The Hidden Key to a Happy Marriage

Number one reason of why couples have problems is lack of communication. They don't talk at all. They simply assume everything. He assumes she's supposed to do something. She assumes he's supposed to do something. Everybody assumes and nobody talks. So, communication is critical. But, everything has to be with within reason. Within reason. There are times where, yes, you need to speak for a long time, but don't make it an everyday thing where everyday there's a session. You go to call her for 8 hours. You go to your wife for 8 hours. And hopefully you have some time to sleep, too. That's not I won't work so well. Has to be everything in time. But, also aside from that, it's a uh uh if a person is uh is doing what they're supposed to be doing as a husband, they don't really need to talk so much. Most of the time they need to simply listen. Most of the time what a husband needs to do is simply listen to his wife. She likes to talk. If you're a talker, the conversation will be longer. Really what she wants is to is for you to listen to her nine out of 10 times. She wants you to listen to what she went through through the day. She wants you to listen that you care. She wants you to to hear that you appreciate what she's doing. She wants you to listen to some of the problems. Maybe you have an easy solution. She simply just wants you to listen. So, if you are a good listener, that already cut the conversation in half. But, if you like to talk, good luck with that. So, yeah, so but again, it's a it's it's it's a it's it's good to talk, but not too much.