Give your child THIS when they need it

when you can't fix someone you're not abandoning them I know a lot of parents have this problem because biologically we're wired with that paternal Instinct and it's the hardest thing in the world to realize that God has no grandchildren we think because we're hashem's children and our children are our children so then you know that's that's the Next Generation so our children are hashem's grandchildren it's not so your child is hashem's child your child has their direct relationship with Hashem and you have to be respectful of that and sometimes when they need space and you give that space that's not abandoning that's allowing them to have their own relationship directly with Hashem and you're not going to interfere