Making Reality With WORDS

there's an incredible that says when a person says something it becomes real it turns into something that is manifested something that turns into real life and thear brings an instance there with Pinas who was sitting shiva he was sitting for a relative of his that passed away and his brother came to visit him he came to TU day that he was sitting there Shu noticed that the fingernails of Pinas were l were to were over beyond beyond the amount that it should be and therefore he asked him why are you not cutting your fingernails aren't you supposed to cut your fingernails so he told them and if you were sitting shiv would you also not go ahead and cut your fingernails you wouldn't go ahead and cut your fingernails also obviously was because actually hold that you're allowed to go ahead and cut your fingernails and the problem is that they were both brothers but anyways they when P said that to him he said to him and if you were sitting of a loot on someone would you not go ahead and cut your nails also soon afterwards Shu a couple weeks later ended up sitting shiva for one of his close and direct relatives when Pinas came his brother to visit him and was very perturbed and he cut off his fingernails in front of him and threw it in front of p and he said because of you because you went ahead and spoke out the fact that I will sit or could sit sh so it ended up causing an effect which can lead to me also sitting shiv look it really happened words are powerful words are dangerous words can cause damage in an incredible type of way and there are a number of gamar which bring this out I'm not going to extend on all of them I just want to mention a couple of them very quickly brings about a person that lost a relative and it says over there when he known as when he's going ahead and thanking not thanking but telling hm that I'm okay with what happened the that's brought there is and you didn't pay me back one in 1000 amongst the says and you didn't even pay me back enough for what I deserve and over there aay comes along and proclaims don't you dare say that he he takes that statement out and said don't say such a statement because that means that is going to leave room for more to happen you're leaving room for something else to occur as brings down that because it says and he brings a proof from a when that when they spoke out that we're acting like Z then Z almost occurred to them yes goes ahead and calls them because of doing this is actually in is brought down by it says to be careful not to be ever to go ahead and say that I really don't deserve it and I really deserve more and worse should be coming to me and the also brings down over there that even though a r can go ahead and tell someone who's standing up for them please sit don't stand up for me he says but if they're sitting up a lot don't you dare tell them to sit if a r walks in and the oval goes inad and wants to stand up don't say no no no you could sit don't you dare say that because you saying you should sit him stay more in your when when you say that then then they will have another a that will follow that's what the over there brings the also brings by when a gives a to the over there it says that there are many ways that it happens and we know that this is from the beginning of Brit that people die and part of the was and it happened in the past and it will happen in the future and over there again steps up to the bat and he says don't you dare say such words you're not allowed to go ahead and say and it will happen because you're causing it to happen happen you're causing it to occur once again again brings down that when a person says the of um of going into a of to a shower house where back then it was incredible dangerous you should appreciate our showers to get a hot shower over there you have to go ahead and walk on top of a cauld ring fire in order to be able to get some hot water so over there it brings in the in the that you say before you go in it says something sh happens to me and he falls into the fire you get a crack in the floor and you fall into G over there something happens it should be a kapar for me says scratch that take that one out also was a he himself was an orphan was very he was very stringent to make sure that you don't say any things that are out of touch to make sure that you're not allowed to say things which are out of perspective the inim as we all know we say and there are opinions that say you should say the the V of of a person who La dying a person there's a special V that one should say shalom when that occurs to a person says don't you dare say that he brings it right in the beginning of and even when a person is sitting on his bed because it's a dangerous time and the mar States because a time when sometimes we can have decrees upon us a person should be careful not to say things that are against that can put that can be held against you shom I one time saw a beautiful piece from and he wrote in the calendars that they bring many times on at the end of the calendar they bring the last day of and it says year should finish in all its curses and we should only have a sh of that's what it says and he told the calendars to scratch that take that out I'm not happy that you're putting that inside of the calendars he said the year didn't go by yet they're printing a calendar the whole entire year and the last day of the calendar they write the year with all its should be finished what year with clot it didn't even have a year yet you can make that you can say that at the end of the year but before the year even started to write in the calendar about this coming year and as a result of that the calendars took it out never say something of a kug that comes out of your mouth no matter what it has to do whether it's for the good or the bad the padash also brings in in the in the Graz they bring that when you're threatening a child well know person should not threaten a child but you want to tell them about a punishment he they speak out very clearly over there don't threaten them with some dog or cat is going to bite you or if you don't listen to me you're going to get in trouble the monster is going to get you shouldn't say these things because it might come and happen it might end up coming breis for time that it could end up happening and it could be taken advantage of in a very uncomfortable way now this is very relevant to all the parot that we've experienced in the second half of saer over here we see the power of words that that gives and to the rest of the to the rest of the and it only comes when he sees them and he goes ahead and Spills over with the words that he does we also see it with a power of the dreams all the dreams as the says only comes after what a person decrees from the mouth that's what happens the sorrow Fe end up getting killed and the other way around with the butu who got saved sa because of the power of the mouth of yadik but I want to bring you a couple very interesting places where we find this power of the mouth first of all the says the points out when they came and told in last week's part that is still alive didn't believe him why did you believe them Y is alive enjoy take advantage of the fact or why can't you believe them so says the reason is because Yehuda said previously Yehuda pointed out to the king who was y he pointed out to them he proclaimed is dead in the beginning of and by proclaiming the words understood finished that it must be that Y is not going to make it it must be that he is not around and therefore he had certain hesitations certain certain doubts about his lifespan a another example the midis brings as we all know when yov was running away from asov so alas was on his way the son of asov chased after him who was the father of a Malik chased after him and he got he caught up to Yu he was a fast guy he was able to catch up to him and he said this this part is more famous he said my father said I have to kill you and my father said people back then I have to do what I have to do my father said I got to do what he has to do but the second part of the midress is less known over there there in the midash it brings down that he said and my father said I have to cut off your head and bring it to him to prove that I actually killed you he wants to see your head so yob told him listen killing me take all the money and it's as if I'm dead we know a poor person's considered he's dead take all my money it's dead he says but what am I going to do about the head part I got to go ahead and and and and give give your head to him he said tell him on the way that I had his head but it got eaten up by a lion some lion came on the way was hungry for lunch and he ended up devouring his head and as a result of that now it is not around and because as asked for y's head took care of as's head as's head got cut off because he was beckoning for yakov's head instead from here we learn quit while you're ahead as they say but anyways the idea that we learned that happened over here that's why over here and that's why the saer said a beautiful that that's the reason why yov when he went to rest put stones around his head the most UN un unusual thing it says over there he put stones right out to protect himself what if you want to protect yourself cover your whole body with stones your whole you're all exposed it's like an ostrich sticking his head in the the sand well what do help to cover yourself up with with stones without help because he knew that since he told alas that might tell ASA he's going to speak out to ASA that I had yacob's head and it by a lion he was afraid that a lion would come and devour his head he was afraid that it would come because things actually take place and we'll finish with the last and most becoming of all of this story this incredible Von what a Von you will never forget it's a that says when ASA potifar was coming to take advantage of ysf when the wife of potifar wanted to go ahead and seduce ysf to do horrible things the PK says she grabbed him with his his clothing and she said to him lie down with me and he ran away he ran away what's this extra word lay more you only say the word lay more when you're telling someone to tell someone else it's enough to say she should tell him and she said she should go ahead and she said when you tell someone to tell it says tell Moshe to go ahead and tell B is what is this narrative that she's telling ysf it's only the two of them in there they were alone in the room what's says the incredible idea this is here he says that the idea of was she was telling him look I know I'm not going to get you I know you're a bigad I know you're not going to fall for it but at least say the words me at least say I'll lie down with you at least say down I'll have relations just say the words you don't have to and then I'll let you go just just let just say the words because she knew the of she knew the secret that if she got him to say it then she'll get him halfway there just by saying it it's almost as if you're already you're already there the sitra will take get the better of him will be able to take advantage of him and that's why it said that he actually ran away he didn't even say the words he ran away before he was afraid of even having to speak out something he was worried that he would say the wrong thing that's the important incredible idea of knowing of being incredibly careful for the good and for the bad as we know it says by also tell us that before he went up on the mountain he said to and he said tozar we're going to go DAV or come back and it says over there because he said we're coming back they came back he came back with Y he didn't end up sacrificing y because of those words so at least we see a very important Point here for the good and for the bad a person has to know how to control his mouth we are extremely careful in Kash to know what comes in and we're very meticulous with every type of he but sometimes we don't speak out without a also we say things that are out of place whether it's n many times Abal Chua one of the biggest problems that Abal Chua has to be in terms of how to control his mouth because we are raised with this horrific idea that's known as freedom of speech it's something that is a completely anti- concept even though we're raised with it in our blood it's in our DNA freedom of speech say whatever you want are you crazy of course you're not allowed to say whatever you want a person has to know before he says something and think twice before he spits out some horrible comments or negativity about someone else or negativity about yourself in the situation because we see from here that the more negative you are the more you speak out negativity the more it's going to happen and if you do the other way if you save in you speak out and you take a situation and you interpret it in a positive way and you speak it out in a positive way you're going to be good to go it'll help you out nibble pay saying words that are what's nible pay slander words words that are foul language using foul language turns you into a foul person you yourself as one time I heard from a brother mine who said your tongue is being used sometimes for Tor and you use that same tongue which is an AR KES to go ahead and speak out foul language doesn't make any sense in it's very hard for people to get away from it people love it people feel so connected like I said it's usually one of the bigger problems of um of Abal Chua and lastly this all finish but in my opinion this is my own thing take it or leave it you can disagree I have no problem but I do feel it has a certain emit to it a year and a half ago we were sitting here in a year and a half ago in this country in AR Israel there was screams of Civil War there were people that were prod pouncing the streets 100,000 people which is I want to point out is a mute mute a small amount of people we have 8 million people in this country leave the Arabs we about 7 and a half million to 8 million people Jews in this country and 100,000 people don't make a impression on me at all because most of the people were not proud of them but they were screaming Civil War we're going to kill we're going to go ahead if they don't do what we say we're going to go ahead and people were saying we're really leading to some type of split in the country something and the words of was literally the words of M was coming against us words I believe and this is my ownat and I do believe it has to do because they said there was civil happening gave us a war didn't want it to be a civil war he was protecting us from a civil war that we should ever have a war amongst our brothers but if you say the word War so who gave us a war we've been in a bitter terrible War over 2,000 people have have died of the the cream of the crop of because of that ugly word that we call war and it's all because people were saying the words breed war war war person has to know how to take the positive light how to work it out to be able to be careful before you say something negative before you say words to think twice to make sure when you're about to say something to think about it and just like we said you take a he when you put something in make sure there's a before you say something out also