First Zivug - R. Tomer Zino - TorahAnytime.com

You should know the sniper lagon. He was famous I love for for telling people there was a guy who came to him but I didn't find my yet. He says you found her you told her no. You told her no. He says what do you mean? He says yeah she came to you. Hashem's job is just to bring you guys together in meet in a room or get a resume sent to each other and if you say no for a silly reason so that's on you. That's on you. Hashem did his part. You could be you throw away your first zoo. First zoo is the most important. Why? Because that was announced before you were born even. And Hashem knows that this is exact other half of your soul. It's going to make you be the best version of yourself. But if you throw that away, God forbid, for a silly reason, now you only have zuki. Zivuki is not perfect is based on merit. It's not your exact half of the other half of your soul. >> How do you know which you show? So I told you if a person you meet a person that has those things those values that we mentioned you're a chamayim good character traits you have chemistry with them could be they're not most good-looking person in the world could be they're not the wealthiest could be they don't have the degrees to the shamim but they have these major things that are important you should go for it and if you're shallow a little bit I think I could do better rabbi and you say no could be you threw away your zuku And now you own Zukshini. It's a very scary thought. You have to think 10 times before you say no. People today they go on resumes from one picture they make a decision. Imagine I came to you. I said you want to buy a house. I show you like a like a WhatsApp picture. Only one view that's it. One picture that's your house. Yes or no? You're going to spend a million dollars right now. Yes or no? Only one time you get to see it. >> My answer is sorry I can't say yes. >> Exactly. That's the right thing to do. But people from a resume and a picture with a picture they decide if the person is good for them or not. It's very hard to say that. How could you do that? You know, it's very sad.