show him one finger, he gives a finger. Show two, he puts two. That's what Thank you. That's what That's what it means. Hashem there's a sing. You look at basketball today, it's crazy. I was a point guard. I threw I was a good passer. Today the point guard throws it up. It's nuts what the big men can do. It's they take it from the rafters. You don't have to throw a good pass. You throw within. It's crazy what they're doing. They're dunking at levels that didn't exist. Mar, you see some of these dunks. He's the point guard throws up the ball. The big man comes from crazy angles. They pull it ahead of the rafters. They dunk it home. >> What? >> Pippen knot. It's a new thing this this type of alley but I've never se it's insane and it changes the game because now when the point guard drives they're always afraid the big man struggles to come over because if he comes they just lob it and the other guy it's mug now they're they're they're playing at elite levels. It's very cool to see the dunk because that's what God is to us. He's go he's my finisher. I throw it up. He dunks. >> He's the Hashem's the go. He's the finisher. He's the great finisher. Just throw a bad pass. Don't worry. He's a gamer. He's a finisher. Show a finger. He'll back you up. Show tool. Show tool. We have a crazy backing. So dream. So do. So plan. So unleash. We're We come from big places. I don't know how to say it different or better. Says says the crazy. Hashem says give a gay bench said to the by the way we're all what's true about them exists in us all >> but Hashem says to the give to like what oh you should be said and hashem promises the you do I'll give a I'll back up what you do. You give a Hashem says I have your back. You promise I I'm with you. I'm with you. I have a friend who was talking to a Yid to keep Shabas and the Yid said exact his business. He was an accountant and described that like it was like half his pastor was from his weekend jobs. The way it worked in his accounting he would get jobs over the weekend. It seems like the big firms weren't open then and he would be available like half his pineas he was he was he was not American he was an immigrant and he need he wasn't very gifted a lot of money and half his pas was from weekends and my friend went to his house said keep shops so he had described his situation so my friend called my rebi he said rebi could I promise him that it can't be hashem wouldn't take care you only gave us could I promise him trying and you'll make the money and my friend my my rebi showed him and I don't remember you could promise shabas can't be you keep shabas you lose that it can't be so my friend went back to the and said I promise you it can't be said it can't be that you keep shabas you lose the yid said I'll try one chabas I'll see what happens [snorts] I'm making up numbers let's say he made $1,000 on chabas I'm making up the numbers literally two jobs. He keeps shabas that week might say Shabas. Shabas ends. He makes Abdullah. Second after Shabas. A guy calls up this Yid says, "I have a thous I need a job tomorrow. I'll give you $1,000 for a job." Immish made his money in a second. But my friend didn't want to just promise him something that he couldn't deliver. My Rebi said, "You can promise. Hashem will back you up." The are told like you'll be hashem says I'll back you up. I'll back you up. That's what means. >> Kai means like. What do you mean like? There's what you're saying. There's an echo to what you're saying. As he's echoing to practice, there's an echo to what you're saying. There's an echo. You say a kite similar to what you're exactly. No, there's deeper there's there's a k there's a deeper echo to what you're saying. What you say, Hashem backs up. We're a piece of Hashem. We have a right to bench. We have a right to give. We have a right to encourage and support and Hashem backs us up. You do it. I'll back you up. I'll bench backing you up. That's what Hashem told the token this word. He says is this wild. He said is who has the k behind them is the foresh has this that we know backs us up. What we do you put your name we have a backing us up. I want to express that when I see in Ray Overlander is the power of one. The power of one. What he did is wild for a person who was lift young. The amount he carried it's like a wacky story after he passed. The amount of people who were like calling lost was a crazy. We all like the significance of how many people he was present for in a serious way is like wild. But the terror says there's a You give I'll back you up. Hashem the Bashem would like push and give and do and shine your light. Hashem's your shadow. What you give? Show a finger. He'll show a finger. >> So could you tight tight the How does it tight? >> He said k like this means besides what you say there's an echo of something like this you shall say. I'm there this there there's going to be more than you're saying. It's like this because I'm going to back up in a much deeper level. That's the karu k similar to this bench. Put down put down what you're doing similar to this cuz I'm going to give a chef. You're going to give this I'm going to like similar to this say to them like this. But similar is because I'm going to give much much more based on what this ted in the word. But the the even if you're not masked in the word which I'm struggling still the I'm struggling with it. The very bench I will bench them. The very that you bench and I'll back it up. The saw is a charge for every do. I'm backing you up. Hashem's the you do I'll back you up. And whatever you any light you can shine I'll I'll back it up. and and and when it's backed up by hem that's a that's a light of [clears throat] so I wanted to share this of the this of the shine your light heaven shine our lights shine our lights let it out let it out I love when sings >> the song that's like murder I'm not telling you to sing it now I don't want to hurt the throat the song that's impossible to sing >> spread spread love don't do it don't do it don't do it don't do it but I like the words I like the words. Maybe we'll write a new song with those words. Maybe maybe we'll do that. But I want to ask >> I we're gonna do music soon. Take the guitar. I want to ask I want to ask one of the talander as he's here to I'm calling Ellie Ellie Goldber's here >> and Ellie on any top. It could be a hair a thought. I'm going to ask Ellie to share something in a few minutes. Vzi's going to share some blander. Arya is gonna make to see him. There's a lot to get to. Without further ado, Ellie Gold. >> Am I putting you on the spot though? >> Neighbors. >> Are you a neighbors? I didn't know that. >> Neil's neighbor. >> Hi, Remy. Good to see you. I'm getting a second >> there are two conversations I think had >> summoned in our history it happens I think multiple times I don't think it's just two the two that are standing out to because one of them is in this week's para the first I believe it's first week says that the reason why last week's para is next to this week's para of learning how to light being told that his obligation is to light the mikdish sorry >> it's because iron when he saw him bringing carbon ice he got jealous he got jealous And Hashem wanted to appease him. Hashem said, you know, I'm going to give you the mitzvah of lighting the Hashem uses the lesson that by your life I promise you, Hashem says the mitzvah of lighting is better than all the brought. That's what Hashem says and it's similar talking about echoes. It echoes a conversation that Hashem later on has makar talks about how David heard people in the town talking and they were saying you know look we know that his son is going to come he's going to build the base of mikdash so they were saying you know when's the old man David when's he going to die when is he going to be so that we could have mikban ice and hashem hashem appeases David by telling you know that one day of your learning, one day of your Tyra is better to me than a thousand carbon that Hashem is going to that that your son's going to bring. >> I think everyone >> there are people who probably will say, you know, we know there's no uh no we don't know the scar for each mitzvah, but Hashem knows. So Hashem's saying, look, I know I'm the one who created the world. I'm the one who created mitzvah. I know that this mitzvah in particular is going to be more and more valuable to me than all the other mitzvah, then it's possible we could say that. But I I don't I don't think that's the case. I that would really bother me if that's what was intending. I think this is my thought. This is something that I I had a conversation actually with someone recently about this, but there's a Gariga that always always really bothered me. Gamar says that there are three people that I call Jar from cries on every single day. Three people every single day spends crying about them. The first one is someone that is sorry someone who has time. He has the ability to learn and he doesn't learn. Hashem cries about that. There's another person that says he's not able to be he doesn't have a time let's say Isaac but he's Isaac and he goes goes out and he learns anyways and brings out a third person someone who uses his influence to do negative things to the teboard that he's a part of >> the first and the third one I get I get it someone you know doesn't have time you know he's wasting his time so to speak and not engaging in the things that he could be engaging in Hashem cries about that and the third one I get also someone's using his influence to, you know, not support the community, but to do negative things to them. That I understand. But the second one, I don't I never I don't understand. The guy doesn't have time. He's being he's busy with things and he's sitting down. He's making time. I would think he's sitting down. He's learning. Why Why is Hashem crying about him and you can't say they're tears of joy? Can't say that. >> Marshall, I think he brings down there trying. He says you can't say they're tears of joy because it wouldn't fit in the context. There's no context. The context says they're they're tears of they're tears of sadness. >> Why is Hashem crying over someone that doesn't have time to learn but he's sitting aside and sitting down and learning anyways? My thought was that because even though we say we're not here to get scar in this world, we're here to doemat doesn't always mean sitting down and learning means doing rats on whatever it is in the moment. Doesn't really matter. It could be learning, it could be taking I came up because I was talking to a friend. I was trying to be frump. I had a friend of mine. I was like, you know, we don't we hardly see each other. Maybe we should set aside cover. Let's try to learn together. And he's like, you know, look, to be honest, like I have a hard time. Like I'm spending time with my family. I'm spending time with my kids and like I don't want to have time to set aside time to go ahead and learn and it reminded me of this part and I told him I said thank you for reminding me I should probably spend more time with my family as well you know like sitting here trying to make a a set s with you and I think that goes back to what Hashem's telling what Hashem's telling David it's not about doing the thing that has the most star it's about doing in the moment >> it's about doing in the moment and we see this and we see this actually at the end of the story the migilla as well because ends when Mortifi takes on the position of being the Lamela, he takes on the position of working for King. It says that he was right to the he was beloved by most of his fellow brethren. Most of most asked the question most of his fellow brethren. So there were a lot of people that Mortifi was part of the Sanhedrin. There were a lot of people who were upset at him that he left seemingly to he left being part of Sanhedrin and he went to secular things and leaves it off there. That's that's what people were excited about. I think you could say a similar as well. The idea behind what we're supposed to do in this world is not what brings us. We're not here to serve Hashem to get star. We're here to serve Hashem in order however it is that Hashem means fit. And how do we know that? Where am I right now in this moment? And if we live that way, and I I truly believe it could be part of what I took from Reb overlander is this idea that we live that way. And I think Pesky and Sneaky were bringing it up a little bit earlier today as well. Someone who lives in that moment, what's in Hashem right now, that everything works out. You're doing everything works out. And there's no need to seek out what's going to get me more attention, what's going to get me more. I think that's Chad Gomorrah and I think that's also Chad and Rashi. When Hashem tells iron, when Hashem tells David, you know, I'm not here to, you know, I'm not here to to get the thing that's going to give the most. What you're doing with your mitzvah, it's more positive to me. It's more beloved to me than anything else that anyone else is going to do in the entire world. Not just the two examples that gave those two. >> My [applause] thank you. Thank you. >> Rezi, would you share with the >> Yes. Thank you. >> Thank you. >> What's very interesting, Rabbi? Uh say um appreciating the life of this of this giant Remy Ross and myself I think we were I think Ross was there as well. you're able to see, you know, re Revie said about how um it was confusing to many was he obi was he a was hea Manel. [clears throat] So we were to see as a bach in yeshiva and like the rebi said it's not like a role you put on to be the rebi role. Oh, I'm a Rebi. I'm a Rebi. And I have my you know like who you know what I mean. Google sometimes you like encounter someone who is so sincere that it's like nothing that they say or do. I love how said today that I don't really have something I don't have like a who? >> Huh? what what do they what they call he called said today how um I don't have like so many varts I can tell you over from my overland it's not what he said although although I can tell you you know when there was when it was a sheir both in back in when he was in Mifa and later when he was in doing the respark >> the way the buck would flock just to hear but I don't think they were going to see Morty I don't think they were going Rafy to what he said or even to observe what he did you know it's just who he was and I think right Russ and I when we were yeshiva we saw the rebby of the yeshiva when he was a baker he was a rebi in a profound way first of all his attachment to Torah was something was something magnificent to watch I mean he he he you know was incredible you you know the young the tamidar fully aware [clears throat] that he was very busy later in life but as a buck you know and he was like a prince in in the yes is yeshiva as well he was a big rebby to the bak huge uh to the f you I'm saying to fellow bak >> you over Russ you overlap with >> no come back >> oh yeah right right something like that I I wasn't with him you know I wasn't officially there with him either but I but no I saw him like visiting you know when I would come by like a little beggy remember. >> Jealous. >> So, um, >> sounds means it's not what he said, it's his essence that said it, right, Revie? Cuz who the who is extra nightmare because his essence said it. So, it's who he was that spoke much more than his words. And um, you know, that's really what we saw. And I was I was a little before uh before like uh when he was starting in the in the morning a little bit. Um, so I wasn't what you would call a Talmid the way or Sniki was, but we all I mean anybody anybody all our all his friends all of us were tell them and I never saw and there's all I'm saying today I never saw in my life another rebby to that degree of The way talidim not learned from a revi though they did not you know just asked shilas though they did modeling their lives who they married and the home they built after their revi I I I I don't I never I never saw it I don't know if it exists but I never saw it that's my hagus aus and I think it all comes act to that idea. You can't it's it's I keep you can't work just by saying stuff you know you preach and say the right things. I was making, you know, I was making fun as usually do like I saw a guy like giving a speech, you know, there's like a speech certain voice like to point out something like that's not how you I like so he's like a good he's saying like a lot of good things and and it makes for a very good speech and the applause was magical, you know, but I you know there's there's something else called huh which I don't think exists in that speech e type of speech or type of person, you know, not that I'm not, you know, trying to not maybe a little I am, but I'm I'm I'm drawing a contrast. I'm not doing it for the purpose of not point, you know, then there's somebody who who could never do that. Then there's someone who just who they are and um that's what that's what I'm remembering today. It should be a tremendous I want to ask [applause] you typically I would I would have typically wait till tomorrow because the sud is tomorrow I feel like his father's here and I feel at the yard side also it's appropriate for see yeshiva sat and learned the whole year I want to express a tremendous appreciation to that he's brought to [applause] the yeshiva he's learned on his own I appate what you've done here this if I could ask that the as well it's honorable and everything that goes on as well I'm sure you're allowed to you could speak for a few minutes and do it for also be for his precious I appreciate a lot what you've brought here of kindness learning and learning with others and encouraging others you brought a lot you've elevated this yeshiva you've you've really made a big impact so I'm going to ask to make the again the sudo you'll bring the tomorrow we'll bring the to somewhere for lunch we'll spread the word but if you make the now >> um so originally I was going to make the steam on p but then my grandfather was ner a few days before so that derailed a lot of things so this should also for right overland my grandfather Udius and then Aubar my mother's father um I don't know I don't really have much to say just now I was like thinking how I saw like on Chavez on par's pen but like um ties into like Miguel a little bit that Um I don't know how to say it to like I want it to be very clear but I guess in penas penas famously um Khal was getting we're going to like midan and getting with all those women and >> it started with um I mean and it was the big like moment was Zimry right the from Ruben um he was the nasi and he was was one of the minions Kazi and Kas goes and kills him. So >> both at the same time >> I saw right kills. So I saw like was saying that like knew that what he was doing was he was going to be killed. He had no right to kill Zimry for this and he was gonna be punished whatever and he was doing the wrong thing by killing him because you have no right to there's how to kill someone. You have no right to just go and kill somebody. >> So he was going and he kills a guy was doing something with a girl. >> Yeah, >> but you have no right to just do just go kill somebody. Like who gives you right to do that? And I saw he brought down also there's a major maybe or something that >> I made a little >> that Zimry knew that they were soulmates that they were like that Zimry and Cosby were actually soulmates. So he and like he was holding in that world and he knew that Cusby was his soulmate. So from his perspective he's doing the right thing. It's his other half and I'm supposed to be getting together with her. So there's like these two aspects of like on the one hand like he's bringing out this point that there's this terra of this world and there's this terra of in Hashem's world and how Zimry in his like on this world there were so many but was saying that like in the what you're doing for the future of college yeah you're soul mates but what's going to happen is that other people who aren't soulmates and they're just going to see he did it why And I Pinas on the other hand though on this world he was wrong for killing right how could you just kill someone and he just but he's thinking like I don't care if I'm not I don't care this is so wrong like you can't just do this he had he had the future in his mind like Ellie was saying like rats and hashem like he brought some examples of like different times where you could get like all from and like no I'm not going to he brought thought a story with Romero from Schlanner that like he would always like make sure the >> what is that he would always make sure the in the town wherever he ate was very was like a good hamster he would always check out the check the knife >> so one time he went to a town and the was not like he saw that he wasn't like the best >> so he made a he asked the how much money do you make a week the guy told him five rubles so He um so he made a meeting with like the town's like whatever and he said can you guys guarantee me that we could get five rubles a week for the sh then he went to the sh and said like like please forgive me I don't think you should continue being the sh but I like I have I I guarantee you're pronounc like don't worry right he's bringing out a point like we could sometimes be very from he could have been like no I'm not eating you have to be fired gone to the whole town you're eating tra you're eating tra and he could have gone home thinking, "Wow, I'm such a like, "Wow, I'm so holy. Like, I saved the whole town." >> But like he'll go up there and Hashem will be like, "You just like a embarrassed this guy. He lost he lost his porn because of you. He doesn't have how's he supporting his family. What's going on here?" There's a Torah of of like down here with the rules and there there's there's also we have to take into account the Torah in in Hashem's eyes of like the bigger picture of what's going on and the ishitzer in um he learns in McGillah in the beginning of Migillah there's the famous that uh walled city has PM celebrates PM the day later than an unwalled city. Um an unwalled city he celebrates on the 14th, the walled city on tanest on the 15th on the 15th. So the ishmar learns that the walled city is like a like that who learns is very he's the he has a strong backbone. is a wall. It's a walled city. And Purim, he says, is like the day when we're closest to now that we could get to Messiah. Um, and he brings out this point that this that this with the strong backbone was very like he gets per celebrates Parma a day later. the people who aren't as don't have such a strong bone but they they tapped in to the terra lala terra of above they the unwalled cities they celebrate Msiah first they celebrate perm first which is like connected to Messiah they're able to feel this Messiah beforehand so it's like really cool that like this yeshiva is like We we're tapping into this terra of above and like it's Messiah. We're like >> we're feeling Messiah like before a lot of people who are more walled cities. So it's just a very cool point that >> Thank you. >> Yeah. [applause] break down those walls. >> You guys got to do most >> fire. >> Um, so yeah. So >> yeah, stop blusting, bro. um that the Moshe spoke about the it's a mitzvah to read about every right time that was that you should ask and darian about the Union of the day. Allig. Shimmy hydraulics hydraul papa mean papa papa. 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