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The Art of Shidduch Questions? #Shorts

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That's why when you're asking questions for shiduchim, now you're not really allowed to do this. Actually, you're not allowed to do this, but I know people who do this. They're really good at getting information. How do you get information? So, you know, you're not sure. Is the boy clean? Is he not clean? He smokes so he smokes every week? He smokes every week? You never heard that he smokes. You have no reason to assume he smokes. Say, he smokes. So, if the person says "Well, he only does it socially." You see, you found out exactly what you needed. But if a person says, "No, I don't know. What are you talking about? I never heard such a thing." That is the art of yenta information for shiduchim. And where do you learn it from? From Paro. Some things, you know, it's the it's it's leading questions. Paro had absolutely no idea that Sara was his wife. He said it on the chance that they were married, figuring that if they weren't, Avraham Avinu would have jumped to deny it, and he didn't. So, he got the information he was looking for. I don't know. I thought that was amazing how the Ramban read into