Why Most Relationship Advice Makes Your Problems WORSE!

why most relationship advice is actually harmful because most relationship advice is just that relationship advice meaning it's meant to fix a problem in the relationship and the reality is that the overwhelming majority of relationship problems are not about the relationship they're about me it's something that I need to fix Within Myself whether it's my issue there's something that I need to change about myself or it's the other person's issue and I have to change the way I'm reacting to that the way I'm choosing to feel about that but very little of it has to do with the relationship so often the solution is about better communication you have to express yourself more why is that the go-to why is that the default maybe each individual has to be healthier as a person and then the majority of relationship issues will take care of themselves