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Um needless to say we're all very very
very
shattered very very very shattered.
It's the like the only word I could find
yesterday when I was by the Shiva by by
Eddie and the kids by Dalia's in Dalia's
home was the word like you know shooken
up is like a little is is a is an
understatement.
Um I still see her you know like right
there
in that seat that's open. It's like I
still see here and um
feel blessed. I feel honestly with all
the brokenness
I feel and I'm sure you all do as well.
Um so so blessed to go through this
world [snorts] and the people you meet
along the way. You know what a what a
what a humbling privilege it was
to mameish a humbling privilege
to have
I met I mean I met Dalia probably around
probably like 20 23 24 years ago when I
moved back here
and they were very involved then in
but learning with her on a consistent
basis she was kusid
she didn't miss
If if she did, it was probably because
she was running some some like silent
meditation retreat in in the negative or
something. You know what I mean? Like
each of you have so many different
personal stories with her and she was a
tremendous light. So it's very very very
difficult to move past the the the shock
the brokenness of of approaching of
dealing with such a loss. But I want us
all to remember something. When Dalia
was in this world physically, sheetsi
wasn't here when she was perfectly
healthy.
It's not, you know what I mean? She was
not, she wasn't really, she was one of
those namas that was very clear about
the fact that this is all temporary and
we're going to make it as beautiful as
possible. She was very clear about it.
It wasn't this inion of like uh
what, you know, is this all the reality?
Is this what we see? Is this really
everything? It was clear to her. She
lived that life.
So for us it's very hard. For her it's
she's with
like no Shila. No Shila. She's with all
the she was all theim that she cling to.
You know, this is a woman that was that
really took her
her own nisha's calling very very
seriously and I bless us all
uh in her memory but
to honor ourselves to
continue going strong and to have her
have her holiness her consciousness that
that consciousness that she lived
to escort us through life a little bit
stronger now that she's in and should
send our argu to that should send a lot
of
to Eddie and to the children and to the
whole family
and she'll forever be part of our
learning
>> she always was and she always will be
forever
but it hurts
it's very very difficult so that's why
we're going to learnish mata for the
rest this safer is going to be fully
leish mata and this safer as I was
telling I was trying to say I I said at
the shiva yesterday that um
I always like being a cohin besides at
her levia
because first of all I couldn't be with
the inside and also because the
microphone wasn't working but I said how
that I was looking at my WhatsApp at my
messages with her or you know that's
what we generally do when someone leaves
the world and the last message was um
Marilyn was actually a picture of Ayeka
and she said got it thanks and she sent
the payment you know that was the last
thing that I got and you'll see that
like I said to the family I never really
understood why she kept on coming to
this year or to any of these shirim I
didn't understand because I always felt
like she's she probably is looking at me
the whole time and saying you really
think this is as deep as it gets
you like even though she wasn't I'm
saying in my in my insecure mind that's
what obviously was was taking place
always feeling like she could have
taught everything we've learned until
now maybe not the Hebrew to English but
the concepts the concepts right the
pimius of what we're trying to say I
always felt that she she knows what I'm
trying to say so much better than what
I'm the way it's coming out
but if there had to be one eulogy to say
about it is that everyone gets asked
ayeka. Some people dance with the
question their whole lives and some
people avoid it. And she danced with
that question her whole life. Everything
we're learning, everything we're going
to be learning. Everything we've learned
so far,
everything that Rav Sasson has brought
up until now in this sa and we're only
doing the agdama so far. We're still in
the intro.
What's fascinating is that
the way we've been dashing out this
question ayata
it's very clear you know you wouldn't
say this to someone when they're alive
but it's very clear that Dalia li she
she was living with this with this
echoing question her whole life the more
that I'm hearing about her life before
any of us knew her the more it seems
mama like her whole life was this was
really living the name of the safer
So
and her dance and her her light her
spirit should make us right now it's
very sad but it should in the bigger
picture make us feel very happy filled
with gratitude that we got to walk the
streets of this Gilgu knowing a person
like that and
let's not wait until someone leaves the
world [snorts]
to talk about about how special they are
to us either. All right. Okay. In the
safer that you have, if if you have the
safer, [clears throat]
I realize that there's no pages
>> page numbers [laughter]
>> on the on the hakama on the hakdama
because we're still in the hakama, but
we are starting with it's it's the fifth
it's the one two
>> it's the fourth page of the starts with
the word.
I'm going to give a little bit of a of a
review, a little bit of a recap of what
we did last week, week before.
What we were speaking about specifically
last week
was that the question alludes to the
fact that has
that means God really values us. If he
didn't value us, if he didn't believe in
us, bless [snorts] you. He would not ask
the question.
He doesn't ask any of the other
creations. He asks us and the question
itself shows that is saying I really
really really value you. But I I value
your approach to life. I value what you
who you could become if you just keep on
listening to the word to the question
ayaka in today's qu today's sh we have a
lot to do hopefully we'll get through it
or it'll get through us today we're
going to ask this question in the
context of our dur of our generation
meaning
there are few words there are few
statements in the Torah we say are asked
in every generation every generation it
looks and it sounds differently it
sounds a little bit different
but the question
is is
in accordance with the generation itself
and sass is very very much plugged in
and in tune to the soundtrack of ardor
of dka ardor this book would be written
completely differently 30 years ago
completely differently even though he
may not be talking so much about current
events the book itself the way it
approaches ayeka is very very
difference. Now, it seems I've said this
last week. It seems to me impossible
to begin to answer the question
without
I don't know how I just don't know how
it's possible. Meaning, if the question
is where are you at?
Where are you consciously choosing to go
right now? What are you consciously
choosing to do with your life right now?
How can a person even begin to answer
that question? Especially if you have,
you know, if you have a big family life.
But even if you don't have a big family
life, the world is loud enough. The
world, the world is noisy enough. How
can you really ask, how could you really
deal with that question of where are you
going at? Well, we've never ever seen a
generation that is so intrigued try to
find their true eye, right? There's no
there's never been a generation like
this. I'm not sure why it but but this
is this is what it is. Like there was
never a generation with so much talk
about real spiritual development of
awakening of consciousness. There was
never like this before. It's like it's
weird. I wonder if our kids like
understand that like a lot of the worlds
of Torah that they grew up hearing or
listening to or that they will wasn't
here before. But we remember many of us
remember there was no such thing as shim
like like 90% of the stuff we learn here
was just didn't it wasn't a thing it
wasn't a thing
for religious women going on meditation
retreats ashand are you kidding me
[snorts]
right
women go
and yet now we realize that when it's
done in obviously in the kosher way, in
the right way, it's not just nice. It's
which means it's essential. It's needed.
What is this door really asking? Why is
this door really asking the question,
who is the real me? Why is this why is
this generation so unwrapped with this
question? I just want to say because we
have a wide range of ages in the room.
This generation is anyone that's here.
You understand? Anyone that's here.
Anyone that's here. Everyone. Huh?
>> You're kind.
>> I'm kind. I know. I have kibb.
Anyone that's here is in this para.
Okay. So now let's focus and let's try
to let's try to really get there's a lot
to get from today. A lot a lot a lot.
Every year hopefully. But this one
in our days
with the development of technology and
media.
This question is becoming most relevant.
Look what we could do now in the world.
You could cross
continents in just a few hours.
Bless you. News and reports are coming
in from all over the world
[clears throat] every second.
Media
the the media industry
uses the word that which could mean
swamps or drowns or
>> huh
>> floods.
>> Floods. the soul of a person
being getting intoxicated from sounds
and from and from pictures.
>> You know, when I was a kid, they never
ever showed an actual murder, right?
There was ne you were in a censorship.
You didn't allow you you couldn't show
any of these things ei
every every single day, right? But
that's that that's and he realized
that's insane. That's crazy.
And he says like we all know the
smartphone
the smartphone addict makes us addicting
addictive
as if it's giving us experiences and
feelings
the world has become more competitive
titles.
social recognition
to become you know
>> advertisement
>> advertisement all these things
all these things we mentioned right now
they unfortunately they tremendously
impact in a deep way on what we think
about ourselves
and the ways to find their own value.
You know, I never met a satiated,
satisfied musician who absolutely loved
the music they wrote and truly did not
care if anyone ever heard what they
wrote. [snorts]
Right? I've never I have met quite often
though people that have certain that
come to them that are totally okay I
mean
they shouldn't be but they're totally
okay if no one ever heard what they feel
is their kdish of on something in in
Torah it's not okay because they're
they're going over lot for because
they're stealing from Israel by
[clears throat] sharing it but you hear
what he's saying over here the the
question of where who I am and how do I
value myself is so much affected from
the competitive world. So much of so
much of the the question of am I really
am I really doing what I'm supposed to
be doing in the world gets influenced by
outer stuff that have to do with things
that you see outside very rarely inside
very very rarely inside of us
the abundance of materialism
it attracts and it becomes addictive
to buy, to acquire, to have a fortune,
to taste from all worlds and more. This
is all happening in our generation. So
would you say that this wasn't happening
in previous generations? Well, obviously
media and stuff like that, technology,
no. Competitiveness, was it in previous
generations? Not to the extent that it's
at right now because it's a byproduct of
all the things we're speaking about. So
all these things are really happening in
front of us. They're really coming
coming on strong unto people and without
us even really noticing the question of
what do I think about myself is done
through the prism of all these outside
things that aren't really answering the
question. How do I value myself? I'm
answering that question based on would
this look like would this make me feel
like I'm part of the para? Would this
make me feel that I'm successful? How
would it look in the eyes of of others
without even noticing that that's really
the chat of the question? Like we don't
even realize these things.
So what is man man or woman the person
the human of our generation really
facing? So he continues and he says like
this.
It's us through a marble of tests, a
marble of things that we aren't even
aware are affecting the most basic
answer to the question. I'm going to
keep on bringing it back to the point of
this safer. The point of this safer is
to know how to answer. That's the point
of this whole safer. the first question
that God ever asked man. And yet what's
in front of us makes it even more
difficult to really answer that
question. The person that's living in
this generation.
It's a big test to not be completely
sucked out of the outside
to not forget your It's funny he's
saying forget. I would say to not
>> even find out right to that you don't
they don't go through this world without
investing time and figuring out what is
your special light all about
[snorts]
said a goodish yesterday in he said we
always talk about
also means uniqueness
like people there are people that don't
think that it's that important to
discover what's absolutely unique about
them, but they don't realize that if you
don't deal with that, you really can't
answer ayaka. You could answer
about like, okay, I'm joining that group
or I'm part of that flow. Hashem, that's
not Hashem. Hashem has so much value for
you. He wants to know with all the
things that I planted in you, what are
you doing with it? And how are you
approaching life?
not to lose your inner value.
This is very rough cookie. Don't worry,
we're going to we're going to translate
this. They don't exchange your natural
and healthy life
that should become implemented and bring
out
into the world your real kesh that is
engraved deep in your heart that you
don't exchange all that
with a foreign life
a foreign life that is we we spoke about
this last week
comes from the word.
What does mean
>> foreign
>> foreign to who you really are? Okay. So
I want to just take a pause for a second
and explain like this. I think I mean
this is this I think where I would like
to take this learning to
usually we say okay we want to make sure
that a person doesn't become engrossed
and developed with
um
with the vanities of the world and
that's
that's foreign worlds
um and that's easy to say yeah once you
look at life like that then of course
you have this moment of aha ah moment
I'm like you know what I'm done with all
that let me just go with the dak that's
going to bring me more to my own light
but you know that's not such a big test
you know what the big big test is the
big test is within the world of Torah
and within the world of kadusha
I could be living a completely foreign
life why because that's what everyone
else is doing
we're not talking I mean I don't think
it's that I don't think you have to read
a whole book in order to explain to
someone listen the world has a big
effect on you detach yourself a little
bit from social media and you'll get
back to your true self I don't think you
have to write a whole book for that I
don't think you need anyone to tell you
that we forget it sometimes but we know
that I think the deeper thing here is
that you could be living you could be
living in a society that you're proud to
be a part of [snorts] maybe for the
wrong reasons maybe for the right
reasons but it's one that you're
basically proud to be part of you're in
the flow you're doing what you're doing,
but you never really
discovered your own light. You just felt
like well the are that's what seems like
is the right thing so I'm just going to
do that. Doesn't mean you're doing a
veras. You could be doing a lot of
subconscious mitzvah or learning a whole
world of Torah that is holy and makes
you think that you're very smart
[clears throat]
without ever bringing you more to the
question of is the Torah that I'm
learning bringing me closer to discover
all that Hashem put in me and believes
in me. That's the real test and that's
the that's the question that many people
have. You know, we have a great example
of this. Everyone knows I mean anyone
that's hang out with me knows that my
favorite book in English especially of
breast is through fire and water which
is the book it was basically the the
first book that I that I got when I was
a teenager of Rabim Kramer it just came
out and it's the autobiography of
Ribbnasan of Breastlov the biography of
Rnassan of breast and you know that
ribbasan if I ask you anyone right now
which is the ribbon Nassen belong to
well so what's the answer
>> rest of always
>> no
>> nasan was a talid of yitzk of berdichv
>> to me this is the most fascinating piece
of the story
was a talmed of berdichv some say that
he was the scribe that actually wrote
the kadusha slavery I haven't found out
yet I have to dig more more into it
you've heard it have you you've heard
this before this unbelievable No was a
that everyone knows he was a tal of
one shabis as one of the
older told him his job was to go and buy
bagels for the mala
and it's not that he felt that he was uh
if anyone knows [snorts] any about
rebnen he didn't think highly of himself
at all open up any felas get a glimpse
of how rebnan viewed himself says Not
we're not talking about anyone that had
any sh [cough] totiness
but he felt on the walk back to the bish
and bdiche with the bagels in his hand
[snorts] that he doesn't feel that this
is to to him.
Do you know what it was back then to
leave the
>> but he was living in an aya relationship
with hashem. So what I'm trying to say
is that Ayaka isn't just stop doing
calls out to you to see even within
holiness within the realm of things
we're proud to be part of
what is my highway what's my highway
what's the path the says every person
has [clears throat] say
so they say this in a lot
It's not that everyone has to say the
whole world was created for me
is the words in my the whole world that
I the way I perceive it the way I
understand it was created for me to
discover my path
my path it's like very interesting I I I
went last week I was very very moved
very moved
the from pima
Reben de Toledo and Rabionatas.
So you know they Hashem I can't believe
this but they purchased a building in
Katama and they're starting de they
started demolition last week and they're
because they need it's a whole structure
that they're tearing down and building
mameish
building a an amazing amazing amazing
amazing building. It's surreal. It's
unbelievable. So I went there for what's
called like the Haramat Kit um
>> huh well not cornerstone just to have a
little with with some of the balabatim
there and with two of them and with
Yehuda Solomon there
and um someone had asked one of the
Balabatim said why didn't you make them
call this Davididal
he said I'm just interested you probably
would have probably you know been able
to be more uh what was the word he used
um ku. It has a back. It has a you know
what's the right word? It has like a
>> like
>> Yeah. Yeah. more. Yeah.
>> I said I said no no no. I said
the the dream here was always set set
some kids on fire and make them do their
own thing and continue to love them and
and respect them, but let let them be
let it be their own light.
Let let it be their own light. It's like
I'll tell you. But honestly,
when I told Rav Weinberger once the shoe
went up, I said, "Rebby, you know the
greatest thing about it?" And I I said,
"You'll understand this, Rebi, is that
it's not a Kaidesh,
which is the name of his show.
>> It's its own. It's Shira Davidid." And
he was like, it was almost like,
"Ah, you guys what the whole Indian of
this door is. It's not about replicas or
trying. It just doesn't doesn't work for
this door. Everything needs to be its
own thing. Ayaka
to you, not not to everyone else. It
doesn't mean it doesn't mean that if
people are walking on different paths
that they can't hang out together,
but it it means you have to hang out
together to encourage each other to keep
on going strong on your own path and to
keep on wanting to discover what that
is. And it and the door that we're
living in makes it most difficult to
discover what your own path is. But he's
going to explain why Davka and this door
is so is it so difficult.
[clears throat]
So look at the third paragraph.
It's true a lot of good has come from
the developments of the last generation
not just mishasim and distractions but
there's been advancements in many
fields.
Um, I don't want to get into everything
right now, but it's as he says here,
it's definitely bettered quality of life
or it could better quality of life.
I mean, I just a basic thing. I I
remember that my mother used to record
herself on a 60 or 90 minute audio tape
telling my grandmother who was living in
Florida about life here. Then she'd send
it in the mail and two weeks later my
grandmother would find out for 60
minutes what life is like here.
>> Oh my god.
>> And there's something so beautiful about
it. It I mean it's so so beautiful. Does
anyone else have that experience with
aliyah?
>> But it's so distant right today. the
value of I I value this very much of of
face to face panim panim like I have
friends that live all over the world
that we look at each other every week
that's not a godly revelation
that's a that's a tremendously godly
revelation so he's saying don't bash all
the developments that came with all the
bishas it's an amazing thing it's an
amazing thing
but with it
But with it, I'm I'm turning it off. I'm
sorry, everyone. I I didn't turn it on.
I'm just saying I came in here. It was
like this. [clears throat and cough]
But with all this,
it brought it. It It's It's become very
strong.
The world outside is pulling us strong.
You can get sucked in very fast
to forget the light of your life.
And to dis disconnect from the most
natural and essential basis of life,
which is what?
deep and meaningful interpersonal
relationships and connections.
A life of joy that comes through
creativity
and literally doing things like because
things can be done so fast and this is
really true in the studio with music
right now. AI has completely
completely controlled the I'm just
talking right now about music. AI has
completely changed over the whole
industry. All mu all musicians and all
producers or studio managers are busy
doing now your mom val day and night
they're going through course after
course after course after course with AI
because it's already shifted everything
over. But what is getting lost in that?
>> I love what he said here.
That means
>> sorry
>> the joy the joy of creativity the joy of
creativity gets lost
because at a certain point you're not
even sure anymore was this you that
created this or was this
>> artificial intelligence. You don't you
don't know and that doubt takes away
from you the natural joy that comes out
through
I mean I hope it's okay I'm giving you
as an example can you imagine if you
started to now take the easel go to
places but you figured out a program
that you just drew like basic outline of
what you're looking at and then it
somehow This this software then actually
grabbed your hand
and guided you for the rest. What would
there be there?
>> That's one example. But this this can
happen in any any field
almost any field of creativity. But the
place that it can't touch is if what
remains vital to me is interpersonal
relationships and connections.
Unless you're like,
unless your whole thing is just talking
to someone on the phone and anytime they
ask you a question or you want to sound
deep, you have Chad GPT right there next
to you and and you really and you're
really fast for thing like make this
sound deep and then you type in a, you
know, [snorts]
>> Yeah,
>> I thought about this a lot wondering
like what's it going to do to the
creative process
>> and I actually think that it's going to
do what Raf is saying in a good way
because I think it's going to make us
value ourselves and other people's I
think it's going to point to the fact
that we have an iss
it it doesn't have the same value
because it's not coming from a nishama
and I think that that's fine hopefully
going to like make the switch for people
of like why is it special to have art
from a human being to have music from a
human being is because there's something
inside them there it's godly that it's
coming from a real person and not
something generated and so it's amen
it's uh I I think like I mean that's I
think that's like the only logical way
of going because like meaning AI stuff
will be much more available much cheaper
like if people just want the product. So
then it's available. But if people
are like I think it's going to force
people to try to figure out like why why
is an original from a human being music,
art, dance, whatever it is like because
there's something to a person that AI
can't replicate.
>> Ali Amen.
>> Maybe it will create hunger for the
spark.
>> I think that's what she's saying. I mean
that's what you're saying, right? Yeah.
Laavdil
Neil Young said a few weeks ago that he
realized that the greatest blessing he
ever had in life is that he wasn't an
emerging artist in now but he was an
emerging artist in in a time where none
of this was even talked you know it
wasn't part of anything that's how he
viewed it
you know talking about AI we're not just
married my daughter two two nights ago
>> Maz
to you and I I just want to say like we
were doing count a countdown and so we
were doing a countdown but like I was
day one cuz I'm from Harma and but I had
to take elements which I don't know how
to use this this technology that someone
taught me of me and her her being a
nurse and whatever but it still was my
creativity but it came out like what AI
put it but I had to like alter it
because I was like no that like there
was a baby in my arms not yet but like
it was funny how AI they put in whatever
that you
You have to know you
>> soon. Yeah, but we're saying the soon
you won't have to
[laughter]
>> soon even that you won't have to do.
[cough]
[clears throat]
>> Okay, let's go bottom paragraph. Aamat
now this [clears throat] is what we have
to remember. You think it just happened
to be that in our generation there's
this explosion of technology.
the challenges that show up in every
generation.
This is all part of
this came down exactly because it's
supposed to come down now
in order to sprout forth a tremendous
light that's in the generation.
I love this line. This next line I love.
God does not allow, he doesn't let his
world remain static.
And it's he's always chugging reality
forward.
He hits and he says grow. He says grow.
And sometimes when he gives that push,
it feels like a patch.
But sometimes you realize it's not a
patch. It's that I've just been sitting
completely full gas on neutral like AI
Miller said about the extent of how much
diaspora jewelry can really do anything.
You're sitting and it's static and God.
So Hashem says go and you're like in the
beginning and then later when you look
back you're like that wasn't ayah that
was mamish
the greatest gift in the world.
So some but is not sympathetic to he's
empathetic to to the person that does
feel that the the grow hurts.
Every challenge is directed from Hashem.
You know is
>> crane.
How would you say man?
>> A pressured crane. I don't know what
that means. A pressure crane, but it's
basically there to serve as something
that's push. Huh?
>> It's to push you.
>> Is also something that that's what it
means. Yeah. To go into movement.
to give birth to light.
It's just it's this push. It's this push
for you to to grow.
Every darkness is there to sharpen the
light that contradicts the darkness.
that this light in us has to be born.
That's why this specific in every
generation the specific darkness that
comes about every generation was zum.
It was
>> huh
>> summoned
>> summoned called invited
>> to push that light to show up in the
world that's needed for that generation.
So none of this is like oh my god what
do we do now? It's first we look at and
say you could look at it's amazing. You
could get a sense you can get a sense of
what's what light is waiting to be born
sometimes by just looking darkness
straight in the eye and just you figure
out ah that's what we're that's what
we're dealing with. Oh my god that means
that the amount of light that's going to
happen over here it's going to be
amazing. I'll tell you a great story.
Many years ago, I went to a con I did a
concert in a reformed temple in in
Irvine, California on a Moz Chabas
and um I I said to the crowd, would you
like to participate in aid exercise
right now?
Uh they said sure, but they were weary
about it. That's pretty weird. And I
said, I want everyone to stand up right
now. I said like this. Okay. everyone
don't bend your knees and jump.
So they tried. I said now I want every
I'll never forget this. This is where
Kon's father was the Kazen. I went with
him to do a concert there. And then I
said I want everyone right now bend your
knees and jump. So they all bent their
knees and they and they jumped. I said
thank you so much. Does anyone here have
the need for me to share with you what
Rabbi Nakman says about life?
I said because you just experienced it
right
meaning and it was very clear you don't
have to say anything after doing
exercise like that in malas we won't get
anywhere if we don't bend our knees so
the same thing with the that's in every
generation if there wasn't this
how far would we be able to get in this
generation I don't know
but everyone's always under the
assumption if only that thing wasn't in
my life right How would I be learning so
much more Torah? Would I have so much
more shamb?
Would I be able to be so much better in
this world if only that thing wasn't
right there right now? of senses. You
have to understand those are statements
because that thing that's in front of
you right now Zuman
summoned from Hashem
can get the exact light that's about to
burst forth.
>> This is amuna. Yeah. Having a little bit
of a problem with this because I feel
like it's only if you're able to come
into the light and get past the
darkness. I know too many people, myself
included, that you get stuck in the dark
and you get stuck in your own personal
hell stories and you can't push forward
and you know that you're supposed to
take that next step. You had once
thought it was either you or Leia go I
don't remember but
>> that's an amazing part of years
[laughter] of learning if you're not
going down like an escalator
>> and sometimes escalator gets stuck I
feel like
>> if you're not able to go up just
>> Mhm.
But
>> you're stuck in that dark.
>> You're right.
[laughter]
>> It's true.
>> But
so the
>> Oh, what?
>> To get out.
>> Mhm.
>> To get to get out of Sorry.
>> How do you get from the from the knee
bend?
>> Right. So he's off. So the one thing
that we're taking up until now is he's
saying as the light for a second
sometimes just look straight into the
darkness right
I'm being very cautious here because
some certain people maybe you shouldn't
look in and generally speaking is that
if you're stuck in there the inside of
you there's a place that knows that can
I get the that I see in front of me oh
boy what's going what's waiting what
kind of light is is waiting on the other
side that doesn't work for everybody.
They need different tactics. I mean,
your question is very very basic. The
very basic essential question everyone
everyone in here has been in being
swamped swamped by by the a world that
removes me from my own light and then I
feel like any light I don't have a
candle I don't even have a candle inside
of me.
It starts from a place of amuna that
nothing can nothing can fully consume
me. I'm a I'm a I'm a I'm a child of
Hashem. Nothing can fully consume me.
Even though it may feel like it
even though it actually feels like it,
but there's a dat beneath it that knows,
nothing can fully consume me. end of
you know it's amazing Hashem took us out
of and everything is
why because once Hashem gave freedom to
Israel no there's nothing in the world
that could ever put us back in mitime
even though it may feel like it but is
and it's impossible
[clears throat]
it's simple right
it's a simple statement but it's it's a
life's work. It's a life's work. Okay,
let's go. Let's let's let's uh let's go
more. Just a little bit more.
[clears throat]
So, in light of everything we said right
now,
we're in the second paragraph.
The fact that our generation on the one
hand is obsessed with finding out the
real me and also has every single max in
the world to prevent me from discovering
the real me. What does it show?
What is our door? The door of what's the
time for it? What's the time for right
now? The time is to reveal the
tremendous light that's tucked away
deeply in our souls.
A very specific personal genuine light.
No one is from self-discovery anymore.
No one. There's no such thing. There's
no such thing of getting away with life
of I'm sorry for I'm say a little
something a little bit but like no I'm
just I do that's all my that's all my
learning that I'm doing. No that's
that's it's not that's not enough for
this generation.
It's not enough for your children and my
you have to learn Torah that's going to
drive you to believe to believe in the
light that you have within you. It's as
simple as it is. You have to be plugged
into teachings into teachers that are
driving you towards discovering your own
light. Not ga not not in a hotty way,
right? To discover your own light.
What's your own light? It's a joke. It's
not your own light. What is your own
light? What's another word for your own
light?
>> Yes.
>> Eloit. But the way that it's programmed
and designed that works through you.
So it's not your light. We keep on
saying your light. It's really exactly
what Marilyn said.
In order for our real eye
will be born
and will appear in the world. So
what's
>> the uh you know what you like with with
>> like their clamps?
>> Yeah.
Yeah.
>> To come and push and pressure this
generation
to finally wage war against an outer and
empty world, an empty life
and to ask Hashem foresh
for for a life of truth and holiness.
a life that's so rich and so full. If
you look at what's happening, this keeps
on happening in this year because it's
it's obviously going to keep on coming
up. But if you keep on if you keep on if
you look at what's happening in the in
the music scene here, you see a door
that doesn't go to shows in order to see
how is the guitarist going to play that
solo
or what's the band
and and I hope yakirman and my don't
listen to this part of this year but
like the jam band stuff right meaning
it's never
I'm Let me rephrase it. The the the
scene of going to shows just to see how
someone rips a solo or how tight the
band is, it's not part of the music
scene here in at all. I know cuz I'm
there. I see it. What's it all about?
It's people that are asking for a real
life, a life of holiness
across the board.
For anyone to succeed right now in the
music scene, they have to write imuna
songs. They maybe haven't been in shul
or haven't kept a shabas. The only way
to make it today is writing an amuna
song because that's what this door this
is what this door is calling. And Rav
Cook prophesied about this. He said this
would happen. He said this. If you learn
or sachuva ravk says in the beginning
over there the chuva is destined to
appear through the safruit through
literature and through omanut and
through the arts. There is no other way.
It has to appear there. Why? Because
what is literature and the arts?
What are they tugging upon a person?
They're namasuk says you want shouba to
sweep the world just here. Forget it. It
won't work. It's got to go through those
worlds. We're seeing it right now. He's
saying over here, a world that push. If
you feel pushed, but the pushing is
bringing you,
then it stops feeling like a push and
you're able to look back and say, "Wow,
that was the healthiest nudge I ever
received in my life, and I'm so thankful
for it."
>> Yes.
>> Can I please disagree with that? the
idea of the
I mean what the music is doing and the
music
>> in a second you're gonna take that back
>> it's opening us up okay that's the
beauty of of music because without
pressure I mean the musicians might have
their own pressure but the minute Hashem
squeezes me I'm like I'm I'm where you
are
you know like enough already there are
days when I just said please Hashem
leave me alone
I know I don't mean to say that but
[laughter] I really Sometimes it's like
enough already. It's like
>> No, it's not that you don't mean to say
it. Leave me alone.
>> It's not that you don't mean to say it.
It's that you don't really mean that
those words
>> on some level. I do.
>> I don't buy that.
>> I know.
>> Yeah.
>> At all.
>> It's not true.
>> Isn't there another way? In other words,
>> I think your question tell me if it's
like this. Is there another way to wake
a person up without waking them up?
>> Without the darkness every day being
closed down?
>> Is there another way?
It depends on you know
right if you give me you're going to get
it right back
>> I that [snorts] I will reflect the
>> or
>> you push
>> no pun intended
[laughter]
>> I don't know what and and you know I'm
like stuck there
>> Mindy anyone that knows a little bit of
you and your life [snorts]
doesn't buy a word you just said right
now. [laughter]
>> Sorry.
>> I don't buy a letter of what you just
said right now.
>> Like I was going to ask you before, is
the answer to a a place like a point or
is it the path? Am I a dot or am I a
line?
>> That's a good that's a great that's a
great question.
>> I mean some people would say that a yaka
is what? It's an easy answer. It's like
a very easy yeshiva answer. What's the
answer to?
>> It's a little little cop out answer like
what does that actually mean? But but
>> is also I'm down here in the boat. So
you want to send me a little devil hat
>> I'm I'm with you no matter what. I'm
whatever it is I'm here. I'm just here.
Like it says an
>> right. I'm I'm just ready. I'm summoned
to be whatever that means. And it sounds
deep. one of these memes. I'm summoned
to be I don't know what that means.
>> First time you said that I actually
printed it out. It was on my desk for
like
>> Oh, it's the deepest I remember. I
remember
it's both. It's it's it's a dot and it's
a and it's like a you know a key.
Listen, it's like people send you a send
current location,
>> right? Send current location. You leave
it on for 15 minutes, an hour. You could
do that, right? You could do that on uh
>> ways WhatsApp, huh?
>> Sure.
>> WhatsApp. Yeah.
>> Yeah. It's it's so it's both. It's like
I'm here and this is where I'm going.
>> The point of learning this safeair is
maybe to answer your questions ni to
help you and all of us with our thoughts
on that.
>> 100%. What what's so special about this
safeair is that he Rafuk gave us all the
answers. The thing is he he did it in
such a hidden way in in such a deep way
that
we waited Raf Cook passed away in 1935.
Cook passed away many years ago and for
years [clears throat] for years I feel
like you know Avan Frered has this song
about how happy Rashi was with the Rebi.
Do you know about this song that like
Rashi waited for came out a thousand
years till the Reba came to the world
and brought us what Rashi was really
trying to teach us, right? Because the
Reb is always with Rashi giving over
dras. So I feel the same about like Rav
Sasson and Rav Cook that Rav Cook said a
bunch of things and like for years I
mean I I shouldn't say that because
obviously Rav Weinberger has has but
only Rineberger I think would say the
same thing I'm saying. of Sassan has
taken what the point of what Ruff Cook
was preparing the world for and give us
an answer because Ruff Cook also saw
where the world is heading and he
understood there's going to be the most
incredible developments of technology
that we're going to think that if only
we have those things our life would be
so much better but there's going to be
so many people that get swamped up by
life even with all the advances that are
around us
and we're going to have to give a a lash
to the language to understand the swamp
the suffocation
The drowning, the floods
feel like patches. They feel like hits,
but they're not. And we have to learn a
language to identify them as
to our light and not things that are,
you know, choking us. It doesn't mean
we're not going to wake up in the
morning with bad days.
Doesn't mean that. But it just means
that the this is important that the
tamakali the general taste of
experiencing life through this question
of aya is going to become much more
meaningful and I think this what we
learned today basically is don't get so
freaked out from the challenges hem it's
all with that that it's so overwhelming
it's so overwhelming especially now with
AI and these whack
uh uh videos that they're putting
together now with the things that look
so real.
It's imamish messes with your mind. So
what does that mean? If something looks
so real and while you're looking at it,
you know it's fake. So what does that
what is that calling you to do? If
you're looking at something, you know
it's fake, but it looks so real. What is
that calling you to develop?
>> Discernment.
Havdala.
Exactly.
Now, why is it that when I watch an AI
clip, for instance, like I saw one
yesterday of BB, Benir, Bennett,
and Sara Lata
going nuts or something. I couldn't even
It was amazing. I didn't have my glasses
on. I'm like, "This looks insane." Then
I put I'm like, "Oh my god." And I'm
like, "Oh, oh my god." No, it's AI,
right? But it looks so real, right? So
why is it when we we look at these
things that feel so real but we know
they're not. Why don't we do the same
thing
with all those moments in life that feel
so real and yet we don't let ourselves
just say oh but I know it's not.
So this is pushing man to develop
consciousness like never before because
within a heightened holy awakened state
of awareness and consciousness
I could I could look at all those things
that feel like this is the truth. I'm a
failure and I'm destined to suffer in
this world. And I could actually look at
that like an AI clip and realize this
may feel completely real,
but it's not because I'm have Hashem.
It's light in me. I have Hashem's light
in me. Sorry, your hand was up.
>> Okay. Yeah,
>> I feel like it's like this whole aya is
>> it's a question, right? [cough] That is
pushing us to be responsible
>> because being [clears throat]
responsible, it's you taking
responsibility over your your own life,
you knowing who you are, you being true
to yourself and not letting
>> Yeah.
>> You know,
>> be
>> 100%.
>> You have to trust the responsibility
that's within you. Yeah, Lillian.
>> Um, so I [clears throat] think
>> I'm just so happy you're here right now.
[laughter]
>> Thank you so much.
>> All of us are.
>> I appreciate you. That's so nice. Um,
uh, so I ever since AI was created, I've
been thinking a lot cuz we have a lot of
mit in our house about AI. So like my
kids are anti- anti. I can see there
there's some benefit, but I've really
had to think about it. And then um I
started really looking at um why like
why it's come to this point. And so I
think from the beginning uh we've all
been called to ask like what is really
real? So we have this veil over us
because we're human and we and we have
to have this veil in order to function
as humans in this world. So the first I
think one of the first times that we see
that something is real or not real was
like when the phone was invented because
before you used to have to get into a
carriage and ride you know you know 4
days to go talk to somebody and then all
of a sudden the phone came and now this
illusion of time and space
>> is there's like holes being poked in
into that
>> illusion and then came video camera
right uh and then became this like whole
wave of information. So now it's like
even there's even the illusion that
knowledge means anything because now we
can just open chat and get knowledge. So
how valuable is knowledge even right now
and now that we're looking and we're
saying is this real or is this not real?
It's just poking more holes into this
veil of what is real. And even like kids
today
nobody knows if music is real. I think
more kids are going to hear live music
more than ever before because if you can
see it happening live, you know it's
real.
>> Well, even that
>> Oh, that means [laughter] '90s music.
>> What?
>> My kids listen to Green Day.
>> My kids don't listen to any music from
[laughter]
them. Well, but like
>> there's no they have no interest in
music from
music.
>> Yeah.
But I think the point is that I think
it's
we're being more exposed to the that
that [snorts] there's an illusion and
then there's what's the real thing and
the real thing is is our nishama which
is a feeling energetic being and that is
you know that is the [clears throat]
real experience of life.
>> And I think that what he's saying is
that the conclusion that you came to at
the end could not have come about unless
>> all the Mishagas was right in front. It
just wouldn't be
>> in this
>> in in in our in in any generation. But
it happens to be that it's this
generation,
>> right? Because we need to be stripped of
>> better. So, is that a It's a wild ride,
but but is that's that's amazing because
look look what's look what's waiting for
us.
>> Exactly.
>> Look what's waiting for us.
>> The world moves so quickly and be able
to work. You have to slow down.
>> Mama mama. Okay. Hashem will pick this
up next week. And
the are on their way. We got them.
They're on their way. Hopefully, they'll
be here by next week.
Good. Good chubbers.