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The Father, Son and The Deal - R. Leiby Burnham - TorahAnytime.com

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there was a family of great wealth where as often happens unfortunately to families of great wealth you have the parents who worked really really really hard to amass a fortune over decades and decades of hard work a patriarch coming in every morning to the office at six a.m you know staying all hours working tirelessly and then unfortunately sometimes you have the scenario often you have a scenario where a child who grew up with the silver spoon already planted firmly in his mouth who now wants to be able to make a lot of money too because he wants to be able to feel good about himself and but he doesn't want to really put in the work because he never had to put in the work he didn't grow up like his father his father grew up you know doing a paper route in the morning when he was nine years old and his father grew up i actually just had a kid come over to my house the other day and a nine-year-old kid knocked at my door and he says do you have any jobs i thought it was awesome i unfortunately didn't i didn't really have any jobs our dishes were just cleaned and you know our house was clean i didn't really i felt so bad i'm like i'm so sorry i won't even just think of a job to give him just to keep him busy but you know that's a scrappy thing to do and it's very very good so you have this guy who's been working hard his whole life you know working two jobs while he was in college and building up this business from scratch and now you have this young kid he wants he wants to come in he's gonna make money and he's pushing all kinds of things cryptocurrencies and dogecoin and this and that and who knows what and he starts losing the family money so one of these families the father sat down with the kid he's like listen kid we are a real estate family we made our money in this business we worked really really hard to get here you're going to come you're going to get an office right next to me and you're going to start you're going to handle the bills and the utility bills and you're going to handle the the complaints from the renters you're going to get involved you're going to make sure you get the plumber out there on time to fix the stuffed up toilet in unit 4c you know and the garden view apartments you're going to be you're going to get involved and you're going to start working your way into your success you tried making your money already you wasted a lot of family funds already on dogecoin and shiba inu and whatever it is and gamestop and all kinds of we you lost our money already you lost what we were ready to allocate to you for that now it's time for you to come sit in the office next to papa and learn how to work a business for real because that's how one day you're gonna be able to do this so sure enough the kid's not too happy about that but what daddy says is going to rule because you know the golden rule he who has the gold makes the rules and daddy definitely has the gold so anyway now as most people of of considerable means they have a a gatekeeper usually it's a different we have different words for it people used to be called the secretary now they're called an executive assistant or you know whatever it is and and they usually have a gatekeeper who's incredibly loyal to that person and really has their back all the time and is almost a fierce protector of the time of this wealthy guy they've been working with this guy for 30 40 years so one day this guy's in his office and his executive assistant valerie who he's been working with for 30 years 40 years i mean the trust he trusts her explicitly she comes in she's like harvey you are not going to believe what i just heard your son saying it's like what are you talking about look we all know your son is not so happy you know we all know your your son is not so happy with his current position he'd much rather be making millions in a few quick trades and now he's coming to work every day and you make him be there at nine and remember he came to you last week with this whole weird idea they're gonna build condos uh on top of a reclaimed garbage dump in puerto rico or whatever it is and you mixed the deal the guy who's pushing the deal was just in the hallway and i heard your son telling this guy look man i'm disgusted with my father but we're not doing the deal i'm disgusted with my father we're not doing the deal and this guy just loses it he calls his son in joshi get over here right now and he starts screaming in the whole office you know you you know the situation i don't know if you've been in this situation i hope you haven't but you can definitely picture it in your mind the whole office is listening the sham it's ryan the entire egypt can hear you know and he's not you you ingrained what's wrong with you you're my child i raised you i gave you everything and you messed up you already lost so much money i'm trying to teach you how to make an honest living and you still come to me with these ridiculous highfalutin ideas you're going to build condos on a reclaimed eco-recycled garbage dump in puerto rico you're out of your mind how dare you do this what's wrong with you he's yelling and yelling at joshi josh he's standing there looks at his dad like what are you talking about it's like i know what i'm talking about you were just in the hallway when that guy was pitching you that scam artist who was pitching you this deal and you told them you're disgusted with your father you're not doing the deal you're disgusted with me i'm disgusted with you get out of my office josh he looked at me says dad i never said that i said i've discussed it with my father we're not doing the deal i've discussed it with my father we're not doing the deal not i'm disgusted what a little difference and you could end up saying things a father in that fit of anger right how do you be say you're disgusted with me you're never going to make it you were always a loser and then those guys you can't get those things back by judging somebody unfavorably you could end up really destroying a relationship you