How to treat a woman...

Every single time he would open the dryer to pull out the laundry, it was full of lint. And he would get so frustrated because his wife would do the laundry and why can't she just clear out the lint? It's not a big deal. Just take the sheet, pull out the lint, throw it out. Why are you leaving the lint for the next person? And it was something that would really frustrate him. It bothered him until one day it dawned on him. He thought to himself, "Well, why is there so much lint?" Because there's so much laundry. Who's doing all this laundry? My wife. Nothing changed. It's just his mindset. A perceptual shift. Instead of focusing on the lint, he focused on the laundry that she had did. And now, instead of being angry at her, he appreciated her. A simple shift in perception can take a relationship from being resentful to appreciative and