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Being Mevater or Giving In? - R. Tzvi Sytner - TorahAnytime.com

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Sometimes you know two a couple could want different things and one of them will say you know what I'm going to be matur right why because there's a difference and and Mosha Lamb made made this distinction which I thought was beautiful he said the difference between giving and giving in right giving in is uh is you know fine we'll go to your parents fine we'll get that car fine we'll do this right that's that's giving in it's when I wake up the next morning and I feel resentful about what I about the fact that I gave in right giving is different giving is no no no I realize that there's something more important to me here. I'd rather you be happier. I'd rather us to have a better a good a good relationship. And therefore, I I to me that's more important. I'm willing to not get what I want because I'd rather give give you this because that would make make us both happier.