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The Unusual Request - R. Yitzchok Aryeh Epstein - TorahAnytime.com

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Story happened several years ago in a basank in America in one of the Yiddish communities. There was a girl one day Estie her name was she was 9 years old. She came home from lunch for from school after school and the mother served broccoli and the girl looked at the broccoli and she's not eating. She pushed away her plate. I'm not eating this. And the mother says why aren't you eating it? She says, "This is animal food. This is not for human consumption." The mother says, "Listen here, it's healthy. You eat so much junk and so much nash. I'm I want you to eat some healthy food. Broccoli is very healthy." And the girl says, "I'm not eating it." So the mother spoke to the father, "Could you please talk her into eating it?" The father and the girl said, "No, I'm not eating it." And the father tried to convince her. She she said, "Listen, mommy worked so hard on making the lunch on the supper. please at least try to eat it. If you don't like it, I understand, but try put some in your mouth. Try to eat it. And he tried to bribe her with some nach. And the girl says, "I don't need no nash. I don't need anything. I'm not interested. It's animal food." And the father kept on trying to get the daughter to to agree. Finally, the daughter says, "Okay, Ta, you want me to You're asking me to do something that's so hard for me. It's not but it's really not comfortable for me to say no. So, let's make a deal. I'm going to do something that's hard for me and eat this broccoli and you allow me to do something that even though it's going to be very hard for you, you won't ask me why I want to do it. And they're thinking, the father's thinking, what could Estie already want? She's 9 years old. What is she thinking? And the father said, "Okay." And the girl Estie took the broccoli and she fought with it for 20 minutes until she finished the whole thing. And then she says, "Ta, I did mine. Now I want you to do yours." And the parents were very nervous. What is it that she's going to ask? And and Esther says, "Don't worry. It's not going to be expensive. I'm not going to ask you for something very expensive." He says, "Okay, what would you like?" She says, "I would like a lady to come to the house and give me a haircut and take all my hair off my head and then give me a beautiful tickle that I can go to school tomorrow wearing a tickle." Her mother almost fainted and began to cry and she told her husband, "I can't take it anymore." And she went up to her room to calm down. Her father was totally confused and he's thinking about such a strange illogical request from his daughter. What does she want? What is she doing? What? It's not sensible. Why? Why are you doing this? But he made up a deal. And for 3 hours he was thinking back and forth. She got this mishas into her head. Maybe someone convinced her to do it. But I promised I have to keep my word. If I don't keep my word, I will lose Estie's trust forever. That'll never come back. Here, here grows back. It'll take a couple months. She'll get back her here. So, the father went and he picked up the phone and he called up the lady that normally comes to give haircuts. Can you please come to my house and give my daughter a haircut? The lady came and totally cut off all the hair, shaved her head or whatever, close enough. And the mo in the morning, the mother could barely look at her daughter and she tells her husband, "I I'm not taking her to school. I can't I just can't." So she says, "Ma, do you have a tickle for me?" She says, "Yeah, it's on my on my dresser." Estie went upstairs and got her tickle and put it on her head. She looked adorable, but everybody could tell there's no hair under that tickle. The father went and took Esie to school. And as Estie's getting out of the car, another car pulls up. Estie's classmate Khani comes out also wearing a tickle without any hair. Estie ran to Kani. And he she hugged her and screamed, "Wow, it's amazing that you came." Father looked at the two girls and he had no clue what's going on over here. Khan's mother got out of the car and she came to him and said, "Are you the father of the most amazing Malik in the world who watches over my Khani? What an incredible daughter you have." And the mother continues, "You see, Khani has cancer and she's taking chemotherapy and all her hair fell out." And there was some girls in the class that started making fun of her. And she came home one day and said, "Not only is it hard for me that I have the maka, but I also have to get made fun of in school that I my hair fell out. I'm not going back to school anymore." Your daughter Khani would come every day with her homework and she would explain to her what they learned that day and she would make her feel so good. and she's begging her to come back to school and she says, "I'm skit. Everybody's going to laugh at me." And yesterday I heard them on the phone and she says, "You know what? Tonight I'm going to do something and I promise you that tomorrow no one's going to ever laugh at you again, but you have to come to school. You trust me?" And and she said, "Yes." Says, "Okay, tomorrow you're coming to school, right?" She says, "Yeah, I'm coming to school." Okay. And with that, Connie's mother started crying. A regular nine-year-old girl hears about her appearance and what her friends think of her. Who would think that a girl nine years old would be able to feel Yanim's pain with such intensity and do something so drastic to shave off all their hair. And all the other clids in the class were in awe and no one ever laughed at either of them