Dumb mistake Smart Couples Make

[Music] a guy's married about 6 months and he really respects his wife she's intelligent balanced she's not one of these emotional creatures and he's very happily married and then one day he comes home and he sees it she's up on the chair screaming screeching at the top of her lungs dear what is it what what what and she points he walks over and he sees it a cockroach he walks over the Cockroach Crunch and in his mind he says to himself oh my goodness she's a lunatic a card carrying nut what's wrong with a little bug and she's up on a chair screeching and he just made one of the biggest mistakes he can make in his marriage why because it's true that if he were in that apartment he would not be scared of the bug but she is and what he did was he used his emotional system to judge her and since in his emotional World bugs are not things to be afraid of if she's afraid of it there's something wrong with her and he made the sixth really dumb mistake that very smart couples make he used his emotional system to judge her he forgot the fact that he's different than her if it were a doam pitcher that were running wild in a room he'd be up on a chair but he used his emotional system to judge her it's unfair it's unhealthy and it's one of the big mistakes that husbands tend to make in a marriage you have just seen an excerpt from the marriage seminar the entire seminar is available free of charge at the.com [Music]