The Beginning of Shemone Esrei - Rav Zev Smith

So I should have told I'd like to welcome everyone to today's from beginning The great is sponsoring caller email.com or go to our new website.com for sponsoring for many years. >> Somebody asked me he was having and he did like he he said and then he realized that they're saying which someh they do and the will not be until after kadusha and he push didn't know what to do. He said he didn't do and the question is enough of a start that he can't just hit the cancel button he can't stop or maybe it's an addition it's a now these type of sh come up in different forms I'll tell another sh someone said by or rather today when we say it's always as we'll see but he said and realized he didn't can he add it then what's we'll soon see the same idea question where someone forgot to say he was in rushing he came to sh whatever it is he started from ask withoutem is it so this and probably a dozen more questions are part of our for today to understand what is the role of that we say three times a day also hashem ech that we say by Musf and Ma. So someone took the an interesting reaction goes you know what's the big deal it's a can if you say it you don't say it it can't go wrong but that's wrong tells us it was probably the most prominent group of of in history there was the and some now the gimmor is very brief but the rama inad he he enumerates who are the he says close to a minion of besides there there's probably no composition in this universe as and this prompted in char his famous discussion of and he says that that's what every single word is and he says that you look in and they try to explain the words of and the truth is theel didn't do even aam of the kadusha and the coak and the brilliance that went And he says there's no person in this world that could make such such a composition like the there's a lot to say but I want to just suffice with the words of the one of the one of the he says that I Every word is every has meaning and that's why people are so busy with is this or that. What's the difference? I don't know what's the difference. It's aw every word is so important. So like every other when you have a sha go to the source let's learn the gimar together. It's in and very similar. It's also in the Gmorra introduces us to the very important basically it means you both say and then now this I should mention this is not just an extra credit is so important it's even what does that mean very simple someone comes late to okay it shouldn't happen but his mouth there's the last minion was the only minion in town and he's they're holding and he's holding by at least that and make up later or no no you have to in order why because you have to say you have to say you can't just answer so the question is what is more important or so you can't just start you have to have you can't just say you have to and even if it means giving up you can't not so that's a little of introduction ction what school is all about. Now this prompted the in both places to ask a very to me a question. You tell me but we don't do it. Please know that he says how could we say it's in between and because begins with so how when oh you're right by don't Say you could say the implication is by there's no dinner of why explains the gula be the real was by day. So at night there's no it's not true that we have to be both chakras and so what's going to be and for no you're right we don't say except for or why because there's no world phil but then says no no no it can't We have to say three times a day. I'm actually four if there's if Muslims. Well, all must have. Why? Because that's part of Ding. I You're not being you're saying you hear made it part of Ding. Now this is a very powerful endorsement of of the is saying it's it's so much punishment it doesn't disturb okay please note that word wait we're not finished I'm going to prove you that is because we said earlier by you have to which means and then we a break in between must be so too is soar is proving by our for now please note The Gomorrah says is a because it's really part of but is a because it's different but it's the same lice. You see you look at your your record card. You said oh good is beginning. If it's you got we the thought is no is part of and he did a great job. So this the gimmar is and is telling us this is the justification of saying now I must mention in the minus to say before and also in the end fine good and this is clear inf the also adds and this is in theor or it's not in the very important to realize this that some people add other into the beginning. Now there's one we don't do but what we typically do is so the says that you cannot say because that will be an interruption of because it's not part of the it's not in the when do we say by like I told you earlier always includes same justification there is no so we're doing very well what is the meaning and why is it so important so it's an incredible thing is is and there you see David literally falls apart David the grace of David officially with officially was amazed even though but you see David in image falls apart from and he says and after Mish the the most eloquent and image took the blame. No, no, no shifting the blame. He took the blame entirely. Then he said so Rashi says Rashi in his brilliance in a few words explained it realized that he did for there's no how does he approach how does he get so he begged open my mouth let me d properly even though I'm and I I'm And that will be and you look at in he says this a little more was ding that his should work because he had no other hope it was amazing there's no carbon he needed so even though I'm then if I have That's mock carbon. Interestingly enough, the himself in Chuva refers to this capital as the mismar of chuva. Beautiful um description. It's all about the baluva that is chuva. And this basically is the understanding of why is so important. You know what it's like? There's a there's a warehouse like a has has a treasury has everything you need but you have to open the door to get to it. You need a key. The key seems un insignificance a piece of metal but the key opens up to all the hashem is the key that opens the that's why it's a theim the dash in has another he says a person if he realizes just for a moment he's standing he's talking to first person he said he shouldn't be able to open his mouth. He's so terrified. So it's give me the ability to talk. I'm terrified. I'm petrified. I can't talk. So once in the he has he has a story that he remembered as a young child. There was a Russian fellow who obviously was a brilliant um engineer and he was a brilliant fellow and he made a beautiful highway a kish they called it but the like a road for the for the Russian um Russian country in the Russian capital designed Nikolai travel on that on that road he's very impressed he goes whom who designed this who's the architect said a simple fellow goes you know I'm very impressed I want to give him The ultimate reward in rush the ultimate reward was to meet the zar. So he gave him like a private audience. Imagine for a simple person to meet the zar I mean he was a bik overtaken with and fear he had a stroke he could not talk the rest of his life. So he says that's and it's noteworthy. He says that's because otherwise so that's another and they're both true even though unfortunately we're not holding by this at least it's a reminder what supposed to be. So now we see that in any whatever the reason is you have is a key that opens up the door of now one more point I have to mention also we should say that if a person comes late and there's only one minion he cannot join that minion because and that's of the truth since there's by one should not with the I we know that that's when someone comes late he does dain with dominion and says so that's based on the where the says that if there's no other minion like Mr. explains there's no other minion in town and the question is missing missing the the the of then we say and then but Mr. R spells out it's only when there's no other choice and the truth is in our times there are flapp there's every 10 minutes 5 minutes 15 minutes it's it's unthinkable that a person should just jump into the and then say it's only a when a last resort I just have the other day in b of taka and this minion started holding my krishna and someone came in and sat down and started I married so Aided got up, an older man pointed him and goes out. There's another minion five, you know, 3 minutes away. Go there. He didn't say anything, but he mameish ejected him promptly from the Bish. And he's right. This is available. You have to the train the last if it's the only minion in town, then you have the but don't forget the by. So it's only the last resort. We we rely on the it's only be that as it may we have this this insight about about thee and I I want to mention a question that I had if could help me I would appreciate it. When was he initiated? When was it added to the says? So the the poshra says twice is raon sounds like it wasn't that aust the the 120 group of of that was the greatest gathering of the says and the says three places was and this led the he says beish that originally were not making it was added later by the which probably he says is I also found who says it as clear as day was not you know what it's like a little bit the another was added later well well guess what was even added even later it was probably times of post says when they didn't have but the I mentioned earlier in in he says and he goes on to explain the of it he says is not and he says something it's way out of my range. but he says that so I see if someone knows more about it but definitely more that it was a late now we have once we have this let's apply it as much as we can question when starts to shak Chris Ma or should he say again like he did in the first man or maybe look he said the first answer it works for. So this exact question was asked to and he said since the calls it has become an integral part just like the cannot skip because so he has to say the again but then he adds but let's say we say he does not repeat by the rely on theem by the make up your mind if you want it to be exact like the first one. So why is he why can they say hashem the terrorists like I told you that bameish hem is not as nearly as important as hashem in fact some don't say it so you want to say it okay for that it's a good enough the first one but hashemai is non-negotiable it has to be said and that's why the one must by any why again it's part of the question I ask you a very interesting question the gets up and he has a brainstorm by I never said because that's that's a heftig maybe I should say it now by the for the first time I can't rely on my first I didn't say it So the ask and he says that in other words whenever is because of so it doesn't exist and it's like a light plug. Hashem is byem is by only light plug. Okay. Sounds very very logical. So we'll soon see a little more about that. But this is definitely the by you don't doesn't add. Now I want to tell you a different why the should not the says that just like before the we don't seek Hashem because instant interruption. So the khaz is part of shakus needs including theor and this is why the pim say one should not talk after the until after in fact but between is midpoint because we have to have on which has two parts theor I should also mention we'll soon see I found this in an earlier that once you don't have to say it don't say it. What's wrong with the says you know what the answer is? It's only six words. But six words of And then you wonder how about a 10-minute how unbecoming that is but on the say. So it's interesting to say it for two reasons and a potential question. someone at this time of the year and he left and then he has to go back. question is let's say anytime so he goes back does he have a new so we said it's non-negotiable he's not starting that's says he's a milit you go back and we would add when he goes back he doesn't make a new gimopus because he's so obviously if the gimas carries over to his second version it also is sufficient you don't need it but you have it it's still there it's still in effect this is important to mention now the I mentioned earlier both say but let's say he finished inra and backed up but he finished and I didn't say so you go back to the beginning and okay that is quotes the only that's that's because he's a but the end that he finished he does not if he he has to start a complete Maness it's some it's funny some mil you see someone in front of you he backs up backs and starts again what happened obviously he must have left out of but unfortunately doesn't know because if you it's embarrassing to back up but if you go and don't back up you start again so I always say if you don't is one thing but don't advertise that you you know what you're doing because if he didn't say it right start again without unless he completed the but we see again how this is non-negotiable it's part and parcel of our in fact I want to prove this by asking an interesting question or someone absent-mindedly inst start oh I didn't take questions what should we do so until today we would say what's the problem and then what's wrong say it again I'll say you know why not you're not losing right the you're losing something much worse you're what are you doing you could hit hit the cancel button when you're on the computer but you can't hit the cancel button when you talk to the afterm I put right then and there that's wrong it's not part it's a much later some don't even say it and indeed I saw this the infim he says something that we would find surprising he says saying after he says is okay. We'll soon see is okay. But interrupting afterem for anything is wrong. Why is it wrong? You're staring. Now what's most most ina for our is if someone came late and when people come late all these things happen he comes running into that and he you know he looks for sida close his jacket by the time he finishes he's holding by he had zero kavana by the first brah because he's busy finding a sida and putting on closing his jacket but anyhow But once it happened, he just started literally and left out. He's holding out. Does he have to repeat the because he didn't say after all someone left out one of the he wasn't. So asked our question point blank. He dabbed and did not say does he have to repeat? So says the following. He says the question is are in theat. So he has an interesting approach. Once in a blue moon you might hear a shot does something that you're not used to. He gets up he says loud out loud. It it surprises you. But the question is why isn't why don't we all do that? He has to say every out loud including it has to be at least audible. If he says one quietly he's depriving us of that. So since is so integral to why doesn't say it out loud and we'll soon see the meaning of say it out loud. So to understand why we don't say it out loud says oh maybe that's a that is not really it's sort of negotiable. So then he could say it quietly. It's not a he says something so so he says no maybe is I we don't hear it. He says look at theem open my mouth. Why? He says because it's a for the one that's dabbing. And I would add maybe it's like the Yaris dash that he's overtaken with fear he can't talk. Maybe it's like he feels so insignificant but the end of the day it's for the one that's davening to give you the davin. If you're listening you're not dinging you don't need it. So he says it's only the was for the one that's davening. So really it's pishra but to whom may concern for the we we need it for the only shots needs it. We don't have to hear if we don't have to hear it there's no problem of not hearing it but you're not finished. Then he says, "If you didn't say it, you're without it." Why? So he says another says like this is and let's say someone says go by and he's not must be also not and and that's his that he holds it's not if you say it it's important to say it and it's integral but it's not in that same cha disagrees. He says even though he says that it wasn't it was a later but it became why you managing without it you can't manage without it so it's not but it's it's you know it's something like have a right to override the in a certain sense this is the understanding and it's very hard to pass in the sh you know but I think for us we know our was made to this he once asked his uncle you know writes if you come late if you finish man of le shabas a little late try to get someone else say with you theu is safe for right it's not necessary maybe not right the person must need your say his uncle what should I do I mean you're my uncle what's the shil you follow Mr. He's our I have to write what I think is true but you follow and I later found in thearis he says That's you see this. So our probably could be on that the best is don't forget but at the end of the day we definitely see that if someone forgot it if he came late whatever he's rushing he's how about if he said it but without like the person that was rushing and zero so you if you hold it's it's not so is not worse I mean maybe a little but it's not worse But my question according to that it's also say who did the first is who said is part of the first maybe it's who said it's but any if you didn't say it the same thing best thing say it of course properly someone told me in his there was a shim so far but it caused a breakoff minion so far. So you want to know what to do? What's what's the story? They just started a a minion. Okay, see very today they have precision not just to the minute to the millisecond. So some felt that that means say Hashem by the moment of others say what do you mean that's note? So both sides didn't want to yield. So they have too many on them and you call maybe the Hashem's but you know you know you see that question is who's right? You ever think about this? So you think what's the difference? difference is a second or two but it's enough to make but the truth is I didn't find anybody but makes sense that now maybe it's not part of the first like we just said but it's part so why shouldn't that be the beginning point I saw a whole they say for if let's say you want to back up you finish the person behind you is just starting All he said was the middle of that and you could time it. Can you back up into him is I think the answer is what's no he is. So that's why in it would have it is considered so it's that that one thing we do say that that says on just like the now there is a sheet of the in quotes that he doesn't have to say it again but does not quote him and it's pickbook the must say Hashem as part of the once spoken to and he says and it was a very big he didn't he put his pride and aside I noticed you when you start finesse you don't say hashemai how do I know because as soon as I start backing up you already start and I watch you boys you don't seem he says it's wrong and he's right it's wrong cannot start not shak not musf without saying is it's a proper like the rest of question what is about the what I mentioned earlier about saying it out loud versus so the iss like the restra however the sim quotes he says a few words which presumably is I found in he says you say which means quietly. However, quotes and he says he must have seen quoted unreliable sources but he says we have a hashem is no different than than and he says in Bale and that we say the out loud. So many say it out loud. He says he based it on a he says by us in the we say it out loud. So it's mostly some the question is for us we don't say it out loud. Why not? Is it anything wrong? Wouldn't it be better to say it out loud? Like why not say it out loud? Is there insistence not to? So for us it's since the gave us an insight is for the one that's ding. So we don't have to say it out loud. Why say it out loud? I why say it quietly? So I'm saying supposed to be but the says no no no. He has no bra. I say it out loud. Whatever you could say, salvage that and say it. Who's right? The one that follows their mic because who's wrong? The one that does different to come along to and say it out loud. People get shocked. They don't know what happened. But hit them. If it's not done, don't do it. Do your mic in your own question. Someone came to Ma a little disconnected and he began Hashem's then he wants oh I didn't say can he stick it in there absolutely not can he start again absolutely not why this as we saw because he started he cannot just hit the cancel button he's mentioned quotes the says that he says once you he says to say after Israel is fine. We'll soon see it's fine. But to to interrupt after is wrong because you're there's no fine but it's a more serious problem. The problem is you don't have the you're making a so that's what the say now I mentioned earlier I want to give you in quotes didn't say even they didn't say in says I only says he found oldurim that didn't So Lisa, it seemed that there was a meaning not to say it at all. So not even though we say it, but say with did not say they asked him why not. He said you know I once saw a mess of a and very short. I said why don't you make it a little bigger? He goes the bigger it is the more pag you might have. He said I said his name is the more you say the more problems you have. Say what you're saying properly. you want to add more, make sure you're ready for that. So, he was worried about saying it incorrectly. But anyhow, be it and we do say it those have again it's based on earlier sources. Very challenging question. Let's say it's by or I I said and also I hear in the background either Kadesh or Kadusha. I'm probably late but I hear afterm what should I do? Don't forget Mr. B quotes that that kadusha is a and as we know ma says is even bigger than kadusha. So what do I do? So the answer what do you do? You have no choice. You can't answer. So what's and that's why is that you want to listen to me but you can't say however I saw the I mentioned earlier who his big is a later it wasn't from and one of the ramifications that he says is that if you have this situation that you have opportunity to answer and somehow he says you could cancel the first holy gra. So he's the first that says a step further. It's a later but it doesn't actually become beginning of the second one I said that says that is he says with this conclusion you could cancel it's a tummandic say and start again and in in the poem he says the same is by understandably so but the is hard to accept because once it calls It has to be part of again maybe it's not part of the first but so again what what most poison would say is that you can't say it and I saw a very nice he doesn't discuss he discussed if it's considered a beginning of and he said yes it is so this question is a tough question but it seems more likely that It's conting and just ignore the the the kadusha because you're middle of talking now question if someone by or said and then he heard kadusha that's easy that you could cancel cancel and start again how about this tricky question okay with changing location and I said finish the and he has kadouch in the background around can he rely on the benes and and so there's no problem but there's a much of of of heik there's no problem of but there's a more serious problem here if he's how could he cancel it I they say you could cancel it but here you have a problem of what are you saying and then what are you saying you're putting that's a problem so this it's a the serious problem he has and was not enough question when someone had walked in the we have this now we say all the time someone walks in totally unaware of he says and then he hears the saying they're saying what should he do if he dins with the together he's ending up saying the first three without a minion he's not so but then again he said so this question I didn't find in the earlier pisk because they didn't have the is basically a new innovation but what someone told me is what's the problem let him d together with the shots and the is name is that's I think that it's wrong because when the is saying he's a oneman so then is with but is not it's to enable a to be said so it's a little bit and if the has the full of but certainly with the doesn't help but then again how could you cancel you started if he only okay he's lucky but after and again I didn't find anybody speaks about this but if we go with the that is not just but it's it's the beginning of he can't cancel it and that makes sense where once told me had someone asked the shila by okay he said and somehow started to say how things happened I stopped asking a long time ago made a heckish but what should he have done person of course asked the next morning so said well you what you did if you start you have to finish the question is afterra What about so this logic dictates why said either or it's part of both of them are not relevant after if they finish the whole but says quotes his father that even though has reasons but if he didn't say and And they both say after you say the I found he quotes had a suffic he doesn't say I think it's also like what is it fitting into it's not gula it's not so he recommends something which is interesting that goes to somebody that's having the next minion and ask you now I'm going to tell you if this happens to you ask someone please you'll think you lost your mind but it's a good avoid all problems. The best eight is don't leave out things say that a person started saying by or so let's look is totally wrong there's no it's probably even a between but his question should I finish the when he reveals his mistake because he said hashem he said the word hashem also So it's amazing if you look high enough you find everything I found the has this very sh and it proves that that is not an is a preference and he says more so even a half aem's name and you stop it's not wrong because you said it for a reason I had rebum and I was a young child I still remember And the you know it's became you finish the but why why finish the if you're going slowly you part of a time he says both problems are are solvable but to continue and I guess it's like you made a okay but you're not so it's a free country stop cut your losses so he says Stop where you are and start and do a little ch I guess but it doesn't help finishing the now what's noteworthy that the we find in the says that on shabas the is some hold on shabas there's no of because how do you know the theashi quotes from from the says that's I'm mistaken and next is so somebody wanted toki Maybe if you started saying a onis you can complete the and rely on the reus that is no of he says okay sounds good was asked and he said how about and it makes that since somehold there's no dinner so you rely on that better than leaving a Pik hanging but but definitely does not say this and I can understand why because the we do have to have it and shabas also at the end we keep on shabas we do have question so this question is one of a kind but it happens someone came this last minion in town and the holy he just came is the says you allow first So he starts scratching his head. I have a new question. I'm first should I say and then say very original but why not there's no school because you you miss that you're missing that. So to me this was this is a bearish asked a question about saying because you didn't say it by and what does he say in other words they weren't by they were never by just for a fell that comes late in a one last minion a city not that's what I wanted to say I thought it's posh then I saw the river in in in he has the sh and he says you're right you're allowed to take why not no problem I don't know why he didn't at all mention the the one of the who says there plug that's bothered me because said it it it's understand it doesn't make sense the then I saw the the other Shil when the shot starts. So again he asked could he say why not? So I got nervous. I said maybe I learned wrong again. He asked a question. He says what does that mean? I think that means to say plug that. So I hope I'm I'm if I'm right then these sh don't begin. So if someone thinks I'm wrong, please explain me why. But I would think both sh are not shil simply because there's a light plug. Light plug mean they never maken it. Now is also says you could say and he points out says if someone came to late and he's talking he doesn't know what he's doing and he decided oh last which is wrong but the maybe gave him a little of a reminder and he left out. So my so guess what now that go back and you could even start saying again because you blew it anyhow so start again so he says oh we see that what you're allowed to you once you miss so you allow to go back to the beginning you didn't say so to here also once you don't have it what's the problem sayed by I don't see the right at all cuz then you of diving correctly, but you messed it up. So, go back to normal. But here there is no of saying by by by the the so we have two sh and I think there's no reason to say it but no reason no to say maybe it's like we said earlier this what I think and I'm just worried unless I'm learning wrong in the words of the there is a a meaning of that I saw a quote in the Don't get he says and this is holding close to step back three steps. Okay. And then and then he says finish to and then you go forward three steps and start why do you have to make two two parts why you have to step back earlier apparently he's worried about a interruption don't forget the is in me also says taketh in fact the says You should say take means right away. So he's trying to eliminate any unnecessary time walking. So why back up? back up before moish and this is quoting and pess I'm not clear why p says this but mosha was a shots for min he would make the three steps back and forward and then he would start ashray the finished ashray say kadesh and astra he made the gim entirely before he started before even before kadesh so they asked him why so that that that The kadesh is part of the ding. So you have to make steps for the kadesh. But as son of David said maybe it's to avoid aik benula. Maybe walking back and forth. What? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I'm sorry. But he won't say you're right. That bother me also. So it's a I think most of the people make they back up and go forward and I found it says he says even though is typically a in fact the says putting on a talis as a by those people early but is integral to I'm not a problem. So it's interesting you have a different hug but then I saw and this is a was said one fellow backed up then went forward and started one fellow did as he was backing up he that's the right thing so they came right so I gave it to them what's right there's no sha heemas why are you hiking during backwards and forwards it's I say by also you're making a stay in one place there's no suffoc about it the first person was right you say then you back up and go forward and then you don't say and during and this is no one disagrees has to be said with and in between you back up now if you want to do like did by whatever and by shak is back up and forth by by also good but during the actual saying of nothing goes someone asked me he felt terrible by mistake he said I says you're in good hands there are says in again that we don't say however the there are adds we do say a and it's interesting why the meaning has become that we don't say it we find but if you said a is nothing wrong now t what happened so you look at hey he says for some reason we try to avoid saying even though there are but says not so we try to avoid it what's the so he gives a One eight he gives is that starts a little before the shots what's you can't say or finish together with the shots simultaneously so you can't answer to the is but the in the middle say a in the middle of the bra oh all that you can't do and that's why the minute has become for some reason that we don't do like we avoid a but if he It's not the end of the world. Now what's a pel is and that's most important at least for a daily basis. What's in the mig that has become a new meaning that the shot says and all of a sudden he fades away. If someone never heard it before he thinks some the shots maybe fainted. Goodbye. What happened to him? Where that many coming from? It's not brought in or mish what is a minute coming from I'll tell you why because the shots he says people say but then again that's the right thing to do ter we try to avoid it but who where do you have a right to to to create a new mig ah you'll say it's not a munic because m quotes a few doesn't say this and taken was very upset about He has a and he says function is to say the shots the entire and listens but no doubt about it is integral job of the shots and told me that was not fully lucid but he kept kept on saying over and over and he left his listen to this that by they should announce you say out loud and all because of this problem. Now Rabluth told me he once went with Raisha to visit Rahena when he was well and Rahena kept saying we have to change this meaning it's wrong we must say galis out loud so was quiet because in they did that but he walked out he told I don't know what he wants he says the it's not a kadesh they told him these words in the air Frankfoot in their pinkus of menhagim the mig is there to say go quietly was the in Frankfurt and he was an god he knew what he's doing so obviously it's not a wrong mig But I just say one more point. I heard it this morning. It made me feel good. There's another reason to say it out loud. Now maybe you want to avoid people saying it a little lower than the rest of the but say it out loud. What's that reason? today learning in the morning they dive in the and they're in your minion also like this morning my opinion is and back said very loud a it's a precious opportunity to say to Israel why give it up but to say it aloud aloud is definitely sounds the right thing the meaning is not to someh you all have Yes. for today's sponsoring today's great sponsoring call 71851-8651 email.com check on the website.com Mr. Yagd Amen. Okay. say sorry before could say no we learn today first of all every word of as we know every as we saw as we proved the identity is that it's part of it's an integral part it seems that it wasn't part of the original it was added later on even though seems differently But the and but the meaning is it's the key to it opens our hearts that the listen and or like the we saw we open our mouths but it's a that he has to say every just because doesn't need that is a very different nature it's not it's not it can't be said when there's any problem. Some don't say it at all. But is an integral to the even if he said it in the must repeat it again in the he didn't say it was it is that's how much it's part of we said that to say it quietly is because it's only for the ones that have to hear it. It's not for the listener. is just for the if a person said it without you could probably could be on plus even could be it's not a part of the first as we said if someone hears after saying he has to ignore it unless he can be with her but not to say it now he's said he can't go back and take and again once he started you have to finish it if he and he realized what could you do but you could continue with the shots and have but you can't just cancel it as we said can be said after if you left it out when when so when a person as we said when someone wants to put in or when he's first probably it's a plug the meaning is not to say it our meaning is we don't say We try to find the eights to avoid it. But one thing certainly the gal is important. The meaning of saying it out loud but maybe a little lower to indicate is the right thing. But again the new meaning is also understandable. We try to avoid saying quietly. Better would be to say it a little lower than the rest of so the knows that don't say but you say it.