The ULTIMATE Relationship - R. Mordechai Kraft - TorahAnytime.com

you know do you ever solve the following question you look at little babies right little babies they're so cute you know and you feed a little baby applesauce and what do you do you take a little spool and you dip in the applesauce you put a little baby's mouth they spits up all over you right and the applesauce goes in your face and it goes in your shirt and it's all over the place right and what do we all do we'll laugh oh that's so cute that's so cute oh baby oh it is it's so cute you do it again everyone's laughing and the baby's laughing and you're laughing and having a great time I never noticed that when a person is in a nursing home you have to do the exact same thing take a little applesauce dip it into the jar you gotta put it in their mouth and they spit it up all over themselves all over you and I'll tell you something it's not cute and you know what it's even disgusting so I've had a question one time I was thinking you know why couldn't God make it that just like a baby has so much pain baby has so much charm and we're not bothered by these things by a baby we find it so adorable why couldn't God make it that the end of a person's life a person gets that crane again gets that charm and we you know and when the little the old man at 95 spits up all over you you laughing so cute how come God created a world where you don't see this cute anymore we see it we're disgusted by it so I had a thought and I was thinking that it's probably the greatest kindness that God can do which is to cause people to be disgusted when their grandparents or mothers and fathers spit up all over them when they get old it's a it's a kindness you know what the kindness is as a person moves his life toward the end of existence in this reality the greatest kindness God could do for them is to make them realize that the bodies can't help them anymore usually their bodies are very much you know they're not in control of their bodies the money that they had in the bank really can't bring them much anymore and even their children who they'll rely on my children you know my children will take care of me you hear the children are a little bit disgusted with them the greatest kindness God can do for somebody at that point of their life is to make that person realize it's all about me don't try to rely on anybody except me don't think you're gonna rely on your body anymore it's not there don't think you're lying your money don't rely on your children it's all about you and me it's all me it's all you that's all at that point a person has to look up to the almighty he doesn't look up to God and basically say God you know it's just you are everything I just need you without you I have nothing I have to have a relationship with you without you there's nothing I have nothing I need you a person can do that at the end of their life imagine what that does to build that relationship with God a relationship that a person is going to take with them forever so in fact the aging process which we look at and some think I you know why God why are you bringing this on this person it's really a tremendous kindness in helping a person achieve the purpose of this world which is to forge a relationship with the almighty that we're going to take with us forever see how it works if the purpose of this world is discomfort you're right it's uncomfortable but the purpose of this world is to create a relationship it's really purposeful yeah