How to get back the connection you lost

All you have to do is go back to a pre-existent connection, a connection that is already there, a connection that already exists. That's what marriage is. Marriage is that recognition that we are one. And if you don't have that recognition that we are one, and nobody else is invited into this union, and we cannot leave this union, then what is the point in the marriage in the first place? That that that literally is what marriage is. The Torah says, "You shall connect with your your with your wife and become one flesh." You become one. And you are one at soul, but you want to become one physically, spiritually, emotionally, intellectually. Try to align as much as possible. And couples who forget about the plot. So, you got to you got to just remind yourself of the connection you've once had and do more of that.