Rabbi Ephraim Eliyahu Shapiro - The Unity Purim Creates

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somebody else only to this is a festival rabbi Shapiro won one of the most sought-after speakers in the United States today who's very often featured on the cover sky Heritage Foundation other places speaks from his heart and lives a passion not just of a message that he shares but whenever he's sharing with all of us tonight this is how he lives his life as well thank you mr. Peres for coming here from Florida we gave you pretty good weather so yeah I'm very honored to be here tonight in the Queen's community and I'm especially honored the only way to use the mic is by holding it that doesn't go in this so I'm gonna opt not to hold it I'm very very honored because I see from all the Flyers on all of the shoals and schools that there are so many things going on on a weekly basis and I couldn't imagine that there would be people would come out every night people as it is of personal obligations they have things to take care of with their family communal obligations and yet I'm Marrakesh I'm looking out at hundreds of an ashram cashews and oceans at Kanye's and I'm very honored I'm very touched my father's out Sal used to always say me IDI me ma classic asked me do you ever know who's really giving whom physik I hope in the 45 or so minutes we spend together you get physical here in the Queen's community the fact that hundreds of you came out I really didn't expect it as I said everywhere I turn there's something else and this night and this speaker and a barley meeting every night there multiple things going on I should hate them I should I must rate them how fortunate you are that still a few hundred came out and maybe others will be able to listen as a result and I want to tell you from the bottom of my heart me I'd a me Marcos it gets me you never really know who's giving the physic to home and I thank you may um kadali be for the amount of physic you gave me just by the hundreds of you coming the a binder some should repay each and every one of you with caja broccoli socks of a smart IRA to be enjoyed with Yiddish and knock I think isn't to hate how interesting is it were a week from poem and the topic that we came up with was the unity of Purim what an apropos topic the unity of forum when I asked her who's bringing me in who's sponsoring who's organizing it I didn't hear not one not three three organizations and then I said to myself this is Mama's living proof this is the unity of Purim and so Tamiya Sonya and my three hosts that made it possible the sure that we are now Mordecai I'm very very grateful to Kazakh we just heard such powerful words about Kazakh to the emirate organization as you heard I have each year in the winter the privilege to speak to them in South Florida to all three organizations that created the unity of forum to know mortify to Kazakh and to Emmett Hashem should give the shoals and the organization's the kayak to continue changing the Queen's community and the face of all of Collier Cyril and there's one person I'd like to single out I'd certainly don't want to embarrass him he's sitting right in front of me but I could tell you that I'm here because someone named Robbie a buff and he deserves a round of applause Robbie a buff stayed on top we must have had dozens of conversations and his attention to detail and making sure that he crossed his T's and dotted his eyes I want to thank Robbie you should continue such a power such a beautiful kayak you should continue to change the face of claudius role in your beautiful way you know the unity of Perham seems to be an appropriate topic a proper title on purim next week we have four major mitzvahs an easy way to remember them as they each start with the letter men we have mashaallahu Monet's motto no Slovenian Mickler Magilla and Misha the festive meal did you notice that the commonality between these four mitzvahs they shout unity they shout the unity and getting along and taking care of each other of Purim that's inherently the message of Purim miss Laura come on ace that's an easy one who wish laughs - each Larry I go getting along creating an engendering friendship my honest love yawning helping a fellow youth someone who might be down and out someone who's not as fortunate someone who needs food for the meal Martinus love youngnam when it comes to mr. festive Sudha we invite people we go to people we come together we have lemon thicker dancing why for the ayah aqua Sharaman reyes and finally Makram Achilles no different is one of the unique times we find about reading the Megillah that it says believe on hydrous Mela which means the more people that gather and the more there are in one central location to hear the Megillah reading the greater the unity the greater the kiddush Hashem so the forum its voice of Purim miss la Monet's Matano Slovenian mr. McRoy Magilla all shout the unity of Purim and yet did you ever notice something that's very very peculiar if one can use those words and I certainly want to tell you I heard this a number of years ago from one of the most wonderful Rabanne in one of the lights of our generation or observe left from aritaum from lush amethyst you observe left solar gizumon stark sign I believe it is he that says over this fabulous shot I just told you for the last two minutes all four of the mitzvahs wish lemonis montana slovenian vikram Aguila mister shout unity and yet poram is no only jumped of the only festival the entire year that's actually celebrated on different days of course if we live here in America we celebrate on the 14th of our door and you shall I mean because it's their city surrounded by a wall something that goes back to the days of yore sure but none a city that has such a wall reads it on the 15th in the times of the Gomorrah take a look at the first mission of Megillah you could have actually have read I don't mean one person but there's a possibility depending on where you live McGill would be read on one of five days eleven twelve thirteen fourteen fifteen odd or there's no other you could say that about the matter where you live Russia shown as the first official Yom Kippur is a ten cookies is a fifteenth of district Hanukkah 25th of Kislev base after 15th of Nisan every yontiff has I'm not talking about whether you celebrate for one days or two days whether you're in futsal return air at Easter oh that's not what I said the starting date around the world is the same one exception in the times of the Gemara five possible days to celebrate the reading of the Megillah and poem eleven or twelve or thirteen or fourteen fifteen how do you explain what seems to be so peculiar they're very active that shouts unity as we clearly expressed the form it's rice is laced with that theme and yet around the world even today is celebrated on different days and back then five different days that's unity sir observe left sleet in his inimitable style would answer yes because the underlying theme and the mantra of unity and getting along and helping is you could celebrate it on different days in other words there are different backgrounds and different customs there are many different types of Jews we could speak we heard a moment ago there's Ashkenazim there's far then Ashkenazi to come from I came from what I came for bone I gave from hungry I'm in Overland where did we come from you can have many slides and we came from Aleppo do they come from different parts of Syria from Iraq did they come from with the Bukharian community many many huh see the communities many people in here Oh may very well be firm from birth and sitting next to somebody who recently became about Shula true unity is the understanding of course we have to serve the rebind asylum of course we have to follow the diet ok so tomorrow but we have different backgrounds come from different places have different customs different men hug them as we just mentioned an entire potpourri that makes up the beauty of car you saw you could be askance you could be smarter than ashkenaz you can have differences with inspired look I see this your world different countries of origin so my love says so beautifully precisely on the time that it's celebrated on five different possible days that could be unity I believe it's he who adds insisting that everybody does something exactly like me your hava rap is exactly like me and everything you do is like me that's not unity that's cloning the unity of Purim is precisely the Yom Tov that has five potential different days or today - 14 and 15 of our understanding we have differences different backgrounds different men hug him perhaps different approaches based on what our parents and grandparents taught us and yet we come together for mr. Lonnie smart honest love yo mr. Meaker Magilla to learn the unity of Purim so perhaps the answer should be said in one sentence there's no jumper for festival that does shout unity more than the one that celebrated on different days to teach us at the end of the day holiest role array them Zelizer that's it and maybe this explains a very powerful hazael which young MTM will exist when the Messiah comes and we merit that final ultimate redemption there are different interpretations according to one source that's brought down a common say every young thief will be abolished except one poor in the only will remain according to this explanation interpretation of Hazael even when Messiah comes is poem because truth be told unity can be eternal maybe that's why poor and more than any other will exist in you might say mercy after the ghoulish Elena even with the third base how big does may it come speedily and in our day maybe because that unity is a taste of heaven that unity is a taste of perpetuity that unity currently is a taste of you may say Messiah can we taste it tangibly do we feel it that's the goal of tonight's lecture tap into the unity of Purim the forum it's raised with our differences with our men hugging with our background let's leave here tonight with a taste of eternity I'd actually like to divide the rest of the talk into two parts following that which cause I'll tell us sir may Ravis a tithe which loosely translated means turn away from bad and evil and pursue and go after good I'd like to divide the talk in a similar way half of sir Meera and half of us a toy this way hopefully it's a tangible and practical way for us to remember what we said tonight but keep in mind whether it's the first half the surah marij what not to do or the second half the AH Saito of what you should pursue it's all one goal the unity of Purim tasting something now that's eternal as it was mentioned earlier tonight as I another the yard site of moisture Avenue what an incredible time that there Mordecai and hazaki and Emma chose to do it the night of the yard sight of moisture Bane rezaian adder so let's start with a shot in the first half the don'ts what not to do what to get rid of with an incredible shot based on my Charbonneau a few weeks ago in Paris yesterday we read that in the beginning of the parsha my Charbonneau and his father-in-law Yitro met each other the buzzer doesn't use their names a puzzle just tells us why ye slew each larae who that one greeted the other so we're familiar I assume at the famous Rashi who says that's great but who initiated the greeting who initiated it I'd say people laughing thinking I know a lot of people that should be listening he should initiate greeting who initiated the greeting sera she says we're not sure but then why she tells us since the Prosecco first to make sure they know as ich ye Shalu ich Louie a who and we know that my shrah Bane who is called by the title an appellation ich where do we know that from because of course later on and safer by mid where the poster says about Mike Charbonneau waha ich moisha so since he has the title an appellation of each it must be in this week's partial year so when it says each the radio that Meisha who's the ish initiated the greetings everyone's fine with that I heard from my uncle who just passed away was a Robin Borough Park many decades her of Yaakov Pollak is a Achatz article of roughly shared with me at a family simply years ago a beautiful shot from of some cypher you should open your hearts to this shot because this really sets the stage of how to create that proper unity thus I'm safer one there's my cell baby the only one who has the title ish you're telling me you know that money should grant and started the greetings because it says if I usually eat and merchants call this what do you mean a number of weeks earlier partial Shanice you know who else has that name yes right yes throw is actually that's true as well many people I'm referring specifically to you so you're so impartial chemise they're the posix says violation of Chevis s for each moisture wanted to dwell with the man and who wasn't that man that man was yes row so that means you see that yes row has the same title ish so we back to our original question how do you know that my short man who initiated the greeting and you suggested because he's called each I have another posting a few weeks earlier and partially that calls yes Troy by the name ish so what's going on says that Haley get some ciphers of who so you're gonna lay knew that when Rashi says I know that my Shura Bane who initiated the greeting because it says ish and Moises called vahish marsh and you wonder but so is yester with the same name rana she didn't mean to reference the words of ish Moshe he meant the rest of that parcel what are the words after the Ishmael show what does the plastic say for each moisture on of murid he was the humblest human being and if you are humble you'll always initiate greetings you'll stop with the thinking thank you so much I appreciate it just take the cup thank you very much if a person has that quality of unevenness the Rove himself just brought me a glass to drink thank you we didn't even plan it but that was my Amish living example if a person has that meda says that some safer when Rashi says that I know it was my sure up Dana who initiated it not because he has the name ish because of the posture that references each olive Lloyd and when one is humble and one displays humility they will initiate the greeting it's high time that a person stops but he said and she said and it happened he want to know what greatness is you want to know what earns you the title that know that you have the ability on the yard side of my shrub a new Tam you late that neither be mocked him showing how would we look if we took this to heart and we picked up the phone we initiated the call we were the first want to say I'm sorry let's make amends and let's try again I know it's permanent yom kippur but we say yom kippur him it's a time to talk about it to have that need of a Nevis humility to be humble because the one who emulates tonight on the yard side of my shrub a new that need of each Russia on annoyed will always be mocked him saw him pick up the phone first initiate the greeting be the first one to say you know I was wrong and I'm sorry it should be noted before we move on we just said that it says in this park Marsha initiated the greeting what did the posix a valley shallow ish larae a hoe where is the only other time that we will find those two words ish larae a hoe poor him who miss Leah home on ice ish Larry hey who that's the toy into porn you know sometimes when it comes to mission aloneness would be get very exacting that used to be on my a list but now I don't like the way they do carpool anymore they're always late I play forgets dated bigger me longer on my a list they'll be lucky if they're on my be list last year I sent the nice bottle of wine with a proper pineapple and all I got back was a little they're great just like this or the week old orange I should keep them on mushaf - Liz Oh miss Raya my nice yo-yo it's Larry a ho being mocked him Shalom be the first to initiate the greeting I want to tell you I just saw such a fabulous gematria from the great abuse of crimes on Infeld abuse of crimes oh no fellows who see yoga no lady who tells us each Laurier who the kamacho of ish is 311 the gematria of lyra-a who is 311 the place of crimes on Infeld issues 311 larae was 311 be the first ish Larry a who be mocked him shot him especially as we approach humans like Mondays and poor him so now we've already started to get the we're already getting the flavor of this sir mayor ah what not to do don't be the one who stands on the high horse don't be the one who displays our against don't be the one who takes a step back and says and tell the phone rings here first I'm not picking up the phone you want to know the reward we can get from learning what we just spoke about the last five minutes a few weeks ago we read that if you see the donkey of your friend and it is buckling under its heavy load all save tazza emo you know what that means help him out surely you should help him out does anybody have an obvious question ah save times I vemma surely you should help him out and dick took and grammar in Washtenaw Kadesh the much more common word for help is Azure Ezra Lazar so why does it say Oz I've also it means to leave as Eva says the brisk autumn's of Costa yoga relay no look as we say this powerful shop the rasoi l'm says because the park is teaching us you know why it uses the word as I've times like the word leave and not help because if you see somebody that you dislike and they're going through a hard time azar you if you can leave behind your issues with them typhoid emo Hashem will do the same with you Hashem will leave behind so to speak his issues with you let us loose what a minute its built-in apostle so the next time we find the situation there's a person that for one reason or another we dislike or we're having a difficult time with and I realize that sometimes there are trials and tribulations and difficulties I get it but at least Lester spire on the yard side of my table a new if you see that person owes Eve and you can leave behind your issues leave behind your complaints toss leave Emily very bite us a loyal and responds and leaves behind his issues with you and will Bezier system grant us all of the abundant blessings found in the Taira I just heard a bit ago and I have to give proper credit there's a shot from a parsha two weeks ago it says that if one has bus or Traver meet that got torn up in the field you give it like Elif Tosh Leland I say you throw it to the dogs many of us know they're awarded for the dog is because they remain silent logic lets callable show you know they remain silent when we left mister I am therefore you know like we would say that Delmonico and the stake you throw it to the dogs like hell EV - Leland I say rib Albert Kaun and it's important to know he's a chi and you'll hear why in a moment or of Albert how KN calm told me take a look at the dance academy ballet act Isis I challenge you not a challenge request when you leave here tonight look up that that's the kinda me ballet at Isis on those words like Calif actually thought I said we say the reason is as a reward for their remaining song you know what the dowser Canaan Valley chaser says why you throw the bus or trailer to the dog why well you have dogs to protect your sheep from the wolves and as a reward and showing your appreciation to the dog for protecting the sheep from the wolf Buzzard trayful akela fleshly honey as a reward your appreciation that they protected the sheep from the wolves I'm sure I'm speaking to hundreds of you who would like to ask the obvious question do you know how this sheep became a busser trifer precisely because the dog did not do its job the dog did not protect this sheep from the wolf that's how it got torn up in the field so why are you rewarding the dog with the boss or traitor of the sheep that got torn up it did not do its job says it does it came to me Valley tasters please open your hearts to this chat says the danza came to me Valley Isis you're right this time the dog didn't do its job you know why you're rewarding it for the countless times until now that it did do its job but you didn't acknowledge it or recognize it and for the countless times in the future that once again it will do a stellar job of protecting the sheep from the wolves you right this time it messed up now reward it now show your appreciation for the countless times before and after that it did its job and will continue to do its job in other words Ana dr. Canaan says he's been my sir nap - so show your Icarus ative rib Alberta Cayenne con a few years ago when he was by her girdle Hodor Lauren rip hi I'm Connie F Sookie Zola resultant arcsine and he shared this NASA came in valiant Isis with her Khayyam rib Alberta Cayenne can't hold her crime her crime whose every word is so calculated and measured looked up and said to him Yaffa on our haquyen the clay ain't good kazakh you said a good heart that was a volume acknowledging as properly das economy bali a priceless you know of course a toys means how dare we focus on at one time that a spouse or a sibling or somebody made a mistake that's a terrible neither there's a sign I once saw that says when I do something right no one remembers when I do something wrong no one forgets that Zelo nice it's not a nice made-up how about trying to change our mantra when someone does something wrong I'll try to forget when someone does something right I'll try to always remember so does the came to me by our places is telling us the art of a classic lady means precisely now when the mistake was made show the appreciation acknowledged the recognition be grateful how dare a person be critical and look and hone in and say something negative and certainly with pessimism to a spouse or to someone when so many occasions it was done well and we didn't acknowledge it we didn't notice that we brushed it under the carpet now you'll be singled out an hour and friend and never forget that's a terrible meter and this subway site is the art of sir Mira we have one final thought before we get to that say tell you which hopefully will put us in an even better mood but let's remember whether it's the swimming now when I say tell you what to stay away from don't do or what to do it's all under one banner the unity of Perham misha kimonos matura slovenian Mishnah Makram Agila as we said precisely on the yump if that's many different days unity we've already established what not to do we learned from the shot of Easter AAA who don't display an arrogance don't be the person that Waits and since back and waits you'll never achieve ich louie a who but be that type of person don't lie better Lord as I leave it behind toss ivy mush and we'll do the same and certainly hone in and focus on our core assertive but how dare we single out or have a radar or a laser beam antenna when one thing is done wrong and be critical of that my father heart of Mordecai Shapiro's that sow and with this will conclude the sewer mayor what not to do set a one line shot in relationships between a husband and a wife between the spouse it's such a game-changer please I beg you I beg you let's learn to live with this you know that a perky Aubusson says one of the miracles in the base I'm English was om dim Sifu Fionn mystic Levin revoke him literally it meant that when we stood when we stood it was extremely crowded Mustafa vim and yet when we bent revoke him there was ample room now that's a very big miracle because if it's crowded when you stand it should be far more crowded when you bend and yet the miracle was I named him Sifu fem and yet Mustafa very welcome my father's out south translated these words he said this is a relationship 101 this is it the basic 101 in a relationship in the marriage with the spouse aimed him if you're always gonna stand your ground you'll be rigid you'll never capitulate you'll always be Garrigan never get off a high horse Sifu fem it will be crowded miserable but miss stock of him if you'll bend you'll listen you'll leave things behind you're willing to hear what the other has to say miss them if you're willing to do that revoke him then the relationship is one of Rev of beauty and of ample room what up shot to live by imagine if we leave here tonight getting rid of the olden being rigid never capitulating I'm right I'm right and always remembering the wrong that's done to fulfill good luck it'll be miserable but most stuff of him if we'll then then we'll listen and we'll really care revoke him ah I love I holla why we should all be ziko Ted raha and now we come to the I say tave I made a broker beforehand in case you're here or watching and wondering why I'm not making a Chacal how excited it is to be able to start the assay tyv I want to just acknowledge a beautiful safer that introduced me to this shot that I'm about to share with you from the morale I actually sought someone that's a friend of mine that by Avi finer a brother of Rabbi Hahn finer of a avi finer who married somebody from Miami Beach but avi just put out a fabulous safer in English poor him eternal and I have to tell you I've been using it it's really a tremendous tremendous wealth of insights and depth into poem per metre know by a dear friend of AVI finer and I saw on his safer he brought down this morale after the morrow I'd like to tell you a few different things that I did with it and thoughts that came to mind but the essence of the morale I'm about to quote you I saw on his new safer which as I said is just let Allah Allah Allah Micawber Kosova she Rosa he brings down a morale that explains there's a Gomorrah in kaduche in dalamud the Gomorrah there is talking about that the hum and the site from the scribes would hone in on the center the middle if you will letter of the safer Tyra the middle word the middle Park and the Mara one there's that's what our ha caller that are safe from do what's their relevancy what's the importance they get more in kaduche and I've Ramadan and olive they counted this is this is of course pre computers they counted this is the middle letter and a safer tiger this is the middle where this is the no buzzer what's the relevancy why is it so critically important to know the middle he brings down the morale who says in such a powerful explanation because that middle letter that middle word represents centrality it represents this the center point represents the purpose you have things here you have things here but that thing in the center represents the purpose if you will the purpose of our being here the purpose of our existence as a doctor morale it's a fabulous shot that's why I come home immensely from our scribes were so wanting to know the center letter word pasa qui the center represents our purpose so that got me wondering to the following and I think it's very very possible that it's true if you take a look at the Gemara quoted you twice in kedusha novel ahmed what is the center the middle as my hand is representing in the entire Tyra hundreds of thousands of letters what is the center letter if you take a look impartial meanie by the word gulling when we're told that things that go on their belly which is the Rashi says the nut hush you're not allowed to eat it's forbidden the valve of the word gall clean the vulva that's the center letter someone there is it literally this in other words as a debate is it that there's an even number and it's to this side or that side in some say it's literally the center letter so I started wondering to myself in preparation for this talk on the unity of Purim you just told me says the morale that's something that's the center represents our purpose a mantra were you're new in this world and it's been the love of gulling the love is the center letter how does that valve represent our purpose and so I'd like to humbly suggest one of my favorite shut them it's not mine I've seen it brought down in many forum but it's absolutely one of my favorite do you know the uniqueness of the letter of of uniqueness of the letter of love when you spell the letter as a word like let's say the letter I'll lift when it's spelt as a word it's a la flama d a spell for me rabbi sigh hundreds of EnOcean kashubian Russian said Kanye's spell for me the letter there's three possibilities vah vah vah vah lavrov of of you'd've of but that's three proper spellings of the letter volvo volvo is 12 love olive log is 13 of your love is 22 12 is the schwa teamclaudia strong 13 shema yisrael hashem elokenu hashem and hood hood is bigger Maitreya 13 and 22 are the letters of the Hebrew olive be representing the entirety of the Torah we know the famous song yes Rael the oil I saw the kuchibiru who Cod who but that's the interpretation behind this quote yes sir I'll call you souls represented Volvo of 12 though I saw love you 12 22 the entirety of the Tyra the kuchibiru Hashem which is above olive of 13 God who it all has to come together and be one in fact if you take a look at the Friday night tzemre some people have the custom Friday night to sing Zama vishakan at the end of the a Zamora bushwalk and if you look in a sitter look at his mirrors Friday night a Zamora bushwalking at the very end it says revolve in tisket are now literally what it means we just read about the left my pawn and the six breads the six bread the showbread yet six year and six year Tess copter there was a beautiful Qataris a beautiful smell they evolved in with the six and six to Scott or but they say a fabulous shot the revolving with the three ways to spell volvo volvo volvo love you dog 12 being Claudius role with Oliver being the rebuy national messiah hod valve you'd love being the entirety of the Taira - Scott - Scott there means to be bound together a howl of I ha la vie we should merit devolve into Scott or could you imagine if from this lecture on the unity of Purim were united with ourselves with Claudius row with the rebellion without James tire out the evolved into Scott are in fact you see so often throughout the McGill it says even hummin would acknowledge yes no I'm a hood you gotta be that nation that unites and so I was thinking to myself do you know that there's a Raschi that says how do you spell the name Yaakov you and I in conveys there are five times that Yaakov is spelt your iron core Volvo's with a vote five times that's unusual do you know corresponding to that there are five times that Ella Yahoo's name is missing above anybody who says to you the passo he may I know teacher lay ahead miss Eliyahu Hanavi is not looking inside because it's actually he may I'm ninety Chalet look at my cell yeah there's no vogue says Rashi five times Yaakov has evolved five times Eliyahu does not have above in the world to come in you might ha mashiac yeah cool we'll give the love back to Eliyahu and I always wondered to myself why the letter evolved a lot of all but now Scotto valve represents Volvo Chloe you saw with olive of uniting with a Shambo of Univ of 22 uniting with the tire you saw and I saw recruiter beautiful condo that's the unit of poem and it's a very tangible thing that we could all be as Ursa Shem accomplished and you know our tribal I say you know what reward awaits us when we learn the art of the love Yaakov Avena says he may initially o'clock m/s Eliyahu Hanavi because we finally learned the lesson and of course you're probably thinking that in the Michigan the hooks that tied things together were called love him that's tonight connecting and uniting us a big amount condition says the middle of the entire toy in letters is evolved the morale says the center represents purpose that's our focus our purpose is the vulva it should be noted it's evolving which word gulling belly belly of who the new hush only how the no hush always tries to get in the way of our unity tonight don't let it happen tonight let's learn the letter form as the morale said center represents purpose it's the central Victoria 12 13 20 to yourself oh nice of a coach a particular God who imagine if we left here with that concept of devolve into Scott R I believe it's something that we can all accomplish and then I saw a beautiful thought and that safer I quoted to you just a bit ago purim eternal he wanders RIBA V does what's this Center possum in the Megillah that's a very fair question what's the center parsec in the Megillah so he brings down very beautifully in the Megillah there are 167 sokham so what's the center Paul so if we're looking for center if center represents the purpose of what we're doing what is the center posture so he says para que chapter 5 post-sex ayan it's the center post look what is that post hoc has five words Vuitton Nestor VAR timer Shayla C Ubach washer see she answered the king my request in my petition is now instead the safe for poram eternal he goes on to mention a different shot I was thinking perhaps I could say based on something my father's that's how always said are you bothered by the fact that I just told you this centered passbook which represents our mission and our purpose in the whole Megillah is what Esther said my request in my petition is Shayla Seelbach kosher see you will not have a pulse if that doesn't have a theme or you will not have a pulse it that seems to keep us dangling almost if you will in suspense for the next pulse hook doesn't a pulse a Cabot theme and yet this one seems to have us dangling waiting Esther said an answered my request our petition is is well Shayla Tsubaki is what so my father's that's how always said of your side and I'd like to use it to answer that question and then explain why it's the Central Park of the Megillah and then you'll know the entire story what is the difference between Shayla and back atcha let me answer you with a well-known story with the base Haleiwa a woman came to the base her lady before Pesach and asked her base Haleiwa she asked her debe are you allowed to make a dollar crisis on milk the base how lady went ahead and gave her a large sum of money in which through a good yard the talmidim asked the base Haleiwa he asked the base ha ladies are justö Yaga Delano you gave her much more than to buy wine she said she has milks he gave her money for wine why'd you give her so much more money and the base ha lady answered do you know that two of the four cups are after shul Honora after the meals Ethan if she's still drinking milk that means she's still milk if she's not Flay shook she didn't have any meat I gave her that larger amount of money not for the yayan only but for the meat if she's drinking milk she didn't have meat my father would explain the base Haleh V heard herschele but even more importantly understood her becau Mahavira blase I there's a humongous difference between a shillelagh and ab Akasha when your child comes to you and your child says and asks you a question do you only hear their shillelagh or do you understand their back OSHA when your spouse is talking to you when somebody is going through a hard time how are you listening are you only hearing the shillelagh and that's unacceptable one has to understand me my maqam what is the about kasha the base la vie heard can you use milk for the dollar case he understood Buster was needed for Shula nara in other words maybe that's what this poster is teaching us we asked a question that there doesn't seem to be any theme to this boss hook Esther said Shayla Seelbach kasi maybe the way to read it is Esther turned off as Miriam she said listen to me I want you to know something shall I see what I'm about to ask but kasi is my bakashot she was telling a hodgepodge you think it's only my Shayla and it's only a haphazard request and I don't mean it that's a theme Shayla see my Shayla nostril see is what my petition is in other words I mean it from the bottom of my heart and of a hundred and sixty-seven silk'n in McGillis Esther the Central Park is a lossy baka shall see and I think that answers the question how do we become people of our say tithe how do we become people of devolve into scatter a year with a fellow with a college boy who of this player how do we become that sense of purpose we learn to connect not only to the shillelagh of the person of the Akasha in that safer I quoted or Davi points out a fabulous game on tria how do I know that this is true that the theme of Purim is to unite with the shale and about kasha because the word Shailesh in a la flama hey is begin Maitreya 336 Purim is begin Maitreya exactly 336 the essence of Purim is to hear the shayla and understand the Bokashi that's how to become people of our seyh time the devolve into Scott or how could we merit tonight in an official emissary yeah I know V I will learn with my spouse my child my sibling the unaffiliated the neighbor the co-worker fellow Jew the unity of the five different days I will hear the shillelagh but take time to understand the Bokashi you want to end with an extraordinary story one of my favorite ones one that I heard many times from my father's that's how a very powerful way to end years ago on the Lower East Side now Heyliger considered a bizarre hosi hug and Elena was in Kippur in the afternoon and the Capetian Cerreta was walking on the Lower East Side you could imagine he must have looked like the kangaroo yeah Macke Purim it was during the break by diving and he walks by a restaurant and he sees that in the front of the restaurant there's a year the Jew on Yom Kippur yarmulke - who's mom-ish just eating eating deliberately eating the Capetian sir ever walked in with his gaga he put his hand on the youths older on Yom Kippur and said good job they've reviewed an estimate Appetit eat with a hearty appetite not probably in the top 10 things we would have said when the capricious arriba walked out of the restaurant the GABAA a steerable why did you say good jump the finesse with a petite listen to what the Heyliger capricious Arriba answered on yamaki poem a person gets punished on one of two levels either amumu Hafez or a memory at a vine or mum or la havas means he sins maliciously and deliberately a mullah morality other means someone who sinned by giving in to their temptation obviously the first one gets punished far more severely the one who did it maliciously and deliberately when I walked by that restaurant that I saw that year two eating onion Kippur I saw he was eating maliciously and deliberately that means he was going to get punished as a severe memory Hafez I didn't want that so I walked in and I put my hand on him I say go jump to for a beard who an estimate a petite because if he eats with a hearty appetite then so to speak will be downgraded to only a murmur Latoya vain and as a moment at the oven son who seems out of the temptation is punished less severely I did it so he would be punished on a less severe level that's a Russia we could have passed by and seen the shame of somebody eating and who knows what we would have said but the Capetian Cerreta saw people dying to the pintle a year and understood the backlash or understood he'll get punished now as a severe moment Hafez what if I say yes without the teeth he'll be downgraded to only a murmur well not as a memory Allah Hafiz but as only so to speak a more Latoya vain and that is why the give mockery of shillelagh and Purim are both 336 it's a time to unite with people when they talk to us when they reach out to us it's no longer acceptable to only hear the shillelagh like the bass I leave you understood the Micajah like the capricious a rebel understood the Bokashi isn't that what governor Mela says aha show ultime soshim shifty Boveda shame calm a heii lakas Oh his banana Hashem will evacuate Holly but Akasha LTS a shame ISA of a case my shillelagh is my back Asha I want to dwell forever in the house of a Shem he rots only of Lavina Suresh anion may it be the will of the reborn asylum as the hundreds came together tonight and many more will be watching and listening from the yard sign of moisture Albanian is that we remember the Sioux later and we remembered I say time for Michos that were about to experience the much less modest about this of young in the midst of the mokona Gera shout unity but the unity means I learn that I can look away Aziz and the replenish some responds in kind I'll learn as my father's out south said Mustafa him to listen and to hear and to make that call and say you know I want to make amends and certainly that I say toi've of the letter of oh you and we unite and fulfill the bill of antis counter they hid with the tiger with themselves with a fellow here I'm with the Rabbinical eylem and it all stems from a loss see Lucy could you imagine if we left here tonight like the car patients are ever and like the base holiday learning that in all the relationships I'm listening but I'll try to understand and we'll develop together and cultivate those relationships together may it be the will of the recliner shal eylem now we taste that eternity of unity so that Perez recession it will bring about your my summer shock when according to that opening opinion the only yump if we will still celebrate together the who stirs your shall I am is and I wish all of you a Fralick and Purim you