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Why Do Crushes Hurt?#crush #crushes #jewish #love

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that if only you will love me, you will like me, if only you will have a relationship with me and spend time with me, I am going to feel good. Why do crushes hurt so much? Why do we have so many crushes? Why do we get overwhelmed by crushes? Crushes are a tremendous lesson to teach you the voids that exist in your heart. When I have a void existing inside of me, I believe that if only you will love me, you will like me, if only you will have a relationship with me and spend time with me, I am going to feel good. But it's really a joke because the void is inside of me. And if you're the only one who could fill it, it means I will never be able to fill it. So next time you have a crush, go inward and ask yourself, "Wow, what is it inside of me that I really don't like that I think the other person is going to be able to fill?" And then you sew it.