The Small Germ That Destroys Eternity - Bitachon B’HaShem (9)

[Music] good to be back Sun Florida we starting a new week B we have our Sunday sh about the series we're up to I believe number nine in the series whoever does not have one of these little booklets from the bet uh please get one from M if she still has any extras that way you can follow along a lot better than uh traditionally just uh off of memory and uh which brings me to my first topic that uh I recommend to people all the time that are watching the shim whether you're watching it here in front of me or you are I have one more here one more extra maybe check in the bag uh whether you're um watching in front of me here the no the uh first compartment over there yeah should be maybe some there nothing check any of the compartments maybe I'll find something whether you're watching in front of me or you're watching uh online most of the uh views are online Hashem has Mercy on us he knows that uh we need uh to reach a lot of people so he created the internet and as of now just one of our channels I looked at the report today in the last 28 days has almost a million minutes of uh people watching in the last 28 days if you include Facebook and uh the other channels will probably approaching somewhere neighor of two and a half maybe three million minutes per month that uh reaching people to watch Torah I mean if you do the math of how MIT a person gets uh for for learning Tor how what what he gets for it what is a person that actually sponsors it invests into it I mean it's a uh there's no there's no accounting for it especially when a person learns something and applies it to their life you know you learn something if you learn uh let's say you uh take one of the uh psychology books I used to study when I was a kid around your age there was a very uh famous well-known psychologist uh named Freud Sigman Freud and uh he had all types of strange theories about everything had to do with an obsession with your mother meaning every type of mental demented thought that you had had some type of connection to the fact that you're obsessed with your mother not obsessed like you love her obsessed like like you want to be intimate with her this is Sigman FR that's what happens when a Jew uses his mind not for T instead of doing T they do the opposite that's what told your descendants are going to be like the stars or the dust so the say what do you mean the stars of the Dust if he meant if was making a promise was making a prophecy to in regards to number meaning that your descendants will be very numerous then why say the stars and the dust because they're both very numerous and you know something that we can't count obviously there's a more significant meaning behind the scenes so the say what do we learn from here is telling already before he's tell your descendants are special your descendants a a nation a stubborn Nation if they follow the T they will be greater than the great they'll be better than anybody else they'll be like the stars among creation if they don't follow T they're not going to be like everybody else so for all of those people that are just trying to fit in with the G you cannot fit in with aim even if you want to why because a put into you a piece of him put put into you aish that is incapable of being like a you could think you're a but unfortunately what happens to a Jew when he tries to act like a is he becomes worse than the and that's what told they're either going to be better than everybody else they're going to be a light to the nation or they're going to bring Darkness to the world people like Sigman Freud with his demented theories or Carl Marx with his whole communist theory that brought so Much Death to the world you would think why do they SE still celebrate this person China China has statues all over China in Germany they have statues of Karl Marx a Jew they don't tell you that he converted to to Catholicism they tell you he's a Jew anyway because in their eyes there's no such thing it's like t t says there's no such thing as a Jew that converts to other religion just means he's a rash he could practice another religion he's just going to go to Gom for longer but as far as as far as him converting to other religion there no such thing you cannot take the Jew out of a Jew impossible meaning a Jew that does not follow mitv is simply judged as a wicked Jew even if his Doo is like a even if he's judged like a go when we say that a Shabbat that a Jew that violate Shabbat is considered like a not that he's considered like a that now he only is obligated to keep seven laws of Noah meaning that when it comes to laws when it comes to mitv we cannot consider him part of the Nation meaning that if you're going to have a wedding you need two witnesses these two witnesses have to be kosher Witnesses if one of the witnesses is a Jew that violat Shabbat he cannot be one of those Witnesses if your wedding had two Jews two witnesses but one of them is your father or your uncle or your brother or whoever it is but he happens to be a Shabbat guess what your wedding is null and void your wedding doesn't count every time you touch your wife you're touching the nid you have a very serious problem in your hands why because a Jew that doesn't keep Shabbat cannot be counted as a witness and this is the same thing when it comes to law when somebody goes to a b they need Witnesses if the witnesses Shabbat we cannot use him so it's not that we consider him a he's always going to be a Jew he's just judged as a when it comes to Al now why do people why do people uh why do people do such strange things where they ask Hashem for blessings they ask Hashem for all types of wonderful things they tell you they believe in hem but the way they live their life is against theem they say I love AEM they start singing you know whoever believes is never afraid or we love you they start singing with all their friends while they're doing a uh mangle they do a barbecue on Shabbat how come how come this all starts with a small tiny little germ tiny little germ that's so insignificant so small you can't even see it with the naked eye you years ago if you look at history there was a plague in Europe there was a plague in Europe they called it the black plague why are they called the black plague because anywhere this plague traveled all it created was black meaning death the estimates say that somewhere around 90 million people died from this black plague meaning just imagine imagine your worst dream this is worse you have somewhere in a neighborhood of about 400 million people in America imagine a quarter of them died and they're all on the streets because there's not enough equipment or resources or even or even time to bury all the bodies so meaning everywhere you go there's walls of bodies everywhere there's not a hole that there is no bodies and what happens body is there that means the disease is there disease is there most likely whoever's around is going to die also next now all of this disease start with what a tiny little germ that you cannot even see with the naked eye you could try as hard as you want you're never going to be able to see it you're never going to be able to see it there's also another germ that killed many people not as many but Torah talks about it we call today AIDS and this germ killed a lot of people now if you look at this germ with the naked eye you're not going to be able to see anything if you look at it it's whatever the this germ is on top you're not going to be able to see it if it's on the floor you'll see the floor if it's on somebody's head you'll see the person saying you're never going to be able to see the actual germ itself with the naked eye but yet it kills yet it destroys try to go behind the camera not in front behind the behind that way the other way the other way the other way there you go there you go there no no no they want to look at me not you guys they said uh they can't handle such good-look people so they have to look at me so they people people watching on the internet they say listen we don't want to benefit in this world there's so many good-looking people in your crowd if we look at them they're not going to give us GED we'll look at you it's it's like it's like a punishment to look at me but what's he going to do we all have to get our punishments this little germ this little germ is very dangerous this little germ can kill a lot of people even if you can't see it but there's also Shalom had many lectures about this he says there's a spiritual germ a spiritual germ that K talk about talks about all of the talks about it but yeah if you go on the internet you're not going to find that much material about it which makes it more dangerous The Germ is called laziness that's the germ says in Proverbs Chapter 19 Verse 15 translation laziness cast unto cast one into to Slumber and deceptive soul will go hungry says laziness is going to make you tired usually you would think the opposite because I'm tired I'm lazy right that's what people tell me listen I tell why don't you read a little bit no no I'm tired why don't you uh watch a shoe at least you don't have to you know it's not that hard to watch a shoe just press play that's the most you can do that's it press oh but it's three hours okay don't watch the whole three hours Watch 2 hours oh it's 2 hour but if it was X-Men you'd watch the whole two and a half hours say why it's so short I said okay so don't watch two hours watch one hour ah one hour who has one hour these days I said okay Kap okay okay it's okay B don't worry about we made a special list for you a special playlist which is short clips we take the best of each lecture 15 minutes five minutes six minutes press play okay can you do five minutes I can do five minutes you ask him a week later so did you watch the clip I sent you for five minutes I didn't get a chance to you have 24 hours a day seven days a week you didn't get a chance to watch a 5 minute clip how how could that be is trying to tell us you have a germ you have a disease and you don't even know you're sick it's called laziness but not laziness like you don't feel like working because if you tell the guy listen I got a deal you know what I'm going to go back to Wall Street Shalom I'm gonna go back to Wall Street and I'm gonna start a firm andna hire all you guys because my firm was full of guys like you young kids that I had a lot of ambition all you wanted was money I had my whole firm was full of you guys so I'm going to start a new firm right down the street each one of you guys day one you can start working making money everybody all of a sudden is ready to wake up at 6 o'clock in the morning I tell you to go to SCH 6 o'clock in the morning you crazy 6 o'clock in the morning this generation 11 minimum where 6 o'clock in the morning I don't go to sleep till 6 o'clock in the morning I'm on the internet I'm playing uh games I'm watching movies what I'm doing but if I tell you come work on Wall Street 6 o'clock in the morning sharks every one of you with the on with the tie on no one shows up with shorts and a t-shirt everybody with a tie on cuz that was the attire if you didn't come to work with a with a tie in my office you would s home yeah but it took me two hours to get to work okay so next next time you'll remember that it's not worth traveling four hours just to be sent home next time wear a tie what do you guys think it was it was cookies to work for me you think it was fun fun in games if you talk the wrong way you were sent home if you were late by 1 minute you were sent home 1 minute 8:00 you're supposed to shock to my office you show up 801 guess what happens you go home why if you want to be successful you have to be disciplined but successful in anything in life for some reason people understand this after the first punishment people understand this most people that are normal understand this and from now on they wear ties from now on they come on time from now on they don't ask too many questions they do what they're supposed to but when it comes to spirituality when it comes to to serving of for some reason we don't get it we don't don't get it why because the disease of laziness doesn't exist when it comes to work yes people don't want to work they want to make money right away but in general if they see opportunity they come work where there's many seats over here I don't bite you can have seat over here oh yeah there's three seats over here don't worry I don't throw anything it's fine and even my saliva won't reach that so when it comes to work we don't have the same laziness yes sometimes we're lazy sometimes we don't feel like doing this and doing that but in general if you see enough opportunity if the guy says listen well I was paying you 50 bucks a day I'll pay you 100 all of a sudden you start whistling at work yeah you're happy at work you were miserable five minutes ago but the guy says he's giving you a raise all of a sudden you're happy at work why because you see the opportunity when it comes to unfortunately we live in a generation of ignorant people where most of us do not understand the opportunity not only do we not understand the opportunity we do not understand the risk of missing the opportunity now being on this side of chuva where we try to do every single day and on all of I see things a little bit different than most people number one because already doing chva and number two because I meet a lot of people I hear a lot of stories and time after time I hear the same thing over and over again it's the same excuse the same disease over and over again you ask people did you watch a no I didn't get a chance to yet you ask people did you get the did you read the book that I sent you for free you didn't even have to buy it did you get it no I didn't get a chance to but you asked for it yeah you asked I asked for it you got it yeah it cost me 50 bucks yeah I know it cost you $50 did you read it no not yet I didn't get a chance to why not I was busy with what I'm not really sure people are not really sure what they're busy with but they're always busy they're busy with stuff they're busy with their skateboards they're busy with their game boys they're busy with their computer they're busy with their WhatsApp and schat and all the other they're busy with everything else except how come how come we're like this all of us can generalize the whole thing and say we blame him for everything but the Z says the says sometimes the goes on vacation yeah sometimes the goes on vacation he says how come people still sin Ah that's a good question says is little last week say it's a good question you ask why do people still sin if the went on vacation how come they still sin he says because people fall in love with the sin so much the yet doesn't even have to help them sin anymore meaning they're sinning without the they just like it they like sleep so much they oversleep on purpose they got up at 6:00 they got up at 7:00 but they say you know what I'm going to go to m right now who has time for M AEM I'll I'll talk to you at 9: I'll talk to you at 10 11: maybe AEM just just make sure you wake me up give me an alarm what the sh what sh starts at nine okay I'll show up at 10 I'll show up at 10 he doesn't start late anyway I'll watch it tomorrow on YouTube I'll watch it on Facebook live I'll watch it in uh next week I'll watch it want I get a chance ah watch next week he has new shim anyway the goes on vacation why we start falling in love with the sin so much doesn't have to bother us anymore this is a very dangerous situation and it all starts with the same germ of laziness what type of laziness specific type of laziness it's not laziness to work and make money it's not laziness to procreate and bring children to the world it's not laziness to eat because no one's ever lazy to eat everybody always has an appetite even after you just ate there's always room for another cookie it's not laziness like that what kind of laziness is this it's spiritual laziness it's specific laziness specific laziness to serve hem to do what you're actually supposed to do to do what you were created to do that we always have laziness and that's what SCH said says this laziness brings on the tiredness it's not the tiredness that brings the laziness it's the laziness that brings the tiredness meaning you're only lazy you're only tired because you're lazy meaning guy says listen you want to go to sh a come on she 9:00 it's late if he was doing it at seven I'd come if he was doing at seven I'd come okay you're not coming okay I'm not coming 5 seconds later somebody else calls listen we're going to a bar there's going to be some girls there sh you know what I was waiting for you call all of a sudden he's like a bull all of a sudden he wants to go to Club till 5:00 in the morning without even sleeping before she I'm tired 9 o' what kind of Rabbi is this giving sh at 9 o'clock is he crazy where does he think we are in Mount saai but to go to the club to go to the bar to go hang out with some girls and make some sins he has energy for two days in a row two days in a row enough exstasy enough marijuana enough all types of other junk he going to put in his body he'll have energy for three days a few needles a few pills a few everything works out after that but what is he he doesn't realize he doesn't realize he's have to pay the bill for that what's the bill the bill is what's you think both mean the same thing de means judgment and means accounting so when a person goes to says person goes up to there a and they do what what Accounting in judgment I thought they're just going to judge me says no no no why why Accounting in judgment he says first we do the judgment to see what sin you made oh you went to the club you saw some girls you touched some girls you do all that stuff okay that's that's a sin okay so I get paid for I I I pay for that sin enough no that's just the sin then we do the accounting what accounting I already did their sin no see you made the sin that you have to pay for that's obvious you don't need shamim to tell you that you have to make a you make a sin you P pay for it you don't need RAB ruin to tell you that if you uh violate Shabbat you have to pay for it you don't need RAB ruin to tell you that if you eat pig you eat non Kosher meat you ate McDonald you have to pay for it you don't need me for that everybody knows that but sh said the heavens say no no there's also what's what kind of mitvah could have you done with the time you wasted on making sins what kind of what kind of mitvah you could have done oh you could have learned a t every second you listen you make you listen to an hour there's no number of that you can make one hour of sh just listening to it not even not even following it yet not even understanding it yet you're making MIT so in sh that's the type of accounting they look at how come people don't do this because the spiritual laziness that we have makes us not even look into the reward at work we're lazy until the boss tells us listen why you don't feel like working what if I give you a raise why you're making 50 bucks a day I'll pay you a 100 all of a sudden we're ambitious we look at the opportunity it's double what it was five minutes ago and then we go for it in we don't even go for that why because we're so the yet convinces us that it's so difficult to do mitv it's so difficult to wake up in the morning it's so difficult to learn to every day it's so difficult to watch my eyes and not look at women that are not my wife it's so difficult to do all these different things I might as well not even look at the reward might as well not even look at because I'm not going to do it but the reality is if you looked at the reward that you're going to get for even the smallest mitvah all of a sudden you want to do it all of a sudden you want to keep Shabbat all of a sudden you figure maybe you know what maybe I can't eat kosher all of a sudden you figure maybe you know what maybe I don't really need a girlfriend until I get married all of a sudden you say you know what maybe I can go to 9:00 maybe I can do it but then there's the most important cure for any disease spiritually sometimes even if you look at the reward it's not enough somebody tells you you learn you're going to go to G your is so strong you say anybody go there and come back anybody go there and come back so I can talk to him so he could show me by the way there is there is many that went and came back but that also shows that your yet is very strong very very strong so for people like that the G says for people like that talking to them about reward is not going to cure the disease of spiritual laziness so how do you cure it he says talk to them about punishment talk to them about what happens if they don't go to talk to them about what happens if they eat pig talk to them about what happens if they do violate Shabbat why because once they realize the punishment the reward doesn't even matter anymore why the says if a person truly understood what kind of punishment Waits somebody that does not serve AEM he would completely do chuva never make a single sin even if he knows he's never going to get a reward for it why just to avoid that punishment so how come people sin because we really don't understand the punishment because we don't learn about it which is what we tried to talk about a little bit not every detail unless you watch the Gom that we did but nonetheless we mention punishment in every single sh and the reason why is because this is the cure we all need my S included our n have made so many sins in our life that if we don't learn about what happens if we stay this way we're simply not going to do chuva now your a person needs to know that it's called it's called serving of also means work toiling already hasem is telling us it's not supposed to be easy it's work work is not supposed to be easy if you have a job that's easy there's something wrong with the job work is you may enjoy it you may like it you may want to come back tomorrow and do more of it but nonetheless work is not supposed to be easy especially if you want to be successful so tell us that in your if you're going to serve hem you're going to work really hard you're gonna have different moments of weakness you have moments of weakness why you're going to see you're going to sh you keep Shabbat you keep kosher but you have a struggle financially you didn't you you don't have enough money to pay rent sometimes or your wife yells at you or you can't find a z you know how many kids I know 18 19 20 25 35 45 55 all types of Ages they can't find a spouse they can't find one they found one but they don't like it so they want something else I know a lot of them they send me emails they send me text messages send me the resumes day and night day and night even though it's not what we do we try to help people whenever we can people cannot find a so they have moments of weakness where they say listen I'm keeping Shabbat I'm keeping I'm keeping I'm doing everything but still I see my friend that's not keeping anything he has a new wife every day I see my friend that he's not keeping anything but he looks healthier than me he's 50 pounds lighter than me his wife looks like she likes him job pays him more money and we see all types of things that confuse us a little bit so moments of weakness like this when you see the secular people or even your old self after you do Chua you see it you see an impression with where it sounds and looks like it's better to be against AEM than to be with asem that's where comes in that's where having confidence in hem comes in that's where it's important so the bet they took excerpts from his huge work and put together this small little book and translate to English and what we were going over for the last uh I guess nine weeks is different sections of it to since there's many new people today I'll uh summarize what we've got into up till now so the BET starts he says if you're afraid of something when you don't have to be that fear can cause the thing that you're afraid of to happen like for example if I'm afraid of being hot what's going to happen the air conditioner is not going to work so I'm going to have to sweat and melt and front of you on live television so why does it work that way why does the BET why do the sages that are geniuses above and beyond anything we can imagine why are they telling us that if you're afraid of something that's exactly what's going to happen to you why he says because when he wrote the T 974 Generations before he created the world that tah was not just for us the tah is for him meaning rules for him of how to manage his creation and in that tah he says I have to manage my reward and Punishment based on specific rules one of the most foundational rules of Judaism where if you do not believe in this you simply are excluded from Judaism even if your father's a rabbi and your grandfather's M doesn't make a difference is the rule of reward and Punishment if a Jew does not believe in reward and Punishment meaning that the righteous get rewarded and the wicked get punished simply they're excluded from Judaism if you want to pray you have to get a minan there's 10 people and he's one of them that doesn't believe in reward and Punishment you can't count them as number 10 he cannot be a witness this is a person he's considered like a he's consider like having a among you why because reward and punishment is one of the foundations of the tah now how does reward and Punishment work in simple simple terms the reward the rambam says is mainly Ina in the next World and so is the punishment but there are tidbits of it that we get here for example if a person sanctifies aem's name does a Kem does a Kem he publicizes T in a very good way he does a big Mitzvah publicly AEM willward in this world in his lifetime he'll see a reward for that mitvah if a person does desecrates aem's name or better yet if a person even does a private what's a private a guy was seed in his bathroom in his bedroom nobody sees it nobody knows except AEM he weigh seed hasem says I'm going to punish you for this specific sin in this world main punishment of makes it obvious is they lose money anytime anybody that invests in a stock market they wake up the next day they lost 25,000 50,000 100,000 don't blame the stock market most likely you have to blame yourself anytime a person loses money first thing they look at is did I waste seed on purpose not on purpose and so on and so forth why because says I'm gonna give youa I'm going to give youa I'm going to give you she shefa is wealth abundance but if you're going to waste seed that shefer leaves you where does it go it goes to your children which children I don't have children I'm not even married yet the kid is 16 years old so I'm not even married no you may not be married you may not see your kids but when you waste seed you're creating them you're creating the children and all of your reward goes to them goes to these beings that you created that you can't see just like the germ so there is a reward there is a punishment most of it is in the next world some of it is in this world now measure for measure means that hasem rewards and Punishment based on the deed if you steal Hashem says somebody will steal from you if you cheat somebody will cheat on you if you think that you're cute like some kid on my Facebook said that he posted to his friends uh over the weekend on Jewish kid he says he took a picture of himself and I don't exactly watch Facebook but somebody sent me this Sent send this to me to my attention he took a picture of himself in the gym he wears a tank top and he's flexing he says Hey guys watch out for your wives meaning he's not going for a regular girl no he's looking for somebody that's married not enough that he's already he wants the married woman why he likes married women now guess what he thinks it's cute he thinks it's cute to do that right it's F it's funny right but guess what a few years from now when some woman makes a mistake in marry such a person guess what she's going to do she's going to be the wife that found some cute kid on the internet flexing that's what happens what do you think this stuff happens oh I can't believe my wife cheated on me with together 10 years what do you mean you can't believe it most likely you did it what do you mean I've been honest to her maybe to her you've been honest but before you were with her you did it to somebody else maybe even in a previous life nonetheless the way it works is that if you did it you will get it in this in this lifetime in the previous Carnation and so on and so forth so who says that any time you have a punishment it's a sign for me to wake you up to do chuva for that specific issue somebody just stole money from you that means theh is trying to tell you you have to do chuva for stealing wait but somebody stole from me yes they only stole from you because you stole when I don't remember oh wait a minute what when I was 15 I took $5 for my cousin yes when you were 15 you were considered 100% an adult according to the Torah and you stole $5 and you have to give back the $5 now you're embarrassed to give the $5 put it in an envelope don't say where it came from and send it to the person now what if the person ran away you don't know where they are take the $5 and give it inaka for something that's connected to toah if you could return it to the person itself that's ideal if you cannot return it to the person or the institution let's say you stole from a store or you stole from a school or you stole from something like that you can't do it or lead to trouble maybe for example they'll sue you it's not enough that you give him back so what do you do you put in an envelope and you send him a payment now if you don't have all the money let's say you stole $5,000 and you don't have $5,000 so what do you do you make payments you make payments you put a blank check or just cash and an envelope drop it off send it off or if again if you don't know where they are this person has gone from the world you don't know where they are you take that money and you give it in staka you give it in staka and you'll see a lot of blessings in your life there's a famous story that happened in New York some time ago back in the uh early 1990s I think it was 91 breaking news report on news they were interviewing a Jewish guy that owned a small toilet paper company he didn't know that the interview was coming but they interviewed him and highlighted his business and say wow you have such an amazing business what it's so amazing when you find out the details behind the scenes so he told the story himself to Jews not to the news he says one time I came to a lecture just like this and the rabbi said wasn't me wasn't a rabbi yet Rabbi said anyone that has blood on their hands cannot enter ganen anyone that has blood on their hands cannot enter ganen so everybody was relieved oh I'm not a murderer but then the rabbi continued blood is theim but there's also theim in blood is means theim in Hebrew but theim also means money in the Torah meaning anyone that stole money cannot enter Gan if if they keep Shabbat even if they give even if they learn all day all night all that stuff is good if they stole money and they didn't do CH they cannot enter GED so one of the guys got nervous why he's been stealing for a few years from who from his customers which today is acceptable apparently even among Jews if people think that if you don't steal you can't make it in life it's the opposite by the way if you steal you're not going to make it in life not this life eternal life but anyway he says to the rabbi after Le she was embarrassing what am I going to do he says what happened I'm in a toilet paper business in it's industry Norm that every roll of paper is 100 yards but none of the customers actually count If the roll of paper's 100 yards so you know we all cheat a little bit you know you sell a 100 but 99 you sell it is 100 you price 100 but it's 99 yards and then I figured you know let me try cut a little bit bit longer 95 I said nobody paid attention I went to 90 nobody paid attention I went to 80 nobody paid attention but I said you know what I started feeling bad I said you know what I'll make a deal with the you know my my yet what 85 I sold it as 100 I priced 100 full price but in reality I gave them 85 yards for years I'm doing it 10 years I'm doing it TR 10 years I'm selling them 85 yards that means every roll of paper I'm stealing 15 how how do I do CH for such a thing for the I want to go to ganed I keep Shabbat now I everything how do I go to ganed now Rabbi was smart he says if you tell them he goes He hey Rabbi I thought you were smart what do you mean if I tell them if I tell them right now they're all going to sue me I'm going to be put in jail I'm going to be in lawsuit for the rest of my life and I'll never be able to pay him back anyway oh the rabbi said I know that's what I was saying to you if you tell them nothing good is going to come out of it he goes exactly oh now you're a good Rabbi so I love tell go no you have to do something what do you have to do he says let me ask you about this toilet paper business is there a lot of profit margin in it he goes yeah a lot he goes if you sell them the 100 but really you give them extra you give them 115 instead of 100 you give them5 can you still make money can you still make a living goes yeah we make plenty of money on the paper he goes okay that's what you do that's what you do from now on give them 150 meaning give them extra they're paying for 100 you were taking 50 so now with every roll of paper you're making up for the stolen money without them knowing and little by little hasem will see that you're trying your best and that's what the guy did and he did it for one month and two months and the profit margins went down but nonetheless he's still making a living and if somebody wants to go to ganeden they'll do whatever they need to do so as he would have it a loves people that do chuva he loves them so much that he shows them open Miracles even in this world after they pass some tests especially when it comes to the test of money because as said to said to us in the the last generation is going to serve the god of wood the god of stone but also the god of silver and gold what are they going to be the four different types the four different types of before mashia comes you're going to have Christianity you're going to have Islam you're going to have money you're going to have kav people they want they want respect they want to donate only if you put their name on the website they want to donate only if you put the name on the on the uh on the building n if you're not going to report it then I'm not going to donate yeah but you know people need to do you need to feed people okay so feed them with a plaque on to you know give him a card that says I gave him the money that's sometimes people do mitvah like this says they'll cry when they get to heaven when they get to sh they'll cry because all of their all the reward they got will be spent already in this world because of all the honor they got but anyway this guy passed the test he started giving his customers extra extra extra one month two months three months four months five months six months on the sixth month one day he has on his door sir there's a TV TV stations outside the office TV what happened he doesn't know what's going on maybe they C maybe they discovered what he did in the past for so many years he doesn't know what to do but he can hide so he goes outside sir what do you have to sa for yourself we just did an industry research on the toilet paper business and all of the competitors are promoting 100 yards per roll but we did an investigation the average is selling 72 yards 72 76 78 87 89 no one is selling even a 100 even though they Market it except you sir you give your customers even extra you give them 115 on the average what do you have to say about it the poor guy he's not going to tell me I've been stealing my customers and I listen to my Rabbi and I'm doing TR now what he's going to say go oh you know I love my customers I love my customers that's what he says guess what his business booed why all of the all of the customers saw this TV uh TV uh you know special I say what I'm gonna buy from this guy I'm buy from that guy this guy's giving me a least good toilet paper they started buying from him and already gave reward in this world why he did ch ch that's difficult to do it's not easy easy to do chuv it's not easy to do chuva for money but nonetheless he did it and he got rewarded for it so says if you do chuv you'll get rewarded measure for measure in this world and the next but if you have fear of doing Chua that's because you fear people you're not fearing hm you fear people sometimes a woman tells me listen I listen to yesu I love everything you say but you're talking about how a woman is supposed to cover head if she's married if she's not married she doesn't have to cover her hair but if she's married she has to cover her hair there's also another exception if she doesn't have a head if she doesn't have a head she doesn't have to cover the head but as long as she has a head and she's married she has no two qualifications she has to cover it with what with a M with a scarf so she says oh listen I want to cover my head but I'm embarrassed why because the rabbitson and my local Sho she wears a wig and she uh she doesn't like when women come around around with scarves on the head or hats and they uh my friend next door I put my on show one time she called me Taliban she called me Taliban she called me like a uh what she she told me what are you trying to be Ben you trying to be the ra wear a wig like everybody else in the world but you're saying it's not allowed to wear a wig according to the rambam according to all of the because the wigs are coming from they come from idolatry and so on and so forth so how do you answer a person like this the answer is in at the end of the one of the greatest sages that ever lived says to his students at teachings right before he dies he says to them may you fear God as much as you fear man meaning the only reason why people don't do chv don't learn T don't go all the way to serve hm is not because they're afraid of Hashem it's the opposite it's because they're afraid of people they're afraid of what people going to think if I start walking around with a keepa like these people in Germany they announced in the news uh over uh the last couple of days if you're a Jew don't wear K ey anymore why the Arabs May kill you instead of increasing the uh police force instead of increasing the protection on the Jewish people what are they saying no you know you Jewish people don't worry your Ki anymore why because the arrows May kill you the Arabs May kill you out of all the you said instead of using their brain what are they using something else something else not a brain for sure obviously so says if you're having a hard time doing chv if you're having a hard time doing MIT if you're having a hard time becoming a Jew not only by action but also by appearance it's only because you're afraid of people what they think of you peer pressure and that peer pressure can lead you to Gay and none of those people are going to help you over there next he says every person experiences times when his efforts are not only don't help him but they actually cause him harm sometimes people start doing chuva they start changing they start putting on TT they start praying they start giving but all of a sudden they see that there's problems in their life that they didn't have before they started doing Chua and they want to blame God for it meaning they want to they say listen before I became religious my life was easy now I became religious all of a sudden I have financial problems I have marriage problems I have this problem that problem by the way all of those problems would have happened with or without Chua but now that you have Chua it actually is worth something why why is it worth something because now that means that a is accepting your Chua you have difficulties it actually means that Hashem is accepting your Chua and likes your chuva so much that he's giving you problems how does this make any sense you see just because you start doing mitv doesn't make the sins go away you still made sins in the past whether it's wasting seed or going out with a Goya or going to drinking and driving and putting other people at risk all types of sins you know to put other people at risk it doesn't have to be a sin we actually kill somebody that's a sin sometimes putting other people in danger is also a sin so now says I like your CH you're trying to be a better person now so what I'm going to do I'm going to give you difficulties why because since those sins don't go away there's two options to pay for them why you could pay for them in gay each sin thousands of years of gay you don't want to hear what happens over there it's not fun or I can give you a little problem for two days I give you a little problem for one minute I give you a little problem for one month I give you a little problem for two seconds that it was annoying but it didn't hurt that much so you put all those sins together it ends up being you have difficulties for a few months but says that way I'm going to clean you up from all of your sins why so when you finally arrive to me in sh you're clean likeu no G no no suffering you go with you go no suffering at all now of course you have to pay for the sins how can you pay for the sins you have to suffer a little bit either there or here when a person understands this what do they do is say thank you thank you for giving me problems why because I know you are accepting my CH because you giving me problems so now when your efforts are not working when you're doing things and it's not working it's not that it's not working it's that is trying to talk to you you just have to pay attention to the details by looking at what the say now when a person trusts in hasem he gains both in this world and the next why does he gain both in this world and the next you look at your peers that don't believe in Hashem or your peers that don't follow hem it's not even a statistic it's just 100% of people are depressed everybody's depressed some more some less some are depressed to the point they want to commit suicide some are on the way to wan to commit suicide some just don't really know what the purpose of life is so they're just depressed but they don't really know why most people don't really see a reason of why they should do why they this why that a lot of people are taking drugs just to escape reality whether that drug is Prozac or it's painkillers or it's marijuana or cocaine or a little heroin whatever it gives the in the book in the bag please don't sit on it please and don't talk in front of me please if you're going to talk please it's interfering Now does not want you to escape reality he wants you to deal with reality how by opening a seph t and see what does the Torah say about this what does the Torah say about this this problem this problem of laziness this problem of violating Shabbat this problem of schom the guy can't get you know can't get a job he can't uh you know be happy with his wife he's not happy with his kids he can't have kids and so on and so forth the Torah addresses everything so when a person sees that he's doing and he's doing and he's doing and she's doing and she's doing and she's doing and it's still not working that actually means that is accepting your CH and he's testing you if you trust in him you have in him you win in both worlds why do you win in both worlds because the fact that you trust him is a mitvah but even more so it gives you fulfillment when you know that your suffering means something it has a value and a very high value all of a sudden every time you have a little bit of pain all of a sudden every time you have a little bit of difficulty what do you say thank you why I know you're giving me this to test me now there's a book called anybody here ever hear of it you read it should read it fantastic book and they're not allowed to translate to English they're not allow to translate this book to English you know why the told them don't translate it to English and sometimes people work for they don't work for they work for they don't want to translate it but this book has a story out of this world the S says the story it's a real story not like uh fairy tale real story he says the Spanish Inquisition about 500 years ago overnight the evil go told the Jews you have to leave all your stuff you leave behind all you take is what's pretty much on you you a millionaire yesterday today you're broke everybody left there with nothing a lot of people got killed what happened that's why till this day there are some that say one out of every 10 Spanish people people from South America of Latin descent one out of 10 it's a very good possibility they're actually Jewish and they don't even know it because they could be from those descendants that stayed behind because of fear and they ended up converting to Christianity now there was a lot of people that left and he says in one of the stories there was a sadik and his family him his wife and three kids they got on a boat and they started going away unfortunately there's a disease called kadat kadat I don't know how you say it in English and this disease starts with a tiny little germ that you can't even see starts and people started dying left and right on the boat the captain of the ship said that's it I'm pulling I'm going to the next Beach all of you getting out all of you getting out and that's what happened pull up to the next Beach a lot of people died already the people that survived went on the beach and now the beach was not connected to some Resort the beach was connected to a desert that doesn't end and people started walking in the desert and went after another was dying the hot weather lack of food lack of drinking lack of supplies of everything people were literally dropping Dead one after another now this sadik and his wife and three kids he tells a story he says we started going and my wife was very very very soft woman very nice woman big tadika but she wasn't used to walking in a desert so literally within a few days she dried up from the Sun collapsed and died imagine a husband has to watch his own wife die in front of him G is not even that bad died right in front of him the poor guy he's a tadik so he has to bury her he's not like the go that in the World War II they saw their friends their cousins their everybody died they just left them on the streets Jews bury each other we give respect even for the body we're not allowed to burn the body like the green you have to honor the body because this is something created so in the middle of the heat in the middle of everything he starts digging in the desert burying his own wife little more time passes he starts seeing one of his three kids Slow Down slow down slow down slow down died kid number one dies stops again buries the body next day the other two kids die he's left alone in a desert now if you've ever been in a desert it's like being in the middle of the ocean you have no idea what's right what's left what's North what's South you have no idea where it ends if it ever ends it seems like the whole world is this ocean same with the desert it seems like the whole world is a desert people that don't know their way around in the desert they don't make it out in the in the uh Day hours it's hotter than G at night night it's freezing like the mountains so now he had a little more power a little more strength and he's continuing for a few more days but after he collapses and then he wakes up from his collapse shortly after with his last bit of energy and you would think that this sadik at this point you saw your whole country abandon you your friends and family die your wife your kids everything in front of your eyes everything is death death death Death at the very least what do you think yet comes to you says listen what you what were you religious for this what you religious for this is the Torah this is the reward you get for it You' figure the guy says Ah it wasn't worth it right that's what you would expect this is what the says he says he's in his last bit of energy he got up and he looks at the heavens he says I know you're trying very hard to take away my Judaism I know you're trying very hard to test me and make me die aoy but no power in the world including your own is going to take it away and I swear by your name I was born a Jew and I will die a Jew and he collapses the moment he collapsed mysteriously somehow miraculously a bunch of Arabs with camel show up and they feel bad for the Jew they pick him up they save his life they take him to a city and he start a whole family start a whole new life and he told the story how come it happened that way how come the the camels and the Arabs and all the the how come the Saving Grace couldn't come a day early two days early three days early how come because sometimes the tests Us in order to elevate us but in order for us to show that we passed the test we first have to acknowledge that we know it's a test the minute he said I know it's a test I was born a Jew and I will die a Jew I'm not going to regret even a single Mitzvah test was over test was over finished done no more test why there's no point you pass the test you know to test you pass the test you know the answer there's no point that's when the test is finished so that's what the bet is telling us that sometimes a person knows that it's a test and he sees the blessing in this world but even more so he gets the blessing in the next world because he'll be rewarded for standing up for the truth when it was difficult now the next part the new part that will continue it says that when it comes to money this is the biggest test that people have the reason why is because people believe that they work very hard for their money they work so hard for their money they wake up early they go to sleep early they make phone calls they lift bricks they do a lot of things to make money and most people believe that they work really hard and they figure that if I work so hard that means I did it I made the money and that's actually that's heresy yes you worked hard meaning you toiled but you still didn't make the money why because if you look at your effort versus what Hashem did you'll realize that in reality you did nothing all you did is make a choice you made a choice to work as far as your ability your knowledge your strength the oxygen cells in your in the oxygen in your blood your brain cells everything in anything that enabled you to actually work the customer that you got the boss that gave you the job the company the product all of those things created the only thing that you actually did is you chose what to do with your time you chose to work and the mishna says that if a person decides that he wants to work for hem full-time by learning T all the time then Hashem promises him that he'll take all from him that he'll take all of the things of this world from him meaning all of the obligations that you have of this world whether it's money to pay bills money to buy food money to buy a house or rent a house all the things of this world he'll take care of if a person has 100% confidence in hem he could learn all day all night and never worry about money does it doesn't mean that he'll be Rockefeller he'll simply live some become Rockefeller some become very rich some no but nonetheless Hashem says if you work for me learn to 24 hours you learn non-stop all the time that you can I will pay for all of your living expenses but not everybody has this type of not everybody has this type of confidence people need to know that they're at least exerting some type of effort in order to make some money to to rationally work it out and there's no problem with that there's nothing wrong with working as long as you know that all of the sustenance all of the money all of the things that are coming from it are still coming from from hasem and not from your efforts so the BET says when it comes to making a living in the book of sh chapter one in a uh uh Shel 1 chapter 2 verse 7 he says Hashem makes poor and makes rich meaning anytime you see somebody or if it's yourself see somebody rich don't ever say oh yeah yeah this guy invested in aom you know and and he got out before the com crashed or this guy invested in real estate before it boomed in Florida before it boomed in Vegas before it boomed in New York he invested he got a good deal oh this guy created an app and it exploded became a big hit or this guy invented some plier and uh you know uh some big company decided to take it over bought the plyer for him and that's why he became Rich saying things like this is heresy believe it or not to think that because he had a specific idea that he invented something or he bought something before it went up before it went down or he worked really hard and that's why he made a lot of money it's actually it's actually heresy against hem why hem is the one that gives you par now what does that mean really that means that whether he founded this app or this plier or this company whether he was a broker or he was cleaning bathrooms whether he was a real estate developer or he was just in a learning to day he would have been just as Rich regardless of what he would have done the P that he has right now would have been there with or without him working with or without this idea with or without this invention to say that it's due to the invention due to the right timing due to the right things that means that a person is is actually believing that there is a power outside of God that there's an energy that there's something that can create something that's beyond God's ability and that's heresy that's idolatry so that's why the book of sh in our tanak says hem makes poor and he makes rich meaning whether he's poor whether he's Rich Hashem made him that way yeah but he tried really hard I could tell you a lot of guys that try really hard every day and they're still broke I remember when I was in a brokerage business there were guys in a business for already 10 15 years before me 10 15 years before me this guy Bobby this guy hated me why I was like a reminder that he's a loser I didn't I didn't uh show off or anything but you know when you're doing well people see it because the the company reports it on the uh internet and everywhere else this guy is doing great and so on and so forth so so this guy was already in the business for 15 years before I even started day one by the time I got there I was in the business for three years he was in it for 18 years meaning he was like a veteran at that moment this month a good month for him was $10,000 which is not bad I came in I wasn't making anything within less than a year I made $117,000 in one month the owner of the of Raymond James the big company called the office who's this kid you mean who who was what kid this guy that made 117,000 oh your own yeah he's he's our new Hot Shot he goes how's how's he doing it oh he works hard a lot of people working hard a lot of people working hard what what is he doing and had a nice conversation the CEO of Rayman James a big firm public company 5,000 Brokers sent me a handwritten letter you know served my my honor a little bit a little Cav ah see of course I'm the best and what happens I felt great about it but Bobby he me even more than he hated me before why cuz he made $10,000 for the month and I made 117 I'm a new guy he's in the business for almost two decades he's in a business for almost two decad he worked hard he didn't get the same success and the room was full of those people the office was full of those people the industry was full of those people there are guys to this day that are in a business for 25 30 years and their best year in their career was over overcome by one single month of mine meaning their best career the whole average year they're doing great 250,000 a year 200,000 a year which is good money my best month in one career was 1.6 million so which means that they have to work five six seven eight nine years to catch up to one month of course that's going to make them hate you why because they feel like oh he made the money little did we all know it had nothing to do with me nothing to do with my skill nothing to do with my speaking ability nothing to do with my stock picks nothing to do with anything what it have to do with decided he's going to write a check and he's gonna happen to write my name on it he's gonna write my name on it now I thought I did it because I was so good and I worked so hard and I did this and I did that bogus nothing there's plenty of guys that are very very skilled very very small smart much smarter than I ever was much more talented even than I ever was until this day they're broke I know guys that we did a deal with UPS one time UPS you know the shipping company so we did a deal with them we would go to a UPS center once or twice a week and we'd meet their employees now we figured that we're going to you know inherit their accounts do some business with them I didn't expect to meet millionaires I expected to meet Average Joe's that are you know I could just manage their they 401K they work for 20 years they probably have a half a million dollars or so saved up in this retirement account and will man as that money if you get you know 100 people that have a half a million dollars a lot of money I didn't realize what I was walking into why because everybody looks the same they're wearing brown they all look like Average Joe Blue Collar guys and I'm starting to meet guys that are in ups for 25 35 years that are richer than me how they've been at UPS for so long they kept investing into the stock of the company before it went public when the company went public they made $10 million $15 million now he's still a UPS guy he's still driving making 80 $90,000 a year now if you do a salary times a 100 you're still not going to get $10 million so I said how are you so rich he said I I I put everything into the stock I put everything into retirement say so why do you still drive why do you still drive a UPS truck making $90,000 a year goes it's a good job what else am I going to do what else I'm going to do I I said all the money that I have I invested in real estate he has 20 30 40 houses all over uh different parts of the East Coast he has Ira with this millions of dollars and so on and so forth but he's still drives like Average Joe I thought he was a genius I thought he was a unique case but that me another one another one another one another one and there a bunch of them anybody that was there for 25 30 years has a bunch of money it was unbelievable to me so what changed wrote a check and put their name on it that's it meaning that even though he was a UPS driver that mathematically should never be able to see that kind of money that's only because we don't have enough belief in Hashem we think that we need to make a lot and sometimes we have to cheat and sometimes we have to lie and sometimes we have to do all types of things in order to get ahead Hashem is telling us that's your mistake you think that you're the one that's going to make yourself rich you think that you're the one that's going to make yourself successful and that's the biggest mistake you could have in your career just to even start off thinking that you're the one that's actually making the money so then he continue he says in the book of Tav says cast on hem your burden and he will support you Hashem is my shepherd I will not be lacking remember that our forefathers traveled in the desert for 40 years lacking nothing in all matters that you succeed in business and earn a lot of money understand that it's not the business that caused your gain it's the opposite hasem decreed that you should earn that much money and therefore the business was successful to fulfill hashem's decree meaning that it's not that it's because of the Season or because of the product or because of the idea that such and such became successful whether that's such and such is Steve Jobs or Warren Buffett or any famous millionaire or billionaire or even your local millionaire that donates a lot of money to the sh the community it's not because they're smart it's not because of their business it's not even because of their effort it's simply because decided to make them rich now one of the difficulties that people have when it comes to money is they always look at money as a reward meaning that if somebody has a lot of money he has a big house he has a nice fancy schmancy car he has a boat he has all types of things they assume that this is a reward and that's the mistake the sages tell us that if a person loses all of his money he has a huge loss he should do a blessing he should make a blessing thanking Hashem for the loss why because he is getting a message from Hashem that Hashem says I took away your money instead of taking away your blood meaning I took away your money instead of taking away your life because you made some type of sin in your life and I decided that I don't want to kill you prematurely I don't want to hurt you so instead I'm just going to take something that's worth life which is money called so the say that if a person lost a lot of money he should say thank you to Hashem why because it's much more worth it it's much more valuable to keep your life and not your money because you could always make it again and most importantly if you have a lot of money but no life then it's worthless but on the other hand say and they noted in y inat believe it or not it says that when a person makes a lot of money he comes into an inheritance somebody dies and instead of giving all the money to the dog and the cat he gives it to him there was some woman in uh in uh England I think it was she died last year I think she was a fashion designer she died last year and she gave something like $150 million to her cat $150 million to our cat I wonder if the Cat knows how to invest in the stock market what does this really show you by the way what does it really show you it doesn't show you that she loved the cat because the cat doesn't have feelings it's not like us it's not a human being can't say oh I love you doesn't say that what does it really show you it shows you how much she hated her life and everybody in her life why because with $150 million you could literally save a country you could feed countless people you could build countless things that survive your life when you give everything to something that's going to die after a few years that's an animal that can't even speak back to you obviously shows how meaningless your life was now says if I give you a lot of money don't do a blessing if I take a lot of money do a blessing why because immediately you know I took the money instead of your life but if I give you a lot of money somebody died and gave you a big inheritance you won the lotto something happened you got a big deal somebody bought your company you just came into a lot of money overnight don't do blessing why it actually may be a punishment as says at the end of I pay my haters cast to their face to destroy them meaning that one form of punishment that aosh who gives to people in this world is a lot of money not always but sometimes why he says I want you to do Chua you don't want to do Chua I give you another message you don't want to do Chua you want I give you another message you don't want to do Chua after enough messages enough opportunities to do chva get closer to me you still don't want to do it hasem says I've had it with you so what am I going to do I'm going to remove your thoughts of Chua how I'm going to remove your thoughts of Chua the ram says he's gonna give you a lot of money he's literally going to give you a lot of money why because naturally a person thinks if I have everything therefore hasem is happy with me if he wasn't happy with me he'd give the person cancer he give them some disease he give them some uh something some problem if everything looks okay the person thinks everything's okay and that's why the says if you got a lot of money since you don't know why you got it and you don't really know if you're righteous or not don't even do a blessing because why it's time for you to do chat to double check is this a punishment or is this a reward so here we see that the picture is not so clear meaning that if you don't learn T it is impossible for us to know what the message really is so sometimes people go to a they go to aik they go to a and they ask him questions and that's what the Tor says you're supposed to do go to a go to a go to somebody that knows T and ask him ask him questions what should I do here what should I do there did I do this right did I do this wrong ask questions why because he's going to tell you what the Torah says but make no mistake it's not the that knows the answer but rather the Torah and that's unfortunately a mistake that sometimes people make in this generation and apparently in the religious communities it's become an epidemic where people make their Rabbi Dead or Alive into God they turn them into God they go to the grave sites and they pray to the sadik they don't pray to God they pray to the sadik sadik could be the rebi sadik could be anybody and they're praying to the sadik no please Renu help me here help me there help me there and now we have a problem why says that was wanted to make into the mashia meaning was extremely righteous almost became the mashah but one day took the um copper uh copper snake that mosenu used in a desert and destroyed it why sned am sinned and Hashem gave brought a bunch of snakes and the snakes started biting people started biting people killing them so then Hashem says okay you want them to live make this copper snake put it on top of the mountain and if they look at it I'll heal them and that's what happened people looked at the copper snake and anyone that looked at the copper snake was healed so now still had this hundreds of years later still had this Bron inash still had this and one day he decided to destroy it and said thank you very much that was for doing it why because the problem is that people didn't understand what happened in the desert they thought that the snake was healing the people it's not a snake that healed the people is that once they looked at the snake they looked at something physical they were supposed to look Beyond it they were supposed to see the heavens the sky behind it and remind themselves ohem runs the world I have to do I'm sorry and then get healed the problem is that people got stuck on the physical and the material and they started thinking that it's the snake that healed people so when destroyed it what is he telling people it's not the snake that heals it's a Shem that heals and that's the mistake that we make sometimes sometimes we pray to a sadik it doesn't matter who it is and that's and the to the book of Deuteronomy chapter 3 says the following tells us a mid a behind the scenes what happened when is found out that Moshe is going to die it's not good news why the prophet of all Prophets The is the one that talks to hm like a best friend he's going to die so am got into anxiety attack don't went to M and said hey Moshe what's going to be until now anytime we got in trouble we had you to rely on we had you to to to depend on we did something wrong you talk to hem you finagled something forgave us now what going happen whose hands are you leaving us what are we going to do without you now anyone that knows a little bit of Tor I don't even mean know the whole t or the whole I just mean you learn once in your life knows that there's nobody else in the history of mankind from the beginning of the world all the way to the end of the world even at time Mia that will ever be like M no one ever saw such Miracles no one performed such Miracles no one will be a prophet even the mashia will not be a prophet like mosu is man of God that's what calls him not us hem calls him you're a man of God no one will ever be as great as M no one this is one of our 13 principles of Faith even if you love your REI even if you love your even if you love anybody no one will ever be like mosu meaning that no no matter how great your Rabbi is living or dead he will never be like m that is understood among all normal Jews if you're not normal then we have the different sh for you usually it's a psych wward but nonetheless all normal Jews understand this no one will be like mosu so now comes to M and says mosu what's going to be without you you're isim you're the man of God you're the best of the best you're the what does m tells him you would think he says no don't worry Yeshua benon is a good guy he's sadik also oh don't worry you have 70 they're good ah don't worry what does he say to them he says to them a from 146 verse number three don't trust and rely on anyone meaning including me you want to connection to connect to him directly once you actually rely on man you have a very serious problem it's called idolatry it's called a in Hebrew even if he's mosu mosu himself is saying what do you think because I'm gone anything changes nothing changes Hashem is still AEM the fact that you relied on me the fact that you are thinking that something's going to change a mistake you're making a mistake here don't don't put he says you want to rely on somebody why don't you first put this somebody to the test can they absolve themselves from Death can they absolve themselves from their inevitable death can they save themselves from it from dying if he can save himself from dying like I can't save myself from dying says what are you relying me on me on go to the one that decid death or life or or or life go to the one that said and created the world that spoke and created the world don't rely on anybody that cannot even save themselves from Death if they can save themselves from Death how could they save you meaning yeah of course you have to go to the of course you have to go to the to ask for answers to know what to do and how to do it but never ever pray to the no matter who they are including from and unfortunately that's the mistake we sometimes make because of ignorance because of I don't know passion uh that's uh overweight on certain things people make mistakes for different reasons the key is to understand that a wrote the Tor for us to serve him not a person dead or alive if a person serves hem he'll never go wrong if he serves a rabbi no matter how righteous that Rabbi is he'll always go wrong and he'll have a very very difficult time fulfilling the basics of Torah I don't mean the basics like keeping Shabbat keeping keeping keeping that's not the basics yeah it's Basics but it's not the basics the basic I mean Basics understanding that a is the one that's giving you the problems and he also possesses the solution that when you have a test of parasa don't think that you have to cheat or steal or do anything illegal just pray to hasem you have a problem finding a z don't think that you have to do something crazy to go find a z just pray to Hashem everything and anything you need just pray to hem and you'll get it I know it sounds overly simple I know it sounds a little crazy but it works and just for the sake of a little taste of how it works on a day-to-day basis I always tell you guys that if you ever want Miracles just ask me and I'll give you one from today so and we'll finish with this point then you guys could ask any questions you want after the success of this recent uh trip to New York one of the guests at the the uh the lectures apparently works for a school so she went back to the school and she told them that uh it's a very motivating sh I really need to be invited to come speak at the school and the school called me and they invited me to come speak there next week next Tuesday beem and queens in front of a few hundred high school kids and to try to give him some to understand that there's there is a reward and Punishment in the world but nonetheless it's a uh it behooves us to go for the reward and not the punishment and tell them the story tell them the uh interesting things that happen in a day-to-day life and these people all go to a religious school but apparently some of the foundation needs a little so we're going to uh to New York next week we're going to try to arrange a couple of more lectures at night to different places but as my Rabbi told me the of this last generation is money it's constantly money and anytime you mention to people money all of a sudden Everything Changes you ever want to know how strong your friendship is with somebody put money in front of you you'll see how weak it is not how strong it is you ever you want to see a marriage how strong or weak it is once there's money problems everything changes if it's a strong marriage money will not change it if it's a weak marriage money will end it money unfortunately is a very very big test for this generation that's why some of the guys that have been contacting me for the last couple of weeks about the uh the cash advance business they have a big test they agree and they know that everything that was said is 100% right but unfortunately still big test why they now have to replace $200,000 a year income it's not so easy to replace that kind of income when you don't have any special skill some are even making more point being is that money is a constant test now if you preach Christianity or a Christian version of Judaism which means that you just tell people what they want to hear instead of what to says then money is not a test why people will pay you to give them more reasons to sin tell them that they're allowed to smoke marijuana even though T says no tell them they're allowed to gamble even though says no tell them they're allowed to cheat even though the Torah says no tell them they're allowed to be with non-jews even though Torah says no tell them a lot of things Tor says no but you tell them like for example this m guy wrote a book about how we should be Toler tolerant and welcoming of homosexuals even though the Torah says it's an abomination in fact he wrote a book about it so much so that the rabbi there's a few rabbis in the UK right now his talim that are giving entire lectures about how we should welcome them with open arms and everything is great and don't even mention it like it's like oh they're they're just like everybody else he say what if he wants to be a rabbi let him be a rabbi wait the homosexual he wants to be Rabbi him and his boyfriend want to be Rabbi in in a I I saw this video I want to I want to vomit he says who are we to tell him what to do it's not us telling him what to do to us says what to do Hashem says not allow to be homosexual now the fact that you have this desire is one problem to make this guy the rabbi I mean that obviously shows means that you take this toah and you changed it you think it's toilet paper that's or unfortunately yes or unfortunately some rabbis say that you're allowed to smoke marijuana especially before you learned or they tell you that if your wife doesn't want to go and keep Shabbat and she wants to go to the beach instead is say I'll take her to the beach with the car all types of nonsense like this so people like this when they call when they say I'm going to charge $5,000 $10,000 for a lecture there's no problem paying them why because they work for the Satan Satan pays cash but now somebody that actually tells the truth says oh can you cover my expenses not even pay me cover my expenses already he's like oh wow you want you want to cover the expenses too the whole plane ticket the whole so what happens so we just stopped asking for anything why we don't want the to get involved at all if thinks that we need to get the money I'll send it one way or the other we're testing every trip every time and not only that we send them thousands of dollars worth of CDs for free so you're investing not not only you're not getting paid you're investing $5 $10,000 into the trip now if I still had the millions from the past this would be a big deal H well what do want C now but you don't have money to pay rent for one month and you're still doing it why because it's a test for yourself do you believe what you say or you're a faker like everybody else so now they told me come to New York I'm thinking to myself these 200 300 400 kids this may be their last chance to hear the truth who knows if I bring up the issue listen does anybody want to pay for my flight does anybody want to pay for the Uber you know it's not that much money you know talking about5 six $700 not money but whatever if I mention that that already leaves the door open for the why they're going to say yeah of course we could pay it and then they go to the treasurer they go to the treasurer oh listen we need uh $800 for Rabbi ruven who Rabbi ruen ruen are you crazy you're bringing that that that crazy guy here oh why because there's always an amalik in every situation especially the bankers especially the ones in charge of money so that's that you're leaving that door open so somebody says no him no he said something about the Holocaust and they'll mistranslate to misinterpret something that I said at some point over the last thousand lectures and guess what Trip's canceled so I asked my Rabbi and I already he said we don't ask for nothing guess what the second we decided thisat we decided this I get a text message one of my t he says rabbi did you uh book everything already in uh in uh in New York I said no we're still working on it said can I sponsor a lecture can I contribute I said yeah it cost money so anything you could do could help I think could help as I'm like I'm typing the response he sends the $1,000 exactly what it's going to cost to go to the trip without the CDs and everything else says who did me a favor first I'll pay cash right now what you did favor before me no you didn't go to New York I paid you before went why that's how works that's how Works he just wants you to say Aba I know it's a test it's you saying testing testing one two three it's you it's you AEM I know AB I know it's you so I got you I'm on to you I'm on to you ABA I'm on to you I know it's a test I know it's a test and you try your best to pass them you try your best to pass them how it's going to turn out what's going to happen after only hasem knows but Hashem knows about we're trying our best now questions a few people just left they missed the questions part go ahead mute now want me turn off the camera so you guys start question yeah go ahead so the Ten Commandments has the first three first three Commandments tell us that is very strict when it comes to how you serve him meaning that you can't serve him your way you have to serve him his way so there's several places in the Torah that talks about something called Yeshua where a person has to be focused a person has to be in a state of mind that of clarity that they could fulfill the first three Commandments of the 10 that to acknowledge that Hashem took us out of Egypt to acknowledge that there's no God other than God there's no idols and to also not use his name in vain like for example say aem's name for no reason like saying like Mikey and John and all types of names and treat AEM as if he's not AEM and Hashem showed us this what happens when somebody fails nowon had four sons all four of his sons were extremely righteous two of them nadav and a were the best of the best so much so that the sages say they were in the level of Moshe and meaning the a were on the same level as M and and they were the best righteous everything is good but then the Tora says that one day they were celebrating with everybody else and they decided you know what let's do a mitvah let's go to the kesim and serve hem let's do a special offering for Hem Hem killed them why would Hashem killed such righteous people that they're not going out with girls they're not uh wasting seed they're not murdering anybody they're not doing what are they doing they're going to pray to hm in the highest level possible and instead of hm saying thank you what he say he kills them so say why so there's five different reasons of why hasem killed them reason number one they had a little drink before they went why they have a little drink because they want to get drugs said no we want to be happy we want to serve hem out of Happiness why because hm says in we'll see it in about a month and a half he says part of the punishment is because when you served me you didn't serve me with happiness part of the punishment is because you didn't serve me with happiness so they knew when we serve hem we have to serve him with happiness to be you know happy heart glad so you have a little drink have a nice little shot little tequila automatically you're happy right Hashem says that's not the kind of Happiness I'm looking for and if you think that's the kind of happiness that I need that I want you to be drunk that you need something physical in order to be happy Hashem says you've lost your right to live you lost your right to live why because you failed all three of the first Commandments you failed even acknowledging and understanding what your pointed in the world is and you actually think that you need anything else but the tah anything else but the T to be happy and that's the failure of this generation now MOS Feinstein Shalom writes mhe that somebody that smokes marijuana for uh you know for himself meaning not uh because of medicinal reasons if it's medicinal reasons then they have a leniency assuming they don't have any other option even people that use marijuana for medicinal reasons have a uh because of new Innovations they do have a uh a way to use the actual uh uh plant without getting high which is the CBD they can use the CBD and uh and use that for their health reasons meaning that they get the benefit of the drug or of the of the plant without losing their state of mind but anyone that still insists on smoking marijuana then they're violating the tah in many many different ways and Mos Feinstein says that a person that does such a thing would have been judged if it was the time of the SED 2,000 years ago would have been judged to the death penalty like a why why Ben because the Ben chooses to be Wayward chooses to be against everything even though he knows better he simply chooses to change his own reality chooses to overd drain chooses to overeat and so on and so forth so it's not that somebody is uh you know it's against his will no one is forcing you to smoke marijuana or take drugs so when a person chooses to lose their yeshu their their Clarity of mind then in essence they're obviously don't understand the purpose of the world and they don't understand that is literally here now if you were trying to apply for a job and a job is the best job in the world say it's GNA pay you a million dollars a day you're gonna work for some hedge fund you're gonna get a million dollars a day now of course you're not going to show up to the job with uh you know underwear and a t-shirt you're going to show up with your best suit you're going to show up with your best tie you may even borrow some money to get a nice suit and nice tie just to make sure that you look presentable to in order to get a job that gives a million dollars a day and when you see the guy you're going to shake his hand really firm how are you sir how are you ma'am how's everybody and all of a sudden you speak British you're like uh you know speak really well and everything is good you use all your dots and your ease and everything else and you have a business card even though you don't have a job and everything is changed why because you want the job you want the job so you have a business card but you don't have a job you have a business card with your name on it and your cell phone number on it and your mommy's address cuz you still live with EMA and you have that yes sir in case you need me it's me it's me so H what a company yeah something like that I'm an independent contractor and you all Psych top you give the guy the business card and you speak British all of a sudden and everything is good everything is fine because you want the job why because you're giving this guy that's interview or this woman that's interviewing a lot of Honor a lot of respect in order to benefit from them says how come you don't treat me like this I'm in front of you all the time I'm in front of you all the time how come you don't treat me like this how come you don't speak politely you don't have cover now when you pray you don't have the real intention to learn you don't wait for the answer to be given to you completely you walk out in the middle of the answer of the question that you asked how come did you really want to know the answer or did you want to find maybe I could uh use one of his words to just not listen how come because we all have and has many many tools and one of the most dangerous tools that has is confusion leading you to become confused but confused is confused by choice why confused by choice because you are spiritually lazy like says laziness that leads to tiredness what kind of tiredness spiritual tiredness you're tired of doing mitv because you're lazy you don't want to find out why should I do mitv why should I do ah it's too much for me so when a person is spiritually lazy and they don't want to listen to the whole answer they don't want to listen to the whole Shu they don't want to do the full mitvah they don't want to do all that stuff they're always going to have the excuse to justify their current behavior even though their current behavior is giving them a little bit of a bad feeling inside they know there's something wrong with it but they still continue why cuz ah it's too hard to do Chua for this one let me try to pick a easy Mitzvah let me try to pick a easy Mitzvah by the way for all of those people that are in a cash advaned business the law of not being allowed to be in a cash Advan business was in last week's par for anyone who didn't see it it says in chapter 20 25 verse 36 do not take interest and increase and you shall fear your God and let your brother live with you do not give him your money with interest and do not give your food for increase I am AEM your God is saying you're not allowed to lend Jews money with interest but he connects with it he says you have to fear hem what ises fearing hem and lending money with interest have to do with each other he says if you want to get out of the cash Advan business the only thing you need is fear of hem that's it that's all you need if you're afraid of hem you'll leave the business tomorrow no questions no what if I have a solution no what maybe I could find a different leniency maybe I could only deal with this type of client and I could be a discount broker nothing you simply get up leave why because you're afraid the God is going to put you in a place that no one can help you including him himself why it's his own laws so all you need to get out of that rotten vulturous business and any vulturous business is you have to be afraid of hm afraid that hem will punish you n in the this world in the next World in the next World and that's the thing that people need to have if you have you will have full Chu you don't have you won't have full Chu you won't even have half Chua you'll have nothing why because Chu is requires you requires fear of hem requires fear of hem when you're conducting business requires fear of hem when you're learning tah requires fear of hem when you're asking questions requires fear of when you're getting answers fear of hem is the beginning of all wisdom that's what David says that's what says that's what himself said there's many places in the Tor that hem talks about fear of hem why because needs you to know he's not your buddy he's not your buddy he's your father but he's also your king if you treat him that way you'll have a good relationship with him of very beneficial one if you don't and you treat him as if you're doing him favors with each uh you know each that you're learning with each that you're attending if each mitvah it's as if you're doing him a favor then guess what you're not going to get very far with your that's why it's require it's a required learning for each and every one of us to learn why should we fear AEM how could we serve AEM through fear and ultimately get to love hem but that doesn't make fear go away that just means that the love is on top of the fear it's not that it's either love or fear it's both or nothing meaning you start with fear and then you go to love not uh just love and then fear because in order to love AEM you have to fear Him First anyway we have the next year on uh Tuesday we're going to talk about the um the the letter that the ran wrote to his son and then uh Wednesday we have uh asking questions but if anybody has questions now oh yes okay so the Jewish is a world apart from the non-jewish um because even though he put a piece of himself in all of creation there is different pieces to the n and goes goes into it very deeply it's very cabalistic very mystical different different pieces of the point being is that the uh Jew is in essence the Jewish n is almost I guess the best way to compare it is that it's as if it's a different species so what is it like bri so what is it like for example you have a rock something that's exists but doesn't move doesn't have a life doesn't speak doesn't hear does nothing unless there's in it and then It suffers all day but anyway you have a rock after that the next level higher is a plant a plant okay so you have a plant that has a life has oxygen photosynthesis and different types of uh different types of things that go into it there are some plants that if you actually go and I could show you different pictures there are certain plants that look like human beings there's certain plants that have image of a skull certain plants look like ballerinas but not like it looks like it's m that certain plants look like animals there are beautiful beautiful Creations in the world that if you never saw it you should because you'd see how it's impossible that all of this came from a mistake like you literally see creation that's moving bodies people but in a plant form or a tree beautiful things or there's trees that bleed there's trees that bleed that if you cut them there's blood comes out of them wow all types of beautiful things there's actually a uh Seb sebag he uh he has a website called. il.com or something like that 430 I believe it is a fantastic if anyone if I got it wrong you could just text me and I'll send it to you he has a whole write up of beautiful things in creation similar to what we have in coin's books and things like that but he has some in English and uh he's actually a a uh engineer and a physicist like he's not coming from the rabinal world he's a scientist he's he's the highest of the highest he's a serious I don't know so now in his uh website he has pictures you see in other places but anyway he has a very nice website that he made and uh you'll see different beautiful Creations so the plants anyone that learns a little bit of plants it's called botonics I think you see that plants actually speak to each other to other creations uh when they actually uh put a connected a light detector to plants to test to see if they do anything they saw that when the plant hears something or even senses something it feels it shows an emotion for example one person came into the office and all of a sudden the plant got sad like it showed the indications that it got sad so the guy that tested it said what are you thinking what what' you say go No no no nothing he goes no no I need to know I'm testing something there's actually researcher he's connected to this test what do you think he goes well honestly I just took I looked at your plan I said ah my plant is nicer much prettier plant he goes wow this plant got offended by what you said the plant got offended by what you said there a book called The World of plants fantastic book and uh it shows different research and things like that anyway plants have a life obviously not the same as ours but if the kazal say in thear that if a person was able to hear the language of the plants he wouldn't be able to live and the reason why is because every time you cut a tree you're killing it and the tree is screaming and thear says that it's screaming so loud that you could hear its voice until the end of the world one tree here you cut in America they can hear him in China so say no I'm not going to use trees anymore okay don't use trees don't don't use plastic don't use uh you know air don't use animals don't use fruit don't use anything why cuz everything has feelings you cut a tomato Tomato's screaming tomato we're not talking about animals like you see it screaming it's a mo it doesn't like it no I'm talking about the little tomato you made your salad on tomato is screaming its lungs out but if you say it's okay not it's okay for you that you're eating it but the Tomato's still screaming it's not saying oh thank you very much for slaughtering me it's not saying thank you it still feels everything has feelings but that was why it was created the Tomato was created that way for a reason the plant was created that way for a reason the tree was created that way for a reason everything has feelings everything has a language when and when it says that they spoke 70 languages what does it mean they spoke 70 languages they even spoke the languages of the plants they spoke the language of the shedim the demons they spoke the language of the MIM crazy people autistic people uh people that have uh you know in to communicate they were able to communicate with them it's not just languages English Spanish Italian I know everything sounds the same no languages that are beyond our ability to even comprehend so now say that when you chop off a tree it screams when you take a plant meaning there's a life in it there's a life in it and the more you look into this Plant World you'll see that there is extraordinary extraordinary beauty in the creation but that also reminds all of these uh vegan type people that say I don't want to eat you know a uh cow or sheep or even a fish because I don't want to hurt animals and shows them why they're stupid and what they're saying is it's heresy because you're saying you don't want to hurt the cow because you think that you're more merciful than God because God says kill the cow in a in a Kosher Way God says kill the fish kill the uh lamb kill it he said why it was created for you but he said no no I want to be more merciful than God I want to be more merciful than God God says what you can't why because you're killing the Tomato you're killing the lettuce you're killing all the other Sal what do you think you're not killing them just because you don't hear it doesn't mean that it's not causing some type of Anguish and pain it's like these people that are uh you know they they want to Pro abortion they Pro abortion they want to kill little babies innocent babies because they can't see it oh if I can't see the baby cuz he's still on the mommy's belly therefore it's allowed to kill it why you allowed to kill the baby if the baby comes out you're not allow kill it yeah it's murder some states actually say it's even not murder if you kill it right away but when a person when a person has an abortion it's 100% murder now the problem is that people say m I didn't see the baby so why if you didn't see it now when a person when a person when a person is understands you have the D which is the rock then you have the plant after which is the after that you have the living the living is like animals all types of animals you have the cow you have the horse you have the dog all the animals that you see the animals also have a life they also have something called neish nefes is required for everything to exist everything has neish everything has a part of a soul in order for it to exist without it you couldn't exist that's what in essence you could say scientifically you want to like draw this up in your mind if you have a scientific mind that that neish is what makes the atom spin because in reality anyone that looks into creation sees that 99.9% of all creation is empty space it's just atoms spinning really really really fast and the only reason you see things as solid is because they're spinning so fast just like if you saw a uh a uh fan spinning really fast it looks like there's a single blade but in reality there four or five or six because it's spinning really fast looks like there's a single blade same thing with creation it looks solid it feels solid because the atoms are spinning so fast what's causing them to spin that's the nees if you will that's the part of the soul that gives creation a living then there is humans Adam just a simple human being not a Jew non-jew he also has something above the uh the animal which is is called d he speaks so he's not only living but he also speaks speaks in a language that you could you and I can understand if the cow says moo to you it just sounds like a noise but if he if a guy says to you how are you then it sounds a you know it's a human being talking to you so the do has is much higher than an animal because it could serve AEM to a higher level it can learn toah it could understand it could comprehend it could make certain decisions to go against God and go make decisions to go for God the animal can't really do this stuff because it works off of instinct for the most part and the only times that animals go against creation is when the acts of man lead it to for example the generation of no the animals went against creation and therefore hasem destroyed them because the sins of man affect everyone in creation whether it's the Rocks the ground the animals the birds the fish the everything and therefore the create the rest of creation started going against the creator also and therefore also destroyed them so now the person that speaks has the ability to influence creation and then there is the Jew the Jew has a higher level than anything else in the world but at the same token as I said in the beginning of this sh that high level of n has a very very serious a very serious consequences if it does not follow the law as said your descendants will be like the stars or the dust if they serve hem they will be greater light to Creation than all other beings if they go against theem they'll be lower than the Rock they'll be dust they'll be lower than the rock why no okay why why why this way because the Jew does not have an option of going up and down in creation and writes in he writes the Jew is unlike any other creation every one of the other creations once it leaves the world can go down to a lower one what or can increase meaning that it could go up and down in creation the Jew cannot so for example the plant grows on Top of the Rock on top of the ground and the animal the animal the living eats the plant in order to sustain itself and the man eats the plant eats the animal or in the plant in order to sustain itself but the Jew cannot be like this if the Jew that means that there's also a reverse possible as well the Jew doesn't have this possibility if the Jew is not a righteous Jew it just simply ceases to exist it doesn't become a non-jew the Jew does not become a do a regular person it doesn't become an animal it doesn't become a plant doesn't become a it becomes nothing it becomes worse worst worst thing in the world and that's why gives them such a high reward but also such a high punishment so to answer the question directly is the soul of a Jew and a non-jew are not the same at all they're a world apart just like there's a difference between the cow and the human being there's a difference in the soul in the spirituality of a righteous Jew and even a righteous non- Jew even if the non-jew is righteous he could be righteous sad great perfect but in comparison to a righteous Jew they're World apart they're con their inevitable Heaven is World apart and so on and so forth same thing with punishment punishment is a world apart but that also gives the nju the ability to upgrade themselves whereas the Jew cannot downgrade themselves they could ruin themselves but they can't downgrade themselves and still stay in existence the non-jew can become a Jew the Jew can never become a non-jew they can act like one but can they can never become a non-jew can never take out the Judaism out of a Jew so as far as the MIT of Judaism the mitv of the Tor there are mitv for the Jews that are only for the Jews and there are mitv for the non-jews that even the Jews can't fulfill but nonetheless there are mitv that only the non-jews can fulfill and the Jews can't fulfill each one needs to focus on their own obligation and not try to piggy back off of the other unfortunately what I'm seeing a lot today is that a lot of non-jews like Judaism and they decide to live a half a Jewish life meaning they fulfill whatever mitv fit their uh fit their desire and uh whatever they don't fit their desire they don't do it in essence they're living a life that is like semi- Jewish without the conversion this is a problem because if you don't have the right direction you may not know that you're actually fulfilling certain that you're not allowed to fulfill there's certain mitv you're not allowed to fulfill even more so there's certain mitv that would be considered as if you are creating your own religion and if you create your own religion whether it be Christianity Islam or your own ABC religion because you took a few from the Tora you decided to adopt them into your life even though you're not allowed to do them it's a death penalty from heaven so you think that you're going to get a reward for it but in reality you're getting a punishment for it so for example it's I don't believe it's punishment but nonetheless a Jew is the only one that's allowed to say why because it literally says here oh Israel this is specifically a verse of the Torah that is talking to us directly we're talking to or directly which by the way anyone that read the ales that we just published saw my the raban is a something that a person is supposed to say before they go to sleep and also before they die the reason why is because the raban says that the says that sleep is 160th of death says when you go to sleep it's partial death your a big part of it leaves so it's partial death which is also the reason why you say thank you for bringing back my why because in reality you were dead you were dead now you're alive again and before you go to sleep before you before you go to sleep permanently which means dying you have to say you have to try your best to remember constantly your whole life after to why so there's many reasons the say says a fantastic says what are you really saying when you say what are you really saying hereo Israel God is one I'm is God is God what does it mean God is come back to God is stop going with theim stop acting like a Christian stop acting like an Arab stop acting like a Greek stop being like theim and be a Jew why because God is the only God there's no other God not in your business not in your home not in your anything is only one God meaning that a Jew is not only supposed to remind himself that God is one but he's also supposed to remind his brothers and sisters and what beauty of a mitvah to finish your life with that you can go up to sh and you're gonna have all your MIT come with you and you have one mitvah to present to the bed sh and says look at this one my last Mitzvah on Earth was what doing helping come back to you that's aah that's going to defend you in that's a nice mitvah why so the point is is that a person say he is connecting to AEM but a Jew has to do it not a non-jew why because this is a specific mitvah for Jews there are certain things that non-jews can say you are allowed to say kadish on a non-jew you're allowed to say kadish on a non-jew you're allowed to say kadish on some that's not your parent in fact some are of the opinion that every Jew should do kadish every day even if it's not your parents even if it's not your brother or sister you should do kadish every day meaning males guys should should read kadish every day why because what are you doing with kadish you're sanctifying aem's name and if you're doing it for somebody that passed away in essence you're helping their you should doish all the time you shouldn't just wait for your uh somebody loved one to die you should look at this regardless some say no let's just focus on the ones that have their parents because you know for different reasons but the point being is that you're allowed to say kadish for someone that's your relative you could say kadish for someone that's not relative and you could even say kadish for someone that is a not that's not even Jewish but as far as a non-jew reading kadish who is he reading it to he can't go to sh if he's not Jewish he can't go to sh because he's not it's not what it's not his not his obligation he wants to pray on his own he wants to pray on his own at home or with a group of people there's no problem with it but the ideal way to pray for non-jews is your own words why because the said the the structure of is part of Judaism it's not part of the rules of the rest of the world so even though there are some smart people that decided to create a book for non-jews to follow some type of structure for prayer this was not this is not the opinion of the sages you don't see any or you know any anyone in the time of the r or Rashi or the that wrote a for it's not they dislike it's just simply they don't need it they could pray better with their own words what's happening what's happening is that a lot of people are discovering Judaism because of the internet is spreading Judaism all over the world in order to reach these special that want to become Jews but some people are spiritually lazy and they want to convert without conversion they want to keep whatever they feel like it so they start creating their own version their own religion and unfortunately of course there's always somebody that calls himself a rabbi that's going to appease them and enable them to do things that are not for God that are against God and tell them to keep Shabbat even though T says not to keep Shabbat if you're not Jewish the rambam says that a that keep Shabbat is death penalty in heaven so so they think they're going to go to heaven with a with a reward they're going to get a penalty for it and the reason why is because when you keep Shabbat you are stealing the present that gave to and for stealing for a Jew that steals he has to return double for a guard that steals it's death penalty so when all of these people are doing mitv that do not belong to them they're making a mistake that's why there is actually a section of yut that's not sold with a set I would recommend it for all not Jews to uh to read it for themselves the the son of just put out a book in English probably in the last year part of Y that is specifically for non-jews it's all the for njws you want to know how to be a righteous non-jew read that learn how even though they invested time and effort into the n Jewish World you don't have to go anywhere else you don't have to go by the uh this uh guy uh David something and he wrote the world of the G complete full of or other people that wrote all types of books that there's no real dot to in it it's their dot it's their opinion you have to make sure that you're gonna stick with you have to go to the why because if you follow to good you'll have eternal payment if not go ahead you have a question what do you do someone somebody like this you send them this you and tell them listen if you don't want to watch the all two hours three hours of it watch the last uh 20 minutes I get the book you can get them the book but you probably you should give them this the lecture first I have several lectures for non-jews on the internet um and uh you could send you could send me a text I'll send them to you about why non-js are not allowed to keep Shabbat I deal with a lot of non-js and I help a lot of them I think they're fantastic people some of the uh best supporters of am non-jews righteous non-jews not talking about Christians can you please stop please you're distracting the whole time please stop stop interrupting interrupt you're interrupting you're you haven't stopped interrupting since the minute you came in here please stop so they can go to the store and buy this is not a store yes go to the store and buy you're doing which is worse than de my friend it's worse than is cre the toora by by interrupting the lecture why do you come why do you come why you every Shield you come you interrupt don't come please do me a favor every sh does not stop bothering come on you're interrupting the whole time you're talking to him he can't listen to five minutes already you're bothering him then the people then the this all of a sudden you're volunteering other people's property who said to give people's water he thinks he's doing aah this is a mitvah you don't learn from you're giving other people's property to somebody else who said to give it to them where did you learn to what are you doing what's the matter with you you talking you you you you you have to stop stop what stop what what did I do I give him water it's your water not to give him your it's not your water you just stole why because you are interrupting the has to stop for you constantly okay anybody any more questions yes questions uh first question is we see that the respect thews when thews behave can why are the against Mia and the je people at that because not all the go are G jump for jump on board many of the go are going to go against the toah like they are right now they're promoting idolatry they're promoting stealing they're promoting promiscuity they're promoting all the things that are against the tah the majority of them are not righteous there are few that are righteous but most of them are not righteous so the few that are righteous will be saved the majority that are not righteous will be destroyed I've learned that that when mashiah comes you're pretty much going to be stuck wherever you are but then I've also learned that you're going to go higher and higher can you please leave can you please leave can you please leave Al can you please leave can you please leave you are distracting everyone here it's coming to learn to you are distracting you are distracting okay go to Gom with all the people that believe it go please so the person that has this believes it he doesn't yes he does okay he told me today can he told you today please can you please go can you please go you tell people to go to house can you please go no I'm telling you to leave just telling you to leave can you just please go because I pay for the place I don't want you to be here I pay cash yes I pay you call right now no I pay him go please leave you are distracting everyone else here k please leave please leave please leave you never come you never come please just you are distracting distracting everybody else everybody else cannot learn with you be here any more questions that are actually uh what to what I'm sorry he distracted me uh what are we going to be stuck wherever we are keep going higher Ander well you're yes or no certain your your bad mid do will stay with you your knowledge of Torah will increase so yes or no if somebody leaves this world with a filthy mouth a filthy ideology they have a very serious problem because that stays with them for example when Shalom they uh spoke to the Dead different people that were deim it's called they go the spirits that go into different bodies that are living and uh he saw that people were constantly cursing and he asked them how come you still cursing even though it's not allowed in the Torah and you're in the world of truth how could you still curse knowing that it's not allowed and you're surrounded by truth he says it's it's it's not even a something that I can control anymore I died with a filthy mouth and therefore I'm going to have a filthy mouth permanently so there are the bad character Trace like rudeness and disgusting behavior and things like we saw tonight in ISU from this person and every time we see him that is unless they do chuva that doesn't go away but things that are uh good for example if a somebody has good mid somebody has to that can increase that can improve but nonetheless a person needs to know that it's not a picnic Hashem is not going to do the work for you meaning if you are only going to learn T like a first grader for the rest of your life then you're not going to be able to learn with why you have nothing to do with him but if you toil and you work hard like R AA did you can learn R AA it's not a matter of how much you achieve it's a matter of how much you try how much you try to do Chu if you're spiritually lazy no power in the world can help you other than yourself if you're going to try your best to do your best to control yourself to improve your uh your your status and and your knowledge and so on and so forth then you will only benefit in this world and the next but in essence the uh mashia is not the only time that a person should consider these things because no one is guaranteed tomorrow if a person dies that's no different than mashia because Judgment Day is right there and then and uh unfortunately what most people don't realize is that judgment thing can happen any day like it happened to somebody that I know just a few days ago and a few people that I know a week ago and a lot of people that you know meet their maker you know sooner than they thought you know a person needs to know that you know all the and all the desecration of hm's name and all the sins that they have to you know they're not going to have all the time in the world to fix it they have to fix it sooner and when a person doesn't take this into account and acts like an animal eventually they're gonna have to pay for it it's not about being a Dean it's just this is this is what it says in the tah yes mention how suffering why don't we for suffing why don't we pray for suffering because you get it anyway and we're not you get suffering regardless most of life is suffering the vast majority of people suffer throughout most of their day regardless you wake up early not because you like waking up early you wake up early because you have to do something that you don't really feel like doing if you had the option but you have to go work you have to go make money and you don't really feel like working you don't feel like it would make money you if you were up to you just sit on the beach all day but most of what we do is suffering we eat certain foods because we don't want to get sick we uh do a lot of different things that we do and to us it's suffering uh we have problems Financial issues marriage issues child children issues uh in essence life is full of suffering that doesn't mean that life is bad it just means that life is constantly a uh mission for you to overcome different obstacles in order for you to soften your character in order for you to become less materialistic less dependent on the physical world and more connected to the spiritual world this is part of the reason of why we fast several times a year not just on Yip but also on and different times during the year because wants you to designate several days a year to lower your dependence on physicality on on the materialism of the world and even on the uh benefits of materialism in the world why because this when you're not connected to material when you're not connected to material this leaves some type of empty space if you will soem says use that empty space to connect to me get that same satiation that same Satisfaction by praying to me by learning and so on and so forth and that's why many they do something called T is a fast of speaking they don't speak for several hours either every day or throughout the whole week depending on the person in order to again limit their satisfaction from the world if you will you're allowed to benefit from the world but when a person wants to get to a higher level they in essence disconnect from materialism now the suffering that a person brings on himself has a lot of value even more value than suffering that goes onto him without his will meaning if he has financial problems or health issues and so on and so forth but if he elects to bring suffering on himself it's much more valuable the problem is is that most people cannot even handle their own suffering that they're getting without asking for it let alone asking for it and the reason why I know this is because when was the last time that somebody got hurt and they said you know a person gets hurt for example I remember that uh oh let's skip that actually different times in my life I had B lots of suffering and and um the test if you will the test changed Direction change direction once I understood that suffering has a value now I didn't I didn't ask for the suffering I didn't ask for the pain I didn't ask for the surgeons to investigate my body without anesthesia I didn't ask a uh you know the the me to have the uh screaming and yelling every single day my lungs out 24 hours a day for many many years I didn't ask for this but the test changed once I understood that this suffering has a value why because now instead of saying ow and Every curse in the book I would say but why because I know that this suffering is going to help me avoid much greater suffering that I can't even comprehend in a much much diff more different world so it helps a lot to understand that suffering has a value it also gives a meaning to life a lot of people that have uh Jacob please leave leave leave leave leave Jacob leave leave leave I have to ask you three times or four times can you please both leave For Heaven's Sake can you please both leave somebody's asking you to leave okay now what them you don't want to leave Jacob leave because I said so leave leave somebody's asking you to leave leave that's what we call selfishness desecration of the Torah and practically every sin in the book you could find a source for it from these two morons a whole room of people has to stop learning tah because they want to play with a phone and go back and forth and voluntee other people's stuff and they think it's aah in the name of in the name of somebody I don't understand where do they learn Torah from the the toilet room the the the bathroom people have no midot whatsoever they don't even know how to be human beings somebody tells you that leave leave somebody tells you stay stay somebody tells you just don't understand how difficult is this I'm not I'm not really sure what's going on with people I'm not really sure what's going on with people I feel like this these sh for a waste of time a waste of time if this is how the world is this is how people going to behave regardless what's the point of teaching just give me a cave I'll go with the the cave leave lock the cave once in Fr that's it everybody goes to G don't get know what's the point of teaching if people going to stay animals what's the point what's the point two years the kids coming to a shoe hasn't learn a single thing if that's not enough this this other guy comes and interacts and and the whole sh I'm watching both of them and not only they're interacting TR in front of me it's the first row like you don't even have enough bush enough enough enough enough uh embarrassment to do it in the back of the room right first row the whole time they're playing with the phone the whole time going back and forth getting up getting down getting up getting down even animals don't have such Behavior I used to have a dog 16 years when I used to first start doing giving shim he sat quiet the whole time you see it in the shim sometimes you hear some a bark because you wanted to go outside I asked the original shim five six years ago some once in a blue moon you hear a bark and I would tell somebody from the shield do me a favor open the uh door so you go outside and uh take care of his business but he was there for two hours quiet the dog the dog was quiet but the human beings can't be quiet what's the point if this is where we're at I can't help people like this if this is where we're on in the world today you cannot I mean the M no no Cav no nothing forget about me for you people not even enough decency to just say you know what I'm I must be bothering other people there's other people in the room I must be bothering them because they're here to listen to the sh at 11 12:00 at night not to see me with my uh you know clothes that look like I found in a garbage pale and my behavior that's also from the garbage pale but this is if this is what the world has come to if we're going to stay the same please tell me if no one here wants to do CH everybody's going to stay the same tell me I'll save myself the time I suffer anyway I suffer anyway only people that see my house know how much I suffer every day all day every day I suffer it's m a miracle that I'm here you guys have no idea how much I suffer every day the amount of pain that I have to go to physically every day to make it here is going to make your your your life seem like G gun eded the amount of suffering that I have to go to just to make it here just to make it I look like a uh Lion in front of you guys I scream I yell I feel like I look a million bucks the second sh is over the second I get home I go back to suffering the amount of suffering that I have to deal with just to get here is is enormous it still makes my past like ganeden but the amount of suffering that I have to go to just to get here it's unimaginable the least you can do is just listen take into account you want to listen don't listen but don't disrespect the rest of the people are trying to listen don't disrespect the rest of the people are trying to do cha try to fix themselves people act like animals for what go in the zoo go to the zoo and act like an animal why do you need to act like an animal here you you found you lost all the places in the world what the Florida zoo is not welcoming anybody at 10 o00 at night the homeless shelter is not welcoming anybody at night the church is not welcoming anybody at night I don't understand people have zero zero ability to just comprehend what damage they cause other people and instead of being quiet he's trying to egg me on try to make me angry what angry you think I'm going to be angry at some fight it's just we're losing Torah time we're losing Torah time there's a few new people that want to learn Torah want to change their life instead they have to look at an embarrassment of Judaism because they're wearing keep by the way guys that's not Judaism just so you know I don't care what how manys you can have 500s that's not Judaism that's not Judaism don't ever think for a second that's a version of Judaism that's not even reform is like that even the reformed people have more respect for each other even the Christians have more respect for each other you're never going to see go to a church and you're going to see people do this never why they'll crucify not right next to their fake God you speak in church they'll crucify you right next to Maria right next to Jesus right next to all the other Idols they have over there what not allow it's just simple simple manners simple manners if we're not going to have simple manners for what do we have this sh for for what why you you think you're G to get me because you keep Shabbat you think you get you're gonna get G because you keep kosher hasm doesn't need your kosher doesn't need your Shabbat the whole point of of the the says is to fix you as a human being fix you as a human being if you're not going to be fixed as a human being it's all garbage you could do every mitvah in the Under the Sun you don't become a decent human being according to's definition all waste says for what did you live for what did you live the mitv that's supposed to soften you make you a better person but instead of being a better person where he say oh no you are this and you are that he starts arguing with me like we're having a debate or he starts giving away stuff that doesn't belong to him this is this please please don't ever think that's Judaism this is the we're fighting against all our life this is what we're fighting against that's the enemy that's the disag cretion of the Torah that's G T has a story about the prophet Elisha Elisha Elisha his Rabbi was never died you see it in the that when it was time for him to go who didn't kill him what did he do he took a wind and a chariot brought him up to heaven he turned him into a Mal turned him into a angel and Alisha his student took over as the prophet of the generation Elisha was and one time a contacts Alisha saying that uh he wants him to heal him and Alisha told him to go to the river and dip in the river and the King thought that he was making fun of him so he didn't want to go until his servant said listen you already tried every other medicine you already already tried all the other you know Wise people of the other nations why don't you try the wise people person of the Jews if he's you're already here might as well go to the river what's the big deal he went to the river and as he went into the river everybody saw him naked and his whole body was full of disease his whole body was full full of of a disease called Sarat and everybody was like you know like you know when you see something disgusting you're taking back when you see something painful you're taking back combine both of them multiply by thousand that's what he had awful awful disease that's both spiritual and physical at the same time G in this world so they saw him take off his clothes they saw all of his servants were like taken back he went into the water he got up out of the water everybody sees him like a baby disas gone completely gone he goes back toishi says thank you very much now I know you're a man of God I want to convert my myself and my whole nation I want to become Jews I want to become am become part of this is the type of strength that your God has I want to become a Jew and I'll convert my entire nation welcome welcome she said oh I'm a king I'm rich let me give you something we said no we don't take any money we do what we do because it's hashem's will we're not taking any money for it we told you the Cure because gave us the to do it and we did it not because you're gonna pay us nothing we don't want anything from you in fact he said even more impressed you did all this not even for cavod not even for Honor not even for money not like there's really no reason for you to do this it's even more impressive I'm converting my whole people to you he leaves he starts walking half a mile away all of a sudden the servant of Elisha catches up to him guy by the name of gazi now gazi wasn't a fool G was had a beard reached the floor stal everything he had a you know how many used to do used to teach what his Rabbi is the prophet when the rabbi is not giving a sh who's giving a shoe is giving a shoe it's not like just some nobody some homeless guy with a uh with a hump no was had a lot of in him his his Rabbi is the prophet you know how much tah he knew you combine all of the world's Torah today he knew more than them that's how much know but the says has no share of the world to come where is he now he's in G will never leave why because Ki liked money a little bit just a little bit he had a little a little germ for money so he chased this King caught up to him Hey listen my Rabbi Alisha he's kados he's holy he's too holy to say yes when you offer him some money but between you and me he's so humble he's so pure he's so good he's not going to say yes but really he should you should give him something you should give a few suits few nice suits few nice things good the king says of course give him suits give him a few no problem but in his mind he said of course no problem but in his mind the value of Elisha the value of is the value of T and the value of himself just dropped down why cuz now it has a price your God has a price your people have a price your Torah has a price your Prophet has a price your Rabbi has a price once he has a price I can pay for it I can buy it so you know what I'll just be a noahide I'm not going to convert still righteous but I'm not going to convert when Aisha saw gazi come back he told him what' you do he told them well actually you knew it already from prophecy Elisha said the curse that was on him will be on you and all of your descendants and your suffering will never end his own Rabbi curs them to no end why look how many lives you destroyed by this this guy would have converted every single second of his life would have been a mitvah those mitv were going to honor hem honoring hasem is the only purpose of creation now he's not going to do it that's God his wife would have converted too how many thought you going to do honor hasem that's gone the kids gone the grandkids gone the great grandkids gone the descendants of the grandkids the descendants of the nation look how many MIT and opportunities to sanctify A's name at the highest level possible are now missing why because you wanted to interrupt cuz you wanted to tell people your opinion cuz you wanted to get involved be interactive give your own peace of mind even though it was not asked for so Alisha says you cause such a desecration to hashem's name and just like the greatness will never cease to will never come to the world the suffering will never end either why because his good his Mercy is extraordinary beyond our imagination but so is his wrath it comes together all of the people that want to ignore that part are just living an illusion an illusion all you got to know as far as see wrath go watch the video I I recommend it to you guys about the Holocaust look at the millions of dead bodies on the floor of our brothers and sisters if that's not wrath what's Wrath go to the hospice center local hospice center any hospice center and just walk bed by bed bed by bed and just hear their screaming and yelling right before they die go go oh no better yet you want to go to the cancer go to the cancer Place go to the hospital go to the cancer unit hear them get the chemo hear them get to the chemo and suffer go to PE go to the ICU I spent months and months in the ICU I spent months to the ICU sometimes I want to check myself again just to deal with the day go to ICU go see how we scream really really loud there from the pain what do you think that is what do you think that's a bonus what do you think that's a present it's pain wrath exists punishment exists yes there's always something good that comes out of every bad but it doesn't mean that the bad is not bad doesn't mean a Gom doesn't exist and people that want to live this imaginary life we just pray for them to do chuv or that will judge them as a as a crazy person because a crazy person is not obligated to fulfill the entire tah so please if you're going to support K if you're going to publicize the T If You're Gonna Come listen to the Torah and learn but if you're not going to do any of them if you're not going to support it if you're not going to publicize it you're not going to learn it you're not going to apply it to your life please do am is a favor not me do am is a favor don't come don't come don't say anything go do whatever it is that you do in the world I don't know go in the woods go in a park go play with lions go play with fire go play in moving traffic for all I care it makes no difference to me I'm trying to help the people that want to help themsel that's really I'm trying to do I'm sacrificing my life and my family's life to help people that want to help themselves that's it so at the very least a person can do is don't interrupt don't get in the way why there's already enough that's difficult we don't need anymore and this also answers your questions why we don't ask for suffering because it already comes automatically even in the middle of a Sho so all of us learn something from this learn something that we have a goal in the world we have an objective in the world there's a way to do it there's a way not to do it I understand that everybody has an ego and everybody wants their time to shine but this is not it here we come here to learn to do to change am [Music] n [Music] n [Music] [Applause] [Music]