Courtroom of the Mind - R. Moshe Bamberger - TorahAnytime.com

There's a great book on uh one of the early books on being zakavos. I love the title. It's called courtrooms of the mind. Such a great title. That's what we're doing. We're always judging people in our minds. Whoever we see, we're judging. A guy comes into base. He's wearing like a certain type of sweatshirt, a t-shirt, whatever. Immediately, boom, we put him in a box. You know, he's that type of guy. You know, he's uh you know, we see him uh on the street and he's uh he's he's acting in a certain way. Okay, I got him. I know exactly what this guy is all about. I see his haircut. I see the type of glasses he bought. I see the type of sneakers he's wearing. I see where he's going away for on Pesak. I know what he's doing the summer. I know what his major is. I got him. I have him whole. I got the whole thing straight. I know everything about him. I don't need to know anything more. I know exactly what he is, who he is. Call me up about as a reference on and I I'll tell you everything you need to know. Baloney. You don't know a thing about this person. You do not know anything. And you think you know him because maybe he's your roommate or he's your kuso or he's in your he's your lab partner or he's you don't know I promise you you know nothing about