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What Are You Marrying a Learning Boy For? | Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky

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What do you make a boy in learning for? There are these girls who think they want to marry a boy in learning cuz their parents can afford it, but it's a very hard life if your husband is serious about it. If he's not serious about it, it's not a big deal. There are people who come to Israel to learn, but it's really just a long honeymoon. It's not learning at all. But a guy who's going to sit and learn seriously long-term, are you prepared for that? Life of sacrifice? So if you say, "Well, no, but I'll marry a guy who's in kolel. I will go out to eat a few nights a week, and he'll take off every now and then, and he'll drive the kids here and there." So that is not a learning boy. And there's no