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An unconventional approach to counseling 🥸

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Rabbi Josh Zebberman

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What is unique about my approach to counseling? I follow what's called the solution focus approach. Instead of trying to identify the issues, then solve them and create strategies. I'm trying to identify the outcome that you're looking for. If we were to figure out the perfect strategy, if you were to have the perfect communication or the perfect trust, perfect love, perfect empathy, whatever it is, if somehow you had the perfect strategy and your marriage was back together, how would you notice? What difference would that make to you? What is the outcome you're really looking for, the result you're looking for? And when we can identify that, we can start building that because you can start looking for that. You can start thinking about how you've had that in the past, even moments of it, and and getting that clarity. Then what emerges from that is strategies that had worked for you in the past. You'll build your own strategies.