Trust in Someone and Change Their Life

so I'm on a date with my wife and spot and this tall blonde like a Hasidic man who's clearly was not born or raised Jewish neither had any Jewish parents but a Hasidic man with like long blonde pass and he walks up to my wife and I interrupts us and he says I want you to know that you saved my life and I was like I never seen you before my life like I saved your life he said yeah he said he was raised a Christian American and he got destitute and like burned all his bridges and like I meet his family didn't trust me he must have been it must been drug related and like he'd already stolen from family members like he burned every Bridge he had of trust and you should know Trust is the key to everything once you burn trust bridges it's very hard to come back and that's why a lot of these places where kids at risk come like the whole point there is to develop trust and trust and trust until they can get their trust back and this is also very important for parents it's never let your kids know you know they did something wrong you never let your kids know that keep it as good as secret as you can and I feel so bad for kids whose whose kids whose who have bad Mahon him or bad administrators of the schools which they're called min ha hell the guy from hell yeah or min ha helis yeah so anyway when anyone who's some of these hellish people they like to call the parents and say Oh your kids busted man come on in we're got your kid in the office Aaron and everything you know in your shall I am the minute he'll ones calling me about something my kid did and he calls me in I'm like okay great what'd you do to him he says he doesn't know I know this it has what do you mean these guys we're not gonna let him know we know he did this and don't you let him know keep him at Sadiq in everyone's eyes yeah you want to always be at Sadiq in everyone's eyes you want your kids to be at Sadiq in everyone's eyes even if they're living a double life yeah until it's time to finally get real with them let them at least hold one side that's good and the eyes of others it's really really really important to have that that sadiq in the eyes of people you know I over the years before all you FF B's came to the outreach community back when there used to be ballet chuva coming around so in those days meaning this whole room would be like stuffed with people who didn't know outfit but yet they're like they're already nem money Minh conscious cuz they're like they're just they got it like they got it they don't know what to do yet they don't know which arm to put there to fill in on but they got it and they're in and they really aren't and you can meet them today like 20-30 years later and they're like totally from and like marrying off kids and like you know amazing people so so I used to once in a while tell some of my students back then I used to say you don't want your fruit today and he's like well not really and I said meaning people were close to me and I said the reason from today is because I always treated you as if you were because I know what you were up to for about a half a year when you got to Asia to her I know everything you were up there I told him just for fun meaning now he's it's like ten years later he's like what do you know he's got a gambling ring and he was smoking on Chavez and that he was this thing and he was bad he was doing all kinds of crazy stuff and he and I said I'm just gonna treat you like you're the holiest man I ever met and you stayed long enough that it you just start getting traction you start getting traction with that and after a while you just kind of started shedding these things these other behaviors it's just that I haven't be in touch with some worries from so I knew everything he was up to and he just started shedding all this stuff until he just shed it completely but we love ourselves when we're holy we lovers of that day after Yom Kippur we love that so treat people that way treat people that way and be with them a lot and out-out be with them be with him a lot people who are needing your help be with them a lot such that you're out doing the people who are not so good for them until they just start to love that side of them so much that they shed the side that brings the negative feelings because whenever we're not good it always comes it comes with a price and the price is negative emotion whenever you're not good you always get negative emotion anyway so this this blonde Hasidic man whose life I saved no I never seen before he's interrupting my wife and I on our date thanked me for saving his life and I said why says well he burned all his bridges and he finally decide he's gonna kill himself so he first went to the priest to let the he wanted to ask the priest what do you do do you know how do you go about killing yourself you know so the priest explained to him you know you gotta settle your affairs and stop you got to get everything done you know and you know you just can't leave everything open end and he says in anyway don't kill yourself till you go to Israel and visit Bethlehem and maybe you can maybe I'll have some kind of religious mystical moment and you won't kill yourself he's like fine I'll give it one last chance you know so he put it on the credit card in flew to Israel now what you think anything happened in Bethlem the only thing that ever happened in Bethlehem is like cars got stoned by Muslims or something on it I mean there was some incredible things have happened at Keffer awful in Bethlehem but other than that not much goes on at Bethlehem so Bethlehem was a total non-event and so he comes back to Jerusalem which is the way back to Tel Aviv to go kill himself comes back to Jerusalem and and while he's in Jerusalem he somehow I don't know how he did it but I don't know if the he like came up from the wall through the Jewish quarter maybe needed it of shwarma I don't know what happened but he wound up in this room total Gentile no Jewish connection at all winds up in this room now I am teaching the class and I noticed the guy but I wasn't paying that much attention was a room full of people and but what I did pay Jenner to do was the second I finished the class I remembered that I'm holding 14 thousand shekels cash that I've got to give my bank or they're gonna close my account cuz you can go into - in Israel you can go pretty deep but you can hit a point where your bank manager will actually phone you personally and tell you like you either put cash in there or closing your account what's your accounts closed like it's really hard to do anything in this country you don't want them closing your account so that's when you got to like pull out all the stops so I pulled out all the stops got the 14 thousand shekels cash which is a whole other amazing story of how that happened because because once you radiate something powerfully enough it just comes to you and there was no way fourteen thousand shekels cash was coming to me in any like natural way just move those jackets for those take that somehow there was no there was no natural way fourteen thousand shekels cash was coming but I just watched the video the secret anyone seen the video the secret there the book the secret it's just about radiating stuff in your life so my wife and I were watching this you know in our house on the computer is back when we were young we used to watch things and people ask me sometimes if I watch movies and stuff I'm like show me two free hours and I'll let you know if I watch movies but like I don't remember the last time at two three hours so now I've tried it on airplanes but I fall asleep during the first scene yeah I'm like a little baby in the back of a car when I travel on airplanes which is really not good cuz you know you could wind up arriving at night from a 12-hour flight and you've just slept 12 hours and so now you're totally off for like a week straight so anyway the why am I talking about airplanes right now oh we watched the secret so I tell my wife I tell my wife that I am right now radiating fourteen thousand shekels cash and the next day I'm studying with Micah verse in Asia Torah and we're learning together and I start giggling he's like what's so funny and I said to him he didn't know what radiating money was but I said when you're if you're gonna radiate fourteen thousand shekels cash don't go to a yeshiva to study like find somewhere else to go that maybe give God a chance man you've got a chance to bring you the miracle you know but you don't just like go sit and learn tomorrow morning the bank's gonna close them for you know or whatever is gonna close it to that day I don't know what's with Israeli bank hours I mean it's like that's got to be up that a cush job now weird hours write them in a bank closed at 2 or 1 and it's different each day so anyway so I started giggling and he I explained in what radiating was meanwhile this guy's tapped me on the shoulders guy sits behind me forever so I said what's up he says this morning I wake up and I realized that you had counseled my father like half a year ago and he left me a check for you very wealthy father he left me a check for you I put it in my dormitory drawer and just this morning I was like I woke up and I was like don't have a check for rabbi glazier and he hands through the check it wasn't fourteen thousand shekels man but it was a lie and the rest of the day just kept going like that tell us holding fourteen thousand shekels cash so I go to the class I teach in this class I got this big blonde guy who's like on his way out as you know and and at the end of the class I'm like IRA got about the bang minute I totally forgot about the guy which is par for the course for me so I can't remember this guy and then I gotta go to Bank but I remembered the end of class I'm like oh man how am I gonna do this guy to teach another class and then the bank was closing on the hour that class ended I had to go the other building teachers here so I look around the classroom and I'm like everyone's Jewish they're all here to learn I can't take anyone and then I see the guy in the back of that sorry is this essentials I see the Gentile in the back of the class and I'm like excuse me can we speak after class and he's like nope so I take this guy aside outside right in the lobby here and I'm just like listen this is fourteen thousand shekels cash just keeping the envelope take it to King George Street to Bank up holding this spot right there for you in the corner take it to Bank up Halim here's my account number I write my account number in the envelope I wrote my name down and I sent him sent him off to the bank I went each measure I never thought about it again and I figured as long as my bank manager didn't call me things good and then I never heard back from the bank manager so 10 years later for Gina I don't know how many years later I'm on this date with my wife and this blonde plus it pulls me aside to tell me the story that he was walking to the bank with 14 thousand shekels cash the person who handed it to him doesn't even know who he is all he knows is that he's been trusted by this rabbi and from there he rebuilt his life and he had his god experience