Why Someone Is Tested - R. Joey Haber - TorahAnytime.com

The Abravanel says, there's two reasons why someone is tested. The first reason is the same as that I'm bound. Hashem wants to take it from a thought that you have to action. So, in order to produce greatness. And he says the second reason is is she it been a daughter. So, the generation should see your test and see you pass the test and learn righteousness from you. He said that's why the word nest nisaion comes from the word nest. What's nest? Nest is like a public miracle where everybody sees. When you are tested and you handle it right, you become the public miracle. I want to tell you something I've learned that having the opportunity to speak to different demographics in the Jewish world that are struggling. Some of the single girls, some of them would make the best wives. Some of them are way more talented than their married counterparts. Women that are divorced very often are unbelievable mothers and wives. Sometimes they're social workers helping other people with marriage. You're like, how are you helping someone else's marriage? You got divorced. The answer is Hashem tested them, but they were great. Hashem tested them with a husband that was crazy or difficult or a challenge that they didn't expect. And the same thing with divorced MEN. SOME DIVORCED MEN ARE UNBELIEVABLE PEOPLE that are handling things like a prince. It's only time sometimes the the best missus businessmen are men that don't have jobs. You might say, how could it be? Because Hashem says, well, maybe the men that would be the most charitable. Hashem says, I know you would be the most charitable. So, I'm not giving you that test. I want to give you a test to see how you handle this and show the world your greatness and show the world your emunah by being tested.