Are you PARENTING or RANTING?

You have to ask yourself one question when you're dealing with your kids. Are you parenting or are you ranting? What's [music] the difference? >> What that means is if you have a kid that's behaving in a way that we feel like we have to now educate them, punish them, teach them, whatever it is. Are you really being honest with them or are you troubled [music] by something that's going on that really has nothing to do with them? If you're ranting, then [music] it's about you. If you're parenting, it's about them. And when can you tell the difference? Well, if you feel the need to do it immediately, [music] I have to do this right now, usually you're ranting.