Jewish Marriage Secret #2 - create happiness

Jewish marriage secret number two, create moments of happiness. Often people think, "I'll be happy if I get married or I should be happy because I'm married." In the blessings that we recite at the wedding, one of the things we recite is we praise God because he has created joy and happiness. And commentaries explain that joy and happiness is a creation. It's something you have to constantly create. Don't just rely on autopilot happiness. Create moments of happiness. What are three things you can do to create an environment of happiness even when life gets overwhelming?